Girl I am seeing gets visibly upset when I take out a condom..

Bucketdweller · 2017-09-11T05:01:16+00:00

Sounds like she's already pregnant and looking to peg it on somebody within a reasonable timeline.

bolupua · 2017-09-11T04:47:24+00:00

RED FLAG.

Run.

You can do better.

strikethrough123 · 2017-09-11T04:25:29+00:00

Sounds like this bitch already has a bunch of Chads' cum swimming in her.

Xoramung · 2017-09-11T05:47:22+00:00

she FORCED me to meet her later that day

How did you break out of the cuffs?

CharlesX0l0 · 2017-09-11T06:13:43+00:00

Why are you, a 32 year old CEO and entrepreneur even considering a 30 year old deadbeat who lives at home? Ar you wasting money on her? Paying for her drinks? Don't.

Read that again... and again. A guy like you could swipe for one hour in eastern europe and have dozens of 8-9s around 22-23 willing to have your kid if that is what you want.

whuttupfoo · 2017-09-11T04:30:36+00:00

You need a stronger frame bro. Your responses need to be a firm no. Even a hell no. No explanations, nothing. You should almost get offended by her wanting to go raw.

Your language needs some work too. You mentioned she FORCED you. She didn’t force you to do anything. You also mentioned you felt obligated to kiss her. You aren’t obligated to do anything. Your world and reality is supposed to be controlled by you, no one else. Everyone else steps into your world, your frame.

Also it sounds like she smelled “provider male” on you as soon as you mentioned the business and started trying to trap you into a pregnancy. That would explain why she’d want to go unprotected so eagerly.

suske127 · 2017-09-11T07:07:41+00:00

Sounds like trp possibly saved your life in this situation to. Good job not falling into her trap brother. This is why the older men here say they go for women pre-wall generally

redlurker9 · 2017-09-11T07:39:46+00:00

What a trash human being she is. Your frame is weak though: "she FORCED me to meet her", "I would prefer blablabla", "I like you but this way too early and we need to be smart".

You should really avoid her. Even if you do manage to fuck her with a condom, and flushing it afterwards, she sounds crazy enough to pull out rape accusations.

atraw · 2017-09-11T07:50:19+00:00

Man, by this text you sound very soft and non-confrontational. Hold your frame.

hodltaco · 2017-09-11T12:29:39+00:00

" I was just on my period it's ok you don't need to use one..."

Guys-you're going to hear this at some point and you're going to have to think straight over that erection. NEVER stick your un-condomed dick into something you're not ready to pay child support for 18 years. Solid example of AWALT here. A woman's "baby alarm" is going off solid and loud at about 27-37 so they're desperate for babies and support.

I'm old but can vividly remember "the change". My god the women 18,19,20,21,22,23,24 were SO concerned about condoms I always assumed it was because AIDS had just come on the scene. Suddenly fucking a 27 year old and suddenly she wants to "feel me". "Shoot your cum in me...I want to feel it...I can't get pregnant..." Even my now ex-wife pulled that shit days before we split up-she was 31.

Any of you poor souls that gets a random girl pregnant had better get a DNA test as well.

Perpetual_Protege · 2017-09-11T05:29:05+00:00

She's nuts. I'd avoid having any kind of association with her. My red flag was her getting upset over you pulling a condom. Definitely trying to trap you.

eaeulis · 2017-09-11T06:52:29+00:00

4 years of games from her and you finally get her and she reveals the real her. lesson learned.

IClimbPlasticAndRock · 2017-09-11T09:49:08+00:00

Never let people know how much money you have man. Nothing good comes from it.

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-09-11T09:32:34+00:00

We went on a few dates.. she LITTERALLY was telling me.. "well I'm turning 30 soon so I don't have a lot of time."

Followed by

I told her I needed to go home but she literally** kept pouring me shot after shot after shot**...

Then

it was just mechanical as if she was a machine with an objective.

Afterwards

Her: "But I was just on my period it's ok you don't need to use one I'm clean"..

and then

tried to convince me *not to wear a condom *

With this evidence and your gut instinct, it's clear that she wanted to get pregnant by you and then getting child support from you. She wanted to make you drunk then get pregnant by you. That was her goal. Your instinct noticing her being a machine with an objective is great.

her goal was to become pregnant then earn monthly payments by you. you told her you have a business and child support payments is around I think it was 20% of your income. If you earned 100k a year she would get 20k a year from you.

She also is hitting the wall so she needs to lock in some sort of financial income. You played well by not fucking her. If you had a vasectomy you could laugh your ass off because she would definitely call you the next day saying: "I'm pregnant".

Even if you did fuck her with a condom she would sperm jack you. To counter this have another condom, put horse radish sauce in it and take the condom with your sperm with you. Dispose of it yourself. When she injects herself with that sauce it will burn like hell.

OGlancellannister · 2017-09-11T07:51:38+00:00

Lol how does this woman force you to see her. She must be mighty strong. Your frame should be firmer so you can say no earlier. She sounded like a nutter from the start man. Cut your losses on these ones, it's just a poor investment with no upside and high risk.

Her intensity with which she seems to be seeking a provider and use a child to achieve that is so transparent it almost seems fictional haha. I'm younger so I don't even see dating woman above the age of 30 as a viability but honestly 85-90% of women by that age are past their prime or just about to be. It's a wonderful gift when a woman gives you her best years. This woman has given those to other men, so why would you even bother? 32 isn't too old, why not aim a little lower in the age range?

dumnem · 2017-09-11T12:55:00+00:00

RED FLAG

ABORT, ABORT, ABORT.

DISENGAGE IMMEDIATELY, GTFO.

Ltactics1 · 2017-09-11T10:32:11+00:00

I know some of you fuckers here refuse to wear a condom. Let this be a reminder.

ozaku7 · 2017-09-11T10:17:29+00:00

Hilarious. Probably already preggers and needs to blame it on a dude that has no balls to go for a genetic test once the baby is born and NOT sign the birth certificate before that.

Or she is just running out of time (She flatout told you, my god) and knows that if she wants to pop out 3 kids before they have a significant chance of becoming retards, it should all happen before 40, preferably asap.

It's only when they start to panic because they realize that they get less attention than they were at 20.

Rian_Stone · 2017-09-11T11:10:03+00:00

it's like she begged you to ghost her

Catcac · 2017-09-11T18:28:57+00:00

This story sounds super fake lol.

pm_me_chuck_hagel · 2017-09-11T19:24:50+00:00

I have my own business with a few employees, and I'm at my peak (I'm 32)

Hopefully you can look back on that statement in a few years and realise that you were simply on a smaller peak while nowhere near the summit.

Her: "But I was just on my period it's ok you don't need to use one

Yeah, your little swimmers can survive inside her for up to 5 days. Considering ovulation happens 14 days after the first day of her period, her period being 5-7 days, that leaves just 2 "safe" days, assuming that ovulation is on schedule and not early. To me, her saying "I was just on my period" implies a window of several days and there is a very high chance you are not actually "safe" at all. (While keeping in mind that "safe" is used in the loosest possible sense of the word.)

Euphoricentia · 2017-09-11T07:10:32+00:00

Haha, this was a very interesting read, when did the aliens finally capture you?

[deleted] · 2017-09-11T07:11:23+00:00

Why would you give anything to someone who used to play games with you? Have you swallowed the pill? I can barely be civil to humble, feminine and sensitive girls these days let alone creatures like this.

[deleted] · 2017-09-11T08:09:18+00:00

That shit is creepy. She was trying to trap you.

CuttieSark · 2017-09-11T17:20:07+00:00

Why is someone at their peak hitting someone who has just laid the cementing on their wall?

Mudpielol · 2017-09-11T11:56:27+00:00

she FORCED me to meet her later that day

How exactly did she force you? Nevertheless, you made the right call. Plenty of fish in the sea, find another one that's this crazy.

gnarlin · 2017-09-11T15:11:25+00:00

I have three words for you: vasectomy, vasectomy, vasectomy!

turboRock · 2017-09-11T15:57:24+00:00

Any girl that tells you not to wear a condom is a girl that you should definitely wear a condom

e_z_p_z_ · 2017-09-11T11:33:59+00:00

these ages and this timeline don't add up whatsoever. you were i college 3-4 years ago and she was 25. now, 3-4 years later she is 30 and you are 32.

Radkin007 · 2017-09-11T06:21:31+00:00

Good job dodging that bullet.

imn0tg00d · 2017-09-11T07:28:50+00:00

This story made me cringe the entire time I read it. Such neediness.

X-Trem0 · 2017-09-11T12:27:55+00:00

That's why I'm considering a vasectomy...

And now that they're reversible up to 10 years even more

headgard · 2017-09-11T11:47:51+00:00

Anal. And then run like hell!

CptNemo56 · 2017-09-11T13:07:24+00:00

RUN. that bitch will find where you store the condoms and poke holes in them

SlyAM · 2017-09-11T13:17:17+00:00

Jesus man.

I didn't think a women could be that desperate but this post obviously proved my mind wrong and reinforced that the wall is real. Good on you OP for being smart and not giving her what she wanted. Before you'd know it she'd be giving you the "I'm pregnant and you're the Daddy" talk, and that would've been a nightmare.

jamesso33 · 2017-09-11T18:30:33+00:00

Why were you still in college at 27? Why wouldn't you bang her? This story doesn't make sense.

PantsonFire1234 · 2017-09-11T21:13:37+00:00

If a woman still lives with her parents at the age of 30 something is terribly wrong. All the hickups guys experience to get their own place are smoothed out for bitches. Hell the housing market with government regulations will actively cater to women and prioritizing them through clever ways.

califriscon · 2017-09-12T18:21:23+00:00

Moral of the story: Never stick your dick in crazy

meaningintragedy · 2017-09-11T09:42:38+00:00

I don't understand why you still wanted to have sex with her, even with a condom. At that point you should have just left because you don't know what kind of weird tricks she could do to impregnate herself.

5t3fan0 · 2017-09-11T09:55:00+00:00

dude why the fuck do you even spend time with her? i understand she rejected you in the past but you must accept it and move on... ego kills man.

she FORCED me to meet her later that day

YOU forced yourself

like there was no passion.. it was just mechanical

i bet there wasn't any

"Are you afraid of getting me pregnant?"

she is afraid that you will NOT get her pregnant (unless she already is)

"But I was just on my period it's ok you don't need to use one I'm clean"

THIS FLAG IS SO RED STALIN WOULD BE PROUD

she was becoming visibly angry..she for several minutes tried to convince me not to wear a condom as if her life depended on it

more red flags! also you are correct since, in her eyes, her life did depend on this fuck (to get you in baby jail, that is)

dude, you clearly see the signs of CRAZY and INCOMINGWALL.... just listen to your gut and run the fuck out, unless you want an std and to be a divorce-rape statistic... i hope you didnt fuck her and left.

Avyctes · 2017-09-11T10:26:27+00:00

It sounds like in your heart you know what to do - get the hell out of Dodge. She's already laid out her agenda, semi-covertly, the way cunts communicate. Abundance mentality. There's other vag's out there and as you noted, you're 32. Live it up my friend!

askmrcia · 2017-09-11T11:22:55+00:00

This story does make me wonder about the logic of The Wall.

Why would a woman necessarily wait until her 30s to get hitched and a stable man? Why not just grab an alpha man in your 20s while you're still good looking?

markstachow · 2017-09-11T11:26:42+00:00

Would it have been okay if he had a vasectomy to fall into the web of deception?

Shaman6624 · 2017-09-11T11:31:21+00:00

Wait. How dit she FORCE you to have a date and take shots??

EPArt · 2017-09-11T12:10:43+00:00

Its like she tried to rape you. Actually i guess she was either a divorce rape eventually or to trap you and get pregnant or like others here mentioned palm her baking bun of as yours. Shes like a sea of red flags

Stink-Finger · 2017-09-11T13:55:57+00:00

I like you but this is way too early ....

You don't 'like' her, you've made that clear. From your narrative you can see right through this bitch.

What you like is that your unicorn has come home and is willing to spread her legs for you.

Fuck her to get it out of your system then forget her.

logicalguest · 2017-09-11T13:59:28+00:00

So... did you do it at the end?

callmehey · 2017-09-11T14:03:34+00:00

Weeeell. I ain't saying she is a gold digger, but...

neautika · 2017-09-11T14:23:58+00:00

She just wants your baby batter bro. Don't forget to check for needle holes when she starts offering to buy condoms. Lol

Goomich · 2017-09-11T16:28:12+00:00

After several more minutes

Pls tell, you have turned recording on your phone by then.

NorrisChuck · 2017-09-11T18:33:06+00:00

31 here with a 21 year old cutie gf, who is a saint so far, if I can do better without a business, so can you.

Kinbaku_enthusiast · 2017-09-11T22:29:14+00:00

she FORCED me to meet her later that day

she literally kept pouring me shot after shot after shot

Heh, nobody forced you to do nothing. What did she, grab your finger in a secret martial arts hold? Did she hold a knife to your throat. You chose to go along with it.

metallicdrama · 2017-09-12T21:07:35+00:00

I have a friend that had a vasectomy a few years back. It's always hilarious when some sloot tries pinning a kid on him bc he blows it in everything that moves, and then laughs in their face and says must be some other sucker. They've never pushed farther than the phone call lol.

verily_rp · 2017-09-13T15:52:28+00:00

Well done. You've dodged a bullet.

ASPD_Account · 2017-09-14T06:32:31+00:00

I know that feel. Was with a girl, an uggo (don't know why, shit was weird, man, it's a whole story) and I caught her eyes dart to the condom with my product in it.

FUCKING NOPE.

Took it out of the trash and rinsed that fucker out. NAWALT though.

Maelshevek · 2017-09-14T07:09:12+00:00

Red Alert! Bail out now, ship's going down. Run, don't look back.

All people have agendas, but when it comes to kids and the rest of your life and hers, she could show, um, a little thought and responsibility before trying to get pregnant based on a highly emotional decision.

It's crap like this that defines the kind of women we don't want to be saddled with. Questions about your worth (hypergamy), relationship based on her own desperation, not living on her own at 30... Her life is going to be a ship tossed on the waves of chance--don't take the ride too!

Respect yourself and find someone who is independent financially, cares less about kids, and can think through life choices--your worth it.

Thy_Nomad · 2017-09-11T04:20:45+00:00

This is why I prefer the 2-5 range. They aren't so obsessed with themselves and actually develop personalities. Like a human.

satanicpriest13 · 2017-09-11T08:56:46+00:00

I hope you kept walking out that door OP. Your business sounds sweet. Would be shame to give half of it away.

Entropy-7 · 2017-09-11T09:41:29+00:00

Guess what: you are at your peak she is not. If you have some particular affection for this girl because you have a history, then maybe that is another story. However, as a 32 year old entrepreneur - IF you have not become a fat fuck - then you should be gaming girls 5 or 10 years younger.

bearinfoxhole · 2017-09-11T11:18:35+00:00

be careful for next few weeks. She might claim rape and come after you if she's very desperate.

[deleted] · 2017-09-11T12:45:28+00:00

A cautionary tale for the ages. Well played.

harden26 · 2017-09-11T12:51:34+00:00

She take my money. Well, Im in need. Yea she's a triflin, friend indeed. Oh shes a gold digger. Way over time. That digs on me.

serio1337 · 2017-09-11T16:09:43+00:00

This post is so fitting given that recent vasectomy post. Good on you man for sticking to your guns.

EscortSportage · 2017-09-11T16:18:02+00:00

"oh you have a business?!"

aka come get me preggo, so i dont have to work a day in my life.

Hillarysdilddo_2016 · 2017-09-11T16:47:29+00:00

Her: "Are you afraid of getting me pregnant?"

"Yeah, what are you stupid?" -Me

menial_optimist · 2017-09-11T17:51:21+00:00

Holy fuck dude. Get past your deprivation mentality. You're no longer a loser, yet you're picking women a loser would pick. It's like your walking into the grocery store and picking the most rotten fruit when there's better fruit right beside it! This girl is insane.

Vannerz11 · 2017-09-11T21:55:40+00:00

Shouldn't have driven after those shots

pbgswd · 2017-09-12T03:13:45+00:00

Well done. Adults use condoms. This one was a child.

AllahHatesFags · 2017-09-13T13:32:28+00:00

Stories like this are why we need Vasalgel ASAP!

stephcurrythrowaway · 2017-09-16T17:00:11+00:00

She wants you to get her pregnant so she can stay protected

SKRedPill · 2018-02-08T17:53:48+00:00

Never, ever, even if God said it's safe, fail to use protection yourself. Or else soon you'll have an abortion debate on your hands.

Ninokun · 2017-09-11T11:43:56+00:00

if they know who you are always rubber up, i know sex whitout condom feels good, but do it out of town with a fake name, op is exactly describing what could go wrong. if you want kids i also would suggest doing it in thailand or something if the relationship turns sour u can just fuck off.

theiyerboi · 2017-09-11T15:03:00+00:00

My God man did you drive drunk? Please be responsible

ooChrist · 2017-09-11T07:51:02+00:00

Should of said "OK!" and dumped it in her ass!

unoriginalcat · 2017-09-11T08:27:17+00:00

But I was just on my period

Uhh as far as I know that is when the majority of women are the most fertile. How was that supposed to convince you not to use a condom lol?

[deleted] · 2017-09-11T10:30:03+00:00

And that's why all life should die. And it will.

Samson Looms

Title	Girl I am seeing gets visibly upset when I take out a condom..
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