Young girls and women are encouraged to date around and try out a bunch of different relationships in order to find out about themselves. They are taught to invest very little up front and grow their investment as the relationship matures. Young boys and men are given a narrative that you must do all this hardwork and "save a princess from danger". They are taught to invest very heavily, almost completely in the beginning and honestly the narrative stops there. Even the men that are "successful" in achieving the blue pill dream have no narrative to follow after they "get the girl."

So what you end up getting by the time both sexes are out of College is a very large disparity in social skills and dating skills between men and women. Women adapt easily into the dating scene of the 20's and 30's, while men have a terrible time doing it. Because it requires social skills and the ability to connect quickly on a superficial level. Men never learned these skills as they are focused from a very young age to value and better their provider skills. Women are now actively discouraged from provider skills and are focused on socializing.

After college it is very rare that people are around a huge group of the same people on a consistent basis where slow style tactics will ever work. In college if you see a hot girl on campus and puss out, there is a good chance you can find her again and get another chance. Also your able to effectively "slow play" the initial phases because your forced to be in the same area for a long period of time. Even if she doesn't work out, there is literally THOUSANDS of other women in earshot to chat up. In the real world that is much less likely if they don't work with you or frequent an establishment you frequent. Even then the pool of women drops from thousands to maybe hundreds if your working at a large company in a major city. If you see a woman your attracted to and you do not engage with her in form some sort of connection 99% chance you will never see her again. On top of that, even if you do all that you will have to keep that connection/interest alive somehow without being creepy, needy, boring, or a sap. Fail to do any of that you'll probably never see her again or she will attempt to use you as a free meal ticket.

So both sexes are spit out into the big bad mean real world and have their own host of problems. Most men can't meet people for shit, can't hold anything even remotely close to an interesting conversation, and are still "looking to save the princess". Women have absolutely no direction for a career path, are a slave to their emotions, and believe high social status can solve all their problems. Feminism came in to help women with their problems. TRP does the same thing for men. Where Feminists seek to do this by forcing the government to solve the problems for them, TRP lets men know they are the problem. TRP then gives them a path to fix those problems. All TRP is saying is "There is no princess at the end of the level Mario, you don't need to save her from a thing."

It is creepy to invest so much into one person you just met because she is good with make up and wore something that pushed her tits up and her ass out. It is normal for some dates to last all of 10 minutes before you say "this isn't gonna work out", get up and leave. It's not required to pay for women on a first date, they make money they can spend on going out to meet people just like you can. You don't owe her shit, just like she doesn't owe you shit.

It's totally fine to be dating multiple women at once, being interested in a woman doesn't disqualify you from being interested in another. Spin plates, dating is about finding and developing personal and social boundaries. The various women you meet will definitively help you find and push those boundaries. If you want to optimize this process you need to date many different types of women. If you are sacrificing your dating life for 2 years everytime a pretty girl smiles at you, you'll never get there. This is a bad use of time and resources.

Being shamed for this or anything related to this is a control tactic. Plain and simple, the women who shame you for doing this, are doing/did the exact same things. Don't be shamed into not enjoying a very important part of the human experience.