Surgeon finds out fiance was a porn star. Finally breaks engagement

Sir_manalot · 2018-11-14T22:58:04+00:00

Some serious red pills in those comments. Seems like reddit is waking up really quickly

mongolian_usa · 2018-11-14T22:42:59+00:00

Imagine if things were reversed. He didn't even have to have been a porn star either, just kept something about his past secret from her.

Edit: grammar

BHeletrica · 2018-11-15T03:42:32+00:00

he paid for her friends to go to a weekend travel! imagine how much money this guy was spending with her? she was hitting the jackpot than someone fucked her pretty hard by rating her out hahaha this is amazing

ThaiEscapePlan · 2018-11-14T22:35:11+00:00

Link to original post: https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/9ssq42/35m_my_fiancee_of_3_years_33f_hid_her_past_in_sex/

First, I'd like to thank everyone who gave advice or messaged me privately. Unfortunately I have not had time to respond to all the messages. And just to clear up a few things the videos were clearly professionally produced. Additionally, the facebook account that sent me it had a very generic name and was shortly deleted so I was not able to ask it any questions.

Ultimately, after reading the advice and some reflection, I decided to end things. There were multiple reasons for this. The main reasons were: this information was kept from me for years, differing values regarding intimacy, concern for how this could affect my businesses, and the fear that my children could be bullied due to their mother's past career choices.

I wanted a very low drama breakup so I paid for Amber and two of her close friends to take a girl's weekend to a popular vacation spot close to where we live. When they were gone I moved my stuff out of our condo and into a spare unit in one of my apartment buildings. Before she got back on Sunday evening I asked her to meet for a walk and coffee in a park close to where we live. She was very suspicious when she got there as she saw that my things were missing from the condo. I asked her if there was anything she wanted to tell me and she said no. I then told her that I was aware that she used to be a porn star and asked why she chose to keep it from me. She said that, that was not who she was anymore and she wanted to me see her in a different way. I told her she had no right to keep it from me. She then started crying and said she was sorry and that we could work things out. I told her that would not be possible, but that I would pay out the six months left on her lease so she could stay there and give her some money to help by until she gets a new job. I left very quickly afterwards.

Unfortunately though, Amber has struggled to accept the breakup she has been calling me non-stop and has even came by my place of work. One of her friends confronted me at Starbucks yesterday and said I was being "a judgmental asshole" and "throwing the relationship away". Her father even left me a voicemail asking to talk. When I woke up this morning I had several missed calls from her and her friends+family. Thankfully, they do not know where I live now though. I will be taking a few weeks off just to get away from the area and let the situation die down. If people ask why the wedding and engagement were called off I'll just be telling them personal reasons. I hope both of us can move on and I see no more reason to add drama or to bad mouth Amber.

tldr; told fiancee I knew of her past, I ended things and moved out

SeaweedTasteBad · 2018-11-15T02:12:25+00:00

That's not who I am anymore. Riding the carousel and expecting a proper man to marry a prostitute. Sorry this is not the movie Pretty Woman. Besides it really would hurt his job.

2018-11-14T22:59:41+00:00

Smart man. He definitely lives by the motto of "don't try an turn a whore into a housewife."

Teflon0819 · 2018-11-15T03:34:36+00:00

Something tells me she wouldn't be trying nearly as hard to get him to take her back if he was a construction worker and not a surgeon.

elkknuckle · 2018-11-14T23:56:01+00:00

Searched through the comments for a while, dissapointed no one asked for the "sauce."

vega-mgtow · 2018-11-14T23:44:48+00:00

She's not that person, anymore.

astuteglute · 2018-11-15T03:53:48+00:00

One quote from supporters of lying whores;

He moved all of his shit out before ever even talking to her about it. I would feel like a filthy fucking bottom dwelling piece of shit if someone did that to me.

That would be because you were a lying whore and the truth didn't set you free or collect cash and prizes... accept the ones to buy time to dodge the crazy ho X bullet with lies of domestic abuse (the were living together) smart man gtfo and dont stop running runnininnn runnininnn

AliBarakat · 2018-11-15T04:10:10+00:00

What would've made it funnier was if she claimed to be a born again virgin.

figyg · 2018-11-15T05:01:45+00:00

I'm so happy for this guy. Seriously gives me some hope

Gordon-G · 2018-11-15T05:50:59+00:00

Your past certainly does matter...

theoracleofosiris · 2018-11-15T00:32:19+00:00

Statusmatch in 2018: surgeon and pornstar

AliceGaveMeTheHerp · 2018-11-15T03:18:04+00:00

i remember seeing the part A of this story, all's well that ends well. also extremely surprised by how red pilled a lot of the comments are, it seems like the overwhelming majority are congratulating him and telling him that he did the right thing. could we perhaps be witnessing a sea change?

[deleted] · 2018-11-15T07:03:24+00:00

Dude was gonna marry a medical tech he met during residency? S-I-M-P

Little_African_Child · 2018-11-15T07:21:20+00:00

All the women freaking out in the comments section... I wonder if they would be chilled with their husband having been a gay porn star in the past, with videos of him getting pounded available online for all to see. Yeah thought not.

Rick_The_Mullet_Man · 2018-11-15T10:50:29+00:00

She isn't very different from the average woman though, the only difference is that her wild Chadscapades were recorded on camera.

Gracket_Material · 2018-11-15T13:37:53+00:00

The fucking simp is still paying for her.

Men really do get off to handing women money

Golemberg · 2018-11-15T07:29:28+00:00

TBH, I think you should call the wedding off for her benefit. You honestly sound judgemental and feel entitled to things from her simply b/c she had a past as a sex worker. I can't imagine that would improve after marriage. It sounds like something you'd hold over her head for a lifetime.

gigasimpdeluxe · 2018-11-15T14:32:41+00:00

Honestly I think your in the wrong, think of you never find someone again. Everyone has a past move on and love your girl

Love this response.

CaptainCommunism7 · 2018-11-15T15:28:50+00:00

What is his fiances porn name? I'm inquiring purely for verification purposes, ofcourse...

yonathanfisher · 2018-11-15T16:59:56+00:00

Good to see the guy has some balls.

Found a tech executive in the same situation, engaged to Carmen McCarthy. Mailed him photos from her portfolio and they're still together!

RocknR0IIa · 2018-11-15T18:53:16+00:00

Hell

Title	Surgeon finds out fiance was a porn star. Finally breaks engagement
Author	ThaiEscapePlan
Upvotes	112
Comments	48
Date	November 14, 2018 10:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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