Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks out

trpjack · 2017-07-17T05:59:29+00:00

This is a prime example of hypocrisy by SJWs. Great breakdown of the top comments - it's so painfully obvious that victimhood culture only applies to women.

Thotwrecker · 2017-07-17T07:16:29+00:00

CS / alimony / divorce / parental rights etc are no time for morals. Hunt or be hunted. This guy understood - or at least he got the right advice at the right time.

The system is fucked up beyond all reason, and I wouldn't take too much away from this other than to do your research. If you want to be in the sexual marketplace, know the risks. Have a plan for shit like this, have a plan for how to deal with false rape accusations, have a plan to deal with social fallout, have a plan to deal with STDs, etc.

Big boy pants time - this guy is 1 out of 100. He happens to be in Texas too. If the mother had even a hint of wanting the child, he'd have been fucked. If he'd not convinced the mother to go ahead with his plan, he'd have been fucked. If the mother had gotten good legal counsel... he's fucked. Let's not extrapolate and misread the larger societal situation - his success doesn't mean the system is fair. You can be a lot smarter than he is, and have a significantly worse outcome. She can and will change her mind at the last second - and actually she probably could still file for joint custody / no CS payments if she wanted now, and she'd probably get it.

Love the comments that are essentially "she should have condemned this kid to a foster family like she wanted rather than give it to a enthusiastic father so she could have avoided paying CS." We as a society don't give a shit about kids, we only care about her agency and her life. When it benefits her, we do a massive song and dance about "for the children", but really, the sacrifices are only supposed to be made in one direction.

RPDrogan · 2017-07-17T06:06:44+00:00

Yet another post that confirms the basic premises of this sub.

There are different biological and social expectations for men than for women. Here is proof. There is no such thing as gender equality. Only balance between the genders.

One of the most useful skills you can learn is to ignore all the SJW hamstering. It doesn't offer anything of value and it's mostly useless drivel constantly updated with made up terminology. Don't let it bother you. Don't react to it. Realistically, those people are much more vocal on the Internet. In real life they are usually only confident in groups (with the exception of the largest ugliest feminists who have given up on social norms entirely).

SCV70656 · 2017-07-17T06:12:01+00:00

Really well done on including those quotes and the (upvotes) - it really gives a good bit of context and shows the attitudes of those involved.

A child is for life, not just for Christmas, this woman wasn't raped and she wasn't coerced into having sex with this guy - you don't get to do the deed, see the pregnancy through to conclusion and then just walk away with no responsibilities - it's sociopathic to expect you can do so.

I like how he's "sued" for Child Support too, this may well be the standard legal parlance but it seems to have these lot triggered. From my perspective it's the Father making sure that he's got at least some recognition of her responsibility to the kid and a token payment to help out and make sure the kid doesn't go without.

Woman when this happens with female: "You go girl! Don't let this dead-beat get away with it!"

Woman when this happens with male: "Law needs changing. He's a criminal."

SheriffBart42 · 2017-07-17T10:40:29+00:00

It's so hilarious... since this is the exact situation that so many men get wrangled into.

This is why women are so obsessive about their reproductive rights. In this case, the father exercised his rights as any women can (keep the child and demand support). They so militantly try to keep men from getting to do this because this is how they avoid what they hate the most... responsibility.

vengefully_yours · 2017-07-17T12:38:06+00:00

Shit, her child support won't be even close to what a man will be forced to pay, and they don't apply all the penalties to girls either. Bro of mine had his wife walk out, leave the kids, and sign them over completely, in the same state I got divorced in. They had 4 kids, I had 2. I made less than $2k a month on active duty, she was making $3000 a month. The same exact state hit me with 71% of my gross, and her with 10% of her net.

He asked why it was so low, they told him it is against state law to force someone into poverty. Last time I checked, the $100-$300 a month I got after the 71% was well under poverty. State law said 68% was the max, but they hit me with 71%. No lawyer in the state would fight for me either, even if I could afford them.

They're outraged, but this little cunt wont get fucked by the pittance they'll "request" her to pay. She won't go to jail when she gets behind. She won't get her passport revoked, nor her drivers license, and her credit won't be fucked into the 200s. There's far more than one double standard.

maninthepantspants · 2017-07-17T15:07:35+00:00

"Mommy, when I grow up I want to be an SJW."

"Pick one or the other sweetie, you can't do both."

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T07:15:52+00:00

It's always the males fault. I'm just glad he got custody of his daughter since her mother didn't even want her. Also it's good she's paying child support, she helped get herself pregnant by not using any form of birth control.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-07-17T11:53:02+00:00

I love this sort of shit!

What is shows, sadly is, how women view children as an econimic resource, and when the resource doesnt worj for them, the repsonse is "kill it!" or throw it into the state foster system.

Thats some cold shit.

ConkersBadFury · 2017-07-17T13:36:46+00:00

What are the stats on men with custody? I have custody of my 16 year old son and have had it four 14 years. She ran off when he was born, filed child support on me at once. Of course I had no attorney and received the stipulations I had to be supervised for visits with my son because I yelled at her once. It didn't matter that she spent all of the bill money on nails, hair getting done and clothing, I'm the monster. Of course she tells me that if I try to see my son she'd acuse me of rape or hitting her. For two years see my son once. Life moves on and I get married and my wealth increases, hire attorney and take her to court. It should be noted I hired a bad ass female attorney, she ended up winning an election to county DA. She came in like a boss and found a judge that heard our case. Dude must have been red pilled because he started asking her questions like where's she been working and how many times she's moved and how many relationships she's been in. She lies, gets caught by my attorney, thanks to Facebook. Also, my attorney finds a CPS complaint against her for drugging my son and leaving him alone to go to a concert. No one told me about this of course. It was filed by her grandmother who just got through testifying how wonderful she was, looks like granny lied under oath.

Basically she tried to say I'm out of control etc...she loses I win. I get my son back. Everything is wonderful right? Nope. I'm still paying child support. We took the paper work over to the child support office to get it stopped and those sjw tricks refuse to stop it and lose my court paper work. Six months later I call the judge leave him a message about what all has been going down. He has his clerk call me back, has me pick up a new order to take over to the child support office. I drop it off and 3 months later nothing. I've been paying her 9 months of child support for a kid she doesn't have. She could give the money back to me right? Lol nope. Call the judge and this dude is based, he sent two deputies over with a court order and if it's not completely compiled at once, the director of the office was going to be arrested on the spot for contempt of court. It was a Christmas miracle because they stopped! I went down and filed child support on her a week later. 14 years later and my case is still pending.....still pending. I get a call every now and again asking me why I haven't been paying child support, I have to fax all my paperwork over and I get now where. When she filed on me the case was done in 2 weeks. I'm at 14 years and I get comments about how I'm a shit bag and it's not real manly of me. Oh well, I will never see a dime. My case for those 9 months I paid in error is still pending after 14 years. She was provided with an attorney when she filed child support against me, I have been treated like shit. So nothings changed.

redpillbanana · 2017-07-17T14:41:05+00:00

“When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination.” - Thomas Sowell

Moneyley · 2017-07-17T14:22:13+00:00

He has provided an update on his status (closed by mods)

Taking care of my baby is difficult but certainly worth it. I feel like I have something to live for! My family has been super helpful and with their help we can make sure my daughter is happy. I also got a promotion at work. I realized that I need to be more ambitious because I now have a baby to provide for. A higher position was open at my work and I asked for the promotion but they told me I'm too young. I offered to do the job for as a trial 1 month without any extra pay only to prove that I can do it. After a month they gave me the job!

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T18:31:35+00:00

Woman decides to keep a child, raises it, man pays support for 18 years - that's ok.

Woman decides to give up a child, father raises it, woman pays support for 18 years - well, guess what?

That's ok too. Welcome to real feminism where both genders are treated equally.

Venny_1 · 2017-07-17T13:15:04+00:00

I didn't need the child support payments for daily care of my daughter but I think she deserves to have something saved up for the future and for her college. I didn't have the chance to go to college (not smart enough, I'm not good at studying) but I want to make sure my daughter has the chance!

The man isn't even trying to suck the life out of his ex like a parasitic piranha. He wants to channel the child support money for his daughters education, and the SJWs have a problem with that? Pathetic bunch!

cashmoney_x · 2017-07-17T15:30:31+00:00

The double standard is obvious and disgusting. When a man pays it's almost as if it is just meant to be that way. It's like a tradition to feminists and they feel entitled. Opposite? The sky is falling and their blood curdling screeches can be heard for miles.

I read it on social media about celebrities as well. A couple will separate and the woman takes the man to court and is totally entitled to alimony and child support. Women praise it; the men complaining are called superficial pigs. I mean, some men pay tens or even hundreds of thousands a month. Some of these women didn't even work a single second for that money. But if a man makes such a request and wins it, the guy is a pathetic loser who should go get a job.

I know all too well of the discrepancies of justice within the Family Court system. As a young man in my late teens I was tricked into getting a girl I had been dating for a few weeks pregnant. She was on birth control, but didn't take it intentionally... by the time I learned that it was too late, obviously. I was dragged through Family Court. She said she didn't want support, but as soon as we got in front of the Magistrate and he asked her if she did, she said yes. I was going to college and worked part time making like $100 a week (hours cut due to holidays being over).

Time went on and she collected my money, but used it to buy cigarettes, pay for her cell phone and more. It was to the point that my family and I paid for everything while I paid child support. Food, diapers, formula, wipes, toys, medicine, copays, etc. We paid for 99% of it.

The mother have up custody and I had joint with the maternal grandmother, who had been great up to that point. A little goofy, but good. She didn't work weekdays so she had residential while I worked fulltime by then. She signed up for some grandparent grant that kicked us back into family court. Child support started and I even fell into arrears due to administrative issues. They garnished big portions of my paycheck. At least it was supposedly being used for my daughter, who I really had half of the time.

One day the grandmother can't do it anymore out of the blue, calls me while I'm with my dying grandmother to tell me as such, and we meet her at my home where she drops off my daughter with some stuff. I file for sole custody and get it, but child support is still being taken out of my check. I literally had residential and sole custody, but kept paying because the courts had archived my support case and it took a long time. Hundreds of dollars biweekly. I was able to get it frozen after awhile, but the grandmother had taken a lot of it to get her nails done, but a brand new iPad, get new clothes, etc. I get back what was frozen, but I doubt I'll ever see the hundreds of other dollars she owes me.

The mother tries to get joint custody after abandoning my daughter multiple times. It's denied multiple times, and I'm told to file for child support by my lawyer. I do and it's granted to me. $50 a week plus half of all uncovered medical expenses. She is visibly upset. I'm happy. Equality, bitch... or so I thought.

She doesn't pay her child support at all. Not a single cent. She doesn't work, had another kid with another guy, doesn't try and find work, etc. I petition the court to have the support enforced. She doesn't show... twice. I lost 2 days of work for nothing. Arrest warrant put out for her, which sounds dandy. She gives herself up 2 days later, I drive like a maniac 45 minutes in torrential downpour to get to the court, and am told by the Magistrate that they won't arrest her because it won't help her get a job. She supposedly sets up appointments with the Dept of Labor to show she will try, but never goes through with seeing them. Still no support collected.

Now it is 2.5 years later, she's over $6k in arrears, I've petitioned again for it to be raised and enforced... so we will see what happens. All I know is that if it was opposite, I'd be titled a "Deadbeat Dad," arrested, have stuff taken away from me, etc. Her? She lives off the government, plays the "woe is me" act about how she has another child, etc. Nothing happens.

And this is all really about support, not custody. That was a hole just as deep.

I'm glad this guy got the child and the child support. The fact that the double standard is evident and somehow justifiable in the minds of feminists is disgusting. Men/Fathers have rights, and I hope that such inconsistencies have more light shed on them. But maybe they won't, because any time such s topic is brought up, they cover their ears, close their eyes and scream. Just look at how they acted when some colleges wanted to play The Red Pill documentary! People protested, ripped down signs, etc. Men's Rights Activists are often protested, demeaned, called vile names and more.

Singreff · 2017-07-17T12:45:44+00:00

Can someone post this story on tumblr and let us observe what happens?

afkb39sdfb · 2017-07-17T13:46:44+00:00

Shit like this is why I'm a right-wing douchebag.

redaftrp · 2017-07-17T12:40:44+00:00

Similar situation to mine: I married the wrong woman, get her pregnant, and after 2 years of marriage we split. She took me to court for custody and I lost the initial fight, was ordered to pay $800 per month to her until he was 18. This occurred 4 years ago, 2 years ago I wont custody of my son and has child support reversed, she pays about 1/4th of what I paid. If she wants to be a part of my sons life, she should support him as I was required to do.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-07-17T22:55:24+00:00

So you have to understand: Anything that benefits women is GOOD, but anything that is to their detriment is BAD, even if it was the same thing that was GOOD when it helped women.

thecrimeofperfection · 2017-07-17T14:21:54+00:00

One commenter states:

The amount of vitriol from both sides in the comments is both saddening yet expected.

There is no vitriol from the MRA/TRP side, just satisfaction in knowing that the scales can be balanced. Even the OP chimes in with actual vitriol.

This thread is what a brigade looks like. MRA/TRP types. They can suck an egg.

It's not brigading, its what happens when the other side speaks up within your echo chamber. Don't be surprised when that voice is louder than you expected.

MattyAnon · 2017-07-17T16:04:33+00:00

Furthermore, when a woman suffers the smallest consequences for her actions

Society absolves women of all responsibility.

Everything that happens with marriage, infidelity, abortion, child support, divorce... all of it... is designed to absolve women of responsibility and to make men pay.

These rare cases where the genders get flipped emphasise how real the narrative is and how much people are invested in it.

CrashXXL · 2017-07-18T18:00:06+00:00

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Taguroizumo · 2017-07-17T12:53:36+00:00

This topic is so so sweet, all men should know their rights and most importantly study law so they can troll these smart ass women who think they can win in all and every instance.

themolestedsliver · 2017-07-17T14:04:06+00:00

Wow so many people are saying well if this is reverse people will still call the women a bitch...umm how do you think the term deadbeat dad came from?

enkae7317 · 2017-07-17T18:13:44+00:00

Equality. It's what feminists advocated for. Don't get mad when it fucks you in the ass, too.

yomo86 · 2017-07-17T18:32:17+00:00

SJWs arguments basically are name calling and derailment, if they have mod status they outright threaten you. So yes even the most BP guys and gals would rather see the kid growing up with a dad who cared enough to fight for custody when mom freely reloquished all of her motherly duties. But this goes against the carefully crafted victim pyramid.

MaxWyght · 2017-07-17T14:48:26+00:00

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etherealembryo · 2017-07-17T14:22:30+00:00

Thats a good man! He'll be there for the kid and thats all that matters. The people writing the disgusting comments are probably all single fat dyed pink hair and hate all men even in this case. Its just a shame we are taught to do the right thing w ad campaigns telling us to be good fathers to be there for our kids and then everyone in that society deems the man not a man when something like this happens. I get sick to my stomach thinking about the hate this guy gets for being a good dad a good man and generally a good person.

outrunnerpt · 2017-07-17T16:50:14+00:00

This is one of the most beautiful stories I've ever read. That dude deserves my respect, I'm sure he will be a fine dad.

XXMAVR1KXX · 2017-07-17T17:05:58+00:00

Kinda off topic, but when I was younger my mother left out of nowhere and it was just me, my dad, and my younger brother.

She quit her job that paid $20 in the early 90's and ran off with another guy. Courts gave my dad full custody of my younger brother and I on the account she was not fit to have custody.

My dad was granted child support for us. He got $1.60 a week, and was embarrassed to cash the checks. Ridiculous honestly.

But in the end it taught me work ethic. Got a job, and helped with the bills.

LittleWho · 2017-07-17T18:15:08+00:00

I want to say, as a woman, this chick who got pregnant should be paying child support. If she didn't want her offspring in the world she shouldn't have had one. Having a child, regardless of whether you have full custody or no custody, will likely cost you money. If anything, this proves she's an idiot.

I hope that baby girl has a great life with a daddy who fought hard for her.

Ecclesia_Andune · 2017-07-17T23:25:49+00:00

'She should have killed her baby because rather than giving it to strangers, her biological dad took it and now wants money to raise it'

'Feminist btw xd'

kbox · 2017-07-17T14:45:43+00:00

We want equality!! No not that kind, we mean equal share of just the good stuff!!

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T14:27:39+00:00

Single dad here, I think this is a great example of how unbelievably warped most people are, particularly on "the internet". I've been through the whole ridicule bs, I've been called a woman hater, I've been treated like a criminal at friend of court, and even though I have both kids (one of which isn't even mine), I STILL have to pay CS. The law is bullshit, and after this, I will never respect law, or any asshole that thinks he/she knows what is better for me or MY kids.

Yankee_Fever · 2017-07-17T15:49:31+00:00

Am I the only one who is seeing all the top comments saying, I guess if the roles were reversed he would have to pay child care so it's fair.?

SovereignDS · 2017-07-17T20:07:20+00:00

Good for him. Justice does exist.

Dragon_Garoo · 2017-07-17T22:41:11+00:00

This is fucking beautiful. Fuck the SJW's and their hypocrisy. Good on that dude. I'm sure he'll be an awesome parent. And.. having a kid is like a gold mine for 'he's a good guy'. lol. Nice to see the tables turned for a change.

esquared95 · 2017-07-18T00:22:13+00:00

See, what should have actually happened is that she should have signed over her rights as a parent (different than custody rights). Then she would have no claim on the kid and he is the only parent on the birth certificate. I'm not sure if that can actually happen in this case, but this is how it goes when the roles are switched.

[deleted] · 2017-07-18T02:57:15+00:00

No offense, and I know I'm going to get downvoted into oblivion...but I don't think most of you guys even read the thread OP linked.

Because if you guys did, you would have saw there were many members who were defending the guy and saying she deserved to pay childsupport, I feel like a lot of you just read the title of this TRP thread and went straight to type out a comment.

Obviously there were people supporting the woman, but this is Reddit so thats this is expected, but there were so many people defending the man that I was very impressed.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-17T11:50:08+00:00

We need a new Constitutional Amendment:

"The government shall be forbidden from interfering with domestic affairs."

Shut down the Family Courts, repeal Child Support laws and end all forms of Divorce Rape.

Normal healthy relationships between men and women will quickly be restored.

All these screwed up laws are destroying the potential for family love as it undermines the natural forces of Natural Law that actually guide behavior.

The laws attempt to invert reality... so that's how we got things this fucked up.

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T14:16:09+00:00

This post gives me the biggest justice boner. Good on this guy. Shame on those who lamented the court ruling. This happens to men all of the time. I'm glad when I see the tables turned like this. Fuck the bluepilled sjw cucks on this site, hypocrites.

yummyluckycharms · 2017-07-17T16:38:10+00:00

feminism isnt about equality - its a hate movement. And thus, this answers the question as to why when the stated goals of feminism are enacted, women quickly hate them.

prodigy2throw · 2017-07-17T18:04:31+00:00

Aren't we also being hypocrites by not being angered by the mans actions tho?

max_peenor · 2017-07-17T16:31:10+00:00

Bio mom probably considering joining TRP right about now.

What the fuck is this retarded shit? I don't want to pay for a cheating whore, but I'm going to take care of my children.

DragoonIND · 2017-07-17T18:30:24+00:00

Although I agree that there is Bias on who takes the child support money as in man vs woman, I do kind of think it was a low move to say I want the baby and then request child support. It really brings home of an ulterior motive.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen to men around the country all the time, I'm just saying that it was a confusing motive.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2017-07-17T22:11:52+00:00

If the guy wanted the kid, smart man. Why have remorse doing something like this? It's his kid and he got the kid. Fuck everyone else.

Greatest argument for not restricting your opponent's speech. If it's wrong, let them talk. They're just putting on their dunce cap for everyone to see.

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T22:23:30+00:00

Stories likes this make me want to beat the shit out of twox

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T22:42:32+00:00

Honestly I think it's just disrespectful towards women that we normally allow them to take advantage of these double standards. They're not that weak, they can do the work and support themselves and others - but they've got everyone convinced that they need help, because people let them. Feminism is pretty frighteningly brilliant in how they shift the frame to nullify those arguments... also pretty fucking stupid. We're willfully allowing them to be spoiled, pathetic little shits. I think it's disrespectful to not expect much from women when they're capable of more, and horrifyingly pathetic on society's (especially men's) part to allow them to be lazy like that.

[deleted] · 2017-07-19T07:09:41+00:00

Taking care of my baby is difficult but certainly worth it. I feel like I have something to live for! My family has been super helpful and with their help we can make sure my daughter is happy. I also got a promotion at work. I realized that I need to be more ambitious because I now have a baby to provide for. A higher position was open at my work and I asked for the promotion but they told me I'm too young. I offered to do the job for as a trial 1 month without any extra pay only to prove that I can do it. After a month they gave me the job!

This right here is the only think I need to see to know this guy will be a good father. A bunch of people wanted this little girl aborted? Wtf... Humanity is gone.

eduscape · 2017-07-19T18:44:47+00:00

Did you folks even read the post? So many bullshit comments here.

"with his ex signing over her custodial rights."

Typically, when custodial rights are voluntarily terminated, child support obligations typically cease.

How do I know this? I was in a similar situation with my son, and his mother signed away her custodial rights releasing her from any and all responsibilities, period. Including her right to see him. That is up to me. This happens alot more often than you think, male or female. It happened to a friend years back, the dude wasn't interested in raising the child and signed his rights away.

Ya'll dudes are ridiculous...

With that being said...if she signed her rights away and somehow signed an agreement to pay, but didn't realize what the fuck she was signing, damn right she should be pissed - what human, male or female, wouldn't be? Also, do any of you know the state he lives in, his attorney, etc? Probably not.

Ya'll are so hateful against women right now that you totally overlook the LAW in favor of your "if this happened to a woman zomg, she'd be getting handouts, etc. blah blah blah!"

Brush up on the facts, and the law ya fuckin jokers. Sick of seeing this whiny bullshit on this sub. Let's stick to self improvement, and game instead of running off at the mouth like a bunch of gossiping bitches.

[deleted] · 2017-11-03T00:01:37+00:00

Did you read the comments and look at the amount of upvotes different responses got?

Most people saying the situation is shitty also clarified they believe forcing men to pay child support for children they don't want is also shitty.

The comments siding with the guy get more upvotes than those siding with the woman - the comments that demonize the man are the comments with the most downvotes.

I actually feel terrible for the mother. Because if she didn't want the child, she could have easily aborted the baby and this man goes, after the mother gives him full legal custody, and makes her pay child support? I don't agree with this at all. (+749)

Yes, that is one of the highest rated comments, but look at this response to that quote:

Well, thats equality. If this seems unfair, so is making a man pay for an unwanted child (+2042 - and got Reddit Gold)

More responses to the things you quoted:

But that was the point of adoption, so someone could take proper care of the child. This just seems like dirty tactics. (+255)

Someone is taking proper care of the child, the father. Women get child support from men all the time and nobody blinks an eye. This guy wants to get child support from the mother and put it towards his daughters college and he's using dirty tactics? Get your head out of your ass, he did the right thing on all accounts. (+267)

Majority of people are supporting the idea of the mother paying child support and viewing the man's uses of it positively.

She let him have the kid without a fuss at the end but then he files for child support? Holy shit can't understand how someone could do that. And just imagine the Reddit shitstorm if it had been the other way. (+190)

You act as if he's pocketing the money or buying a new car or some shit. This is money that goes towards the betterment of the child's life and is a legal responsibility of the non-custodial parent. (+247)

You even edited one of the posts to make it look like it was more against your position and men than it actually is. You quoted:

She was mislead and lied to. It is incredibly scummy and I now worry for this kid's future having a dad willing to so coldly lie and fuck over someone like that...There needs to be more reason in these laws. (+44)

The part you intentionally cut out?

I would feel the same if the gender roles were reversed. There needs to be more reason in these laws.

You tried to interpret those comments and make it like people make excuses for women, etc., but the reality is the comments and their ratings show the OPPOSITE of what you're trying to point out. And you clearly know that but just want to be a victim yourself based on the way you edited out last one.

grandaddychimp · 2017-07-17T13:38:43+00:00

These people are sick in the head. Aborting an eight month old fetus is unquestionably murder. Murder just to save money.

Fedor_Gavnyukov · 2017-07-17T09:29:11+00:00

damned if you do and damned if you don't

Appleseed12333 · 2017-07-17T13:32:58+00:00

No adoption needed, simply travel to another state, and drop off the baby anonymously through safe haven laws. Mother fucked up hard hence why we rarely see cases like this.

[deleted] · 2017-07-17T16:28:30+00:00

Typical SJW hypocrisy. Child support is usually for the child's benefit. No it is not always fair, and many times it is abused. The man did the right thing by filing for child support from the woman and it is beyond unsurprising that the left SJW victim machine is not a fan.

2012Aceman · 2017-07-17T12:27:48+00:00

In my experience "women's rights" refers 100% of the time to abortion AKA the right to define what is life and what is not life. And the sole determination of whether a fetus is going to be human, or is going to be sludge, is how she feels in that moment. It was never about the kid, but if you make it about yourself you become "selfish", so you gotta have proxy power.

Squirtclub · 2017-07-17T13:18:12+00:00

There's definitely a double standard here, but why can't you think that what this guy did is just as shitty as a girl doing the same thing?

None of the comments op quotes are saying "this is only wrong because it's a man doing it".

themolestedsliver · 2017-07-17T13:50:31+00:00

Wow. not for nothing i really am not a fan of you redpillers but i would not have known the extent of this hypocrisy without this post.

It is quite disgusting someone calling the father a dick for daring to get child support from the mother when that is common fucking place for a guy to pay child support lest he labeled "dead beat"

Grimsterr · 2017-07-17T14:18:10+00:00

I saw that thread and thought to myself "man I really hope this makes it to TRP because this is golden".

He played that whole scenario perfectly, a sight to behold.

Moneyley · 2017-07-17T14:21:25+00:00

I want everybody to please note... OP put the upvotes next to each comment...

For the first one there were 723 SJW's on reddit that agreed with her! At least 723 people!

MeatRocket23 · 2017-07-17T16:14:35+00:00

I hope she dosen't pay and goes to jail for being a deadbeat mom

AtlasGhost · 2017-07-17T16:24:28+00:00

This beta males/SJWs... Its so sad to live in that victimhood culture conformed by people who can´t deal with life´s obstacles and past wrong choices. This guy deserves the best, Im sure he will find a lot of troubles along the way. SJWs are no more a revolutionary movement, just look how the media, even the society, glorifies them. Things like "Male privilege" or "Microaggresions" are making a lot of damage to collective conscience. Stay strong and wish you the best of luck!

DysfunctionalBrother · 2017-07-17T17:37:55+00:00

What disgusts me the most about it is that people are seriously suggesting that she should of aborted the child to avoid having to pay money to the father, i mean how fucked up can you get?

Personally i think abortion should be illegal unless there is a real risk of the mother dying from giving birth or the child will have a poor quality of life due to health issues. Better reasons than i don't want it.

bopperman · 2017-07-17T17:38:48+00:00

Total and utter hypocracy. There is no logic whatsoever that it should work any different if it was the woman claiming child support. And to suggest that they woman should have aborted the guys child if she had known he was going to claim child support....i am speechless.

heathenxtemple · 2017-07-17T17:42:46+00:00

Typical hypocritical femnazis.

mgbkurtz · 2017-07-17T20:13:39+00:00

Reddit is disgusting. The referenced comments are proof.

Cardplay3r · 2017-07-17T23:38:46+00:00

So you're telling me (and most of the commentators, it seems) it's an injustice when a man is forced to support an unwanted child but when it happens to a woman it's all good?

The problem is the legal and societal double standard due to women having the choice to abort and men not offered a similar choice financially, not comments outraged at someone's injustice.

exit_sandman · 2017-07-17T07:48:00+00:00

If you actually bothered to give an unbiased representation of the comment section of that post, we would all see that the commenters are overwhelmingly praising the father and agreeing with his course of action:

This thread is a little eye opening. Post upon post from mothers about their kids involve being told to sue for child support. Dad sues for and wins child support and he's apparently an asshole to a huge number of you.

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But how often are the roles reversed where a father doesn't want to keep the child and ends up having to pay support for 18 years? No one feels bad for him and they'll call him a dead beat if he doesn't want to pay. You're a parent. Regardless of what's beneath your pants. If one parent wants to keep the child, your obligation as the other parent, legally, is to provide support.

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I feel like I'm taking crazy pills reading this thread. Child with two parents, custodial parent gets child support from non-custodial parent. In what world is this wrong or controversial?

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etc.

How about making a quality contribution, instead of whining about "muh men's rights issues!" where there are none? Of course, those who commented and upvoted this post are also at fault for not bothering to click the link first.

wapu · 2017-07-17T13:37:57+00:00

You are missing the point. The point was not that it was unfair because she was a woman. The point is that she wanted to give the kid up and have no parental obligations. She then gave the kid to the other parent instead and will be financially responsible. It was a dick move by the parent who ended up with the kid. The same dick move that women pull all the time and people go crazy in this sub talking about.

Showing happiness for this is hypocritical. And now this sub ud showing the same double standard you called out. We should be just as upset at this father as we would be of a mother who pulled the same crap. This thread is proving all of the detractors of this sub right, we don't come off as someone who wants equality, we want revenge. To be honest, this thread sound like a feminazi post from tumblr.

Mother or father, we need a mechanism in this country to legally allow a parent to give up their child without being held hostage by the other parent.

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BaffoStyle · 2017-07-17T18:12:19+00:00

Hilarious comments. I wish good luck to father and daughter

joh2141 · 2017-07-17T19:25:36+00:00

I get that this sucks. Guys get shitted on every chance society gets. And usually it's the dad's that's always making the sacrifices that gets shitted on the hardest. I know TRP doesn't really respect Asian culture but it's an old Asian saying that fathers get shitted on despite all the sacrifices they make.

But it's important when you're telling yourselves with posts like this NOT to get bitter with the world and NOT to get demoralized. This is just the way of life. Women will continue getting these social crutches. I have coworkers who are women who don't do shit and all they do is complain about how hard they work even though all they do is hog all the hours and literally use those hours to sit down on their phones rather than work. Meanwhile I get shitted on for other people's inability to work. But if you get bitter and resentful at society, ONLY YOU suffer from it.

I think it's important to be reminded that we live in an unfair society that views men like shit. But it's also important to not let this get you jaded. Worrying too much about things such as these that you cannot control is not very TRP. Just take a deep breath. Understand the world sucks and the advantages are stacked against you. But don't let it change you or make you weaker. Learn from it and become stronger.

APSTNDPhy · 2017-07-17T20:23:48+00:00

Every one of the scum bags deserves to be castrated

awake283 · 2017-07-17T20:39:33+00:00

I've been following this topic the last week or so and its just disgusting. Some of the comments are just vile. What the hell is wrong with some people?

Turtle08atwork · 2017-07-17T21:12:00+00:00

"It always seems a bit abstract, doesn't it? Other people paying."

fuk_offe · 2017-07-17T21:28:49+00:00

Pretty much this.

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5t3fan0 · 2017-07-17T23:11:39+00:00

so he managed to save his child life, keep it away from the crazy cunt and even got the money?

holy shit, what a legend! maxed out dad level!

Actanonverba11 · 2017-07-18T03:02:56+00:00

Female in-hroup preference is some scary shit.

[deleted] · 2017-07-18T18:42:53+00:00

who in their right fucking mind aborts an 8 month old baby?!?! Fucking sick!!!

[deleted] · 2017-07-21T01:16:25+00:00

I don't really agree with what he did however this is the system we have and you can guarantee the laws fuckong over men will never change until women are negatively effected by them. Considering how many women do this I don't think anyone has a right to be particularly outraged by this though.

kidthrowingrocks · 2017-08-29T05:39:00+00:00

He should've stabbed the baby in the face if he didn't want to pay child support /s

BorisJohnson4PM · 2017-10-19T22:35:36+00:00

Ngl I wouldn't be surprised if there were a lot of cases where the guy couldn't get his ex to pay child support

Dmva100 · 2017-12-11T12:24:12+00:00

The Blue Pill is so deeply ingrained in our society that when a man utilizes a feminine social convention to his benefit (I pursued child support for the chiilldrenn) he is immediately branded as the enemy.

Ahem..sir..only Women are supposed to do that.

CUNTRY · 2017-07-17T14:03:34+00:00

holy fucking shit. I've tagged this to show a few friends.

unreal hypocrisy.

heathenxtemple · 2017-07-17T17:42:46+00:00

Typical hypocritical femnazis.

iwasbornred · 2017-07-17T15:13:44+00:00

He's still a bad person. Shouldn't be going after anyone for child support who never wanted or agreed to be a parent.

Child support is bad, not women.

Title	Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks out
Author	chootey
Upvotes	2575
Comments	307
Date	17 July 2017 05:34 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	TheRedPill
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/44721
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6nr5yo/man_gets_his_exgf_to_pay_child_support_and_reddit/

Man gets his ex-GF to pay child support, and Reddit freaks out

My own thoughts on child support

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The Father's position regarding if a woman should abort their child or not has at the least equal if not more weight than the woman's. The current trend of denying the man a say wrt to abortion based on the woman's whims is both absurd, and wholly tragic.