For newbies: If you feel the need to ask for sex, it's time to break up.

A follow up to my previous post, some people learn better if it's spelled out for them.

If you have just discovered the red pill, the sheer amount of knowledge can be overwhelming. You may be taken aback by all the techniques espoused here and it can be very tempting to try them out on your woman.

Stop. Take a moment and think about what your relationship has been like up to this point.

Have you felt the need to ask for sex? Has she been nicer to other men than she has to you? Has she expected you to put more effort in than she has? Have you felt unappreciated for your efforts?

If the answer to any of the above is 'yes', it's time to break up. Unless you’re married, in which case buckle up for the shitstorm headed your way.

By taking the red pill, you’ve started on a journey to transform yourself into a desirable man. A man who doesn’t take bad deals. A man who doesn’t bow down to the female imperative. A man who prioritizes his own interests above all.

She is not going to like this. She is accustomed to milking you for the submissive little supplicant you have been, and she will resent and resist any initiative of yours that might affect this cozy arrangement.

I call this phenomenon ‘beta goggles’. No matter how much you improve yourself, she will remember you for the beta you were. Other women will take notice of you, but she will never forget how little she had to work for your resources. Sure, you can dread her into submitting to you, and if you’re married this may be the only practical option. Rest assured, however, that this will not make her forget your old self, nor will it convince her to let the old order go. But assuming you haven’t shackled yourself to her, you would be well advised to dump this woman.

You’re a new man now, and you can’t afford to waste your time with a woman who won’t recognize that. You’d do well to start afresh with the lessons you’ve learned, with women who have never known you as a beta.