This is for you guys with severe oneitis. The ones who have it so bad the obsession of your snowflake has you lost in a chemical shower of dopamine and oxytocin that it doesn’t even allow you to take the common advice given here. You won’t even listen to because it takes a little effort (lift, fuck other girls). most of you guys first need a thinking change to get over this.
Now the proper way to get over it is to fill your time improving and bettering yourself but most of you guys who have severe oneitis have your head so far up her ass that you don’t take that advice. So then we tell you to lift/fuck other women. But yet again your heads so far up her ass you can’t even see other women or have the skills to get other ones at this point. You obsess over your special snowflake and you’re like a hungry, begging dog, staring at her while She eats her steak just hoping She drops a piece so you can have a bite.
I get it I’ve been there. You’re so in love. Your brain chemicals are so fucked up you can’t see or think of anything else but her. We tell you to lift and in between sets you’re stalking her Instagram. We tell you to better yourself and you’re not doing it for you. You’re doing it because you think it’s what will win her over. You’re given legit advice but until you catch her fucking chad before your eyes you won’t take it. You know oneitis is bad, you don’t like how it makes you feel. But you’re too caught up in her to see clearly. It’s like a heroin addict who knows it’s destroying his life, but he wants that bag and will do anything to get it no matter what anyone tells him.
So here’s a different approach.
You need to change your thinking (take almost no effort for the lazy). You know oneitis is wrong so let’s try something else.
You need to get sick of her.
How do you do that? You need to take all the reasons you don’t like her, either things she does, reasons why she isn’t giving you what you need, etc. and you need to focus on them. You need to find any way possible to get sick of this chick. Fucking make shit up if you have to, Before it kills you or takes up anymore of your precious time.
There’s a reason you guys are in the ask sub asking how to get over it. Clearly because you’re not happy and it’s bother you. Figure out what it is and focus hard as fuck on it.
Does she dress provocative? Does she crave attention? Is she naggy? Does she not fuck you? Whatever the case these are all awful things to deal with. So ask yourself why the fuck are you dealing with them or attracted to her? If that mediocre plate you’ve been banging was doing this type of behavior would you put up with it?
Fuck no. So don’t put up with it with her. No woman is perfect and even your “oh so special” oneitis has issues. You need to focus on these until they make you a little sick. Once this happens. It should open your eyes a little bit. You will slowly start to back off of her. Slowly pulling your head out of her ass until finally you are awoke by the snap of her asshole as it closes shut. as you emerge completely from the depths of her asshole.
you will open your eyes, the bright lights will be hard to adjust to, almost too much to bare. You will rationalize. “Maybe I can change her. Maybe she’s not really that type of girl. Maybe she’s not AWALT, but she is different”
Stay strong my friend and listen to your brothers here. This is important. Just because you’re used to the stench of her shit because you’ve been up her ass the whole time. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t stink. It’s still shit.
And all that shit that made you emerge from her asshole is the same shit that will amplify if you were to ever have your chance with her.
You need to get sick of her before she gets sick of you.
Hopefully by this time you will realize this chick isn’t all your Disney mind made her out to be.
This is when you need to start really hitting the weights and Reading. And doing everything else that is suggested here. Turn on some music in the gym don’t fucking go on social media in between sets. And get a good focused workout in. When you’re done you’ll notice you didn’t think about Cinderella one time. Cool ain’t it?
This method has always worked for me. I’ve been with a lot of women and every once in a while I’d get a form of oneitis with a girl. My defense was always to find ways to get sick of the girl before she got sick of me. Maybe this will work for some of you too, before you are completely engulf by her sphincter.
Stop focusing on all the good stuff about her. Focus on the bad. Because if there’s bad and she’s not even dating you or you’re just starting to date it will only get worst over time.
TL;DR
Get sick of her before she gets sick of you.
Lift.
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