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"The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...

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by 666Evo on /r/TheRedPill
21 March 2017 01:10 PM UTC
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If you need any further example of the fact that open hypergamy is celebrated by the media now, don't look any further than this abysmal article from The Daily Mail.

she was bound to cheat because she was so much better looking than her husband

That's part of the headline guys. The headline.

My poor ex couldn’t cope with living in my shadow and constantly felt jealous and insecure.

Probably because you're a slut, love.

I genuinely believed my husband was the love of my life — but 18 months later it was all over. Gone, because someone had flattered and seduced me and, stupidly, I didn’t have the backbone to say ‘No’.

And there it is. A core tenet of TRP written in black and white, in The Daily Mail. She "genuinely" believed she was in love (for a whole 18 months!) right up until Chad swung his dick in her face. The poor sucker who she dropped lost half his shit (safe assumption) because some rich cock flopped in her lap.

Needless to say, my lothario soon gave me a taste of my own medicine, driving me insane by chatting up other women.

Chad was spinning her. What a shock.

Ferraris no longer screeched to a halt in the road — and it felt like relief. So I changed my ways, and my expectations. I was 42 when I met my partner Steve, a 60-year-old eco-builder.

The wall hit and she grabbed the nearest sucker with a bit of cash that she could find.

Honestly, I'm not sure if I've ever seen as blatant an article as this one. From start to finish, it's everything the men around here have said until they're blue in the face. If you don't understand what women are like after reading this, you're a lost cause.



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Title "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...
Author 666Evo
Upvotes 1180
Date 21 March 2017 01:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/41964
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/60nhbo/the_agony_of_being_too_beautiful_to_be_faithful/
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623 upvotesArchwinger2 years ago

The most powerful force that keeps a woman with one man is fear.

Not love. Fear.

The fear that if she fucks this up, she'll be alone, or at least never get anybody as good or better.

The very second she doesn't feel like the above is true, the relationship is done. She might not cheat or dump you for the first dick, but even if she doesn't, the fact that another dick came along will make her feel trapped. She'll start resenting you, treating you like shit, dry up the sex, and blow up your relationship.

When a woman needs space and feels trapped, what she really wants to feel isn't freedom. She wants to feel available for the next man.

When you're an attractive man who's spinning her, rather than the other way around, she isn't motivated to keep you by love. She's motivated by fear. It's no wonder feminists think being attractive and playing women is abuse. It's all about the feelings. If they feel afraid about a man, it doesn't matter if they're afraid of losing him or afraid of him beating them up -- they feel fear and hate it.

211 upvotesredpillbanana2 years ago

In many ways, the force that keeps a woman with an alpha is analogous to addiction.

As I've mentioned before: The love for a beta is a material addiction. She'll be overjoyed at first but eventually she'll adjust to her new situation as the new baseline/normal. That's when the "what have you done for me lately?" starts coming out.

The love for an alpha is a chemical addiction. Things might be going south and she may be tired of him but she's got to have that next hit. I knew one very beautiful woman who actually stole from her parents in order to get in her boyfriend's good graces, much like a druggie will steal from friends/relatives to give to his/her dealer.

Women who ride the carousel hard enough will get addicted to alphas in general and not necessarily a particular alpha. These women are the furthest gone and are probably in the most agony when it comes to being faithful.

60 upvotesbrinkleybuzz2 years ago

And this is why it never makes sense to wife up a former carousel riding slut. Once an addict, always an addict.

upvotesSJHammer2 years ago

This reminds me of an ex. She had been with two alphas before me. I'm sure I came off as alpha in the beginning but was beta. She definitely had addict like symptoms. With the fear and needing excitement. Glad thats over. If I sound naive, I litereally found TRP yesterday.

86 upvotesThrowingMyslfOutther2 years ago

I litereally found TRP yesterday

Welcome to the downfall of civilization.

66 upvotesTheSelfGoverned2 years ago

We aren't causing it, but merely documenting it.

8 upvotesOmarice212 years ago

I went through the exact same, started with an alpha frame but beta came out. She always talked about needing jealousy to keep things interesting

14 upvotesJohnnyvile2 years ago

Women need that threat to feel excited about their man. If other women don't find him attractive, or flirt, or seem interested in him then it's like she has nothing. They need something to be jealous of to stay excited. Women are like children that don't want that toy until someone else wants to play with it.

upvotesSJHammer2 years ago

Seems so weird. I was constantly trying to reassure there is nothing to be jealous about. She seemed less concerned about me actually cheating, and more concerned about her value to me. Like concerned she could be replaced.

2 upvoteszyzzguido552 years ago

Was the exact opposite, dated a complete slut and was alpha the whole time, then I dumped her for cheating and I still rail her to this day. Bitches man, AWALT

upvotesbeachbbqlover2 years ago

I lost a stripper ex this way.

I didn't plan to keep her, but I'd have rather had more time. I couldn't find work, and was starting to get depressed and the beta started coming out.

1 upvotesNikoMyshkin2 years ago

It's important to note that there is no judgement in this: only the realisation that there is no possible long-term benefit to a man to sign control of his life and assets to a person whose past behaviour makes it inevitable that they will abuse the unfair power given them by the legalities of marriage.

Marrying an ex-CC (really just CC) is always a losing proposition. Hell marriage to any woman is an extremely dangerous prospect for a man even with the lowest risk women.

2 upvotesbrinkleybuzz2 years ago

Good point. This is not a moral judgement. This is a cold, objective calculation of the odds that a woman will be a faithful, long term partner and will provide a low drama relationship. The more cocks a woman has had in her past, the less likely she is to provide this for obvious reasons.

Have to add though that women will attempt to shame men into thinking that their objective assessment of a woman's relationship value is a moral judgement against them.

1 upvotesNikoMyshkin2 years ago

women will attempt to shame men

as a means to get what they want. the ideal answer is sweety do whatever your little heart desires, but this deal doesn't work for me. good luck.

89 upvotesnonthaki2 years ago

"Materialistic addiction Vs Chemical addiction" . .. . that's a brilliant way of putting it .

49 upvotesslay_it_forward2 years ago

I wouldn't call it materialistic addiction. With the beta they have comfort, security, predictability and resources but this doesn't give them that craving like a junkie looking for his next bump.

32 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Precisely: Just as getting a stable job and roof over their head would help the junkie feel all those qualities that you listed (comfort, security, predictability and resources), they consistently and predictably choose not to work towards that goal because their next hit is going to feel so much better than those things could ever make them feel.

Such is the woman who craves an alpha's touch.

18 upvotesTupacTyson2 years ago

Every post coming out of this sub is gold.

71 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

In many ways, the force that keeps a woman with an alpha is analogous to addiction.

Because it is. It is the same part of the brain at work--the mesolimbic pathway. Just like rats, pull Chad's cock and get a dopamine cookie.

15 upvotesilikemychickenfried2 years ago

Bahahahaha! Absolutely gold!

25 upvotestest8222 years ago

also the same part of the brain that keeps a dude hounding after a hot girl

6 upvoteswont_tell_i_refuse2 years ago

And same part of the brain that keeps a dude yanking it to porn

1 upvotesThe_M0rning_Star2 years ago

No, dopamine is what men get. Oxytocin is for women. While similar, there's a big difference psychologically in how those two chemicals present themselves. You can see that difference in a woman's addiction to beta orbiters vs. a man who spins plates. Women are getting their fix through the bond with the orbiter.

2 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

No. The reward paths are moderated by serotonin and signaled by dopamine. They exist in both genders. Oxytocin is something completely different.

1 upvotesThe_M0rning_Star2 years ago

When women have sex, their brains are flooded with oxytocin. When men have sex, their brains are flooded with dopamine. Look it up. People way smarter than me figured this out. ;)

upvotesTyrannyVengeance2 years ago

Yep, its analogous to addiction. They feel it (the fear) they hate it, they love it and they can't stop it.

One needs to look no further than the latest rhianna song.

"It beats me black and blue but it fucks me so good, I just can't get enough, must be love on the brain."

Love = Fear to women...

21 upvotesMisfitMind002 years ago

The classic abusive relationship conundrum. They sell us the idea that they're trapped and can't get out or Chad will beat their ass, but truth is, they secretly love it.

5 upvotesNikoMyshkin2 years ago

Secretly love it and publicly hate it. They are ambivalent. But that's not my fucking problem. They're adults after all.

7 upvotesmypasswordismud2 years ago

Chicks who love Rhianna = red flag.

8 upvotesyomo862 years ago

She is the epitome of a liberal slut. Every song of her is about getting railed, having been railed, or try to get railed again. She is the same quality parent as Future the rapper to stay true with equality (tm).

6 upvotesmnemos_12 years ago

I'm compiling a list of "fan of _ = red flag" So far it's the following:

  • Nicki Minaj
  • Rihanna
  • Arianna Grande
  • Taylor Swift
  • Selena Gomez
1 upvotesAtlRP2 years ago

i.e., Every bitch on the planet.

19 upvotesIGoYouStayTwoAutumns2 years ago

Recovering alcoholic here, 6+ years sober, 3 years on the Red Pill. The overlap between what you learn in recovery, vs what you learn here at TRP: it's absolutely mind-blowing. You very quickly realize: all women, nowadays, are basically active heroin addicts. And the heroin is Chad.

6 upvotesJorixKienu2 years ago

Recovering alcoholic here, 6+ years sober, 3 years on the Red Pill. The overlap between what you learn in recovery, vs what you learn here at TRP: it's absolutely mind-blowing. You very quickly realize: all women, nowadays, are basically active heroin addicts. And the heroin is Chad.

Absolutely I agree with you and I would add another fact.

The first step in every and each addiction recovery program, process (or self-recovery story, for the few that succeed in recovery without heavy external help) is THE ADDICT HAVE TO RECOGNIZE THAT he / she HAD A PROBLEM.

This never happen. Every woman ( and all her friends) think that the problem is something outside her. That's untrue and is the roadblock to the solution.

9 upvotesIGoYouStayTwoAutumns2 years ago

This is absolutely why our society is going to collapse within another generation or two. You have fully half the population (all women) running around with a raging "drug" problem, and yet, they are literally (at the most basic, fundamental, biological level) completely incapable of owning up to it. You will never, ever, EVER hear a woman say "My name is X, and I have a problem: I'm addicted to bad boys (and it's ruining my life etc)." For women, they are always the victim, the problem is always some outside force acting upon them. The problem is never one that comes from within themselves (and thus one they might have to take responsibility for).

A guy friend of mine lives in a house with several roommates--for a brief while, one of them was a woman who was a friend of his sister's. Girl was the classic LA wannabe actress--hot, seductive (another friend described her as "a Ferrari designed for sex"), total emotional trainwreck, the whole deal. And of course, like all LA girls of this type, she was "dating" (if you can call it that) a man who beat her. And I mean beat her HARD. Very, very physically abusive.

So one night, she's texting with the guy, it's getting hot and heavy, whatever. Clearly she wants to go over and fuck the dude (and / or get her regular beating which, of course, by now she is CHEMICALLY ADDICTED TO). The guy is stringing her along with texts, he's not available right now, etc etc, and then at one point my friend (in the house) grabs the phone and texts (as if he was the girl) something like "I've had enough of your shit I'm calling the cops". He starts laughing, hands the phone back to the girl, she sees what he sent (as her), and LOSES HER FUCKING MIND. And then in classic crazy LA trainwreck fashion, she proceeds to TRASH THE FUCKING APARTMENT. Like no joke--she overturns the coffee table (breaking it), smashes furniture, breaks all kinds of shit (including this awesome high-end coffee maker which I'd just given to my friend, so no coffee for him, alas). On and on. Everyone in the place is like what the fucking fuck...

I heard the story from my friend the next day, he was totally aghast, like what the hell was all that about?? This dude just jokingly sent a text as her, just to lightly fuck with his roommate. (Obviously they were all concerned that she was in this physically abusive relationship, but she'd already made it clear that it was gonna happen no matter what, that she was hooked on this guy and it was never gonna stop, ever.) He asked for my thoughts, and I just shrugged and said "Look, the beatings he gives her, each one is like a shot of heroin. She's a heroin addict. She needed her fix. You took the heroin away last night, so she lost her shit. Pretty simple if you ask me." He just looked at me and was like "Duuuuude. You're right. You are SO right."

Think a lot of LA women (and women in general) suddenly made total sense to him, after that.

2 upvotesTRPdis2 years ago

The rest of your post aside, "I'm calling the cops" is never a joke text.

20 upvotesgodfatherchimp2 years ago

It's not materialistic vs chemical. It's oxytocin vs dopamine

18 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You are completely correct. It is not pleasant knowing reality, if you look hard into an abyss, the abyss looks into you. Unless you are jacked, have good facial genes, a donkey's cock and several million in the bank she will always be willing to branch swing. She is caught between her material and chemical addictions at all times. No wonder they used to say keep them barefoot and pregnant in my father's generation

10 upvotesvandaalen2 years ago

Unless you are jacked, have good facial genes, a donkey's cock and several million in the bank she will always be willing to branch swing.

FTFY

For a woman it's never enough. There is always a better man and she will always feel entitled to get more than she has. All that matters is: "Will I be able to lock him down?".

1 upvotesDarkRenaissance2 years ago

Yeah, once they upgrade to a 6/10 from a 4, the 6 becomes a baseline. Then they want an 8. Its an addiction after all.

1 upvotesThe_M0rning_Star2 years ago

That's because the chemical they're addicted to is oxytocin...the bonding chemical. They'll do anything to maintain that bond, including stealing from and hurting people they love. It's also why men won't...their chemical is dopamine and they can simply find another woman to satisfy their addiction.

upvotesEastuss2 years ago

Wife sometimes like to remind me that if she lives me there will be plenty of men, more handsome, more rich, and more submissive, that are going to gladly pay for any of her and our child's shit.

And it's fucking true.

How do I pass this shit test? My answer is usually "go on, leave, now, good luck" or something of the sort... :p

77 upvotessqerl2 years ago

How do I pass this shit test? My answer is usually "go on, leave, now, good luck" or something of the sort... :p

Pretty much. At this point, it's a race to the bottom. Who can illicit more anxiety, jealousy, fear. By saying, "bye bye" you call her bluff. Just be prepared for the day she goes all in and calls the bluff.

On the flip side, have you 2 done anything exciting with each other? Surprise her with a night out, dancing, or <insert awesome date idea here>.

If wife is playing games, maybe the solution is to lead the family and practice being awesome. If she asks you why the change, tell her that you're done with her shit, and you're practicing for the hot new thing that will gladly drain your balls. MRP is a good place for you.

10 upvoteschance012 years ago

Agreed, Amused and Amplify, right here.

5 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

good stuff in your answer. I've always wished to be that guy, but I litteraly hate taking initiatives and picking up activities, I understand this is important tho.

3 upvotessqerl2 years ago

but I litteraly hate taking initiatives and picking up activities

This is why she feels trapped, keeps shitting on you, and threatens to leave. Neither of you have the balls to do anything.

So, as a man posting in TRP, what do you think you should do? Think about it...
....
....
....

Hopefully you've been around long enough to come up with these timeless ideas:
- eat healthy
- lift
- find a hobby/skill to enjoy
(Dieting and exercise is a good place to start)
- Date your wife (take her out to eat, a picnic, bowling, dancing, wine tasting, one of those 'art and wine' events, etc)

Here's the bottom line:
You're married with kids. The nuclear option of divorce will halve your finances (if not more), loss of time with kids, force you to move, lose your shit, work 100x harder, and generally make life more difficult. The positive side? You have freedom from what appears to be a less-than-ideal marriage.

So, continue to do nothing and she'll force you into a lifestyle you'll probably hate. You can push the nuclear option and face the consequences of your own actions, or start really taking care of yourself to lead your marriage to success.

If the wife decides to end it anyway, you're already working out, taking care of yourself, and will be far more prepared for the nuclear fallout.

Go read and do the Men of March.
Stop making excuses and start living.

Edit: read some of your other responses. Basic groundwork remains true. Keep yourself healthy. Keep your relationship healthy. The power talk can turn toxic if not addressed. Don't let that be normalized in your relationship.

2 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

I'm going to talk about my life a bit, I understand if you decide to not reply nor read.

Hopefully you've been around long enough to come up with these timeless ideas

Yup.

The nuclear option of divorce will halve your finances (if not more)

Not really in my country.

or start really taking care of yourself to lead your marriage to success.

This is what I started one year ago but recent birth slowed me down because of permanent exhaustion and poor lifestyle quality. Which is something I am working on. I sleep more, I pay more attention to my diet, I constantly lift shit (for practical purpose) and plan to go back to the lifting temple, I start reintroducing time to my hobby (that is nerdy but potentially money making).

Our marriage is kinda weird. I am objectively average to low SMV, she's objectively average to high SMV, the curves are slowly crossing each other. I am both restraining sex and commitment. She doesn't give much sign of unhappiness or dissatisfaction, all she does is being angry at me for providing less effort into the chores and baby nurturing. She is very feminine, it includes her being emotionally driven.

She just seems to sometimes try to break my self-esteem because I told her a year ago that I wasn't into oneitis, that she was not special, that I do not need feelings for sex, that I could enjoy some sexual partner diversity... I'm not sure if this was a good decision or not, but the filing of having to hide was progressively eating my self-esteem. It was a hard pill for her to swallow and since then she sometimes tries to push in the same idea, but I don't care and act like it.

Everyone tells me it is failing and the situation is alarming, but from my perspective I am in power. Since last year, pregnancy and birthing, she has never been so happy and emotionally stable.

The only problem is putting effort into leadership. Which is a non-issue because the main reason I do not take initiative is the lack of energy, the issue is elsewhere and I am working on it.

59 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

How do I pass this shit test?

Let someone else fund your wife and kids?

Remember this: if the words come out of a woman's mouth, she has thought about it. "We shouldn't have sex" -- we should have sex but it has to be your fault. "I don't do anal" -- I do anal, but it has to be your fault. "Well, be careful or I might leave you" -- I am thinking about life without you but it has to be your fault.

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

she never did the first two tho, but I don't fully understand what you mean.

what do you think she wants? She just waiting for me to leave? She thinks that if i stay i am of loser value?

1 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

She's a woman. She doesn't know what she wants. She just feels.

And no, there is no reason to believe she is about to jump ship (given what you have said). However, she has at least pondered it. That in itself is pretty normal.

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

thank you for your answer, this is a reasonning I should integrate more

25 upvotesbrinkleybuzz2 years ago

How do I pass this shit test?

Same answer you give to anyone else who works for you. "Alright, just give me a few weeks notice so I can line up your replacement."

Seriously, that's a fucked up thing to say when there are kids involved. Good luck with your situation.

2 upvotesalecesne2 years ago

Two things really change the equation, both personally and when compared to historical examples; kids and contemporary family law.

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Head on over to MRP if you want to fix the marriage. Stay here if you want to plate vapid sluts. Your choice

3 upvotesalecesne2 years ago

Some of us arrived here because of marriage, and take fatherhood seriously, despite the rest. One chooses his devotions, and from an evolutionary perspective there is nothing more worthy of tolerance and sacrifice than protecting your child.

That said, to all the young bucks: don't stick it in crazy!

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

True thing.

relationship is way better now thanks to TRP alone tho.

18 upvotesJessie_James2 years ago

Wife sometimes like to remind me that if she lives me there will be plenty of men, more handsome, more rich, and more submissive, that are going to gladly pay for any of her and our child's shit.

I laughed. Sure honey.

How do I pass this shit test?

My immediate thought - "So you want to try out the world's oldest profession?" That is exactly what she said, but probably doesn't realize it. Of course she was trying to test you, but not very well.

Anyway, you should be calm, polite, and self-controlled, and simply reply with:

That was rude and disrespectful to me. You need to apologize.

If you want to get into the real reasons of what's going on, ask why in the world she'd want to "prostitute herself" to strangers to get money. That's a big issue though, be prepared to have a plan and be able to follow through.

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

The tone is never serious, so talking about disrespect and apologize is out of context IMO.

I can't recall who exactly start these power talks. We both often joke about having side-lovers, about starting harems... I bet she is never really thinking about it but more trying to stop my self-esteem and pride from growing too big, since my SMV raiser significantly lately. We have a just born child, we both are too responsible to think about separating for now, that's why I don't take it seriously.

1 upvotesJessie_James2 years ago

My bad, I thought you were asking about a serious situation.

For a non-serious response I'd simply say something like:

Mmmmhuh. Hey, I was thinking about putting in a pool. It would be a win-win, the pool boy could take care of all the ... ahem ... maintenance, and the babysitter could help me with daddy duties. Whadda ya say?

Congrats on the baby. Is it your first?

2 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

Yep, first baby, already regretting. :p

Not a ded bedroom tho.

6 upvotesSgtBuchanon742 years ago

How about hitting the fucking weights and upping your SMV instead of playing her little game? You sound like you have symptoms of Low SMV.

God, I bet your little mantits are driving her mad. Man up, grab your balls, get swole, and apply dread game. Sidebar.

3 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

Can't ask a genuine question without a fucker redirecting it, strawmaning it and shit. :) Yes I agree with you bro, you're not wrong.

You sound like you have symptoms of Low SMV.

Which are? Genuine question.

and apply dread game

That shit test is her dread game response to mine. We both know she has more to loose than me.

Sidebar.

Why don't you join me and we read it together? What's your favourite part?

1 upvotesSovereignSoul762 years ago

I hear ya, but...

It's not a strawman. That would imply that your appearance is unrelated to the topic at hand. Not accurate. Your physical attractiveness is important, and your confidence (equally important) increases in direct proportion.

My response to said shit test: "PFFFFFTTTT!!!" (Throws head back and laughs)

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

I think I understand what your comment went from.

I'm small muscular and chubby. I have a "decent" frame, a "decent" status higher than hers... I'm "decent".

She just tries to make me jealous by stating she's going to marry a tall slim muscular playboy with very high status but that is going to be submissive, give her money, obey her shit and answer all her comfort test with BP lies. Basically my contrary.

She tries to tease me, but I know she puts importance in frame more than she claim. Frame and some niche tastes are probably the only reasons why she's here with me and not with the others.

1 upvotesSgtBuchanon742 years ago

Are you going to take my advice that we both know to be true or are you going to lose frame and argue with me?

Get a gym membership or drop down and give me 50. You will get better results that way compared to spending your free time learning how to shield bash in Competitive for Honor in your post history. That's why your wife has you on all fours.

1 upvotesKyfhoMyoba2 years ago

Get your ass over to married red pill.

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

Doesn't feel like a helpful place for me.

1 upvotesKyfhoMyoba2 years ago

I believe that you are mistaken in your "feelz".

1 upvotesEastuss2 years ago

Well, they try to fix problems I don't have.

30 upvotesbsutansalt2 years ago

The very second she doesn't feel like the above is true, the relationship is done. She might not cheat or dump you for the first dick, but even if she doesn't, the fact that another dick came along will make her feel trapped. She'll start resenting you, treating you like shit, dry up the sex, and blow up your relationship.

You described one of my exes perfectly. Looking back I failed to maintain frame and allowed myself to go "full beta". If I'd only known then what I know now....

84 upvotesArchwinger2 years ago

We all have that story. Most men have that story.

Any time a woman wants space from you, it's because she wants to feel like she's available for other opportunities with other men.

You might not have even done anything wrong. She could have just been out, talked to some guy for 10 seconds, felt a little flutter, then realized how unhappy she's been with you for the past six months. Even though if you'd asked her 11 seconds ago how she felt about you, she'd have told you she's totally in love and wants to marry you.

Women can't handle attraction. If they feel attraction, they act on it. If they manage to restrain themselves from acting on it, they start to resent the man that's holding them back from being available to these other opportunities.

Women can never dismiss attraction as something trivial and unspecial. It's one of her feelings. If she felt it, that means it is very significant and very special, and the fact that she couldn't explore it thanks to you means that your relationship is a source of unhappiness. If you really loved her, you'd stop controlling her by expecting monogamy and fidelity anyway, shitlord.

29 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I concur.... Archwinger is dealing some haaaaaard truth here boys. Anyone who has ever been in a long term relationship with a female will know this is absolutely true...100%

10 upvoteschance012 years ago

Archwinger is on a roll. Soak up the truth he's telling, guys.

6 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

It goes even further than resenting the man who is keeping you from riding the alpha cock that provide the momentary tingle. I once read a convincing analysis that every unhappy wife is a rape victim.

upvotes-clickhere-2 years ago

I would be interested in reading this, if you could point me in the right direction.

2 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

It is one of /u/Archwinger 's most masterful posts. Search his history or TRP for "Every Unhappy Wife is a Rape Victim."

1 upvotesToSeeAndToHear2 years ago

So, in order for her not to act on it... she needs to have a gut fear reaction.

26 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

"you described one of my exes perfectly"

He sure did.....because he just described every woman ever in the history of everything.

29 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I had a crazy girl once tell me she was scared of me. Never knew how to interpret it really. I thought that was a compliment when I read it.

upvotesbojsihtekat2 years ago

My high school gf was a 10...swear to God. She was an insanely talented ballet dancer, drop dead gorgeous, had the highest GPA of ANYONE in her grade in the city, and I got introduced to her one day by a friend. I was kind of indifferent to her, but we started dating. We lost our virginity to each other, and one day a few weeks after that, she told me "usually guys are intimidated by me, but you're the first guy I've ever met who I'm intimidated by". It wasn't because I was scary, it was because I was my own person...focused on me and what I wanted. I didn't bend to her AT ALL, and 25 years later...we're still friends.

44 upvotesMisfitMind002 years ago

Well, that escalated quickly.

upvotesbojsihtekat2 years ago

It did. That weekend was probably the craziest weekend of my life.

upvotesProNotPro2 years ago

https://youtu.be/HGEO6ig8WsM?t=1261

22 upvotesThrowingMyslfOutther2 years ago

My high school gf was a 10

10s don't exist, they are merely 8s and 9s that tick your fetish list.

23 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

That's ridiculous. if there are no 10s why would the scale go up to 10?

39 upvotesn0nkay2 years ago

because there is always a better one

5 upvoteswhatever_that_is2 years ago

Because there is no such thing as perfect. She has flaws but obviously he can't see it.

8 upvoteschance012 years ago

There should be a male referendum in which 9s and 10s are mainly reserved for women that can make serious money based solely on their looks.

3 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

to allow shmucks to put them on a high pedestal

1 upvotesioncehadsexinapool2 years ago

I once had an Uber driver so amazing I told her I'd never be able to give a 5 star rating again

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

goes to eleven in that case

4 upvotesThe_Best_012 years ago

We're gonna need a bigger scale.

5 upvotesThe_Best_012 years ago

Details on the threesome please.

22 upvotesDarkRenaissance2 years ago

I love it when girls tell me they're scared of me. Not just the rush, I know that they're feeling something for me and it gives me confidence. Anything's better than indifference.

upvoteselectricqueer2 years ago

What was their reason for saying they are scared?

1 upvotesDarkRenaissance2 years ago

Sometimes, yes. Physicality matters, but its that and attitude combined. What intimidates them most is when they sense you're clearly better than they are.. or when you've made that 'switch' in your head that you're not going to take their shit anymore.

When the 'switch' happens it shows in your body language, tonality, eye contact, facial expression, being blunt etc. That's what they pick up on.

upvoteselectricqueer2 years ago

And they fall in love? Or run away?

15 upvotesbrinkleybuzz2 years ago

So true.

Abundance is a blessing for men, but a curse for women because they are so indecisive and act on feelz.

Lack of abundance (real or perceived) is what keeps women in relationships.

44 upvotesArchwinger2 years ago

Essentially, making a woman feel like she doesn't have abundance, or making her feel like you do, is dubbed "emotional abuse".

Why? Because that is a form of fear.

Making a woman feel like you're the best she can get or that she won't find anybody else, or won't find anybody as good, is classic "emotional abuse". Likewise, withdrawing, flirting with other women, and making her feel afraid of losing you or like she has to compete to avoid losing you is also ... you guessed it ... "emotional abuse".

Child don't refrain from bad behavior because of their inner sense of morality. The refrain from bad behavior because they're afraid of getting in trouble.

Women are children. The only way to keep them in check is to appeal to their self-interest and sense of fear. Not to their morality. Women don't act in a way that denies themselves happiness just because something is the right thing to do. They act in a way that denies themselves happiness because they're afraid of the consequences if they don't. The only way to keep a woman in check is fear and consequences.

10 upvotesbrinkleybuzz2 years ago

Man, I'm laughing my ass off as I type because I've been through this many times and you are so right. Women frame things that tip the balance of a relationship in favor of the man as "emotional abuse" and love to cry fake tears of victimhood to bring you into their frame.

2 upvotesOldGuyRedux2 years ago

The easiest way for us nonAlphas with modest Game to accomplish this is to aim for women 1 or 2 SMV points below you. Your slightly lower attraction and realization of the SMV difference auto-defaults you into the right Frame.

2 upvotesFive_Decades2 years ago

I've heard stories from men who had a lot of options that it caused problems for them in monogamous relationships. Not so much because the men were tempted to cheat, but because their girlfriends or wives were too insecure about all the attention the men were getting. It caused a lot of relationship issues.

12 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

Not love. Fear.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stocks

You have to wonder why anyone would invent something like this. Then you read a daily fail article...

2 upvotesdo_0b2 years ago

I'm just trying to wrap my head around why there is such a huge market for these things in New York city.

8 upvotesiSnORtcHuNkz692 years ago

They feel fear because they will have mixed emotions when they put their legs in the air for a different cock other then her man's. Your saying, these women try to eliminate this fear so they can keep hamstring and CC without fear, pure bliss, nothing wrong attitude? . . . Yesss

10 upvoteskaspell2 years ago

This describes my last relationship to a T.

20 upvotesPopeman792 years ago

So true. Out of fear they all fall into my lap. But once in a while I come across one that does something to me and I become a bit blue pill. I try to seduce her out of love.

I never works out until I lose interest and start forgetting about her. Then, out of fear, she falls into my lap.

19 upvotesblasted_biscuits2 years ago

This is why oneitis is cancer. You can't help yourself from being bluepill and doing everything wrong.

1 upvotesswordshab2 years ago

Couldn't say it better myself

1 upvotesRommel05022 years ago

Yep, but it goes for anything. To steal a line from A Bronx Tale, it's good to be loved, but fear is better. It lasts longer.

I always coach up the managers who work for me on this. Many of them want to be both, but its very difficult. At some point, you will have to choose, and fear ultimately is the better tool to use.

upvotesbojsihtekat2 years ago

...and fear is the opposite of love. It's not hate, not indifference...it's fear.

16 upvotesArchwinger2 years ago

Arguably, fear and love are inexorably tied together. When you fear losing something, that's love. When you'll do anything to avoid losing something, that's love.

Abundance/indifference are the opposite of love. Fear goes hand in hand with love.

upvotesbojsihtekat2 years ago

See...I believe the absolute opposite. I don't think you can love with fear in your heart, at all. When it comes down to it though, these are just opinions. What might be right for you, might not be for me...and vice versa. No right or wrong answers here.

15 upvotesArchwinger2 years ago

This isn't a system of beliefs. It's not a faith. This is plain jane English.

If you don't give a flying fart whether or not you lose someone, then you don't love them.

If you're afraid to lose them, then you might love them.

You could be afraid of losing someone and not love them, but you can't love someone without being afraid of losing them. It's just not possible.

Not caring and being indifferent to losing someone is the exact opposite of love.

210 upvotesyomo862 years ago

Damn son, this reads like RP porn. Everything is there. Branch-Swinging, AF/BB, total lack of agency or fault, The Wall, Back-up-option, vapidity, the need for tingles. And this is even in the mainstream media.

90 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev2 years ago

Damn son, this reads like RP porn.

It's clickbait from the Daily Wail.

Chick who isn't that hot at all, claiming to be total head-turner.1 Check.

Woman reminisces about former hotness, with cautionary tale attached. Check.

Woman claims she's "Still sexy at any age" because she happened to have a safety net in the form of an unspectacular beta 18 years her senior. Check.

Along the way she manages to not have children. Check. Surprised this wasn't mentioned more prominently, but then there's narcissism.

1 See also "Brick, Samantha"

42 upvoteszxDanKwan2 years ago

You can also see the desperation for validation in her pictures. She's showing off leg in every one, and she's practically got her tit hanging out in that pic with the green shirt. Plus, her smiles look pained, not genuinely happy.

I call AWALT.y bet is she's writing this to boost her own ego. She's upset that she's stuck with her second choice to Chad, and she's justifying her social position by saying "oh, I could have had anyone i wanted, but that would have made me a bad person," thereby making her seem saintly for staying with her beta-bux, all the while also justifying showing off her body, at least for attention and compliments if not directly in hopes that someone will come along and say "I saw you in your article, please run away with me."

29 upvotesramakharma2 years ago

Plus, her smiles look pained, not genuinely happy.

Thousand cock stare right there.

16 upvotes2comment2 years ago

It's also apparent from the article that even in her prime, she was pretty enough (in that dated 1960s-80s sorta way) to get laid back in the day by more elite men as a temporary plate, but not beautiful enough to secure the type of super high end man she thought she deserved. The modern typical entitled 6/7. Now she's a spinster in a childless marriage to a middle class man (Eco builder?) she'd have laughed at earlier and called a creep for hitting on her.

6 upvoteszxDanKwan2 years ago

Isn't this the textbook definition of an alpha widow hitting the wall? It's so on point that I'm having trouble believing it's genuine.

14 upvotessays_harsh_things2 years ago

I was a terrible person for being vain in the past. Will you validate me for being humble now?

Okay, good. Now look at these pictures and validate me for how pretty i am.

17 upvotesbeginner_2 years ago

Chick who isn't that hot at all, claiming to be total head-turner.1 Check.

That's the most annoying part. if she where a fucking 10 I would kind of have an understanding for her. But she is a 6 maybe a 7 in a good pic (in the one wedding pic more like a 5...).

Woman claims she's "Still sexy at any age" because she happened to have a safety net in the form of an unspectacular beta 18 years her senior. Check.

Just hit me. My sister is in that age and yeah fits the profile. Still she is no where near to settle for a 60+ guy. She still talks about guys younger than her....

8 upvotesTyrannyVengeance2 years ago

Brick, Samantha

Jesus Christ these women largely remind me of the Crypt keeper and they all thing they are 9s.

2 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

When going through snapchat today this story was on there. Apparently this bitch thinks she is famous for something?

29 upvotesmax_peenor2 years ago

The cherry on top of this shit sundae is she was never much more than a rat-faced 6/10.

34 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

6 is the new 9 in delusional women's minds.

Allow me to elaborate, I've seen average, or even downright ugly, chicks refusing to settle for anything less than a male model out of some Calvin Klein catalog, it's an incurable disease at this point.

I even met an absolute whale of a girl this past weekend who candidly admitted she can swipe on Tinder ten times and get ten offers for sex in a day, she even showed me the guys begging for sex, and they were all wayyy out of this beached whale's league.

Women today believe they are way hotter and more valuable than they actually are in reality, and loser guys who feed that validation are only ensuring it continues indefinitely...

15 upvotesrathyAro2 years ago

I've seen average, or even downright ugly, chicks refusing to settle for anything less than a male model out of some Calvin Klein catalog

Then how does anyone ever get together? My two hottest friends are married to each other. My average looking friends are with average looking SOs.

I even met an absolute whale of a girl this past weekend who candidly admitted she can swipe on Tinder ten times and get ten offers for sex in a day, she even showed me the guys begging for sex

It is conventional wisdom, common sense, and undeniable reality that women can get sex any time they want if they relax their standards. THEY ALL KNOW THIS. Even if they pretend like they don't, they literally ALL KNOW. I'm not saying compliments and one night stands can't be a small confidence boost, but its really hard to deny the reality of your attraction level. So let's say your 3/10 girl is getting hundreds of hot matches. In a vacuum her ego should be huge right? Thing is she doesn't live in a vacuum. No matter how stupid and delusional you imagine this girl is, she still is going to be talking to her average looking friend who gets twice as many matches with hotter guys. Further her really hot friend doesn't even waste energy swiping, because she just gets approached constantly in real life by really hot guys. 3/10 girl knows where she ranks no matter what she says. In her best moods she might think she's hot stuff, but in her lows she will be fully aware of her real level of attractiveness.

My point is women settle all the time and are well aware of their level. Superficial ego boosting isn't a new phenomenon. Don't use it as an excuse for lack of sexual success (not aimed at you, just anyone who might be doing this).

21 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Women don't have to relax their standards to get sex.

Women do settle all the time, and resent the hell out of the men they settle for, for "forcing" them to settle. To her, it's the hapless beta's fault.

It's his fault she had to settle for him. It's his fault that she couldn't get a hotter guy to marry her. It's his fault that she's not attracted to him. It HAS to be his fault. It couldn't possibly be her fault. Because if some of it is her fault, then that means she's responsible for her current predicament, and that just Can. Not. Be.

5 upvotesSgtBuchanon742 years ago

Girls are the reason this world is an absolute mess.

1 upvotesrathyAro2 years ago

Depends on what you consider a standard. For example "be in a relationship with me" is a common standard for sex. There's also "build some chemistry", "be attractive", etc. If a girl isn't hot she has to concede something for sex and if she's like 3/10 level she has to concede a lot.

3 upvotes2comment2 years ago

The world is filled with spinsters who confused the men willing to fuck them equated to their marriage pool. Bill Clinton fucked lots of dogs, lots of those being trailer trash bimbos, he actually only married the one who went to Yale and that could do shit for his career; the rest didn't have a chance and I'm sure more than a few of the castoffs mentally still think they oughtta be hooked up with Presidential-level men.

1 upvotesrathyAro2 years ago

Wouldn't this behavior be really bad from an evolutionary standpoint? If you can't gauge your level, you can't know the right spot to settle, and you end up with high risk of being single.

2 upvotesMostlyright912 years ago

You're right, they know where they match up vs their friends, but that doesn't mean they know where they match up when it comes to guys. So many girls think that all girls are attractive, it's crazy. I can't know for sure if they are telling the truth, but I had a 4/10 girl call her best friend cute and she's a 0.5/10...A legit ogor straight from shrek's swamp. The 4/10 thinks she's a 7/10 and obviously they are both single.

1 upvotesrathyAro2 years ago

Women constantly shower each other with compliments. I was on this 9/10's ig and 80% of the "you're so hot" comments were just other chicks. They aren't going to call their friends ugly ever (generally true for guys about their female friends and girls about their guy friends as well), they will be cute at worst. For many girls they need to feel like a 7/10 to function.

12 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

6 is the new 9 in delusional womens' minds

It's because of shit like Tinder and the other poison flowing through society. Men will always bang a 5 or a 6 if they're bored/horny enough. These mediocre girls are getting far too used to having a thousand right-swipes and propositions. Then they torture themselves trying to figure out why not one of these thousands wants a third date.

They all want to play the Cultural Marxism game so bad. Muh empowerment. Muh feelings. Muh equality. Muh glass ceiling. Muh independence. Now they're getting it. I bask in the misery.

10 upvotesyomo862 years ago

This is why I don't online date, anymore. Sure fucking a 4 will get your balls empty, fucking a 3 will scar you but on the other hand you have to put up with the same, maybe even more, shit a genuinely 8 or 9 gives you. Just because other men thought the same in the first place. And the best part is, in your social circle all these plain Janes complain about Chad not sticking around after the deed has been done. Maybe he sees a shrink now, who knows what can happen when you are horny and willing to fuck a 4.

11 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Its a symptom of the disease caused by riding the carousel.

She's a solid 6. she can pull 8s and 9s for one nighters. But one night she bags her 10. He is the hottest guy she's ever fucked.

She honestly believes she's a 10 herself. She honestly believes she's entitled to commitment from a male 10.

10 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Yeah man. I almost feel bad for these women. They don't understand that they're purely meat in the eyes of that Chad. Chad is great at charming and being charismatic when pussy is at stake. This girl was never given time of day in high school by anyone of the opposite sex. So naturally her wheels are now turning at supersonic speeds. Dreams of a family of little Chads. Her jealous friends. Her beaming mother. Someone needs to tell these girls they're meat.

8 upvotesThrowingMyslfOutther2 years ago

Women today believe they are way hotter and more valuable than they actually are in reality

Because there's always some beta fags willing to fuck the land whales and give them the idea that they could ever be more than a moist hole for a lazy male.

6 upvotessepelion2 years ago

Because males that are 9s and 10s looks wise harem ONS these modern mediocre women to empty their balls while they wait for the rarer opportunity to regularly empty their balls repeated times in/on other 9s and 10s. Women who are 5s-8s in the modern world are nothing more than "backup holes" in the event the 9 or 10 that male model was trying to fuck didn't pan out.

Those women who are 5-8s would rather get a facial from a new male model nightly than commit to an equal male. They certainly don't have to fuck an equal male because they can just fuck the higher males. And do they need men for anything but fucking today?

Therein is the difference in a post women's lib world.

-2 upvotesdisgruntledearthling2 years ago

Wow, she's an 8 in my book... my scale must be fucked!

1 upvotestallwheel2 years ago

Yeah. It is. She's really not very attractive in my book... and I'm really not trying to brag here or anything. Her face just really isn't attractive to me.

0 upvotestest8222 years ago

AF/BB

sorry, I'm not that up on modern redpill terms. what does this mean?

5 upvotesHtowngetdown2 years ago

Sounds like you're not up on any redpill terms then. Alpha fucks....

0 upvotestest8222 years ago

oh yeah, okay. I've just never seen the abbreviation.

2 upvotesHtowngetdown2 years ago

No worries I was just messing around

1 upvotestest8222 years ago

don't worry, I hate the inherited instincts of homo sapien reproductive preferences combined with the realities of modern society as much as anyone

2 upvotesSirValiantIII2 years ago

deleted What is this?

6 upvoteschance012 years ago

Beta bucks - pays for them, validates them, white knights them, orbits them, serves as their emotional tampon. He's not what she wants but what she has to settle for i.e. "He loves me. I had to / could learn to love him."

100 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

This is the PERFECT example of the effects CC and Chads have on women. Notice her wedding picture: pinched eyes, pig nose, she's a 6 at best. However, because some gorgeous guy wants to use her for a month or two as a warm hole, she can't help but hamster that it HAS to be because she's truly beautiful. She's not and she never was. But she fully believed that because she would never fuck down, men wouldn't either (solipsism), so her being with a 9 meant that she had to be a nine! To this day she's convinced she's gorgeous when in facts she's just a slut.

She spent her life with men who never loved her and only took from her instead of with a man who did love her and likely would have given far more than he took. BUT, it wasn't even a contest for her. The promise of her being, or at least believing she was, greater than she had been previously was worth far more to her than "love." Never forget that.

28 upvotesrossiFan2 years ago

Even in her pic for the article she has one tit hanging out. Still trawling. What an insufferable cunt. Like we used to say in the Army: "I wouldn't fuck her with YOUR dick!"

64 upvotesAPSTNDPhy2 years ago

Men do fuck down. Women fuck up. Supply and demand.

74 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

That was exactly my point. BTW, did you mean for "Women fuck up" to be a pun?

6 upvotesToussant2 years ago

They gave her rides in expensive cars and lux vacations and probably more. She prolly felt like Diana. The accountant didn't know how to screen for that. He would've been at it for a while.

34 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You might want to mention that her parents normalized this behavior as well

7 upvotesilikemychickenfried2 years ago

That is true, but she's also an adult (barely) and is/was aware of their behavior. Maybe not at 20, but she should have had the wherewithal to do something about here disgusting behavior.

54 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Options + Lack of self control = This shit.

Don't be surprised.

29 upvotesGoomich2 years ago

I became fixated with the idea that I’d made a dreadful mistake in settling for someone whom I had mistakenly assumed was the best I could hope for.

Hypergamy, straight from the horse's mouth.

27 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Pro Tip: never sign your name on a contract where the opposite party can legally and easily obtain half your net worth, and take all of your kids, leaving you with alimony payments for company, while living in a studio apartment eating Ramen every night as a result.

51 upvotesGruntS802 years ago

Good post op and don't forget kids, awalt.

71 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Many years ago, my retired former supervisor who was previously an aerospace engineer, gave me two great pieces of life advice:

  1. Hard work pays off

  2. Pretty women are trouble, don't marry them.

Son of a bitch gave Red Pill advice before i even knew the term.

44 upvotesGruntS802 years ago

That's because men were real men back then instead being mostly a sea of beta boys like it is now. You got his years of experience in less then a paragraph, just like a real man, straight to the point.

6 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

back then there were no manufactured diseases like ADHD to allow drugging of youth for easier brainwashing, I was not around for it but I assume not as many SJW's either. Also no smartphones so less instant validation from things like Instagram.

3 upvotesCesare_MA2 years ago

Although I think ADHD is very real, I'm not sure just how much it affects someone's ability focus. Adderall and similar drugs are being prescribed way way too often though. My friend's adderall prescription says he can/should take one per day which is insane. I took one once to help with studying and I sat in the same exact spot for 7 hours straight doing Calculus.

2 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

Well I can tell you first hand it increases social anxiety in a large number of youth. While on Ritalin throughout junior high and high school I was too speeded up and nervous to approach anybody, boy or girl I was too nervous and socially awkward to branch out socially to anybody. 7 years of school 0 new friends made. Forget trying to fuck chicks, I was unable to make new guy friends, let alone try to figure out how girls worked. In my youth I barely saw my father, he left for work before I woke up in the morning and had to work weekends as well so I had no masculine role model in my life. There was a post on here yesterday about how single mothers sabotage their children, and this really hit the head on the nail for my life. In some of the sidebar things, I think it was the misandry bubble or manipulated man, they say that women only care about what other women think... my mother cared more about how I appeared to her friends than she did my own well being. After being medicated for 7 years I learned that the reason I was put on these pills was because my friend's mother said that my behavior seemed off while I was at his house. So because AWALT and she cares more about her immediate social circle than her family, she feels that she needs to put her son on methamphetamine so that other parents will like him more because she is so self conscious about what other people think of her parenting. What sane human adult knowingly puts a 9 year old on meth! It sickens me to the core that a woman will sacrifice the well being of her child and put him on METH so that other women will think she is being a good parent. I have seen lots of posts about how single mothers are narcissists who think they are doing great for their child when the reality is the child hates his existence. I know my post does not read well, I am currently in what many of this sub call the anger phase/rebound from medication. I am 21, have been off Ritalin for 5 years now, after taking it for 7 years I still have 2 more years to go before I have been off the drugs for as long as I have taken them. For anyone who reads this, no matter what any other parents say NEVER PUT YOUR KIDS ON RITALIN, ADDERALL, OR OTHER SUCH STIMULANTS AT A YOUNG AGE. THESE DRUGS FUCK WITH THE DOPAMINE IN YOUR BRAIN, IT IS SOMETHING NO CHILD SHOULD EVER HAVE TO GO THROUGH. The only thing that makes it worse for me is this, I was put on pills at age 9 in 2004, diagnosis rate of ADHD was around 8% back then 13 years ago. now it it at 13%, so the number of CHILDREN who will be put on life ruining medication this is 1 MILLION greater than the number of CHILDREN who were put on similar medication in my year. I consider myself lucky, I found this thread and a few others that expose the lies many of us are fed during our youth. Most are not so lucky, on this thread they are called BB nice guys, many of them have been fed not only lies, but medications to regulate their dopamine levels so they become complacent with their shitty situation.

3 upvotesGruntS802 years ago

Very true, not to mention other chemicals in things like food or tap water that act as an estrogen mimicking hormone

upvotesXZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT2 years ago

Women are not intelligent enough to be unpredictable. All women really are like that.

18 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Eh everybody is predictable to a degree. If a hot chick leaned in and started sucking your dick, you and 99% of men would just sit there and get sucked off. If a woman cheated on you you'd have a gut instinct reaction that it's wrong. We're all predictable to a degree. Having instincts does not indicate a lack of intelligence.

This bitch in the article however is retarded and one with the hamster. 🐹

49 upvotesMikeN_ike2 years ago

Based on the title I expected her to at least be a hell of a lot more pretty than that That's for sure

41 upvotesrebuildingMyself2 years ago

Welcome to the tindr/instagram generation where even HB6's get more validation (and the associated entitlement problems) than HB10's did twenty years ago.

20 upvotesDocbear642 years ago

For example, one afternoon I walked out of the hairdresser’s with a friend, only to have a gorgeous young man screech to a halt in his open-top Ferrari in front of me. ‘I couldn’t have lived with myself if I’d driven past you,’ he said. ‘Will you come to the polo with me on Saturday? Before I had the chance to think, my friend had accepted for both of us. That weekend was spent drinking champagne with the attractive stranger and his wealthy friends. My boyfriend at the time — whoever he was — was forgotten.

That may be one of the most raw self-professed examples of the nature of women I have ever read.

35 upvotessaulisdating2 years ago

The biggest irony in all of this is that she isn't even that hot... Like a 6 or 7 at best.

34 upvotesskippwiggins2 years ago

She looked more attractive at 40 than 26.

11 upvotesrossiFan2 years ago

She's a 5 or 6 when she's all made up for the photo shoot and photoshopped, to boot. I bet in the morning after the usual night of partying and clubbing and no makeup, she's a 1.8, max.

3 upvotesOmnibrad2 years ago

She's a 1.8 on a scale from 2-10.

-1 upvotesilikemychickenfried2 years ago

Oh boy, I didn't even consider that! Good catch there u/rossiFan

39 upvotesjohnsonsson2 years ago

and her current partner? 60-year old montcuckery? gets humiliated from this woman all over UK and the internet (even showing his face!), spending the rest of his life with a former whore, happy to be sharing his money from now on. what a pathetic looser, somebody should slap him until he gets sober. somebody has to help these guys! they are totally lost, no dignity whatsoever!

2 upvotesiguy222 years ago

We should all make him suck our dicks. No homo

16 upvotescallthezoo2 years ago

Should be common knowledge here that in the long run your LTR cannot exceed your SMV, ideally should be a point below. The other lesson here is that "jealous and insecure" behavior downgrades your perceived SMV. When you act as though you don't deserve your woman the hamster will eventually agree with you.

5 upvoteschance012 years ago

All the guys who say "She's out of my league." "I outkicked my coverage." "I got lucky with her." etc. If you believe you did, eventually she will too. And she will demonstrate that to you, believe it.

24 upvotesConceited-Monkey2 years ago

Can you imagine the outcry if a guy said his looks made it impossible for him to remain faithful? The woman in the article gets a free pass because obviously any woman who behaves badly lacks the agency to form intent.

upvotescheeseburgerhandy2 years ago

that chick's not even hot... she kinda looks like gail the snail in that top wedding pic

6 upvotestest8222 years ago

I'd let gail the snail mash my weiner

1 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

I know the way she talks about herself in the article I expected a 10 but saw an old lady. The husband looks like Mark Zuckerberg, anybody else see that or is it just me?

10 upvotesSouloftheVoid2 years ago

Daily Fail unintentionally writes article promoting Red Pill truths.

21 upvotesTangoZulu2 years ago

The biggest takeaway from this should be how she described her ex-husband: "jealous and insecure". I believe that she "genuinely loved her husband" when she married him, but the simple fact is that women only love upwards.

Her husband destroyed himself, as jealousy and insecurity (one and the same, really) are signals that her SMV was higher than his and that he wasn't worthy of her. So AWALT, of course she is going to branch swing. But the true message here shouldn't be that women are shallow and evil; women are just women after all.

The true message is that a woman's love is conditional on her perception that your SMV is higher than her's. The minute she believes that you're not good enough for her (and being jealous of other men is screaming that through a bullhorn), she'll be gone and you only have yourself to blame.

16 upvotesNightFire452 years ago

My LTR says I'm arrogant. Damn right I am. I'm the dick swinger here.

7 upvoteschance012 years ago

That's right; Stay arrogant. Never change.

22 upvotesmuh_posts2 years ago

I'm missing the picture where she's actually hot. Fucking English women, they think they're so beauuuutiful when they're in fact just slags good for a quick fuck. She's the worst kind of woman, who will go away with a random man who gives her some attention because she's never had any in her formative years.

She looks, at 42, like she's been ridden hard and put away wet.

13 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev2 years ago

I'm missing the picture where she's actually hot.

That's because she isn't, and never was, but the "Daily Wail has female readers, too, so they have to maintain the illusion.

upvotesBletchlypark2 years ago

Reminds me of this red pill gem from the 60's:

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/j/jimmy+soul/if+you+wanna+be+happy_20203167.html

1 upvotesmammothe2 years ago

this song makes me feel like throwin a party

a lemon party

11 upvotesRedPillJohnny2 years ago

She's a six maybe a drunk 7. Bitch, please.

upvotesduglles2 years ago

This is narcissism. She's nothing special, but inflates her own value throughout that article. Constantly talking about how hot she is, Ferrari's screeching to a halt to talk to her, etc, etc...

She's not that attractive, I've met older women who look younger and in better shape. She's got issues man.... BIG issues.

4 upvotesSetConsumes2 years ago

It's mild narcissism. It's more like what you'd expect from someone who's gotten most of her attention based on her beauty. It's all she is, and if she gives it up, she'll be utterly no one to herself, and that's just not an option.

She never had an incentive to use anything else for attention.

7 upvotesSetConsumes2 years ago

When a woman only understands femininity through overt sexuality, then this woman is what you see.

Most telling was her husband wanting her to not go out dressing provocatively and she saw it as her needing to dress middle aged, as if not dressing provocatively made her no longer a young woman.

And unsurprisingly she appeared to be on the market so other men treated her like she was on the market, and the girl with low self control couldn't help herself being the reactive creature she is.

12 upvoteszephyrprime2 years ago

I'm looking at the pic of her on her wedding day with the original guy and she's not way better looking than him. Maybe 1 or 2 points better than him but that's about it. Where is she even getting this bs ? She's just hamstering her cheating on that first guy.

5 upvotesTaquisha_TriHard2 years ago

I think he is better looking than her, her face is fucked up

7 upvotesLarsAvatar2 years ago

Yup, this is just the way the world is now -- it won't change anytime soon. So I think it's best to just enjoy the company of attractive women while it lasts -- and be sure to keep dating skills sharp so it'll be easy to move on after she does.

6 upvoteswiseprogressivethink2 years ago

We live in a strange world.

There's reality - which we all witness every day with our own eyes - and then there's the OFFICIAL NARRATIVE that is pumped out 24/7 by the media, in all its various forms, which presents a Bizarro World version of reality, and which we are told we must believe in, or else we are fundamentally bad people.

Actual reality shows, again and again, attractive young women eagerly fucking alpha males (good-looking, confident, tall, athletic, etc.) even when those guys are openly and unapologetically assholes. Actual reality shows, again and again, these same attractive women, a decade or so later, settling down with beta-ish guys who make bank.

Meanwhile, the OFFICIAL NARRATIVE is that guys should be completely deferential to women, and no matter what you look like or what your job is or how much money you make, you'll inevitably grab yourself a perfect match who will love you unequivocally forever and ever, so long as you give her total respect.

They call it The Red Pill for a reason, guys.

UNPLUG

9 upvotesSmile_And_Pout2 years ago

The Daily Mail is a trash "news outlet". Everything they publish has no value.

8 upvoteshtbf2 years ago

I don't like the source but it's still refreshing.

9 upvotesRoaring40sUK2 years ago

As a beautiful woman, I never had that fear I would be left alone' It led me into doomed relationship after doomed relationship, a vicious cycle that lasted well into my 40s.

Translated - I was a late developer so branch swang out of my marraige, then rode the CC in my 30's and then realised this won't last for ever (Epiphany).

9 upvotesGayNegroJew692 years ago

This is going to be an unpopular opinion. But before we all just start circle-jerking each other about this "proving" red pill theory, it's important to note that one case selectively presented does not prove a theory. Nor do 100 or even 1000 cases presented for that matter. What this woman is saying is in line with what we all believe and it was an interesting read. But that does not necessarily mean that we can suspend skepticism or reject evidence that refutes red pill theory. Always take in information with an open mind, don't fall into traps of confirmation biases.

3 upvotesLarsAvatar2 years ago

I agree with you, but as men it is very wise to assume we're dealing with a woman who can and will do this. Because, you really can't tell no matter how well or how long you've known her. This kind of stuff can lie dormant in a woman for years and years. That's why it's important to keep at least two plates spinning at all times, so if she decides to leave it's no big deal.

3 upvotesBestSC862 years ago

The only thing I took away from this article was in the last picture with her wussy husband is that she is still not happy at all and if given the chance with some drunk alpha, she would have his dick balls deep in a NY minute.

Look at the eyes.

3 upvotesalexclarkbarry2 years ago

to quote barney stinson "she looks dead in the eyes with an aura of self loathing and despair"

4 upvotessqerl2 years ago

And this is why "it's just your turn"...

4 upvotesyomo862 years ago

Nope. Uno, man Uno. I skip.

6 upvoteslv_212 years ago

This goes both ways. If the Chad is "handsome", then it's the same thing. If a guy has options, he is not gonna stick around if some HB10 tells him to leave his chick and go eat her ass. As with the girl - If she has options, if the guy doesn't manage the relationship in a domineering frame, then she'll go off and get fucked by some other guy.

However we all know that guys are more likely to stay faithful because, well, I don't know. It does go both ways though. If you are hot and have options, you are more likely to indulge in hypergamy. No surprise here...

upvotesTuckingCucks2 years ago

why do you get married if you're "hot and have options"?

4 upvotes87GNX2 years ago

You get married if you want kids and a family. No good reason otherwise.

-2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I decided tonight to propose to my girl this summer. I'm a 7 with few options in America that meet my standards. But I do very well in Japan, Vietnam, and Laos. So I guess I have some options.

But my girl was a virgin, unless she had corrective surgery on her vagina to reseal it. That is a real thing in Asia btw. Anyway, she's only slept with me and she cooks, cleans, is smart and caring. She's a 6/10 but I'm convinced that anything higher on the scale is usually ruined by other guys by the time I find them.

I want to marry her because you just don't find women like that. I pushed for an open relationship for a long time, she finally agreed but then I realised I was forcing her to become the thing I hate most, a loose woman with western morals. She deserves better for resisting the west for so long.

Also dating is expensive and tiring. Plus the constant STD risk even with protection.

*Y'all are a seriously fucking retarded lot. Many Asian cultures have women worth marrying, if you catch them before they start sleeping around. My girl speaks RP truths all the time. Straight up told me the more attention I give her the less attracted she is to me. Also said if I sacrifice my career goals to spend time with her she can't respect me. She tells me I'm fat and that I need to lose weight, when most American's think I'm skinny as fuck. Very few of you deserve an eastern girl of that caliber, enjoy plating western STD bags while I get home cooked meals and morning blow-jobs.

If anyone is reading this who doesn't want to engage in slut culture, go to Asia. Avoid Thailand and China, they are known for sniping white bois as a way out, but be careful everywhere. They can all put on a cute face to trick a western man into giving them a way out. I trust my girl because she already had a way out through her career and her family.

8 upvotesCaptain_Braddles2 years ago

I just got home from work and was planning on posting this, you beat me to it!

3 upvotesstemgang2 years ago

The wall hit and she grabbed the nearest sucker with a bit of cash that she could find.

She got lucky that there were any BB's left to grab. Most of these women end up as crazy old cat ladies.

3 upvotesEarth_unit-lifE2 years ago

I just saw this on Daily Mails Snapchat and was about to post it here. It's a shame they don't even have to hide it anymore.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I wish I was too beautiful to the point I had tons of women throwing themselves at me.

3 upvotessadbasturd992 years ago

I would fall for a woman like this. She is kind of hot but not really, which would make me think she might have a heart. But I would find out soon enough what a donkey raping shit eater she was. Yup I could see myself falling right into this trap, thank the universe it didn't happen.

6 upvotesSisyphosOnTop2 years ago

Should be linked to the sidebar. From time to time you need a good smack in the face to keep your head straight and your bp glasses off.

2 upvotesslay_it_forward2 years ago

I doubt it was rich cock. Money doesn't buy genuine desire.

6 upvotesLordThunderbolt2 years ago

She said that one guy hit the brakes of his drop top Ferrari as she was leaving the hairsalon to holla at her. All he said was hed hate himself forever for not stopping to say hi, and that she should come with him saturday to a polo game. Thats all he said and she was in the bag. Money is magic.

0 upvotesslay_it_forward2 years ago

Yes magic for getting women who want to use you for your money. Ever see that gold digger prank by Vitaly?

2 upvotesilikemychickenfried2 years ago

God struth! That whole article is self masturbatory trash, how can someone be so arrogant! AWALT!

2 upvotesbsutansalt2 years ago

she was bound to cheat because she was so much better looking than her husband

Well, yeah. This is common knowledge around here when a couple has uneven SMV. It's exactly what happens when a wife/gf loses a ton of weight or gets a boob job and the guy stays his same old self. Next thing he knows, BAM! he's being divorced/dumped.

5 upvotesArchterus2 years ago

Confirm that. As an MD have seen it over and over, usually with the guy financing the rebuild.

1 upvotesbsutansalt2 years ago

What's the frequency of breakups post-boob job these days? About half split after 2 years? It's something like that.

This article says 40%, but it didn't list a timeline.

1 upvotesArchterus2 years ago

Sounds reasonable. I would see about 10 a year who would have some bariatric procedure performed. Over the next 12 months would shed 30-60 kg. Follow up plastic job to deal with the flaps of excess skin now dangling. Thereafter, well you can guess the rest. Partner in complaining how they have changed, out all the time, different friends, dead bedroom etc etc. What I should be doing is giving the woman the referral to the surgeon (of course the diet and exercise suggestions have all failed) and the man a recommendation to a lawyer!

2 upvotesLordShoan2 years ago

This was on the discovery section on snapchat today, disgusting.

Then again the section is full of useless information about Kardashians or feminist shit.

2 upvotesSiulaGrande2 years ago

lmao i saw this on snapchat. i kept thinking "the guys at TRP should read this, what a perfect example"

1 upvotesjaystayspaid2 years ago

first thought was "i'm gonna see this on trp by tonight"

2 upvotesZrex902 years ago

What a piece of garbage woman, of course no one would settle with your ass u narcissistic slut, well except a dumb old poor man.

2 upvotesschnozburg2 years ago

Read this earlier today and immediately knew I would find it on here. Fucking ridiculous.

2 upvoteslongerdistance2 years ago

If you have a knack for reading people seeing those pictures is all you need to do to get the picture. There's not a single one among them where she is even paying attention to anything around her.

In every single on of them all she's thinking is how she looks and whether she's projecting the image she wants to cultivate.

She has no capacity for love, never had it. The man in that wedding picture is signalling the desire for her attention in all of them with the way he looks at her. Like a puppy whose entire world revolves around being pet by and approved of by his -cough-mommy-cough- significant other.

He has no independence. He doesn't think for himself and he doesn't make his own decisions. Probably never did.

They are legitimately perfect for each other.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

My new response when a girl asks me if I'm a player:

"Aw girl, sexy as I am? I could never be faithful."

2 upvotesTheRedStoic2 years ago

But she's a 7. And I'm being lenient.

Seriously, my plates are 7, 8, 8, 9.

"Right now" she looks like my 7, who is almost 35. The oldest girl I've got in quite a while.

If they're making these kinds of excuses for 7s this blatantly, great. It'll only wake people up even faster. That's good. Let the destruction continue.

1 upvotesFedor_Gavnyukov2 years ago

the truth has been spoken... over and over and over again

1 upvotesGroundhogLiberator2 years ago

I wonder if Lothario is an acceptable Scrabble word.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

This sounds like sour grapes to me.

Hot women have a choice to fuck any heterosexual male they please, some do & that is their choice.

1 upvotesn0nkay2 years ago

I've been swallowing redpill from a while but this post finally made me digest it.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

The agony is caused by the gynocentrist system. Before crony divorce laws, a HB10 had everything to lose if she cheated on her man.

1 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

If somebody posted something like this everybody would call troll. I wonder if this is a Troll job or maybe the Red Pill is right after all?

Look at the damn picture of the husband fawning over her in the most sickening way possible.

This whore is hanging onto the wall with her last bit of sexual energy but it is coming sweetheart and it is not going to be pretty. It will be too "beautiful" for words but it aint gonna be pretty.

1 upvotesiguy222 years ago

Looks like a washed up sloot but I would still ravish her butthole leaving a nice chocolate creampie

2 upvotesTupacTyson2 years ago

totally with you on that. i think we're alone though

1 upvoteswaitforit6662 years ago

look at her in her wedding picture...im sorry she was not that good looking, what the fuck

1 upvotesMr_Talent2 years ago

When I read the title I thought "who the fuck is writing about me?"

1 upvotesstevehokie2 years ago

TIL that England has different standards for what constitutes "hot."

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Classic female overestimation of their own looks on this one too. Look at the wedding pic: That's a 6-8. I would say the term beautiful does not apply there. At all.

1 upvotesssr4012 years ago

Apparently the British have low standards for "too beautiful".

1 upvotesForegone_Destruction2 years ago

being TOO BEAUTIFUL to be faithful

but her looks are ok on a good day

dressing sense trash

face like a first degree burn victim

got tits after getting 30

If women had the same standards for looks as we have this world would be a better place.

1 upvotestolerantman2 years ago

When you come to it and you cant go do it and you cant knock it down you know that you found THE WALL (WHAT) THE WALL THE WALL nothin on earth can make you fall

1 upvotesnewName5434562 years ago

And then I looked at her picture.

And LAUGHED.

-3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Only a beta bitch would think this is worth posting.

Like we should give a fuck about what someone else is doing. TRP says this shit as law, don't need your confirmation bias.

This ain't you or me, so take this bs elsewhere.

2 upvotesthisornothing2 years ago

You're overcompensating a little there, bud.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

This is a place to better yourself, not bitch about what you can't change and happens all around the world since the beginning of time. Co.plaining and schadenfreude doesn't do shit. What did you get out of this but confirmation bias of what you already know?





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