DL back with another post.
Hair
Hair, in my opinion, makes or breaks you. For men, with hair you have 2 options. Short hair, or long hair(well you can do medium hair, but it's meh imo)
Short Hair: With short hair, either opt for classy and stylish.(Donald Draper great example) Or you can go for sexy messy hair which you tend to see a lot in movies.
For long hair, honestly, just grow it out. It's hard to go wrong with it. If you have a diamond shaped face you're perfect for long hair.
Another aspect on whether you want to go for short, or long hair is how you want to be viewed as.
Short hair is very masculine. If you've got a good vibe, short hair will make you look like more of a leader, more dominant.
Long hair is very sexual. If you've got a good vibe, long hair will make you appear rebellious and like a very sexual man.
This is why you see leaders and people in the workforce usually have short hair. Long hair signals rebelliousness so not so good for being a leader or following the rules your boss set out for you.
Why don't I like medium hair? Imo, medium length hair is too... safe. You don't get the added masculinty from short hair and you don't get the added sexuality from long hair. If you're still not sure what to do with your hair. Go to a stylish salon, and tell the stylist to make you look cool and sexy. Then you can just copy that haircut if you like it. Moving on.
Facial Hair
Facial hair is interesting in the sense that depending on your race and where you live(and the women you go for) you might need more or less.
If you're white or asian: Opt for mor facial hair. If you're black: opt for minimal facial hair If you're latin: Go in between. See what works best for you
These are just generalizations. But, black guys are seen as the most dominant race where as white guys are seen as less dominant. So whites can get away with more facial hair whereas a black guy with too much facial hair looks scary and too masculine. Take a look at yourself and how masculine is your vibe and decide.
Light stubble: In a study done, men with light facial hair where deemed most attractive by women.
Medium stubble: In the same study, they found women rated men with good amount of stubble as the most dominant.
Beards: They also found that men with beards were seen as the most masculine. So what's the most important? I'd say stick with either the light or medium stubble. I rock light facial hair cus I have a very pretty face, so it's better for me if I don't hide it under too muc hair.
As for styles: You can go for the full stubble, with a shaved neck. You can get a chinstrap soulpatch for the douche factor lol. Or you can get a moustache and goatee. These are all great. Ever notice black guys look great with a light moustache and goatee? Cus it's not too much.
Why don't I like no facial hair? Same reason I don't like medium length hair. It's too safe. Men with no facial hair look "nice" and lose that degree of edge facial hair provides.
Fashion
Not going to go too much into this. Wear clothing that fits you properly. Your clothes should feel snug against your body. Stop dressing like a damn hoodlum or thug.
Fashion will make or break you. It's really damn important. Start wearing button down shirts. In general, if you skin is lighter use darker colors and vice versa. Get yourself some designer jeans that look great. You only need 1.
Shoes. Get yourself some damn good shoes. Stop wearing fucking sneakers! Anything classy and formal is fine. I like to wear double monks and chelseas.
Accesories are important too. I recommend either 1 or 2 at most. Get yourself a cool necklace or a cool bracelet or ring or watch. Don't overdo it.
Blazers. Wearing suits will make you look more stylish and put together than simply wearing button downs, but it depends on were you live. If you live somewhere were people already dress nicely, then yeah, opt for it. If people were you live dress like shit then button downs are enough.
You should be aiming to look better than everyone else by a bit, but not too much that you stick out like a sore thumb.
One thing. They did a study that found that the color RED makes you more attractive to women(and men if you're a woman). So get something red.
Walk
Your walk can be very powerful. How should you walk? The best example I've seen told is, you either want to walk like a male model on the catwalk, or like a cowboy gun slinger from the old west.
Both powerful, but different. The general cues are: Shoulder swagger back and forth. Thighs spaced far apart. No hip swaying. Make sure you keep your chin parrallel to the ground and your eyes forward or above the crowd.
This guy's a great example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY
Last thing. Don't move out of the way for anybody unless they're disabled. Once you start walking like this,99% of both men and women will move out of the way for you.
At the most, take a half step to the side if anyone's trying to challenge you or you're going to crash into someone if you don't move.
Voice:
Voice is another make or break kind of fundamental. A sexy man's voice is powerful and resonant, with slight purring.
Best example? Listen to George Clooney speaking and you'll be golden.
Non-Verbals
Posture: Chest out, shoulders back, chin parralel to the ground(generally).
Eye contact: When sexy men look at people in the eyes, there is no degree of shyness. They know they are looking at you and you know it too.
Opt for looking at the bridge between both eyes rather than one eye or the other. This makes your eye contact appear more focused and genuine. When breaking eye contact, always do it to the side, never break eye contact down(this signals submission).
Don't shift around looking from one eye to the other, Im sure you've seen people do this, and it signals that you're seeking a reaction.
Lastly, generally, if the other person is talking, you want to be looking at them more than they're looking at you but not enough that they are uncomfortable or you're creepily staring. If you're taking, break eye contact more often, and make sure to look away when you say a joke or somethign that could make it look like you're seeking a reaction.
Touch: Sexy men touch women(and men their friends with). Whether you touch her "incidently" as in letting your leg rest against hers, or on purpose like touching her arm or elbow when she says something funny. Or more aggressive touch like caressing her face, ass, or pussy. etc.
Touch is really important. It builds comfort and a connection. People who really like each other are always touching each other. Pay attention to it next time.
Physical Proximity: Sexy men get close to the women they're courting. Getting physically close as you're talking to women helps create a deeper connection with her and makes her like you more.
Ever spoken to someone who was far away from you? After a few minutes I bet things started getting awkward and you didnt really "feel" connected to them? It also signals that you're not a guarded, reserved person. It's refreshing for women to have a man be unapologetically sexual and vulnerable.
Quick note. Getting close to women can backfire on you. But it will only backfire on the women who don't like you. They'll think you're a bit creepy. But the women that do like you will absolutely love it.
Stillness and Low Effort: Sexy, powerful men move slow. Look at someone you thought was powerful and notice their movement. It's always slow and controlled, almost as if they're doing it on purpose. This one is really fucking important.
Start slowing down your movements. Everything from your walk, to your eye contant, to your sentences. Powerful men do things slowly, steady, and unhurried. They take their time and make people wait. They put in the least amount of effort to get maximum results. Did you catch that? Powerful men get results while appearing effortless. Abide by this rule.
Smile: Oh the smile... so beautiful ;). A study was conducted that found that women rate men who smile as unattractive compared to men with serious faces on. But this doesn't men you shouldn't smile at all. It depends on how you smile.
How do friendly men smile? Big and wide smile with a lot of teeth showing. But how do sexy men smile? With their mouths closed. Sexy men will smile using half-smiles, smirks, and smiles were you're smiling from one side more than the other. The difference is the friendly smile shows happniess, which is unnactrative in men.
As for the sexy smile shows you know something the other person doesn't, or that you don't buy what they're selling. It's playful, knowing, and mischievous. That's the big difference.
Example of Ian smiling sexily here: https://www.google.com/search?q=ian+somerhalder+smiling&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjR2J-D64rXAhXHYyYKHZslAPEQ_AUICigB&biw=1360&bih=662#imgrc=Yf5D25oc8w5KNM:
If you're going to laugh, do it like this: https://www.google.com/search?biw=1360&bih=662&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=sean+connery+laughing&oq=sean+connery+laug&gs_l=psy-ab.3.0.0l2.66539.67225.0.69476.5.5.0.0.0.0.110.369.4j1.5.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.5.368...0i67k1j0i24k1.0.IzgGULd7AAw#imgrc=laaIjQ16-r7r7M:
Notice the slant I spoke about. Very sexy. And yes, I know it's a meme... Best example I could find. One last thing. When you smile, do it slowly. This shows that it's genuine and not simply a polite, akward smile.
Facial Expressions: How do sexy men look at women? Like this: https://www.google.com/search?biw=1360&bih=662&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=ian+somerhalder+&oq=ian+somerhalder+&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0i67k1j0l2j0i67k1j0l3j0i67k1j0l2.161958.161958.0.162158.1.1.0.0.0.0.79.79.1.1.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.1.78....0.VBZ8r0A9yLQ#imgrc=lqOUAxot6I3xAM:
Again, Ian Somerhalder another great example.
What you'll notice: chin tucked, eyes peaking up/to the side. Lips slightly pursed, and a small, almost indistinguishable smirk.
Just take a look at any James Bond and you'll notice this: https://www.google.com/search?q=daniel+craig+bond&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj9k6Xj54rXAhVGeSYKHVCYAqUQ_AUICygC&biw=1360&bih=662#imgrc=xhjh-UWoM_ZQvM:
Hope you guys enjoy, DL
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