I just wanted to post a quick rant/observation I have been making regarding my own body image and how often devastating remarks are attempted at me as an improving beta male. My personal progress and gains, have left them confused, upset and somewhat hostile.
My first example was about 2 years ago, was able to hook up with a blue eyed, big breasted Barbie of a women and the common theme would be literally be strangers walking up to me and asking what’s going on? Not in a “good job buddy” kind of way, but more of a disturbed, why is she with you. It went as far as females bluntly stating she is way too hot for you period. I would grit my teeth, smile, joke etc but fuck it was a big blow even with the hot ass I was getting, as even her social validation was not even enough to stop the bullshit comments.
The second part comes from my time in the gym, which has been daily for about 6 months. I am 5’9 and about 150, skinny as fuck, but also getting cut and able to lift reasonably more than bulkier dudes in my (graduate program), being a school gym we all pass each other and a common theme is “omg, how you can even lift that much” Its not a complement on what I lift, rather more of a theme of how this skinny, sub-man can lift as much as the cut alphas. My chest gains have improved, and its actually some weird point of focus of theirs that my chest is getting to big and does not look good as they try to poke fun, their is no complement on the gains as they are turning it all to ridicule.
The third examples is simply questions I get regarding why females associate with me (Oh X and X are your friends, they are some of the prettiest girls in the class) why would they even talk to you? Again, same bull shit, different day. I have a fucking bite mark on my chest, and they are very inquisitive, not in a hungry or jealous kind of way, but more of an enigma of how a female would find any desire to do this and again they are vocal, pull me aside to talk about this.
I know us beta dudes, have a long way to go, but fuck these comments from bitches like this really mess with your head, more reason to keep frame, fucking hit the gym and focus on you. I am just glad I have enough secrecy in my life to keep these fucking in a constant state of guessing and trying to destruct my personal life.
TLDR: Women have no problem tearing down a dude who is oddly improving on levels that they are not comfortable with.
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