1. How to ask for a date.

You don't ask. You command. You command sarcastically. Be a bit cheeky. Example:
"So we're going for cocktails this week aren't we?"
She will normally follow up with reciprocated sarcasm and cheekiness. This is a good sign.
Then you need to find out which evenings she's available. Yes evenings. More on this later.
Best way to do it is to just ask. Example:
"So which evenings are you free this week?"
She might give you a straight answer. Which will save time for you. If she shows resistance then you have to take a step forward, but also a step back. (We'll be talking more on this pull and push technique later.)
Example: "[Insert her name here] I don't want a texting buddy. You seem like an interesting person I'd like to get to you know a little better"
If she's still shows resistance after this, it's fine, it's fairly normal. It's just shit testing. Be persistent and don't back down. Pass the shit tests. Example:
"I'm sure you can spare a couple of hours for me this week [Insert name here]"
Try to use her name now and again. It's more intimate and draws attention. People just love reading/listening to their name.
If she's taking the piss then just next.

From here you might want to be cheeky and begin to tease where you're going to take her. Always leave it a surprise.
Then just be straight and ask for her schedule.
Then you make a real command. Example:
"7o'clock we're going for cocktails. Meet me outside the museum" (Or some other major landmark in your city, keep it public.)


2. Plan your Venues.

Yes plural. You should be taking her to two venues. Don't just stay in the same place all night. Lead her to a second venue. It's fucking attractive. You'll look like a man. A leader. A man who has a plan and knows exactly what he's doing. It's almost like a psychological trick, because she'll begin to think you're already a couple.

First Venue
This should be face to face because we need to be making good eye contact. I'd always recommend going for cocktails rather than a coffee. Everyone goes for fucking coffee. It's boring. Women fucking love cocktails. It's more exciting. It will make you stand out. Go somewhere casual and a bit wacky. For instance I always take girls to a caribbean cocktail bar. It's also just a few metres away from the major landmark of the city, which is where I meet them, which means less awkward talking and walking.

Second Venue
This place should be a bit smarter. Bit more professional. It should have jazz music. Jazz gets pussy wet. It's science. But most importantly it needs comfy sofas. Do what I do and scout around with friends for venues before you go dating. You need to be side to side. In this venue you need to get closer. Putting your arm round her. Holding hands. Maybe even some cheeky kissing.


3. The Meeting

It's very simple. Cheekily smile when you first see her. Retain good eye contact. When you're close enough immediately shake her hand. If you started talking online introduce yourself properly.
Now some girls find this hand shaking to be uncomfortable. Ignore them because discomfort is good. Plus you're touching early in the interaction and you need to be touching. Because kino.


4. Pull and Push / "On" and "Off"

Do this step throughout both venues. The concept of on and off is very simple. Don't be full on flirting 24/7 throughout the interaction. Don't be a horny teenager. And obviously without flirting, without sexual tension, you're a gay best friend.

"Off"

You'll have to open with small talk it's impossible not to you. But at least make it lead to something interesting. Ask her about her career, her dreams and ambitions. Talk about family. Bring in your funny stories when you can. Be a good story teller. Talk about weird shit, talk about shocking shit. Avoid anything too heavy or political. Flirting is meant to be fun. For example I normally tell women about the time I cycled 500 miles across europe on a tandem bicycle with a blind man. That's crazy, it's weird and somehow it's actually true. It's a fairly long story which is interesting to listen to. Full of drama and comedy.

"On"

This is the real flirting. This is when you're cheeky. Teaseful. Playful. Moderately insultive.
A principle I use is cheekily suggesting that a woman is naughty. She may talk about a story where she got into trouble at school or when she was drunk. In fact you should be asking her these questions, because these are fun questions.
"What's the worst trouble you've been in at school?"
"What's the most embarrassing thing you've done on a night out?"
Then sarcastically say something on the lines of:
"I always knew you were trouble, I bet you secretly have devil horns growing out of your head" then lightly touch her hair.
Disagree even when you agree with her. Just for fun.
Intentionally make silence. Look chilled. Not awkward. Just smile.
Do pull and push compliments. Make a more specifically physical compliment. Compliment her hair colour or her cloths. Make a joke about how you got warm under the collar when you first saw her. Make sure it's obvious you're just being fun. Never be too serious about making a compliment or less it's a compliment on her career.
Then soften the blow of the compliment by following up with something funny. (Watch Charisma on Command's video on Russel Brand.)


5. Venue 1

Touching
You need to be touching. In venue 1 the touching should be brief and a bit of fun. I always challenge a woman to an arm wrestle. I make sure we're touching for a decent amount of time before I win. Compare hand sizes and take the piss out of her for having small hands.


6. Venue 2

Touching
On the sofa put your arm round her, but only actually be touching the sofa. Get your bodies close while you talk. Casually play with her hands to test out how comfortable she is with touching you. Then just start to hold them. Get your a head a little closer gradually throughout the conversation. Test if she begins moving towards you. Try a fly by kiss. Face so close your nose will nearly be touching her face. See if she turns her head. Then just kiss.
Don't worry if she's not so keen on kissing at the moment. It will probably just be down to nerves. All women have different levels of confidence with this kind of thing. You'll have opportunities later.


7. Get Her Home

The Cool Thing & The Safety Net

Throughout the night you should have acquired a decent amount of information about her interests. We're going to use this for a hook to get her home. Best way to explain this is with a number of examples.
"I can't believe you haven't seen a single episode of Family guy, we should go to mine to quickly watch an episode"
"You know how you said you like mint flavoured baileys? I actually have a bottle in the fridge, I reckon we should go and get a night cap"
"You know if you like the jazz here, I've got some much better jazz at home."
This step really is just a justifiable conversation starter. It's the safety net which really does the magic. You just have to give her the comfort that she can leave. Example:
"You can only stay for about half an hour though, I've got a friend coming round soon."
"You can't stay for long I have to get up early."
It doesn't matter if this is a lie. She'll forget. Only be a little bit persistent here. Don't keep pushing it again and again. Cool off for a bit. Make "Off" conversation. Then try again later.
Then order the taxi. Better to do it silently on your phone through some app or something.


8. When You're Home.

Don't jump straight into the bedroom. Don't be a hornry teenager. Chill in the kitchen for a bit and have a drink. Immediately put some jazz on to make her comfortable. Jazz makes pussy wet. It's science. I've literally had women tell me to put some music on because it's a bit awkward.
At this stage I like to do dares and make bargains. For instance I never tell a woman my age until later on in the date. They're always dying to know. Use a similar question. Then say:
"I'll tell you how old I am if you kiss me on the cheek."
Little dares like this to make things fun. Dare her to put her legs on you. Normally I just do this myself if I'm feeling confident.


9. The Bedroom

Cheekily say:
"We can't make too much noise in here, we'll have to go to the bedroom."
Have the "cool thing" or "the hook" in the bedroom.
When you're in there immediately put jazz music on. Jazz makes pussy wet. It's science.
At this point lads it's a 90% chance you're going to fuck and it would be pretty hard to fuck it up from here.
I normally lie on the bed and she'll sit on the end of the bed. Just keep talking. Pull and push on and off. Eventually she'll want to relax. Her back will literally be hurting from sitting up for so long. She'll lie down. Then lie closer to her. Make an excuse that you like to see her face when you talk. Do a bit of pillow talk. Get your arm round her. Get your bodies closer. Get your head closer and the kissing should naturally happen.
And the rest is a guide for another day.

10. Bonus section in case anyone wants to throw something else in. Or if I've forgotten something.