Introduction

The needy beta is like "Blood in the Water" when there are sharks nearby.

 

Body

Let me make this clear:

 

  • Do not be needy.

 

Recently I've been through a couple of situations where this became very, very clear. First it was a Beergarden and then later at a fast food place.

At the Beergarden I was talking with a male and since I initiated everything and let him feel at ease he did fine. I then inspire the three of us (another guy was around too) to join another table which had women. The guy who was doing just fine before now goes into a long sequence of trying to gain acceptance by begging and begging that he deserves to belong.

What happened is the harder he tried to gain approval the more he was like a wounded animal bleeding into the water and it just makes the sharks attack with more aggression. By the end he is seen as low status.

 

The correct attitude to have is to not show any fear and not beg for approval.

 

Just this morning I grab some coffee for breakfast and the workers at the fast food place are laughing their asses off because someone comes to buy breakfast and acts like "they made a new friend".

Now realize this...

People in a low status job laughing at a customer for being needy.

Do the math on what that means.

 

Conclusion

Your SMV is largely determined in the female brain by how you project yourself emotionally.

Needy behavior is like being a wounded animal bleeding into waters filled with sharks.

Know the Truth... do not bleed for others... show no fear and no need.

Self confidence is mostly the refusal to be made a slave to others. (needy)