I'll try to keep this as short and sweet as possible.

 

TL;DR- Fucked my ex even though she currently has a boyfriend.

 

Me and the girl dated for about a year. Before we dated she was merely a plate, she had a boyfriend when I first met her, however he wasn't able to fuck her. I was screwing around with her while she had a boyfriend. After they broke up she got another boyfriend, he still wasn't able to fuck her and I continued to screw around with her.

 

Anyway, after she broke up with the second guy, she and I ended up "dating" for about a year and a half. I took her virginity. We broke up because I found out she had given one of her male friends (whom she had a crush on prior to meeting me) a ride home from work late at night. I know, shocker. Anyway I broke up with her.

 

After I broke up with her she told me she wouldn't fuck anyone else as she wasn't comfortable doing so. Fast forward 7 months after our break up she has a new boyfriend and they are actively fucking. Another shocker. She recently hit me up out of the blue because she wanted to "reconnect".

 

I was spinning some plates and thought why the hell not. About a week ago we fucked like rabbits, and that was 4 days after she hit me up.

 

Lessons learned:

 

  • AWALT, most women, even if they have a boyfriend will fuck you if you're alpha enough. If she says she has a boyfriend, nod your head and continue pursuing. If she's persistent that she isn't interested, move the fuck on.

 

  • If you take a woman's virginity she won't forget you, especially if the sex was good.

 

  • Only fuck your ex if you don't have oneitis and are completely over her. An ex will always be a plate and nothing more. Do not invest time or commit into her. She is only good for sex nothing more. An ex is an ex for a reason.

 

  • Abundance mentality! Make sure you have other plates and are kept busy so that way you don't fall into the "trap" with your ex. Having abundance mentality and keeping busy prevents oneitis.

 

  • Understand that woman who have cheated with you on their boyfriends are not relationship material. While I was dating my ex I was still plate spinning. I didn't take it serious and I fully expected her to do what she did resulting in the breakup. In fact I wouldn't even call it a relationship, just a long term plate. New term? LTP?

 

  • Again, watch what she does and not what she says. My ex currently has a boyfriend but since I didn't give a fuck about that I was able to fuck her again.

 

  • Don't forget to lift. Im visibly muscular, average looking; however because of my gains I attract women without even having to pursue them. Also lifting keeps you fucking healthy, and don't forget cardio.

 

Key lessons: Abundance mentality, AWALT, don't invest in your ex outside of sex, actions not words, don't date a woman who cheated on her boyfriend with you, and LIFT!

 

TRP isn't only about fucking women. If you think it is then you need to go read the sidebar again. TRP is also about self improvement for men. Only fuck women if the opportunity presents itself. Don't go out of your way to fuck women. If you're stoic, nonchalant, have money, and lift women will naturally be drawn towards you. Focus on yourself. This is the objective. For you to become a better man than the man you were yesterday.

 

If anyone has any more insight to offer please share. Any questions I'll also happily answer.

 

EDIT: Allow me to clarify one thing: TRP is not just about fucking women. TRP is also about self improvement for men. If you look closely you'll see that TRP weighs heavily on self improvement.

 

Lifting, abundance mentality, frame, etc. all list ways on how men can not only fuck women, but improve themselves in the process. If you believe TRP is only about fucking women, then you have not fully internalized TRP. It may teach sexual strategy; however, at its core TRP also teaches self improvement. Your primary focus should not be to seek women out and fuck them. Your primary focus should be to improve yourself and your life. With that being said there's no reason why you can't do both.