For many here school is back in session. For those who have been improving themselves all summer, it's a great time to look around and appreciate how far you've come as a man. There is no better place to turn and see the majority and minority of men in American culture.
Use it as an opportunity to see the vast majority of boys walking around dressing like women, no muscle mass, soy filled, testosterone lacking, body abusing nice guys that will do whatever a woman will ask in order for a shot at a mouth on their cock. At the same time use it as an opportunity to see the vast minority of winners out there. Young men putting themselves first in the gym, with school work, with career ambitions, with women. They aren't as easily spotted around campus but they're there. Hopefully, you're one of them.
Take the first few weeks to establish yourself from the pack of boys and display your manhood. Hit the gym, hit the books, hit on the cutie in the library, hit that hot ass from the bar on Friday night. Walk with confidence, straight back and chest high. Dress like a man, good shoes, slim pants, v-neck undershirts under button downs or polos. Be active in class, realize your investment of education and the fact your ROI is completely up to you. Look women in the eye when walking past, chew gum with a smirk, show off a little. But above all carry yourself with unapologetic manhood in all situations. Have fun, enjoy your time in school.
I always thought the red pill was a bunch of cunts calling themselves alpha and circlejerking on reddit. This is legit the best advise ive seen for young folk.
Focus on your body, your mind and your soul and you'll get what you want out of life.
Great sentiment, bravo.
Nah that's just blue pill propaganda that hates the red pill. The goal of this subreddit is to improve as men and conquer women in the process
I mean it is unabashedly about picking up women but it just so happens that the best way to do so is to be the best man you can be. Transferable lessons are the best lessons.
Saw this in a comment on here a few days ago.
that's exactly what this post is. lmao.
this post not, but the majority of this sub unfortunately.
That's just because it's still reddit where circlejerking is the norm.
DO NOT link up all willly nilly with the first hot blonde trying to have a boyfriend. Just please don't. It is sad watching your friend kill it with you at the bar and get laid each weekend every fucking waking hour then disappear and become a whipped bitch before thanksgiving break even gets here....
I could go ON, but that's the main thing.
Great advice. I've stepped straight into that trap 4 times, lol. The last one was and is worth it, but the other 3 were mostly wasted time and potential.
This is a time to "fuck up". Do stupid shit, work multiple jobs to see what you like. That unexcused mistake making time from 18 to 23 never comes back. Be focused, and stay fit, but also have fun and fuk alot. Be young dumb and full of cum.
If you don't mind me asking what are some simple tips for a 15 year old sophomore. I just started to improve myself.
Add: manage your money correctly, make enough sacrifices, and choose a worthwhile degree and you won't come out of college an entitled welfare recipient demanding free health care, higher taxes on rich people, etc.
Would like to add to this, being this young you will be job hunting most likely at 16. Nothing is more important than choosing a job that interacts constantly with people like a cashier. This has helped me introduce myself to many people and have no issue starting conversations.
I'm already working at a restaurant as a busser.
Wow nice. Good start. Wish I had me a job that young.
I would strongly recommend boxing or muay thai. I miss the feeling of sparring, something about it was just so "engaging," if you will.
but girls arent interested in talking abt martial art or guyish sports
Who cares? You do it for yourself, not for them. I've played plenty of physical sports and there's still nothing that comes close to the rush you get from actual combat.
Also just because they might not want to watch it, plenty of women are attracted to a scrapper.
This the feeling of being toe to toe with a guy and trading blows is amazing can't be replicated anywhere else.
What? Who gives a damn honestly?
You play sports/do martial arts because you love doing it, not because some woman might care that you can put yoir training partners in armbars.
The life lessons you learn from it are much more valuable than anybody's opinion. If a woman doesn't "want to talk abt martial arts or guyish sports" then go find someone who will
Not any sport. Avoid badminton if you're trying to score top tier pussy.
Banged HB8 off beach badminton one time with the opening line "How good can you tap shuttlecock?" followed by a wink. Invited her female friend over to a boys vs girls match and we both ended up getting laid later that night.
You dog. I think I'll be using that line in the future, no context
In rearguards to picking up a sport, do wrestling. Wrestling is something I look back on and wish I did. It'll build so much toughness and mental strength. If you're in America, high school wrestling programs are at a pretty high level compared to other youth martial arts programs and aren't available to adults like they are to high school kids. Definitely a good idea.
Girls love success. Get good grades and lift. If you speak well and look good, life will come easy.
Ignore this shit. Women love success in a beta provider. You can be the school drug dealer and if you have game they'll fuck you in the locker room.
If those worthless sluts are your goal, then by all means, go for it. If you have higher ambitions in life, don't.
Becoming a successful drug lord is one hell of an ambition. Who the fuck are you to decide what higher ambitions are? Get your bullshit moralizing out of here.
Worthless sluts aye. That's some condescending bullshit from a guy who probably jerks it to anime porn and has had less then 10 lays in his entire life.
Look at your ass. You still fucking believe in unicorns, you still believe just because a chick will fuck a poor musician, the local drug dealer at the club, a bartender etc that those actions make her a slut and unworthy of your love. Get the fuck out of here with your bluepill bullshit. Man, you guys are like cockroaches infesting this place.
All Women Are Like That bro. They're only sluts when they fuck everyone but you.
The fact that you've been downvoted this much is just sad.
Yea the fat 4's will fuck you in the locker room. Strive to be above that.
Nah thats bullshit, grades arent going to get you laid lol
Depends on what your plan is for the long run. If you plan on going to college to get a job you want then grades do matter.
Good grades => good college => good job => more money => more efficiently able to improve other aspects of SMV like looks, game, status => get laid
You get it. The problem is there are a bunch of low smv beta high school kids in here that still want to believe getting good grades or going into STEM will get them laid with their oneitis along with 9s and 10s.
No, in fact those things will likely actually work against you. Now before you slow thinking aspies pull out the torches and go full blown Charlottesville in here listen, .... you should strive for top grades anyway and pursue the best career you can but don't for one fucking second think that will make you a chad.
It makes you a provider. That is why your ass is on TRP, so when you earn the grades and make the good money you can hide it all and still pull bitches like the broke ass musician that fucked your oneitis in the ass at the club when she wouldn't even kiss you.
On top of other advice: Didn't see learn to play music or martial arts on the list. I found those things as an adult, if you devote yourself to an instrument now I guarantee it will get you laid at least three times in your life, and I only say three in case you're hideous. Same with martial arts. Also, if you aren't interested in STEM consider a trade. Gets a bad stigma but definitely a great option. You can go really far if you're smart.
I agree, learn an instrument. Preferably one that you can play in a bar band. Social proof beyond comparison when you're killing it on stage at a packed bar on a Saturday night.
What if you just learned to play one song really well.
I'm going to start boxing classes and I'll say I'm a 7/10 on looks. But I'll maybe do MMA or Karate. What do you recommend?
Don't do karate, go for boxing, kickboxing, mma, muay thai or bjj. You need full contact sparring as a man
I like bjj. Boxing is great. Find what you like. I've done mma, it's fun but I prefer bjj.
Stop pushing STEM trades, those guys rarely get laid and this board is filled with them. The guy is asking about getting laid.
I think if you go to college that's why. I do trade work, electric welding carpentry. Love it.
lift
dont fall in love
focus on your studies
have a good social life but dont get into drinking/smoking/drugs
Would have to agree 110% on the drugs/drinking. Focus on growth.
Some of the best memories of university come from a combination of those things. Plenty of people can partake in those activities and still be successful. Just don't make it a habit. A lot of university is networking and selling yourself, so get out there and socialize
hes a high school sophomore
I left university with an amazing brand. I socialized a lot, but not with the winners, necessarily... I couldn't tell the difference. I was a winner, continue to be, or so I like to think. Some of the losers hijaked my brand and social circle. I'd say get social enough to be comfortable with the difference, ie. check yoself before your wreck yoself fool. They hijacked it by taking the winning parts of me, and then spreading fake dirt and pushing my buttons at inopportune times (still my fault for reacting obviously, but if people respect you they don't trip you).
i mean i think its cool to explore some drugs like molly or lsd but just don't make a habit out of it.
Weed and alcohol but only in moderation
To deny psychadelics and their potential is kind of close minded
Those can be potentially damaging to a 15 year old who's brain is still developing though. Might want to save those for later...
It's useless trying to convert people over to psychedelics imo. Most have little to no idea what it does and almost everyone I've talked to about it think its dangerous and can kill.
Culture yourself. Follow some red pill twitter accounts do you're looking at something useful instead of retarded memes like all the other 15 year olds. Follow good informational subreddits of things you enjoy. Pick up a hobby.
I'm jelous of you. Wish I found this sub back when I was 15. You are going to live life to the fullest when you are mature
at what age did you discover it? and what would you do differently if you found it at 15
The biggest thing in highschool is sports. If you're into nerdy shit like chess or something, don't join any clubs like that. Go to parties, but don't ever overindulge. Become friends with whomever is the most popular kid. Make damn sure you get good enough grades to get into a good college, you may think there's time for that later but there really isn't. Always dress well, not button down shirts or anything but make sure that your clothes match and fit. Lift as much as possible, but since you're still growing you want to stay natty. On the final note, never make a fool of yourself. Be stoic, calm, and never lose frame.
I strongly disagree with don't do nerdy shit like join chess club or computer science club. Absolutely do that shit but also do the other manlier "macho" shit.
You should pursure your own interests as well. Life isn't only about banging plates. If you like geeky shit absolutely pursue it just don't make it an obssession.
What do you mean by never losing frame?
I was at a party and indirectly called a bitch fat. She went off on me ("I can cut you and I'm a girl so I'll get away with it!" "I'll beat you up right now") but I just stood there the whole time taking it. Then I told her "please stop shouting at me, it's turning me on too much." Boom, problem defused. This could have gone much worse.
so frame is how much you can handle yourself?
You won't find a good answer in this thread. Sort this sub by all time and you'll find some good info.
Frame is the level of respect and boundaries you have for yourself, how you generally handle yourself and the type of person you present yourself to be (or better yet actually are).
A strong frame is scene as stoic like a rock in the face of adversity among other things. It's fine to ask questions but the fact that you asked this one means you need to read the sidebar, all of it, now.
thats the worst thing ive ever heard.
All the other advice + buy at least 1k of Bitcoin and 1k worth of Ethereum. Revisit the value of it in 5 years.
This is poor advice. As a young student you shouldn't put your money in highly risky assets, better to invest in yourself.
Bitcoin and Ethereum are not risky assets. Don't buy into the FUD.
What is risky is taking on enormous debt, for some shitty degree, to earn fiat (ex: USD) that is rapidly devaluing due to Federal Reserve printing money.
USD lost half its purchasing power in just 10 years.
It's very possible that you can turn 1k today into 10k-20k within 3-5 years. Your downside risk is capped at 1k.
I'm a developer of Solidity on Ethereum and been using BTC/ETH for years. Buying into the 'stock' at a combined market cap of 100B today will look like the best investment opportunity in hindsight when it's starts pushing 400B - 600B market cap.
Facebook, Apple, etc are valued all at 1T. Global crypto market by 2027 is forecasted by Deloitte and other's to be 10% of World GDP (around 10T).
If he is getting a medical degree or something equally high paying, then great. If it's some arts or humanities degree, then good luck with that.
You can reference this post in a years time and you will see I am more than right about the outcome.
Don't have 1k? Then what about $100? $20? Don't be ignorant and not act.
If you look through my account you can see I've been active in the space for a while. I bought most of my ETH around 1-10$ range, and most of my BTC around 200-400$, now I'm a seller. These assets have made me richer beyond my imagination, but I invested when I was literally a kid without any bills to pay. My risk tolerance was huge. A college students risk is not.
I'll be getting a degree, but it's free in my country, I agree that it's stupid to pay for.
Nonetheless, it was a risky investment at 10$ and still is today, I would never advise anyone to invest more then 1-3% of their total investments in these currencies, and I doubt a young student is that rich.
You saying these assets are "not risky" shows how little you know about investing. These assets have huge volatility and haven't been around for more then a few years. They are risky. Sure they might still be a good investment, but saying they don't have high risk is just plain stupid.
Good luck
You caught me with "no risk".
I'm so conservative that I prefer real estate and bonds. And 1-2% in Crypto.
lmao how about you do your homework and complete your assignments on time kid
This was a solid post. Two points/question:
1- Paragraphs are your friend.
2- What are your thoughts on joining a fraternity ?
Keep yourself RP-ed up to the gills and don't let the beer get in the way of your grades. Make friends with everyone.
This. It could be the rise to the top or your own demise. It's all up to you.
Chill on the cliche dramatic prose bro. The aspies here will upvote you but it's a feminine habit you need to break.
He's got a point in the sense that joining a fraternity can be a great opportunity and launching pad for your social network, but also poses the very real threat of dragging down an undisciplined man with long beer-fueled nights and skipped workouts.
Look at the tone police up in here 🚓🚓🚓
You made a funny comment but seriously don't enable that guy. Imagine his ass thinking it's okay to speak that way and then imagine how he must sound trying to open a girl.
Don't encourage that, he'll get crucified by girls for trying to speak like a Lord of the Rings character. There's no need to set guys up for that kind of outcome.
Academics are number one priority. Don't rush and pledge the frat that is only known for drinking. Be smart.
Join one. Anyone that is a guy and not in one is a fucking loser regardless of how much they work out or apply these tactics
Joining s frat is basically paying money to have friends, unless you join one associated with your major. Then it's called networking.
Yes, that's exactly what it is. Friends that you will party with, pick up on hot college bitches with, run trains on those hot bitches with, watch each others backs and 60 fucking years from now will come to your god damn deathbed and talk about old times.
That's one hell of a deal. And yes, I've seen these things transpire, many fraternity's are brotherhoods. Join one and put your righteous ego in check and never look back bro. It's okay, you can become a Chad, don't hate Chad.
Also your comment screams that you have yet to read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Get on that.
I mean I could do all that without a fraternity.
Tell that to all the beta cucks trying to push past our security on party nights
As someone in a fraternity I loved my non Greek friends saying "we party too" as in you go to a lame house that's BYOB, awkward kids playing beer pong, with the only girls there being a guys girlfriend and one or two of her friends.
Meanwhile fraternity parties just bus in women all night, 4 - 1 ratio, booze everywhere
It's not comparable. Only ones that think so have only seen one side. Never hear Greeks say it's similar
Lmao no you can't. Everyone that fucking says this is a huge loser. Join one.
How's that different than just partying with the guys I room with.
What if you don't pay your frat dues? Oops! No longer your friends.
That is rent-a-friend.
Sure, if you need some sort of pre-made social structure, join a frat.
Grown men are not in frats. College boys are.
They are rent a friends while you're in college, absolutely. If you can throw parties like a frat, run with a wolf pack the size of a frat, bang random hot bitches that show up to your fucking door step like a frat then by all means, don't join a frat. Most college guys can't do that though.
Drop your resentment and hatred of frat chads and instead embrace your inner chad. You want the easy fine pussy these guys are pulling. If you're in college then do, join a frat and enjoy life man. You are not winning any white knight awards for bashing the lifestyle you truly wish you had.
And you're shaming tactic of trying to draw a distinction between grown men and frat boys is the same bullshit shaming tactic that post wall bitches use to shame men that bang younger women and won't buy them dinner. Congrats, you're the mental equivalent of a post wall with a dusty cunt.
Hmm. Interesting points, especially about shaming.
The college I attended only has about 10% Greek participation, and those guys were nothing but test cheaters or thugs, and pretty much laughed at or ignored by the vast majority of students.
Does that help clarify my disdain for them?
I sure didn't want to join one then, and even pre-redpill me smashed plenty of fine pussy.
I'll reconsider my position from your point of view, and at least watch the shaming language going forward.
Spoken like a true college incel
Ha! Hardly. Frats are insignificant where I went. Mostly full of guys who could get laid no other way but to have "little sisters" assigned to fuck them.
As one of those guys that put the gym first and dresses like a man, holy fuck the stares I get from betas. They look at me with such envy and blank looks for 3-5 seconds at a time . Guys please don't be one of these guys.
The funny thing is that they can do it too, but they don't
What exactly do you mean by "dresses like a man"? My fashion sense is rather lacking.
Google 'dress like a boy vs man', you will get plenty of good articles about it.
The internet isn't particularly helpful. All guides to fashion seem to be geared away from my body type. If nothing fits me before I visit a tailor how am I supposed to pick up a decent style befitting a man without being richer than I am at the moment?
I wear a nice fitting polo which is tight around the arms and tuck it into my causal straight fit jeans(no cuts or overly tight), exposing my all black belt and lack of waistline. You don't see many males tucking in their shirt anymore which is bs it can make you look much more mature and dominant. Furthermore I have on black causal shoes with matching black socks. Other then that I have a small gold and black watch and wear a chain under my polo (not visible) I'm not going to school to flex something as petty as jewelry. That's about it. Your physique makes the outfit look good along side walking with good posture and head up. If I was 30 pounds overweight or have skinny twig arms it wouldn't look good but still a step above skinny jean hipster wear.
Never underestimate the power of a snug black or grey T-shirt, and a pair of jeans or khakis.
No jeans fit me. Either they fit my thighs or they fit my waist but never both, and neither remotely fit my calves. I can find a decent button down but if my lower half looks as though I'm dressed like a clown I'm not sure that it works.
Cargo shorts and sneakers with graphic t shirt and lanyard = boy
Nice jeans, loafers, button down that fits or a nice shirt = man
No jeans fit me. Either they fit my thighs or they fit my waist but never both, and neither remotely fit my calves. I can find a decent button down but if my lower half looks as though I'm dressed like a clown I'm not sure that it works.
This hasn't been mentioned but find a way to record every intimate moment with a girl, too many false accusations not too. they could ruin your life with one feeling of regret, maybe not even until months later.
Also wrap it up, she is most likely riding the CC hard so ur not the only dick she is using.
One advice to younger me would be:
JUST FUCK THEM.
literally. I was a pussy back then, had many girls interested but I always found a way to evade them. Its easier being older and earning mooneys now, but back then I was surrounded by pussy. Would practically trip over it. I only needed to put my dick out.
But I was virgin and scared of first time, thought it was late and weird. When I finally did it I owned it. All those years in tears and worry were for nothing.
I did a lot of approaching tho, just when I had chances with girl I sabotaged it out of aforementioned fear. People make it a big deal and there is big online stigma for it, honestly it couldnt be simpler and like ppl say, its not space shattering event. But fairly close. hahahahaa. If any of former mes are reading, you guys just keep your hygiene in check and follow your instincts. light weight.
This should be top comment. Just fuck them, its actually what they want. Hit the weights, stop watching porn and make a move then fuck her. It is easier than u are making it. Dont love her, don't try to be too cute and funny. Just have fun and fuck. I could have fucked this smoking hot mexican chick that moved to Cali, she was into me, we texted, talked. I brought her to my place and fucking played piano for her like a giant pussy when all i had to do waa start making out with her,start feeling her great tits, start feeling her ass, first outside her jeans then inside, touch her pussy from the back then its over. She's moist af and ready. I could have fucked her many times and came all over her tits ass and face but i was a pussy that didnt lift, watched porn, ate too many carbs and didnt get enough sun.
Starting my masters degree at the end of the month and this post just got me pumped to go and kill it, thanks brother
I'm on campus as a 45 y/o professional.
Work pays for the math class. I pay student loans without interest, and learn about stochastic processes, which feeds into my work. win/win/win.
I pay for the phys ed class myself. 3 guys in the class, none in as good of shape as I am. Many, many females. Life is good.
I get IOI's constantly. ~11% body fat, maybe less, barely visible love handles, totally visible abs-more of a 4 pack than a 6 pack, but doing better than most guys half my age.
And in these days of man buns, high & tight #1 fade.
I'm telling you guys, life is fucking good.
And the OP is exactly on point......of course, I don't go for the button downs or polos. Tight v-neck t's work for me. Surprisingly well.
Are you actually fucking 21 yo hoes?
Last one, outside of a mistake, was 19, I was 39.
If I were as successful in my position as I should be, I'd be making posts like Uncle V.
Button downs and polos look good but if you are built anything that shows that is good.
Step 1 be attractive Step 2 don't be unattractive Step 3 nice guys finish last Step 4 it's truly frightening looking around at most guys on campus and seeing how lame most are my gosh... like who raised you...? 🤔
It's really not that hard to get to top 20%
Wear well-fitting clothes, be in decent shape, and be able to hold a conversation and you're instantly top 20% at least. There's almost no competition if you know what you're doing.
"soy filled" Care to explain this part, I'm confused?
Its how mexicans say they are done eating.
I can now no longer count on one hand the amount of times a post on trp has made me actually burst out in laughter.
https://www.anabolicmen.com/soy-and-testosterone/
Take it with a grain of salt.
Great post. Junior year underway. I'm beyond stoked to smash it! Good luck to y'all!
Don't have to tell me twice, ;)
Just out of curiosity, what does "dressing like women" entail?
Thanks, any motivation is welcome. I hadn't thought about the difference in myself between last semester and this semester. Good to see I've made some progress and that there's a lot more to come. Cheers.
Soy is delicious though. Some good fried tofu is the shit.
ALSO, trade bitcoin. Bitches love that shit. <3
V-necks are so fucking gay
Depends on if your pecan are booming. I know many bitches who love to see a dude with a beefed up chest coming out of a v neck.
I know many girls who want me to have a fucking Macklemore haircut but I haven't taken a girl's opinion seriously in a while. Some girl gave me shit for shaving my head but I still plated her.
A standard v looks better with a button down. Are you referring to deep vs that DJs and douchebags wear or all v necks? Crew necks are for logo Ts.
I disagree. Crewneck or nothing. But we just have different tastes. I don't think a man over ago 30 should wear a logo tee. I'm 24, so if I do it's subtle. Nice clean logo in the upper left, or an occasional faded band shirt if I'm at a show, or the gym, or skateboarding.
Everyone's got their own style, I just think most people end up looking corny af with how they dress. Less is more.
All you really need is:
Yeah we aren't on the same page. You wouldn't catch me dead with a button down and a crew under it. I think it looks tacky, like a clueless 40 year old dad. Also you're leaving out the world of tailored suits, sweaters, blazers, etc.
I'll rock logo Ts, but only ones that are city associated or musically related. I have a couple musical related tanks I wear at shows under a casual button down.
Fukin' Chad wrote this...or was it Kevin? I'm all for positive attitude and lifestyle. Just tone down the testosterone for goodness sake.
What's wrong with testosterone? Fuck off cuck.
HAHAHAHA see, your testosterone is showing. FU2
If you're wearing a sport coat or blazer over your button down, a toned-down wool or cotton self-tie bow tie (save the silk for formal occasions) will add a bit of character to your outfit.
In addition to that, a clown nose will really put a finishing touch to the outfit.
On what planet did you think that comment would be a good idea to post. Fucking god damn bowtie, jesus christ.
Lol - stop being a fucking beta cuck and just learn how to wear a goddamn bow tie. It's not that fucking hard!
A bowtie should only be worn on the rarest of occasions.
Agreed. Unless your line of work requires it.
You're not 007. Instead, you look like Pee-Wee Herman.
Eh depends. In the south it's definitely alpha
I dont get why your comment is getting downvoted. Look at the greatest men of 20th century, Thomas Edison, Tesla, Einstein, Churchill etc.. all wore a bowtie. Gen X onwards are being fed by media that only clown and skinny weak nerds wear it. Beside bowtie is making a comeback and from what I observed, guys wearing it are confidence and get the attention from women. Heck, i was the only one who wore it during orientation evening dinner. And it was me who grab the attention and compliments. It's all about how well you know your outfits and pull it off with your personality
lol bow ties are 100% try hard and almost every guy I know that wears one is a douche. Anecdotal but still.