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Fucking on the first tinder date.

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by isthatsuperman on /r/TheRedPill
06 October 2017 07:09 PM UTC
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Alright boys, it seems the sex gods are bestowing bounty upon my soul as of recently.

TL;DR •match with girl on Monday •plan coffee shop date on Thursday • meet girl at 8 •coffee shop closes and we're back at my place at 9 •9:45 she's riding me like she's in the PBR

So I'll cover a couple different topics in this field report. Everything from:

•Simple tinder opening

•Logistics of planning your date

• Knowing when to shut up

•Reading body language

•Watching her actions, not her words

•Getting past LMR/ASD

I took the liberty to really go into depth on this one for the new guys and Autists. You're welcome.

On Monday I match with this girl. 18, Bleach blonde, tall, and nice ass, studying pre-med, a solid HB7. We're call her "J."

Now I'm a firm believer that on tinder, cheesy pickup lines and name puns are for faggots. Every BPer out there is sending her the same bullshit line she's probably heard 1000 times that week. DON'T DO THIS. YOU WILL GET NOWHERE.

I send every girl I match with the same line. Its nice and simple, conveys sexual interest, and leaves her somewhere to pick the conversation up with. I don't have to make any effort trying to think of some dumb pun in hopes that I impress her with my wit and charm. (I leave that for in person)

So what's this magical line you ask?

"You're cute, I had to say hello."

What? Is this guy fucking serious? That's the dumbest shit Ive ever read.

Maybe. But "its not stupid if it works."

I will 95% of the time get a positive reply back. Why? 1. Its not a shitty pun, or cheesy pickup line. It conveys that I'm serious in getting to know her. 2. Right out of the gate it shows I have sexual interest in her and that I'm not here to just be her "friend." 3. Its a compliment, that they will most likely return back. Example: "thank you! You're pretty cute too, I had to say hi back!" Now you know where you stand in her mind.

This is where you seal the deal. Don't pussy foot around on this. This is tinder, she has Chads coming at her from every inch and corner, just waiting to be next on that carousel.

Don't try to get to know her or ask her questions. You can do this in person. Simply suggest the date and close!

"Let's grab drinks." "Let's grab some coffee." "Let's grab ice cream."

It doesn't matter what you do just get it done.

She agrees to the date. Hopefully, you have common sense, and you didn't ask her "so uhhhh where do you want to go?" You should already know this! Quoting a post on here about first dates "you should have everything planned, all she has to do is show up."

Now, getting into the logistics of the meet up. Make sure it's close to your place or hers. The next venue is always going to be one of those two. In this case I chose a little coffee shop not even a 1/4 mile from my apartment.

Time is important! J's schedule gave me two options around 1 in the afternoon or after 7 that night. If you want to be her new best friend and listen to her problems while you sip on your frozen pussiccino, you'll pick the day time date. If you want to get her back to your place and give her the best dick of her life you'll pick the night time date.

Why the night time? Because women are creatures of the night, this when they let loose, and put their inhibitions to the wind! I actually have no idea, but when the coffee shop closes at 9, it makes for a smooth segue back to your place, and if you played your cards right, a plausible deniability situation for her to work off of.

The date is set on Monday, we're meeting up on Thursday. Three whole days before I meet this girl, what do I do?! Did I text her cute smileys and say good morning and ask her how her day went everyday? FUCK NO. I did nothing. As you should do as well. Think of it like talking to the police without your lawyer present. You have nothing to gain, but everything to lose. DO NOT TALK TO HER. she sent me some snaps of her a couple of times and I ignored them. The only time I texted her was around 4 on Thursday to let her know we still have a date tonight. This will keep you and your personality a mystery only furthering her attraction before you even meet.

I show up fashionably late as with any date I go on, I'm playing the dread game and keeping them on their toes and giving their hamster a little workout before I even meet her. "Did he stand me up?" "Why isn't he here already?" "What an asshole."

Anyways, I meet J, give her a hug and kiss on the cheek. (kino escalating right off the bat) if you're an awkward person, maybe not start off with that, but I was feeling cocky and I figured I didn't have anything to lose. She was definitely surprised, a little rosy tint came across her face and she had already forgot that I was 10 minutes late.

I recently read a first date post that had the great tip of always sitting next to the girl and never across from them. So I took heed with that advice, as J sits down on one of the couches expecting me to sit in the chair across from her, I plop my ass down right next to her with my arm over the top. She didn't object or give me a shit test about it, so go ahead try that one on your next date.

Now, at first this girl was a little tricky. She seemed kinda shy and introverted as we talked about mundane bullshit. There would be a couple of instances of an awkward pause between subjects. If this happens to you, don't fumble about for a new topic or blabber about how awesome you are. Say nothing. Maintain eye contact with a smile. It will be awkward at first, but give it a couple seconds and she'll soon give you something to talk about. We eventually connect on the subject of art. I paint, she sketches. (I now have the ace up my sleeve for later)

At this time the coffee shop is giving us the last call and telling us we gotta leave soon. Now, I was still shaky on this girl. Maybe she's the two or three date type of girl, the innocent type, I might have to call it a night here and go home with my dick in my hand.

I throw a little Hail Mary out to see where her intentions lie, earlier she had told me she had to go home and study for a test the next day so I tell her. "Well, I suppose I'll let you go so you can get to studying for that test." She bounces back with "its only a German vocabulary test." She apparently was pretty fluent with German already so she was giving me the green light.

Remember that ace up my sleeve? That's right, the plausible deniability card. "Well, shit. I live right down the street want to come see my art?" You can use any excuse you want for this to work. "Hey, have you seen x movie/show? You gotta see it! I have it at my place." It's just a nice little work around for her ASD. She'll tell her friends "I went back to his place but only to see his art!" And she won't be seen as slut.

So we get back to my apartment I take her to my studio and I'm showing her my work. She's living out her hot art guy fantasy and is now beginning to size me up. The shy and introverted innocent girl is now giving me the fuck me eyes and getting closer to me. The conversation soon dies out. This is where you make the move, keep the conversation dead. I look her in the eyes for a couple seconds pull her in to kiss her and she practically jumps on me.

I throw her on the couch and we're making out, Shes grinding on me, I'm feeling up her shirt. Its all going smooth. Then that pesky LMR pops up. She stops me and says "let's just keep it light tonight it's only the first date" I give her a little smirk and say "yeah, I agree." And without skipping a beat go right back to where we left off. Don't be a bitch about it. Simply resume where you left off like nothing happened, she will do 1 of 2 things; 1. Tell you flat out no and end it or 2. Keep going along. This is where you need to watch her actions, not her words. Betas will give up after she brings in the LMR they'll white knight and "respect her feelings." She was grinding on me, breathing heavy, and still making out, I wasn't convinced she actually wanted to stop.

Side note: don't waste your time if she brings in the ASD/LMR more than twice. End it and try again next time or it could come off a little Rapey.

5 minutes later she starts blowing me, and god damn is this girl a pro. I haven't seen ball control like that since Ronaldo. Now in my head I figure if she's blowing me she's definitely going to fuck, so I go in for the kill one more time, she puts up a little resistance saying it isn't logical to fuck on the first date (this is simply a false statement women don't use logic they go off emotions.) and now Ive grown impatient. So I say "tell me now you don't want it." She comes back with "I want it." Boom. All systems go, Houston we have lift off!

I met this girl an hour ago off tinder and now she's getting plowed like snow in Chicago.

A lot of the lessons in this FR are basic 101 things Ive simply parroted in this post. I'm not bringing anything new to the table, but with my experience, it should give you good breakdown and lay out on how to combine multiple theories and have them play off each other to ultimately get you the lay.

My only advice is to simply go out and use the RP. Every time an excuse pops in your head, just say fuck it, and see where the RP will take you. Or, continue to make excuses like a BP beta. Your choice.



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296 upvotesRuhkov2 years ago

Makes me reconsider dating apps. Well done during the date. Good post, OP.

152 upvotes1v1crown2 years ago

If you aren't using dating apps in 2017 you are playing at a disadvantage. It's essentially take-out delivery for dates. At the very least it opens doors... hundreds and hundreds of doors.

33 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

We're all tired of "guys, guys, I made a fake profile with a hot girl, and wow the swipes!!!!" and a typical response is "try making a profile with a fugly girl....wow, the swipes"

Now try making a profile as a mid 40's dude.....

Wow, the cat ladies!

7 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I'd suggest clover for the older crowd.

70 upvotesdo_you_even_liftbro2 years ago

Doors to bots? How am i at a disadvantage if i can pull numbers with ease in person, but can't even get a match on Tinder?

25 upvotes1v1crown2 years ago

Well I guess that's a personal problem...

40 upvotesdo_you_even_liftbro2 years ago

Okay..? But again how am I at a disadvantage here?

10 upvotesmetalhead42 years ago

Because tinder is so easy and if you're not doing it then that means whatever girl you see will be using tinder to keep her options open. I think everyone uses it now.

3 upvotesi_forget_my_userids2 years ago

It's a supplement. If you're doing both, it's better than doing just one.

2 upvotesEntropy-72 years ago

Your game is your game and if you can pull in-person, well then just fuck it and don't bother with online game. I am terrible with approaches IRL so I have gravitated to online game and I do OK.

15 upvotes4skinlicker2 years ago

And 75% of those doors are men

5 upvotesdickinlipss2 years ago

Talking to a girl in the real world is like matching a girl

3 upvotesEntropy-72 years ago

LOL. Pretty much true. Few people have an interesting enough career to meet girls day-to-day and cold apprach or the bar scene is so 20th century.

I've been using online dating apps since 1999.

If you want to talk really retro, I did telephone dating in 1993. My buddies wrote me off as a desperate loser until I dropped the 8-by-10 head shot of the fashion model I fucked the night before.

2 upvoteszboo1h2 years ago

It's pussy delivery. I'm a terrible tipper, I'm always stiffin em.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

what about if you are a sub 6 male and only match with landwhales or girls that ghost you, leading to lowered self esteem?

1 upvotes1v1crown2 years ago

Work out and get plastic surgery.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Work out im fine with and do everyday and sometimes a rest day. I don't lift to get buff though, i just want to be lean.

Plastic surgery is a nono. I'm not some gayass bitch who needs approval from people i don't know.

If need be i'll just use a prosti. All the women only want my money anyway

2 upvotes1v1crown2 years ago

Then you're fine. You do you I suppose is always the moral of the story.

33 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Makes me reconsider dating apps.

Makes me reconsider time machines.

Again, put me on Tinder and block everyone's age, I'd do just fine.

Edit: Yes, I am annoyed that online dating for me is nothing but Post WallSPLAT Cat Colonists.

22 upvotestrpingthroughtime2 years ago

Tinder Gold lets you hide your age.

30 upvotesSativa_Dreams2 years ago

Paying to meet 90% shitty, crazy, single mothers is not my idea of a good time, but to each his own.

11 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

That's different from everyone's age being blocked. Women look for reasons to disqualify you, and hiding your age is one of them.

I'm built, and if everyone's age was blocked, I could compete. I'm guessing I'd have to be ripped to get away with hiding my age. Starting 5X5's tomorrow, from an athletic, not skinny fat base.

I'm happy to hear I'm wrong, if other mid 40's dudes have had any luck hiding their ages. I'd love to be wrong, in fact.

10 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Seriously, where's the SOP for mid-forties dudes?

15 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

This dude wrote it, I'm sure you're familiar with him: /u/VasiliyZaitzev

I think it's threading the needle, and I'll use him for an example. His physical description is as a large hairy man made of spare dinosaur parts, but he's in good shape and has level 99 IDGAF. He fronts his own band, and plays volleyball. Two excellent vectors for new women.

It's about being around hot young women but not acting like a child. If you are going after younger women....that's where I still am, mostly due to life circumstance....my last gf was a smokeshow 20 years younger than I am. I'm good looking and charismatic enough to continue to compete for the most desirable women.

A brief review of my posting history, though, shows you a man scared to death of women his age. I don't have the right mindset yet. I could get past the saggy tits....hell, even my unicorns tits were sagging some at 23, after weight loss. I can't get past the "why not" and the emotional manipulation. Better to hold out for the smokeshows totally beyond my grade. Game Theory 101, they won't lock me down, and rarely will even admit they are seeing me.

If that's not you......if you can hold your emotions in check more effectively than I can....I think there are many decent women worth having fun with in their 30's and even early 40's. As I've already said today, though, you have to keep your shit tight. My father's seduction technique was domestic incompetence. Don't be him, unless you want a wife. Because a domestic woman can improve your life so much your Frame will be shattered. If you have a solid frame, hell, do what you want.

edit: wait, that was a rhetorical question, wasn't it?

11 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev2 years ago

Everything you need to know is here: Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work

-For Older Men who prefer Younger Women, and vice versa.

You're welcome.

2 upvotesin_monk_mode2 years ago

Hiding your age just makes it creepy

1 upvotes1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v2 years ago

Its not creepy, it helps some people get over their preconceived notions of what they think they want... vs. what they will really accept.

In person, I routinely meet people who think I am 10 years younger than I am... Why shouldn't I have that same success if I was to use an online app?

Many people, admittedly, get to hung up on age... Eliminate the age discussion (or never have it) and you'll see how far things can really go sometimes between two people who are compatible...

Plus, this self imposed age bias, changes over time, until you get old enough, that it doesn't really matter anymore... for both men and women.

3 upvotessatanicpriest132 years ago

Or just use a fake fb. Do you really want to bang some hit lunatic and have her get access to your real profile? I'm off social media completely. I just made an account under a fake name for tinder. Makes it easier to cut contact with one night stands.

3 upvotesRed_Faust2 years ago

This.

Sometimes some guys get swamped in logistics in a way that I can't really comprehend.

  • I am shorter --> look stronger + high heel boots + shoe lifts
  • I am older --> lose weight & lift as to look way younger than your counterparts, then make a fake FB profile

That's it. I think these are pretty straightforward. It's not rocket science.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I posted on asktrp but there was no traffic. Logistics on the fake account? Pics probably shouldn't be shared. Tinder uses the attractiveness of your Facebook friends to calibrate, from what I remember. I'm sure it's straightforward, but I think Facebook has talented engineers looking out for this sort of thing.

4 upvotesRuhkov2 years ago

Dude seriously just lie about your age. Say you're 35. We talked about meatspace, def stay there since you're comfortable, but now that I think of it if age is your limiting factor just lie about it.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Shit, it's hardly lying. 45 in this shape is 35. Not just lifting, cardio, lifestyle, but facial moisturizer, under eye cream......shit, I don't even care about being caught, once they're in front of me.

Shit man, my unicorn, she's lamenting that every dude she dates falls hard for her, she wants to keep things casual.

I know there's a market out there.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

tinder in 2012 was chill. by 2016 the 100's of matches made even 2's think they deserve 10's. just kind of over putting in more effort just to get less

1 upvotesCross_De_Lena2 years ago

I use it even though I'm in relationship. When shit hits the fan, I'll have some pussy lined up.

58 upvotesWheysteve2 years ago

"Haven't seen ball control like that since Ronaldo" Golden

10 upvotesserious_bs2 years ago

"now she's getting plowed like snow in Chicago" as well haha

59 upvotesFulp_Piction2 years ago

"Tell me you don't want it" never fails. Great line.

7 upvotesdr_warlock2 years ago

I learned that line from Charlie Harper.

49 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I feel it lol im just being a prick. I tried tinder never got results. Constant swiping bleh

38 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Its really just a numbers game man. I might get 10 matches in a week. 2 of those turn into dates. 1 will eventually flake. So I just try to hit those numbers. Of course I'm going out on the weekends and doing IRL pulls. But tinder is like free slots, sometimes you hit the jackpot, sometimes you don't win shit. Lol.

58 upvotesTrainmasta2 years ago

https://imgur.com/gallery/qEf86

43 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

No, its a matter of how attractive you are. You're probably semi-attractive even if not chad. Some guys get Aero. Zilch. Cero. matches.

11 upvotesGreek-God-Brody2 years ago

Get some decent semi-professional photos with a camera or a good phone. Have a friend do them, or look for an aspiring photographer and pay him a few bucks. Have photos in interesting locations, make sure the lighting is good, and your face looks at its best. Convey different emotions in your photos. Be in the center of the photo always. No selfies and sunglasses. Wear clothes that fit you. Have a sense of style.

If you're still not getting any after doing this, then complain.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I'll get plastic surgery first.

-9 upvotesmetalhead42 years ago

I'm average and currently have 225 matches.

30 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You probably underrate yourself then and/or are tall.

1 upvotesi_forget_my_userids2 years ago

Those numbers are cake in NYC.

7 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

Over how much time? You're probably above average.

1 upvotesmetalhead42 years ago

A year in a city of 380,000. And most are probably 5-8s I have had a few 9 matches and managed to fuck the one at least. Most of the girls I want to match with I never match with though.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

But at the least you wasted like. 10 minutes a day swiping? I don't get the hate.

4 upvotes1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v2 years ago

The hate comes from the fact that they are not being honest with themselves, that they are not doing the things they need to be doing in their life to make themselves more attractive or interesting, that they are not willing (or able) to approach and communicate with girls, and they are not willing (or able) to learn the techniques.

For some guys, its just easier to hate (to bitch and moan) then to change \learn \grow \adapt.

As the saying goes "haters gonna hate"

0 upvotesNostyx2 years ago

Try the paid version you suddenly get a lot more

70 upvotesoldslut2 years ago

i thought getting laid on the first date was the whole point of tinder. good break down of your method even though i'm tinder averse. actually never even tried it--IRL or nothing for me

66 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

You would think. But some put up the "no hookups" or "looking for friends" wall. Which really means I'm waiting for the right chad to come along or free meal ticket.

38 upvotesaskmrcia2 years ago

"looking for friends" wall

Yea you're on a dating site swiping guys who you find attractive to be your friend. LOL They kill me with that shit.

21 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

No. The "looking for friends" line either a shit test, like the other guy pointed out, or an alibi in case someone they know catches them on the app. I mean seriously who the fuck would want or have to use Tinder to find friends?!?

38 upvotesPhoenixtorment2 years ago

But some put up the "no hookups" or "looking for friends" wall.

This is just a shit test. Ignore what she says.

8 upvotesRuhkov2 years ago

Can confirm. I used OKCupid for a day. I got 7 matches and 1 girl I talked to who was like a 7 and had the no hookups and looking for friends thing. I literally opened with "blah blah...let's be friends i'm not looking for creepy datey or sexy stuff" and she comes back with "i'm looking for the creepy datey or sexy stuff". No, thank you.

11 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Why did you open up with that?

1 upvotesRuhkov2 years ago

We matched and I didn't want to fuck/date her. My female friends help me get laid and tons of shit bro. So do my gay friends. They're just women with dicks and testosterone. Others here say they can't be friends but that just tells me they don't know how have a network. I don't want to get into an argument on the semantics of the word "friend".

14 upvotesred_matrix2 years ago

This x 100: "looking for friends" == waiting for Chad

This is why girls go on Tinder. Also, so they can fuck guys without their friends slut shaming them (or go behind their boyfriend's back).

It's a Brave New World boys - adapt or die.

1 upvotesDangerousBearCat2 years ago

So do you seriously go straight from “You’re cute, I had to say hello.” to “Let’s grab drinks,” with nothing in between besides her response?

Seems a little fast to me, but if it works it works. I’ve used that first line on 5 girls today and have gotten positive responses from them all. The response is usually “aw thank you, you’re a cutie too.”

1 upvotescauseandcorrelation2 years ago

It is. Just not for the bottom 80%

64 upvotesaskmrcia2 years ago

First off I want to say some guys write field reports on here can come across as a cocky douchebags.

Yours may come across that way to some guys here, but I personally loved the post because it made it a much more fun read. Plus it was funny.

Everything you said is right and your advice is sound.

I've had as I'm sure other guys have had similar experiences.

I'll add my two cents. A lot of guys will see some of these girls on tinder act innocent. You know they say they don't party, they don't smoke or anything. They say they are nerdy, don't have a lot friends, don't go out and are shy. Guys if they are on tinder they are there for sex or there for attention because they are bored. Its one of two things.

I remember two years ago I met this Asian (Filipino) chick on tinder. Played the innocent game, in med school blah blah blah. Never forget she gave me a blow job in a school parking lot (it was at night guys) on the first date. Honestly I was shocked myself when it happened and yea I did lose respect for her (the little I had), but hey I enjoyed it while it lasted.

That's all you need to know about these women on dating sites.

14 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I never said it was an accomplishment. It was just laid out field report from A-Z on a basic interaction that a lot of men seem to struggle with in this sub.

14 upvotesex_addict_bro2 years ago

Lifting stats are missing from your post.

20 upvotesyessum4472 years ago

Tinder is great when you're first learning game because it can give you a high volume of dates to get some experience, after that it's borderline useless. It's time consuming, it doesn't really refine your game at all, and there aren't many if any legitimately high quality girls that are actively seeking to meetup with guys from tinder.

It takes so much time to go from every girl available to swipe, to just the girls who are down to meet up with me. Sifting through that pool is a HUGE pain in the ass. Something like 1% of the girls you swipe right on are actually down to meetup, and a solid portions of your dates will be garbage as well.

You can't refine your game because you're talking to girls that already like you quite a lot, they picked you over the other 100 dudes messaging them. All you really have to do is go through the motions and things will go well. She's already decided that you're a winner.

Last point ties back to the first one, but the app(especially in the 18-22 range) has basically become 60% hot or not simulator and 40% dating app. Most girls on the app never even intend on meeting up with any guy, they're just soaking up the validation. High quality men can't exist on tinder without sacrificing some of their standards.

1 upvotesLord_Yupa2 years ago

I disagree completely. Tinder is a useful tool. That's it. It allows you to access a broader pool of broads. It is useful for travel and moving to new cities. And it gives you plenty of opportunities to fine tune game. It's a good thing to have on the utility belt. I've pulled about half of the women I've hooked up with on 2016-2017 from Tinder.

1 upvotesyessum4472 years ago

I never said it wouldn't get you laid. I said it wastes a ton of time and doesn't actually help your game.

9 upvotesHunterRave2 years ago

What does your profile say?

8 upvotesFemtoG2 years ago

just wanted to say good job on your opener. that's a good balanced line.

people trying to be unique or funny are just stupid

I just start with "hey" and know that if they think im cute, they will respond.

8 upvoteswanker71712 years ago

something that WILL occur on your first tinder date is moments where the girl will refuse your suggestion/advance. I've had it happen to me multiple times and blew my chances on reacting badly (I have my examples if anyone cares). This is a great guide to understanding how you should react

4 upvoteskaane2 years ago

Usually i dont take so called pua community serious, but this article was spot on. I really liked how thr author sees the challenges as an opportunity.

Please go ahead and share your experiences. I am interested to hear them out

6 upvoteswanker71712 years ago

Definitely, the author wrote this article with a great deal of passion behind it and it speaks to you through his own perception of the topic.

As for my experiences, one happened not too long ago when I was grabbing some food from Moe's. I'd stop by every other week and I'd usually see this cute girl make my food. One day when I was in after playing tennis all day I invited her to join me sometime. She playfully responded with "I mean maybe I would but I've never played" I jumped at the opportunity to say "Well give me your number and I'll hit you up the next time I go." She gave it to me and in my head I'm thinking I'm golden but when I did hit her up later she said she didn't really like exercise. She then ignored my texts insisting she'd be fine. She wanted to do something else with me but I misunderstood it as her blowing me off (refusing me).

Another occurred when I was just starting out in college, I picked up a job at Pizza Hut as a delivery driver. One of my coworkers was a smoking hot discount Megan Fox. Anyway one day I notice this thing sticking out of the back of her jean back pocket. At first I thought it was netting of some sort but then realized her pocket was just inside-out. I told her it was inside-out and she looks at me over her shoulder and asks in a pretty seductive tone "Are you looking at my butt?" which caught me so off-guard that I stammered and said "N-no.. It's just white soo it stuck out." and walked off. She was rejecting me looking at her butt and I acted like a scared kid. She did not "test" me again after that

3 upvoteskaane2 years ago

These are good experiences to take lessons from.

The first one is pretty straight forward. The time she gave you her number she felt excited but you will never know what she will think of even after a few minutes. In sales we use this term ABC : always be closing. Phone number is not a sure sign no more. This doesnt happen to me a lot but sometimes they give phobe numbers just to get rid of the guy.

Second case looks like a lost opportunity. She put her femininity on the table, full on. She wanted to see if you can handle it. And at the same time she probably knew beforehand that you would not meet her steaks. She became that girl who is so hot even men can't handle.

Keep on experimenting.

1 upvotesHillarysdilddo_20162 years ago

This is actually a really good article.

6 upvotesmarlan_2 years ago

I feel like I read a story someone else wrote for me of what I did on my last date.

So, yea, he's right, it works.

And don't get me wrong, I was nervous at times, but every time I got nervous I just think "what's the worst that can happen" and say fuck-it and go for it.

5 upvotesVIVIDVAG692 years ago

I know you fucked a girl and all but you seem like fag. "Wanna come see my art" fucking gay. Wow

6 upvotesdr_warlock2 years ago

Why is it so hard to make field reports like this? This is the standard. A walk through of each step in the process and an explanation (using Terp theory) lf why you did what you did.

14 upvotesstrikethrough1232 years ago

My Tinder profile is specifically set to only get me matches with bitches that are DTF, my opening response is usually something like "Blow me", or "Let's fuck".

17 upvotesDmva1002 years ago

I indicate on mine that I'm Into BDSM and have been a Dom for 2 years and I get opened all the time. Pulled a girl in for a 3some with one of my LTRs.

Screening is important.

3 upvotesbeta_no_mo2 years ago

Interesting. What kind of pics are you using?

2 upvotesDmva1002 years ago

Nothing special. No selfies. Pic of me on a balcony, beach, party w friends, and a sports one

1 upvotesbeta_no_mo2 years ago

A couple more questions:

  1. Did you do a "normal" bio on Tinder before the current version?
  2. Were you into D/s at the time?
  3. If so, would you say you have more success getting what you want now or before?
7 upvotesmetalhead42 years ago

How does that work? I know a lot of girls and they say anytime they get a message like that they ignore or delete.

9 upvotesstrikethrough1232 years ago

Here's a couple of examples.

https://imgur.com/a/l9FEe

14 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Im guessing he is very attractive

3 upvotesHillarysdilddo_20162 years ago

I have to say... This is the height of efficiency.

8 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

LMMFAO . Good job my nigga . Ball control since Ronaldo ... Plow like snow in Chicago .

7 upvotestherhymerr2 years ago

stupid question. do you pay for her coffee? do you drive or does she follow you in her car? all logistics that can effect.

15 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I paid for mine and she paid for hers. I don't buy things for women. I walked to the coffee shop and rode back in her car. Even if you drove you could just say you ubered and get her to drive you back. Whatever is easier.

9 upvotestherhymerr2 years ago

lol somebody downvoted you instantly, i like the insight. im the type to overthink things like, what if sweat too much during walking before I get to the shop lmao

7 upvotescashmoney_x2 years ago

"Alright boys, it seems the sex gods are bestowing bounty upon my soul as of recently."

Right, should have just stopped there b/c that's all this post is about.

Maybe get a diary.

28 upvotesReinhardVonLoengram2 years ago

But are you attractive. As we know, any line or "strategy" works when you're attractive.

10 upvotesJDeegs2 years ago

This whole strat starts with a tinder match. So you've already been proven attractive enough for a right swipe. If she doesn't respond to the opener or isn't willing to meet up anytime soon, then you know you aren't attractive enough to her and you move on. Even if your success rate on the opener is, say, 15% of your matches rather than OP's 95%, you've wasted a total time of maybe 1 minute viewing her profile, swiping, and parroting the same opener you always use. Online dating is a numbers game, just throw enough out there and something will stick. If you think your ROI isn't enough to make it worth it then no sweat, stick to opening irl

33 upvotesMetalgear2222 years ago

Annnd here we go again..

It's easy to try n minimize the success of OP to being attractive because you personally don't have the same results, but we both know that your lack of success is from neglect of something that you CAN control/change rather than something you cannot.

It's just tough for your ego to accept that it's YOU that is causing your failures directly rather than a genetic deficiency.

There is always work to be done when raising SMV. "Attractive" to girls is just another way to say "being higher SMV than them".

Focus on the things you can change, never the things you cannot. That's for the weak and has no place in TRP.

Max your lifting. Max your style/dress. Max your social circle. Max your confidence. Get pictures that depict these and use them on your profile and you'll pull more than just an artsy HB7.5 blonde

No more excuses. Get to work.

14 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I agree. Ive seen some troll faced dudes pull model bitches leaving me to think what the fuck? But it came down to their mindset at the end of the day.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Source? I call it a crock of shit. Most of us don't get any action.

Looks are personality.

10 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Go watch rsdtyler. Dude looks like rickety cricket. Ginger and balding. Still pulls women like crazy.

15 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

A lot of those PUAs are fucking fake.

12 upvotesSativa_Dreams2 years ago

Let me just say that I completely agree with you, and not the other guy... it's about game and confidence, and I can say this from personal experience (I'm a 5 out of 10 at best that was 6'2 with 140lbs now 1 year later 160lbs) so it works... but that being said, I do think RSDtyler is fake as fuck. As well as 90% of other known PUAs/program/lecture/training bullshit.

I had a personal friend who took his classes and he is actually fairly attractive not as fit as me but fit nonetheless, but he was raised by a single mother so his ego and confidence are like broken glass.

Anyway he said it's basically all fake. They don't pickup like that, girls reject him tons, he never took them out on weekends, they never picked up any girls, didn't learn shit, didn't get laid, all they got was awkward glances and responses for hours until it was back to the hotel.

Anyway my point is that experience can teach you all those things for free and anyone saying you can't pick up ladies hasn't even tried enough. If you try 1000 ladies one is bound to say yes. If not your standards are too high for your ugly ass, lower them and do round 2. You will get laid I promise.

Don't waste your money on PUAs and don't believe it. Remember they are a business they want money and that is about it so they'll do anything to market their product, those PUA videos are a huge advertisement, real or not.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

its because they were paying for the girls stuff

-3 upvotesReinhardVonLoengram2 years ago

Bruh. You're blowing this out of proportion . I'm saying this precisely because i myself am a chad , and literally anything i do or say results in easy lays. Fucking it up when you're a chad is really really hard to do.

3 upvotesHunterRave2 years ago

Dude. You're suggesting that his success is due to his looks, instead of the valid strategies he employs.

Stop saying you're not attractive. Don't be a bitch. Go to the gym, read a book.

Take notes on how other people get laid, and then go get laid.

3 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

You try to lay it out for them, and they still find an excuse...

1 upvotesnemt2 years ago

reading a book or going to the gym will change your face?

1 upvotesHunterRave2 years ago

Your face has almost nothing to do with it. You have no idea how attractive the dude that posted this FR is. What you know is that he got a tinder fuck in textbook fashion. Study up

1 upvotesReinhardVonLoengram2 years ago

I never did lol. Im a solid 9 thundercockJamal .Looks matter. Do you really think it matters what strategy you employ if the girl has already logically said she would fuck you? That's literally what tinder is. They don't even look at the bio until afterwards. It's pure physicality. As long as you don't fuck it up, you're golden(which he seems to implicitly state in his op).

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

guarantee he wouldn't have been successful if he was shorter than 6ft and non white despite all his other qualities being the same. if you think i'm wrong you are delusional.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

so many, and I mean SO many, girls only look at personality, they don't even really consider actual looks (unless you're a fat slob who smells)

1 upvotesanonswede2 years ago

So up your attractiveness by testing, something like photofeeler is good - or female friends

I took two pictures within a week in the same place/lighting, only difference is I wore a nice shirt in one vs t-shirt and smiled more.

Result

I'm sure I can up it even more with some social proof (pictures with other girls, at an event or doing sports).

0 upvotesReinhardVonLoengram2 years ago

I don't say it because im unattractive. Actually, im like a solid 9 .

3 upvotesKirbyKobe2 years ago

Very funny post, great lessons as well. Keep doing what you're doing

3 upvoteswillowhawk2 years ago

If you sent your opener and quickly set a date how did you end up with her snapchat? Seems kinda redundant or did you get it while fleshing out the date plan

3 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

She asked me for it after we set the date up.

3 upvotesLandoChronus2 years ago

A few questions.

If you didn't talk to her for 3 days, and all you did was make contact and set the date, how'd she snap you ? Was this in your profile ? Details are important.

I always see "pick a location close to your place or hers." How does one determine what's close to her, if you've never talked to her ? Tinder doesn't give location info that specific, so unless the girl's profile says "In the North End of X City" how do you know where her place is ?

4 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I set my radius to within a mile. So she lived in my area.

3 upvotesangry_baboon2 years ago

Do you even enjoy your life if instead of being spontaneous and doing what feels right and natural, you have to follow some silly rules to just get laid on the first tinder date? You are probably very proud of yourself and think you got laid cause you followed your rules while in fact maybe it would be the same situation in the end of the date even if you didn't follow rules like "don't talk to her before the date", "be late and make her wait for you" and this sort of bullshit. It's just as dumb as the rules that some girls follow "don't text him first", "don't sleep with him until the third date" and so on.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

i agree, i think the girl just liked his looks and moreso he didn't do anything to fuck it up. good for him getting laid tho when most of us can't even get a girl to look at us.

1 upvotesGay4Pancakes2 years ago

Cool blog post about how you had sex with a girl. You're a pioneer who will inspire thousands for years to come.

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Twoxchromosomes is that way. --->

1 upvotesmarla_do2 years ago

you found a whore that wanted some dick and she picked you

nothing was red pill about this. you sound like a faggot in love already

23 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Let me tell ya man, I can feel the oneitus already taking over. Foh.

2 upvotesMrAnderzon2 years ago

Nice format for your field report. Everyone learns differently. I'm sure I'm not the only one already waiting for Fr's like this.

2 upvotestakeitchillish2 years ago

I think it is very common to fuck on the first tinder date. From all my dates from dating apps, we have always fucked on the first date. Usually, I go to the girl's home or the girl comes to my home

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

That was a good read. Thanks for the share man!

2 upvotesQuestionnaire72 years ago

Ive read a field report strikingly similar to this in the past.

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

AWALT. It doesn't matter if I fucked a whore or a nun. There's no unicorns out there with glade fresh pussies that haven't had so much as a finger in them.

I utilized the RP theories and they worked. Why wouldn't they aspire to doing just that? It seems lack of results has left you with some spite.

2 upvotestuyguy2 years ago

Addenda: you have to be good looking for this to work

2 upvotesEuphoricentia2 years ago

reps for goat ronaldo mention

2 upvotesshinmagisin2 years ago

...what if you have no experiences in kissing yet?

2 upvotesMapispema-ta2 years ago

Sounds like a whole lot of work to do just to hit a wet hole.

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Its happened to me before. Hot girl matches send her a message, she sends me one back but when I open it she's deleted. I think tinder deletes them do to scripts that are written. But if it's not working for you, I'd suggest revamping your profile. If they are real, they're not seeing anything they like.

6 upvotesEnigma2212 years ago

Blows you off and put your cock in her mouth

No sex on the first night though it's too early

Sluts. All of them. They can't even reason why a blowjob is more nastier or sluttier than sex. I don't even care anymore. Just comes to shows you women can't control their nature.

3 upvotestwy34402 years ago

We didn't really get that much snow last winter in Chicago.

4 upvotesjameygates2 years ago

Hahah ooooo you got laid on the first date using Tinder. That's the entire point of Tinder, am I missing something or how is this an accomplishment at all?

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

"Actor and artist. 6'0. I like to have fun, but who doesn't?"

2 upvotesanrii1882 years ago

WTF the story you're telling is about PUA not Red Pill. There is nothing to be proud of for fucking a naive young 18 years old girl who is using Tinder (which is as known a plateform for the bitch attitude).

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You all think to much into this shit. It's a just bitch. Lol buying dinner and shit lol

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Lmao. I can guarantee most HBs have a tinder. Whether it be for validation or the casual fuck.

I still game IRL but tinder is just there to supplement on the side. Its easy and works, why wouldn't I use it?

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Most here seem to be dying.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Fucking skills. Bro. Skills. Thanks for sharing.

1 upvotesshinmagisin2 years ago

...what if you have no experiences in kissing yet?

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Don't get caught up with things like that. Kissing isn't hard even if you've never done it. Develop your game and then start kissing more girls.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Its more of a study than a how to guide but it does shed light on some things that make them easier to grasp and implement.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Because you sound like a whiny bitch. I never stated it was an accomplishment. Its simply a field report that covers the basics which a lot of new guys have hard times with. With almost 500 upvotes I'm sure they thought it was useful.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I've gotten more response when my profile was blank than almost anything. It's safe. makes you look too cool for that shit, and mysterious.

1 upvoteswhoizufam2 years ago

If you are actually not LARPing "TRP", Tinder is basically a free escort service for you. I don't know why it gets hated on, I know for a fact that 25% of your matches are down for the first date hook up.

1 upvotesvictor_knight2 years ago

You use a dating app? I just wait for them to approach me at clubs.

1 upvotesTheDevilsAdvokaat2 years ago

Seems like some good info here. Thanks.

1 upvotesyuyevin2 years ago

What do you put in your bio?

1 upvotesbonerpotpie2 years ago

This makes me sad that this stuff isn't common sense.

1 upvotesGrimsterrOP2 years ago

Hahaha why you compare her to Ronaldo man

1 upvoteslorchard2 years ago

What's your tinder profile say? Anything?

1 upvotesJayby182 years ago

All systems go, Houston we have lift off!

Haha, nice jokes in this Field Report

1 upvotesDrinkMyPenis2 years ago

Tinder is foul and degenerate, and has contributed to the spike in STDs recently.

1 upvotesAdamAlake2 years ago

Nice, concise, informative. Good stuff.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Damn, logistics out the ass. Good job, bro.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

My only question is , why do people use tinder for sex and attention when they can just go out to a bar or social gathering and get it right there and done by approaching ? Do these “ attractive people “ really have low self esteem to use Tinder like that ?

1 upvotessmartengineer932 years ago

Mine: "Sit on my face and grind until your juices run down my cheek."

1 upvotesmrcooliest2 years ago

Any short guys with success on tinder? By short I mean 5 7 and under.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

nope, unless you are rich, which then you are really attracting the wrong type of girl.

1 upvotesmrcooliest2 years ago

Are you short and unsuccessful? Speaking from experience?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

5'9 and the company i started is failing right now. i got laid off tinder pretty good in 2012 when it first came out and it was just one big orgy, but then as the years went by girls started realizing they can get better than me on there.

1 upvotesmrcooliest2 years ago

Hard to compete when 6' chad is but a swipe away.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

yea, plus i'm in Hollywood so its like 6' Thor Chads

1 upvotesXemption2 years ago

Solid analysis, writing and advice. Good job OP

1 upvotesDerpishGambino2 years ago

"You're cute, I had to say hello."

Been using for the last few days, works well.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Glad to hear your getting results.

1 upvotesMcVaghunter2 years ago

"its only a German vocabulary test."

Dick is like "FUCK YES!"

I say "tell me now you don't want it." She comes back with "I want it."

GODDAMMN!!!

1 upvotessoycentripetal2 years ago

in recent news, rape reports have gone up 10%.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Lmao. I need some clarification on where the part that says "rape her" is?

1 upvotessoycentripetal2 years ago

no where but sometimes betas go a little too far with the advice given.

1 upvotesRylanBlackwood2 years ago

To get girls back to my place I always say something on the lines of "You can't stay long though because I have to get up early tomorrow" Or "I have a friend coming round soon" It makes them feel a little less anxious because they think they they're going to come round and leave pretty quickly. Little do they know that you're completely lying hehe.

1 upvotestryinreddit2 years ago

Enjoy the herpes.

I kid, I kid. Well done.

1 upvotesDJ_Nade2 years ago

Amazing post. I implement most of this but there is a ton in here I can use to my advantage.

Tricky part for me - I'm on a college campus where everyone lives downtown. That's where I go for my dates. However, I live a few miles away and I take the bus- so logistics make it a bit hard to get her to my place. Much harder to get to hers. Any tips?

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Make it the easiest option. Just tell her your place is like 15-20 minutes and hers is closer.

1 upvotesNonameboy012 years ago

Well I mass used your opener and got 95% deleted and 5% no answer. Might be different cultures? Those were very hot girls 8/9/10 so they might need some more?! What u think?

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

If they matched with you and never responded to your message they're probably 1. bots (or) 2. they no longer use it.

1 upvoteswolwo22 years ago

@isthatsuperman So after you get response after the magical line. Is there anything you say in between or you just straight up ask say to her "let's grab a drinks"?

2 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Straight to the point my man. Here are some examples.

http://imgur.com/gOw7evm http://imgur.com/XuoluJG http://imgur.com/8Sasw9w

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Its called the KISS factor (keep it short and simple) less is more. I'm glad you're seeing results.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

let me guess, you are over 6ft tall and white.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Its tinder, you're already matched with them, so they obviously think you're attractive, there's no need for a lot of back and forth. The quicker the better.

1 upvotesMAGAorGTFO2 years ago

Absolute gold mine of a pickup line. I've used it on 10 matches today, it's working alarmingly well.

1 upvotesMAGAorGTFO2 years ago

Does this work in person as well?

1 upvotesrRenn2 years ago

Great post! I recognize a lot of these techniques, I've been studying but never implemented it yet because I feel beta as hell due to lack of experience.

What do you do with your profile? What do you want to convey?

I'm really bothered with mainstream stuff and the excessive social media vanity in general which there seems to be a lot of on tinder. Also a lot of feminists, do I skip em or adapt or?

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

You need to take it upon yourself to actually implement what you learn, or you're doing it for nothing and wasting your time. I don't have social media besides a Snapchat that I barely use. There's lots of information out there to make your profile stand out. Ultimately, you want convey you're an attractive and interesting person and not a loser.

As for the feminists, if they have weird ass hair colors like green or purple that's an automatic no. They usually have some type of mental disorder that they self diagnosed and I have no time for that. I usually skip them all to just make my life easier.

1 upvotesfhstuba1 year ago

I just want to say that I have a completely neutral opinion on the contents of this sub, but holy shit that opener works. I started using it on my last 5 matches and got messages back on 4 of them. Thank you so much!

-6 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Dude what the fuck lol. Good for you but man.. its just sex lmao. Shut the fuck up about it and onto the next. I feel like veins are popping out of your forehead as you were typing this, jesus.

21 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

Just adding a little flavor to the writing.

2 upvotesMichMets622 years ago

Good ball movement by Ronaldo. But Pulisic just had a sick goal and assist so I'll go with his tekkers right now. Great story btw!

1 upvotesWhatisthisbug33332 years ago

Why try to shame someone for trying to tell an entertaining story? Not sure what you gain by trying to put him down, if nothing, why comment?

Btw, enjoyed the write up. Keep em coming.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

"ball control like Ronaldo" "Houston we have lift off" "snow in Chicago"

Damn I think you got laid because of the puns. lmao.

1 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

I'm a natural with it. But I'll suggest the book elements of wit by Benjamin Erret. It'll take your game to a new level.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I looked at a few reviews of it on Goodreads, it doesnt seem very good. How would you describe it?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Lol I've gotten 50 girls from Tinder alone to come straight to my house and fuck me. Skip the first date. You don't need it.

-1 upvotesdickbuttspleasure2 years ago

We flip flop and serve these hoes like flap jacks

Your girl was trickin while you was grinding

Bitches ant shit but hoes and tricks

-8 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Bwahaha, this sub is hilarious.

If you are getting Tinder dates, you don't need Red Pill. Nor Blue Pill. Nor any pill. You're attractive enough where Tinder will "just work."

20 upvotesisthatsuperman [OP]2 years ago

The RP does not care if you're attractive or not. Its for anyone. You can be attractive and not pull women because you're a beta or your value is low. Its more than just looks.

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Those guys who are attractive and don't pull are ones who literally sit at home. I guarantee you that almost none of them will even need RP. They could go out one night and bring a girl home.

1 upvotesttkkk2 years ago

Looks are important, game is important, get over it. They coexist.

0 upvotesp0gop0pe2 years ago

But let's be real for a second why does a stunning blonde 18 year old need Tinder?

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Why DOESN'T she?

Its basically easy for her to get onto it and get chad to do anything for her.

-2 upvotesJonlife2 years ago

Someone please explain to me, what the difference between red pill and pua is again? They both appear to be the same thing from this post

2 upvotesRuhkov2 years ago

Pua is sleazily lying and tricking girls into thinking you're what the rp says you should be in order to be attractive to and successful with sexing women

1 upvotesJonlife2 years ago

Yes, but PUA's also do everything that OP just mentioned in his field report. Push/Pull, giving her her reasons that she won't feel like a slut ("we're only going to look at his art, that's what I'll tell my friends so I don't look like a slut). PUA's know that women looove sex and simply need an excuse to have as much of it as possible without anyone else finding out.

OP isolated her from the start. Had she brought a friend (which means he simply hadnt established enough comfort with her prior) he would have certainly been doing a day 2 with her.

My point is, he did nothing differently compared to what I did everyday as a pua, lol. Having self confidence which helps with frame doesn't make you better than a PUA. The entire point of being a pua is getting inside that pussy as quickly as possible, just as OP describes in his post (we used to post countless stories kkje this when I was active in the pua community... This is vanilla sarging at its finest).

People in this sub keep trying to act like pua material and red pill aren't the same. Shocker: men are using all the same material and trying to repackage it to their own terminology.... Never fails.

OP seems to be afraid of the word pua. It's all the same shit. You can decide in your own head whether or not what you're doing is manipulating women. Give zero fucks either way, because that's what holding the frame has always been about.

Now just prey she doesn't wake up one day and decide that you raped her and then she's calling the police on you. This is one factor PUAs never had to deal with until recently.

-1 upvotesbelispeakz2 years ago

It goes Monday, took her for a drink on Tuesday, we were making love by Wednesday.

-3 upvotesballsy12 years ago

why would u wanna do that? lol they're dirty bitches





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