She acts like a child because she is happy

NightwingTRP · 2017-04-04T14:06:18+00:00

I first observed this about a year and a half ago. After a while, I raised it a few times on TRP that I wondered "do all women eventually devolve into acting like children and doing really stupid childish shit?" and I cited that it'd happened for the past three women I'd been with.

Speaking as of now, it's happened with all women but one. The one it didn't happen with was a complete pain in the arse to manage and only lasted as a plate for a couple of months. I imagine she may have been alpha widowed or perhaps had another alpha giving her an easier time. I didn't bother verifying her situation much since she was never a main plate.

Essentially this is the target. If she's basically acting in the same way that a loving little daughter of 5 would act around her father then you are currently the alpha of her world. While it can be irritating, it's a hell of a lot better than the alternative, so get into it and you'll enjoy it.

lietruth · 2017-04-04T07:07:39+00:00

This couldn't be more true.

Women are the happiest when they are in their feminine. They can only be in that state when they trust that you're a man who can lead her. The childish behaviour she displays is reserved for her alpha male; When she knows you're not going to judge her (like a beta male would) and she trusts that you've got it under control (make decisions, pass tests, fuck her right).

"The way of the superior man" is a great book to read on masculine and feminine energy. Takes a red pill lens to most of it.

willowhawk · 2017-04-04T09:53:42+00:00

Yeah I've always believed that once a girl starts acting like a child she is fully into me. It's a whole fun dynamic to be a part of. For example just before we cooked a meal and when I'm sat eating she's giggling away poking and prodding like a little terrorising child after attention, eventually I turn her over and spank her for misbehaving, letting her know this and keeping it fun. Before your know it, she's now rolling around on the floor giddy, like a child on fine grade sugar.

thecajunone · 2017-04-04T08:18:29+00:00

Whoa...This just blew my mind. I kept wondering why my gf was acting literally like a child at times.

BigMike203 · 2017-04-04T17:50:54+00:00

she can only soften when a man is there to be hard

Mescuzzi · 2017-04-04T13:15:21+00:00

if your woman is constantly vying for control, attempting to take the reigns of the budget, making major non-domestic decisions, then that is all on you. It is totally your fault and you have allowed beta behaviour to become part of your habits and character.

This right here gentlemen. If you are getting feedback from her trying to take control, you're slipping.

aiguo888 · 2017-04-04T16:31:31+00:00

So much effort, so little reward, that's why I don't bother anymore.

cashmoney_x · 2017-04-04T12:34:45+00:00

To some this presents a challenge. To me, having already been married and lived with three different girls, not to mention flings and ltr's over the years, it's a fucking major headache and the juice is no longer worth the squeeze. This is why I gravitated towards the mgtow thing.

patrice_plz_come_bac · 2017-04-04T12:16:53+00:00

So true... bummer that i just read it now.. yesterday i was sleeping next to my plate, all of a sudden she woke up and started teasing me while i still slept. Pulling out some rogue back hairs, blowing in my neck and eventually jumping on me.

First thing that came to my mind: she's really a child! She talks big about her carriere and her plans for the future. But at the end she's just a big child looking for attention from her man.

tanqop · 2017-04-04T12:16:30+00:00

I couldn't agree more. I see this clearly on my LTR. I find it impressive actually, how accurate TRP can be sometimes.

DetachedLad · 2017-04-04T12:34:59+00:00

Good post, loved it. Relevant material from Roissy, proprietor of Chateau Heartiste – Talking to children is good practice for talking to women, plus a few other of his posts.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2017-04-04T17:16:39+00:00

ΣMasculinity = ΣFemininity in a relationship

[deleted] · 2017-04-04T13:28:07+00:00

How does a man act, when they are happy? Enlighten me.

abicus4343 · 2017-04-06T06:04:49+00:00

This is true in my experience. I am a woman, I am attractive and I am not stupid. I have been surrounded by beta males my entire life as there are so few alphas left these days. When I am in the presence of the rare true alpha it frees me to not 'be a child', but to be childlike. I get to be open, free, spontaneous, safe, sexy, fun, vulnerable and in the moment. I get to feel feminine without judgement or insecurity. Alpha males do understand this and create a space and energy around them where this can happen. I never feel this way around beta males, instead I feel like I have to lead and control and take charge of things because they are so weak and supplicating. I loathe being in that position. I also feel like they always want something from me, sex or approval or whatever it is that they are lacking as men that comes across as this endless neediness. It's draining and exhausting. I hope men read this and understand and realize how important strong masculine energy is to women and how much we are craving it in the world today. Please come back to us, we miss you and we need you.

Edit: I've just read some of the comments and there seems to be a lot of misunderstanding and backlash because of the language used. Maybe if you replaced the word "child" with "feminine" it might help. The references to the kardashians and such frivolous interests is rather condecending but that may just be the age and stage the women he interacts with are at in life. A woman can still be intelligent and strong, without having to be the leader in a relationship. Tests are tests, that is female nature, calling them temper tantrums is also condecending but the premise is dead on. The language could be a bit more respectful for sure but try to hear the message, not the details. Think of the nature of a true feminine woman and how you feel in her presence when she is sensual, free, dancing, laughing, sexy and fun, full of wonderment and happiness, that is childlike and beautiful. Create a space with your masculine energy so she can be that creature and you will be rewarded.

SuckMyFist · 2017-04-04T12:07:54+00:00

Women are children.

She is forced to act logically, solve problems and lead because there is no one there to lead for her.

I agree with most of what you wrote but you seems to imply that females can simply act like men.

They can certainly pretend to think like men, to appear to be logical, rational and but are they?

No and pretending that women can think, act and work like men is the cornerstone of our Western Feminist Religion.

lokithegregorian · 2017-04-04T19:00:37+00:00

What if though...

What if, as an alpha, the idea of an adult partner that perpetually exists in a childlike state is absolutely revolting? What if the alpha demands the woman think as an adult? What if the alpha demands a partner that works to improve her own thought processes? What if the alpha punishes the woman when she fails to meet a standard of a true partner in this way? When she acts this way, she is severely punished until she is forced to examine this behavior introspectively. Then the behavior is identified to the alpha and the female, and it is corrected. A way forward is prescribed, and agreed upon. Always of course, with follow through. When it happens again, the moment this distinction was made is referred to.

What I have described is much the way you would teach a child that behavior is/is not acceptable. One teaches children how to treat people, you can teach an adult how to treat yourself. And if she won't comply? Leave her ass and find another. She'll agree, or the alpha will find someone who will.

What does TRP say if a spoiled child as a life partner is not appealing? Are those alphas destined to just live with plates forever? Or does TRP have ideas for this contingent?

adeptusminor · 2017-04-04T21:45:51+00:00

I find this sub fascinating.

I_VII_VI_VI_VII_I · 2017-04-04T23:50:35+00:00

This is a golden post. Nice.

NihilistMonkey · 2017-04-04T18:43:30+00:00

Completely true. I had never experienced this before swallowing TRP because I never took charge of the relationship, but the past few years this has been happening more often. It was strange at first but now its kind of endearing. It's a form of submission, where they trust you and feel free to "act childish" because it's fun, it's freeing, and they know that they have you there to reel them back into reality when necessary.

diggrecluse · 2017-04-04T21:29:14+00:00

I've never seen anyone explain this so well. You can literally see this transition within minutes depending on your behavior. Bravo, A++ content.

blastdoub1e · 2017-04-05T00:53:17+00:00

This is great stuff. So true. I would like to point out that there is a line in the sand for letting a woman lead. It's not that you should never let her lead or take charge of things.

As a man of purpose and passion (which you should be), you do not have time to lead and oversee everything. While you are building your empire, securing your family and self financially, and improving yourself so that you can continue to do so, you should not have time for certain other things.

Let your woman take charge of things at home. Let her take charge of traditionally feminine things, like laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, the kids, etc. Let her plan family events like your kid's birthdays, baby showers, and such.

Let her take the lead on some things, while you focus on the "big picture".

Fulp_Piction · 2017-04-07T00:09:57+00:00

All bitches will act manly with a beta, it is your responsibility to keep a bitch in check for both of your good. BUT crazy bitches will try to act manly too much and they'll wear you the fuck down, it is also your responsibility to see the red flags and next theses women for your own good.

bluesupporters · 2017-04-26T08:19:06+00:00

This is one of the most stupid things I've read in a while.

Why on earth would I want my girl to act like a child all the time. Yes I like it when she's cutely annoying some times but that's it, I don't want her to behave like that at all times.

Dating a girl who likes fairy tales, romantic vampires and the kardashians? Where do u find this girls, in middle school?

I date girls with whom I can have real conversations at times and be playful and stupid at other times. If that makes me a Beta in your eyes well I don't care, ask my gf how much of a beta I am.

Have fun with your child girls.

saladon · 2017-04-04T10:10:27+00:00

Amazing post. Bravo.

Reads just like one of my worst LTR fuckups.

She got alpha-widowed by her first boyfriend and from then on vowed to never let a man treat her like a woman. She still absolutely melted in my arms during the honeymoon phase, but as I slowly discovered how much of a batshit crazy feminist she was, I lost my frame and that side of her took control of the relationship.

By the time I woke up, it was too late and the ship had already sunk. Her last words to me were "You're too controlling. I need someone that can treat me as an equal."

Tako_400 · 2017-04-04T12:42:32+00:00

For fuck's sake, which is it? Am I supposed to look for a mature and responsible woman and plate the rest or am I supposed to look for a fucking airhead of a child? I don't understand why any reasonable person would accept or tolerate a partner that acts like a child.

TRP has devolved into an autistic circle-jerk in the last year. 90 percent of submissions are shit with no thought behind them and little to no critical analysis in the reception. Just because you can type up a few paragraphs does not mean you have something worthwhile to say. The narrow-mindedness of some of these fucking posters is remarkable. The irony alone of claiming women don't think and aren't ambitious is remarkable.

jack_hammarred · 2017-04-04T13:37:15+00:00

Thanks for this. I still cringe about behaving childishly around Man, but there is a difference between the giggling and still being a productive adult contributor to the relationship that your post clarifies.

goldnhorde · 2017-04-04T17:02:19+00:00

I had to laugh when I read this. good post.

it's also great that it connects to the "why then?" conversation that I have with some people who are in that constant argument SJW mode.

"Why do you think progressive/feminist/swj people are pushing this whole body shaming? why the whole no make up movement? because ugly girls are more likely to join and stay with the cause."

man , they hate hearing that.

menial_optimist · 2017-04-04T17:05:17+00:00

I have not had the chance yet to test LTR RP doctrine but I can say I might feel guilty at times being "the leader" even if she was in that happy state you described, just myself knowing such an unequal power distribution was at play I would probably feel like i'm somehow taking advantage of her or at the least like I'm an asshole.

gigitygigitygoo · 2017-04-04T17:49:28+00:00

I've seen this in all relationships, the good and the bad, and you described it perfectly. Towards the end of any relationship, I notice them being less playful and more competitive, questioning, and the like.

about21potatoes · 2017-04-04T19:07:36+00:00

You are speaking the truth, but I can't help but feel pity that our society has engineered men and women to think these ways.

TheYambag · 2017-04-04T12:42:54+00:00

There's a grain of truth in this but people are more complex than you make them out to be. Men and women.

There are plenty of intelligent women with self respect who have that intelligence and self respect even when around a man they respect and love.

HappyScribe · 2017-04-04T16:56:57+00:00

This behavior can also be attributed to fags. I've worked in countless businesses where the obviously gay men act like children - name calling, temper tantrums, squeals with delight, the works.

I'm not saying most gay men are beta, because that's not true. I've met plenty of 'straight acting' gays who are no problem. That said, most outwardly camp fags make the average woman's bundle of neurosis seem benign.

[deleted] · 2017-04-04T21:28:05+00:00

Okay wtf, this is just fucked up. Haven't read RP for a few years, has it always been like this or has it gotten seriously fucked up lately?

orestis_prs · 2017-04-04T12:04:43+00:00

Thanks for that , pretty eye opening

MattyAnon · 2017-04-04T14:55:34+00:00

u/88Will88 did you remove this, or did it get modded? I thought it was a great article.

crowhorn52 · 2017-04-04T22:39:01+00:00

Fuck. This is my life. Both parts. My husband had a life changing experience and personality went from alpha to beta. Our life is/was very different and this totally reflects what has happened, our attitudes and interactions.

Owness is put on me to make a lot of decisions in our relationship and it makes me miserable (as described in the original post) - taking charge (recently read the post commanding 101) is so damn essential to the dynamic of a successful, happy relationship.

Thank you for this post. I look forward to sharing it with the hubbs.

Owenh1 · Wed Apr 5 18:03:45 2017 UTC

Sounds to me like the men here are more like children than the women they write their desperate, fictional stories about.

Also, these children analogies are just gross. Do you guys realise how disgusting you sound?

Part of her childish behaviour is being naughty sometimes. Simply treat her the way you would a naughty child and the behaviour will soon pass. Never lose frame, never negotiate with terrorists, just slap her on the ass and laugh it off.

This is the response of a 12 year old who has watched too much porn.

If you're response to a misbehaving child is, slap them on the ass and laugh at them, then you have failed at being a father. Then again, how could anyone expect childless men who think women and children are objects to have any semblance of rational thought, so it's not surprising you think this way.

There is a very worrying obsession with women acting like children in here. Let me make this clear, there is nothing wrong with a dominant/submissive relationship. Most of these relationships are built on mutual trust and respect and most of the dominant/submissive interactions happen during sex. These abusive all controlling dom/sub relationships happen very rarely in real life and much more frequently online where boundaries are easier to control. Most stories on here are made up to reinforce the idea that this is how all women and men act. Men have agency and women dont, then why is it all men in here following the ideas in here like a massive cult? Hell, even the women in here are probably men pretending.

The main issue to me is that you guys want these women to act like children. You want a person that you are in a relationship with/are perusing for a relationship to act like a child. Why? Why do you wan't someone to act like a child during sex? Why would you wan't a women who doesn't think for herself and acts like a child? A women like this:

They believe in romantic vampires and knights in shining armour. They believe in fairy tales, they care about the Kardashians and they are scared of moths. They sleep with soft toys and get mad at you because of how you acted in her dream.

You guys literally wan't a relationship with a 12 year old girl. Can I start calling all you guys Muhammad from now on? This is either thinly veiled paedophilia or such an incredible amount of insecurity and self doubt that they only way you could feel comfortable around a women is if they are mentally(or physically) 12 years of age. When you actually extend your own logic it really is a gross, gross thing.

wrightaboutit · 2017-04-04T12:53:45+00:00

Aren't your conclusions completely twisted around? You state premises about the way that hypergamy is thought to work, but then you concluded that if she is behaving in an indulged way the man is alpha and successful. Last I checked not tolerating that behavior is exactly the point of all this. It's not too much to insist that a partner act like one, right? Or does that make me a "mangina"? Fwiw my partner and I gross over $600k/year. What a beta.

aiguo888 · 2017-04-04T17:07:26+00:00

This is even true for older women btw.

I was living in a building that was managed by a slim older Asian woman (50-60) who I always thought was a total hardass but she fancied me for some reason even though I looked super young at that time and was merely extremely distant in my behavior and she became very child like when she asked me about private stuff after some contract related talk.

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El_Serpiente_Roja · 2017-04-04T18:32:46+00:00

This is so true lmao...just had a dream thing the other day so this resonates.

Expectations1 · 2017-04-04T20:57:19+00:00

This i believe comes from putting women #2 and you #1.

koncept61 · 2017-04-05T03:37:21+00:00

What's with OPs username? Those 88s are giving off that Hitler SS vibe

I_Need_More_Space_ · 2017-04-05T04:54:08+00:00

Gold. One of the best posts I've read in a long time on here.

Auvergnat · 2017-04-05T05:20:39+00:00

/u/redpillschool. This is a post of Archwinger-level redpill-quality. I reckon it should be pinned to stay visible a few more days.

Buchloe · 2017-04-05T13:22:42+00:00

I've had a couple girlfriends that literally start talking in baby talk when they are happy

[deleted] · 2017-04-06T01:04:32+00:00

i met those kind of girls. it was not fun. they are too clingy and demading too much attention. acting like child rarely maybe good sign that she is happy but i don't think it's the sign if it is chronic. just dump dumb girl who is acting like child all the time. it's fucking life draining job to keep relationship with. don't endure torment bcuz she is "happy". don't live to make girl happy. make yourself happy. (AND I AM NOT ALPHA.)

PranksterLad · 2017-04-06T10:28:04+00:00

I need to ask, when you become beta and she has the control, how do you reset that and get it back. My situation is fucked, you can read it on my second last post. But she has the complete control, HB model 9, and guys after her everyday.

ZenplusZen · 2017-04-09T14:27:10+00:00

What if society was childish, and adults are super rare...male or female?

herahad99 · 2017-04-09T19:26:30+00:00

This happened to me a few days ago, although this chick has a BF. She's constantly inviting me to go to the beach probably because she wants to mire and we did go on Tuesday. Her behavior was exactly like you say: talking utter nonsense, always picking on me saying I look smaller since I haven't been working out, making childish jokes and acting overall like a kid. When we were leaving I commented on her behavior: "you're quite lively today", to which she responded she was just happy because it was sunny and she loves the beach.

This post just confirmed that.

juunnioorrr · 2017-04-04T18:48:07+00:00

This is gold. All of this is so so true. Thank you for such a great post!

actie_ · 2017-04-05T03:14:12+00:00

true whenever i show them my dick out the boxers they loose there shit and act like a child that got candy screaming

El_Duquee · 2017-04-05T13:31:01+00:00

Yeah, of course you don't have to be judgemental, when she lies to you, when she cheats on you, you just have to be thick skinned and put up with it...

Title	She acts like a child because she is happy
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Date	04 April 2017 05:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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