Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriends

I do find that women have a tendency to be self destructive. Women can't be hermits, they'll go insane. That's why i don't believe in female leadership, often when they choose a female CEO, you can easily predict the downfall of a company.

Everything I witnessed being ruined in my whole life either was caused by women, directly or indirectly. Or by very feminine men. Like you pointed out they create the whole downfall and it's predictable. And the problem comes from so many points in their psyche and it compounds into this final conclusion that women should just shut the fuck up and do chores. I fully agree with our ancestors.

Many times i sit and wonder, how far does their thought development go, do they reach 18 and that's it? Because they do act like children but it's difficult to assess where they stop growing intellectually.

We grew intellectually because it was a necessity to survive. To get women and to get along with other men, to compete. Women don't need to. Also men can increase their SMV. Safe for some make up, plastic surgery etc. Women can't. Women are max level at 18 years old and decline at 23 when younger women get to buy the expansion packs and they don't. In a way it's bitter sweet. You grow up as a guy and every girl prefers the guy thats older than you. But around your 30s the whole thing reverses for you, but it's actually the same phenomenon. Only now you are on the inside looking out, instead of the outside looking in. The younger girls who are turning 18 are yours to have. And the women who once were 18 and are now 30 just like you, they are suddenly not wanted. Nature is beautiful in that way, where it manages to create balance from chaos.

It is the reason i think that women are such whores. We men do not expect much of them anymore.

Well no unexperienced man could fathom how women truly are because he is never exposed to it. He either doesn't have a girlfriend that could cuck and cheat on him. Or he never has sex with the ones that cheat. So all he sees is this low threat human who pretends to be nice. Unaware that he's being played. The way red pilled/experienced men select their women and blue pilled men are night and day. Also generally the men who would only pick a woman based on looks, are the men women don't really want.

But here is the thing on cheating, If you instill fear in them, it's a short term strategy. The thing is, she knows now that she needs to hide it in a way that you will never find out.

I dunno man i just tell them that I will even break up with them if I have a suspicion. I don't even need proof, if I feel bad about something im gone. They cry that this is unfair and I tell them it's their job that things don't become weird. Also its still rather easy to notice but yes. There are tons of ways where you will never find out. So again, I don't tell them I will break it off if I catch them. I tell them I will break up if they behave weird for just as much as a second. And tbh I really couldn't care less, if I'm not at ease with a woman then she's clearly not the type to commit to anyway. Cheater or no cheater. I've had girls where I just didn't have this for a while. The moment I do I break it off.

A women who doesn't know how her man is going to react if she cheats, will be more sloppier in covering her tracks than a women who does know.

I get your logic and that's a good one. Though I find it only fair to tell a girl whom I believe is decent, what will happen if she strays off. Women who aren't decent I either will just not commit or I just enter a fake relationship. And again, because I make it clear I will break it off based on suspicion and not proof. She now has that bug up her head all the time, it's major dread. She could be cheating for all you know but if she is she's radio silent for at least the duration of the fuck. And if she's cheating through text messages or irl flirtations that also leaves a 'fingerprint' so to speak. Now it's easy to make up an excuse but in her mind all she thinks is "fuck im awol for 2 hours, if he gets suspicious im done'. That and a woman who wants to cheat will cheat because she's not happy with you. If a girl is really happy with you then the odds are much lower.

They are still getting killed in Arab Nations for being a adulterer.

Sure but not by the heaps of them. Just a couple extreme cases. I agree on AWALT but it's not that clear cut.

Dude, life is going to throw you some curve balls, you know statistically it's impossible to be the best option all the time.

Again agreed, but generally you should be the best option that commits to her. And if you are playing a great game you are committing to a girl while playing 2 leagues ahead of her. All her options are nothing compared to you. But yes she could fuck any guy and odds are some are better or atleast different. But if she does that I hope she enoys being single and ending up with a cuck. It's really easy for women, ride or die.

So the window of opportunity to find a better man from 18 to 40 is pretty big. So no guarantees there.

Again, only for a fuck. Women are pretty much done finding that tripple A guy around the age of 25. Once in their 30s women can't compete in the dating market. But you have to remember that it's a commitment game. Women can fuck easily and most guys will say yes. I'll fuck some 6 any day off the weak, cucking her shitty boyfriend. But i'll never commit to her. So again he might be out of luck here. But if he just breaks up with her and finds a better girl she's out of a boyfriend, all alone, women hate being alone. And she never had a chance with me. That's why you always have to walk when a woman cheats.

Bottom line is, I've never seen a woman cheat with a guy that was much better and actually end up getting the guy. Only if the boyfriend was very low smv or took a smv drop. You really have to view sex and commitment separately. I mean say you have a girlfriend, she's a 6. She could fuck a guy that's 10 but you're an 8. But you could get friendzoned with a girl that's a 10. The reverse is impossible, good luck fucking a girl that's a 10. And she will never have a guy that's a 10 commit that much attention/time to her.

I personally think the most powerful tool that can keep a woman from cheating is instilling values by her father when she is a little child.

Obviously, I mean without a strong family unit a woman is nothing but an emotional wrecking ball. It is though controlled by many factors. And there are women out there who are somewhat decent or even great. And they won't cheat until they are very unhappy. Another thing you should accept is that every relationship loses it's spark around 3-4 years. Thats the moment she will find an excuse to cheat. But this is normal, it's biology telling you both to mate with new people and stop popping out the same dna clone babies. It sucks when it comes to the bond you formed, but remember that the way you view that bond and the way she does is different. Women view bonds based on return investment. While men view bonds based on investments made. That's why women seem so attached to you in the beginning while to you, she's just some hoe. But at the end she's your prized angel and you are just this boring dude. Somewhere in the middle you meat like that movie the Curious Case of Benjamin button where Brad Pitt ages in reverse, and you both care about eachother equally, but this is short lived. And again nature shows you the natural law of balance. Women who cheat before that have mental issues, past issues and generally either don't respect you, themselves or have weird life expectations. It's always either your fault or the girls fault, or both.

So yes women are a loose cannon, they can hide shit from you, they can cheat on you, fuck you over. But you can do a whole lot to combat this. And you can live by your own values, drawing a line in the sand and saying that you don't accept that above all else. Modern times take a very new approach though and you will have to figure that out. How you communicate to your woman that you take zero shit. No 3 strike rules or whatever. You need to hold your finger over the nuclear bottom 24/7 and when she starts firing nuclear tests. You glass the fuck out of her North Korean ass right away. No mercy, and it has to be like this. It must be cruel but if you don't she'll have her own nuclear arsenal within a year.

This is something women are asking for. In order for nature to be balanced. Women are being extremely hypergamous. This forces us men to be extremely patriarchal. One fuck up and you're out, done.