These events unfolded 2.5 years ago now, although it seems like yesterday.
So I needed someone to fill the spare room in my apartment as I was paying crazy rent money for a 2 bedroom in Sydney city.
I meet this girl on Tinder, she's 22, from Germany staying in a hostel, great tits and body, fairly nice face. The night we meet, our friends with benefits relationship begins, I tell her I'm not looking for a girlfriend and I have 2-3 other women in my life that I bring around on a regular basis.
Anyway I get desperate to find a good housemate over the current weeks, so I let her take the room for short term (3 months). Which results in a weird situation where we're both seeing other people, but sharing a bed and fucking every now and then on the weekdays when we're both busy with work... as well as including her in FFM threesomes. At the time, a TRP advocate, follower and reader... I felt like my life was pretty much perfect.
Anyway she announces one day that she's read about a website for matching chicks with rich dudes... and she was poor, not enough hours working at a bar in the city, on basically minimum wage, she was stressed, so she starts thinking about signing up.
I said it's pretty gross, but do what you have to do to pay the rent.
Anyway, a few weeks go by, and she eventually does it for a whole weekend, earns $3000 cash. And has the next few Friday nights booked out with a guy in the rich eastern suburbs, who was semi retired early with a family, but the family is usually away.
She confides in me about the family photos on his walls, and how he explains that he loves his wife, but she fulfills his needs etc.
Now, the moment I see she's now a hooker, while amused at her mental gymnastics to tell herself otherwise...I tell her no more sex.
And she's somewhat offended by this, our relationship is slightly altered... but we remain friends and she continues to feel she can speak frankly with me... She also happened to be an excellent wing women when we'd catch up from time to time after work.
Then comes, we'll call him Bevan .
Bevan comes from California, Bevan is 34 years old, greying hair, but a youthful personality... he had been travelling with her before Sydney unbeknownst to me, and he had flown to see her, I had no idea about him til he arrived, but the guy it turns out was in love with her. She liked him, but found him too clingy, but strung him along for his trip to see her before flying back to california.
She stressed that he must never know about the sugar daddies.
She continues to run her new venture into tax free prostitution... which I was barely keeping up to date with as I was busy with work and staying at a Syrian/british girls house I'd met on Tinder most of the week...
Anyway Bevan flies back home, only to tell housemate that he'd like to pay for her flight to california to stay with him for 2 weeks and be his date for his family members wedding in Tahoe.
She accepts, free flights to the USA! But here's where it gets amusing, she's now on a bunch of sugar daddy websites, and lines up 2 guys in Vegas, and a trip on a luxury Yacht, where she has to fuck a bunch of old rich guys over the course of a week somewhere off the coast of California Presumably... which paid $15000.00
Anyway, she'd moved out of my apartment at this stage, but was still telling me in her german accent 'how crazaaaay the money is, and how fun it is'.
I test her on multiple occasions throughout this, "What would Bevan say, if he knew.".
She says "Don't be a fucking asshole, I'm telling you this in, how do you say... confidence?" in her strong german accent.
She gets on her flight.
And I get on Facebook.
I was new to TRP at the time, and still processing how good life can be when you just follow your balls and instinct regardless of the rules society expects of you...
I message the guy, and I tell him that it took me a long time, to decide whether I should tell him, as I was reading a lot of comments on line suggesting that I should stay out of it... but I couldn't in good conscience keep it from him a day longer, so I tell him about what she's been doing...
I tell him about her other plans, and why she was extending her trip to 'travel by herself around the USA' after seeing him.
The message was sent, and I go to bed as it was late and I had work the next day... knowing that while I slept she was on her flight to cali-forn-I-A expecting to be picked up by Friendzoned Bevan.
I check my messages in the morning, not sure how he would take it.
Sure enough, he writes:
"THANK YOU! THANK YOU THANK YOU!
Dude! Thanks for the heads up, yea I already suspected something strange was up and this confirms it. It's worse than I thought...
She and I need to talk.
I'm relieved he took it that way, as I was afraid he was going to redirect his anger at me somehow...
Anyway 2 things happened, she never spoke to me again. Fair enough! And Bevan never went to pick her up at the airport.
I felt a little bad that Karma got her for deceiving Bevan as it was true that I appreciated her honest chat, but I had simply asked myself... would I want to know if my women of interest was secretly a whore? Yes I would.
Karma in my opinion.
Bros before hoes.
I also learnt that I'd never have a female housemate like that again. And I suspect she learnt that she shouldn't have told me her plans.