I feel like I've made an important realization as to one of the core principles of feminists and blue pillers. It may sound obvious, but I've never really seen it pointed out, at least not in these terms.

Background: Been working on the Red Pill the last 5 months, and have made some improvements, but still a virgin. I've made a tremendous difference in my physique, through working out every night, and my sexual strategy has evolved more in these past months than they did in the 3 years from the time I first asked a girl out.

This past weekend, I went to a Theater convention with my troupe, down in Texas. Great fun, lotta workshops, met friends with common interests, had a great time, and got a hotel room to myself. Now, at this convention there were a bunch of people giving out free hugs, which was pretty nice. On the last day of the convention, one of my friends told me she had seen a kid walking around with a "free kiss" sign. I was bemused, and wondered if it would be possible for me to do the same thing. So, I stopped on the indoor bridge that led from the hotel to the convention center, where there was a line of free hugs people giving hugs to passers by. One of them gave me a piece of paper that I wrote "free kiss" on. Not very Red Pill, I know, but I did it for the hell of it, and it actually worked. I kissed at least 6 different girls, and plenty of others (and a few guys, I'm bisexual) got a peck on the cheek.

The free hug people were pretty impressed too. People smiled at my sign, saying things like "sly!" After a while, our director came up to me, and told me that I wasn't representing our school in a positive light. I did as he asked, and crumpled up my sign. I was pretty bummed out, and I thought to myself, "he wouldn't have said that if I wasn't a girl."

That's when I made the realization. I am certain that no one would've had a problem if I were female, because sex and romance are always favors bestowed on men by women. You see a girl giving out free kisses? Wow, that's nice of her, and really cute! You see a young guy doing the same thing? Ugh, he's just trying to get some, and win big. I bet the difference would be even bigger if the two hypothetical "kiss givers" were ugly. An ugly girl? Aw, she's looking for someone to accept her for who she is! An ugly guy? Ugh, an incel getting desperate.

This mentality that men are takers and women givers is what drives feminism and Blue Pill society. That's why chicks demand shit from you, and why an abundance mentality is so important. Now, I firmly believe that men should be providers, and respect a woman's choice about her body. Call me a traditionalist. But never feed that "men are takers" mentality. Act like you're doing a favor to her, and she'll be a thousand times more attracted. Human beings aren't innately generous. We like receiving more than giving. The main reason we give is to enjoy the reaction of the beloved receiver. And women raised on a "men are takers" mentality will be all the more impressed when they get some, instead of give some.