I'm 29 and have only been dating last couple of years. I have learned a tonne from seddit and TRP, but I think there is a hole in my game/personality and I'm trying to hone in on what it is. Would appreciate any help.

I've slept with around a dozen women through online dating in the last couple of years. I got into a 10 month relationship with one (mistake - she was BPD) and have since got out of it.

The last month or so is a good example of the problem I have.

I met two women recently. One is a 25 year old latina with an awesome rack. The other is a 34 year old Asian woman (no kids) with the body of an 18 year old. Both sexy/attractive in their own ways.

I met them around the same time, but the younger chick has already lost a bit of interest over the last week (3rd week of seeing her every weekend), and yet the 34 year old is much more forward. I met them both on casual sites and I'm sure they are both busy riding the CC.

My GF was hitting the wall (29) and I've had another 23 year old move on quickly in the past. It's only happened a couple of times, but it's no coincidence most of the women that have chased me have been 29-40.

I've been on quite a few dates with younger chicks but not nearly as many and they seem much harder to retain. I only text for logistics and don't act needy.. though I do spend a lot of time in bed with them -- perhaps give them too much of my time? I slept with them both on the first date, so they seem attracted enough for that. Maybe I'm just not giving them a good enough dicking?

I'm starting to put on muscle and hitting the gym (5x5). Apart from lifting, what other suggestions are there? Get off online dating? Cold approach? Is it even worth trying to improve retention for women like this?