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[FR] Female coworkers around the water cooler

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So I'm at work shooting the shit with a few female coworkers. They know I'm single so one of them suggests that I need to get on Tinder, "I met my husband on Tinder!" The conversation moves to online dating now.

One of them starts to regale us with a story of her male friend who matched with a woman on Tinder and they set up a first date. On the way to the date, the woman texts the guy and says something to the effect of.. "I lied about my pictures/identity, they're older photos and I've gained some weight or I used someone else's photos, if you don't want to meet me now I understand." (I can't recall the exact scenario but you get the drift.)

The guy is already at the bar and I guess he says to her OK and decides to meet with the woman anyway . When she shows up, she actually is the attractive woman in the Tinder profile and was shit testing him for his reaction.

My female coworkers start awww'ing that Prince Charming was still willing to meet up with her and passed the test with flying colors in shades of blue.

They then turn to me and ask, OP what would YOU have done??? I tell them I'd wait to see what walked through the door just out of morbid curiosity and immediately reject them no matter who it was, and especially if it was the attractive woman in the Tinder photos. Why would any self respecting man want to start dating a woman under such deceptive conditions before even physically meeting? I stop myself there as I know I'm about to go full red pill.

They just look at me dumbfounded as if I had a dick growing out of my forehead.

Bbb..but OP, you passed the test! You've proven yourself worthy and now you get the opportunity to court this wonderfully beautiful woman!!

Fucking AWALT man.



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Title [FR] Female coworkers around the water cooler
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Date 23 November 2017 02:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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914 upvotesHumanSockPuppet2 years ago

"I may have passed your test, but you failed mine."

94 upvotesExtremely_Photogenic2 years ago

"You're right. You looked better on tinder"

That would destroy her since the whole premise of her test was that she is actually some majestic beauty but wants to know that you're kind or whatever. So she has this vision "I'm going to surprise him with how hot I actually am!".

97 upvotesHumanSockPuppet2 years ago

Trying to hurt her feelings is a form of validation-seeking behaviour. You are allowing your emotional state to be dependent upon hers. Best not to develop a habit of thinking of petty comebacks.

It's better to develop standards which can be confidently and consistently expressed.

Believe me, your nonchalant rejection will hurt her more than enough, and you won't look like a tool doing it.

19 upvotesLongElm2 years ago

This is important. I screwed my mental not acknowledging I do this unconsciously.

Live righteously - be good, like Patice O'Neal preaches: "Be the truth, you can't fuck with the truth."

8 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Nonchalant Rejection is a fab title for an essay...

2 upvotesD4rkr4in2 years ago

that, and they're coworkers, so there would be some bad blood for as long as you work there

571 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

I tell them I'd wait to see what walked through the door just out of morbid curiosity and immediately reject them no matter who it was, and especially if it was the attractive woman in the Tinder photos.

Fucking perfect. That text from the woman just reeks of "retarded shit test" to begin with. Actual fat women who use older photos from their skinny days don't tell you in advance of meeting you that they're actually fat. The point is to corner you into going on a date with them because you don't find out they were lying about their appearance until you meet in person. And at that point it's not considered socially acceptable to just say "Oh shit, you're fat. Let's not do this. Bye!"

284 upvotesBobLordOfTheCows2 years ago

I just say "If you're lying to me already, how am I supposed to be with you?". Shuts them down and they can't play the "asshole" card against you.

110 upvotes_the_shape_2 years ago

"If you're lying to me already, how am I supposed to be with you?". Shuts them down and they can't play the "asshole" card against you.

I can hear it already:

"OMG! 'Lying' and 'testing' are like two toOooOtally different things! Ugh!!!"

31 upvotesRhynocobear2 years ago

Called my current dating partner out on this, can confirm.

7 upvotesyomo862 years ago

Just hide your looks-only triggered dick in plain PC sight. How can we build a foundation of trust together of you start off on a note of not trusting me in the first place?

14 upvotesdumnem2 years ago

"OMG! 'Lying' and 'testing' are like two toOooOtally different things! Ugh!!!"

There's only two things that could possibly 'trigger' me into going some kind of blind red-hot rage. One has to with League, the other is catfishing bitches.

Before I cut my mother off entirely for nearly five years (no contact, ignored / sent back every letter) I found out that she had created a kind of character online to ensnare my father. Now, she was already with my father. She knew everything about him. They didn't have a good relationship but they stuck together for the sake of the kids. That being, he made money and she took care of the kids. He is a gentle soul and really blue pilled but an excellent father and a good person, and I love him to death.

She used her intimate knowledge of his hopes and dreams of an ideal woman and relationship to catfish him. She created/stole photos of women she knew he would be attracted to and started applauding him with attention and promises - not all sexual in nature, but mostly to be good to his kids and to be good to him - everything he has ever wanted in a woman.

And it was all a lie. She created a persona and made him fall in love with her just to break it off with a sneer and announce that it was really his wife he was considering leaving for another woman. She considered those to be 'tests' - what they really were were fucking cruel bullshit done on someone who was trapped in a horrible relationship just so that he could see his kids.

He ended up divorcing her, and thinking back on it this was probably one of the bigger reasons why. She of course had to find someone to provide for her so she found a doctor who was a convicted pedophile (he dated his previous 15 yr old step-daughter) who was practicing medicine. Long story.

Since then she has changed as a person and as had her new husband and my father found someone new to be trapped to. Poor guy still doesn't understand why he's still not really happy, only barely content. I've tried red pilling him but he's resistant to it and wants to be left in wonderland.

I've since reconnected to my mother but it still makes me infuriated when I think about what happened. I'm sure everyone else has forgotten and more or less got over it.

I never will.

4 upvoteshecubus4522 years ago

Wow, this is /raisedbynarcissists level fucked up

edit: Automod can go fuck itself

2 upvotesmoreidea2652 years ago

Sorry your mom uses manipulation to deal with HER anxiety. Sounds like your dad is using passivity to “get along” but lacks happiness also. Please dont live YOUR life angry at women. Find a woman who is working on herself and knows that happiness is a process we ALL need to work at to grow into....especially if we couldnt get good mirroring from our parents. I hope you find your happines, but anger will repel good people so you might want to work on yours a little.

4 upvotesDubiousPanther2 years ago

By calling their test 'being dishonest', you can flip their shit test against them.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You say “can’t play the asshole card on you” as if it’s to some detriment if some game-playing bitch thinks poorly of you

114 upvotesaskmrcia2 years ago

Yup this happened on more occasions then I want to admit. A few times I didn't want to be rude so I continued the date.

Ironically though they were always and I mean always rude as hell with me. Expected me to pay for their drinks or food or flat out challenge me on something that I like. I'm not joking every time I got catfish the women were no doubt rude as hell.

Now the last time it happened, I saw her introduced myself and told her I was leaving. No longer do I put up with that.

59 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

They already told you their disposition before you met. This is hardly a surprise.

8 upvoteshawkeaglejesus2 years ago

Ironically though they were always and I mean always rude as hell with me.

I replied in a different thread regarding this. Lower SMV girls tend to have better personalities, but you don't want to go too low.

7 really is the sweet spot for probability of good non-sexual characteristics. It's possible with 8s and 9s, but is far too rare to be reliable.

What I've found to be true in most cases is, 7/8/9s have been treated well their entire lives so they're usually positive lovely girls.

But if you dip below that, even if they've improved their SMV, the shit they went through growing up causes those girls to have a lot of internalized insecurities which causes them to lash out and sabotage what otherwise could've been a normal interaction/relationship.

1 upvotesAlexinfinite012 years ago

This is some interesting observations. I wonder if it's regional because I have noticed a slight difference in the area I'm in. The ones with a lower SMV tend to be desperate and self pitying to the point of being repellent rather than lashing out. It's interesting to note the bullshit they have to deal with has different negative effects on them.

48 upvotesRedPilledGodEmperor2 years ago

This is 100% true and has happened to me. Women uses deceptive photos where the angle makes her look fine. Meet her in person and she's really fat. They know that you most likely won't back out on the date right away, because you took the time to get ready and get to the venue.

80 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

Yep. I know the exact photo angles too. Either really close up on the face from the front with a coy smile or from an above angle so that she's looking up. The "looking up" angle makes it look like (1) she has a nice rack and (2) she doesn't have double-chins because stretching her neck that way hides them.

61 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

That’s the myspace pose. Old as the internet. There’s no full body shot for a reason.

Look around the shoulders and upper arms. You can tell.

73 upvotesPaulAJK2 years ago

It's all about visible collar bones. No collar bones=fatty.

57 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

I'm glad to see we've broken it down to a science here.

41 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev2 years ago

Hey, you young guys are lucky. Back in the day we had to check a girl's eyebrows to see what kind of hair-monster was waiting for us downstairs. Now they're all shaved, thank god.

0 upvoteszuneza2 years ago

Respectfully disagree. I wouldn't rely on them. Some stellar gals out there with nothing for collarbones.

20 upvotesIron-Pencil2 years ago

oto angles too. Either really close up on the face from the front with a coy smile or from an above angle so that she's looking up. The "looking up" angle makes it look like (1) she has a nice rack and (2) she doesn't have double-chins because stretching her neck that way hides them.

Also dim lighting to hid the rotund blob body.

39 upvotesShakydrummer2 years ago

It happened to me once too, My rule is always if it's just face/top down/bust shots they have something to hide. If they're attractive and are proud of it, they flaunt it simply put.

10 upvotesECTD2 years ago

Sunk cost at its finest. It’s always best to leave no matter what especially if after you leave it’s a hell no.

5 upvotesJohnnySkidmarx2 years ago

If I was ever in that situation I’d have no problem walking out on her. You lied before the first date even started. I don’t date liars.

2 upvotesMetalageddon2 years ago

Yes I will. Plenty of guys will.

You don't hear about them often unless they're called assholes. (Most often just another test in itself.)

39 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I had a fatty show up once. Fucked her anyway.

10 upvotes_xX-BongRippa420-Xx_2 years ago

you shouldn't encourage them

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

A fatty's pussy is better than no pussy, till you find a skinny woman's pussy.

0 upvotesrebelde_sin_causa2 years ago

Long as your friends don't find out, why not

30 upvotesTheThirdTesticle2 years ago

We're not allowed to say 'fat women' its 'plus size'.

35 upvotes42-AX2 years ago

'Large boned genetic disorder'

1 upvotesCensd2 years ago

Stop it! The proper term is gravitationally challenged.

1 upvotestk421awol2 years ago

No no no. That’s the bulimics/anorexics. Fatties are “gravitationally gifted”.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Good thing I don't give a fuck then and just call them fat women.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

well there is one trick to avoid "whales", that works 99.99%

if she only has selfies, she's prolly fat

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

To be fair, if you're already there there's a good chance you're going to tell yourself "ah what do I have to lose" and end up staying. But if a fat chick actually shows up without saying a word, there is a good chance she's going to hear a few choice words about her weight, which I suppose she'll want to avoid.

12 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

there is a good chance she's going to hear a few choice words about her weight

I disagree. The majority of people are too polite to directly talk about the weight of a person they're just meeting for the first time. The woman's ruse here is to delay the man's finding out about her weight until they are face-to-face, at which point the man will feel that he can't back out and then she at least has a platform to try to win him over with her personality or whatever.

Of course, this shouldn't apply to red-pilled men who are not going to be shy about calling out people's bullshit. The problem isn't really that the woman is fat. It's that she was dishonest because she knew fat wouldn't be acceptable.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Well maybe not, but I'd assume a fattie is insecure enough to expect it. After all in this scenario she is insecure enough to lie about her weight...

3 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

Insecure? She's actively trying to deceive men by lying about it. It would be like if I said I was 6'4" on my dating profile and then let the women find out upon meeting me that I'm significantly shorter. I'm not at all insecure about my height. The lying would simply be a deliberate ruse to try to lure women into a date with me. Because once they agree to that and meet you in person, they feel obligated to go through with the date. Then, the deceiver uses this platform to try to "win over" the other person and prove why they're a good dating prospect despite the falsely advertised trait.

Even if she were insecure, it wouldn't excuse the lying. She's basically saying "I know that the type of men I'm into would never go for a fat chick, so I'm going to just conveniently filter that out of my profile so that I can get a date and make my case for why they should be into me despite my weight." It's bullshit. You can't just manipulate people's desires that way and no good relationship/hookup/whatever has ever begun like that.

1 upvotesuebermacht2 years ago

Majority!
We are not the majority :)

3 upvoteswashington_breadstix2 years ago

Exactly. But the other commentor said "there is a good chance she's going to hear a few choice words"... but the chance is not good. Because anyone from the majority would not give her those choice words.

3 upvotesAugustuscrassus2 years ago

I'm going to assume neither of you are autistic fucks and would just walk out. What explanation do you owe her? She already knows it's because she's fat. That's the point of the ruse in the first place.

175 upvotesredpillbanana2 years ago

This is what dating has become like in the West: women holding out hoops on fire for men to jump through...and plenty of thirsty men flinging themselves through the hoops and towards their doom.

Remnds me of this old post:

http://archive.is/cPLPj

There's been a joke floating around Reddit/the Internet for ages where the husband-to-be is asked to come over to the bride's house for a favor. The bride isn't there but the little sister is, little sister tries to seduce him, he runs outside, and the whole family is outside congratulating him on not succumbing to her temptation. The joke being that he keeps his condoms in the car and was just going to get them...

Guess what? This shit HAPPENED to me today.

58 upvotesRPStone2 years ago

Yep. It's a dog and pony show. Women are shocked when you don't jump through the hoops in front of everyone.

I hope that guy came to his senses.

74 upvotesRedPilledGodEmperor2 years ago

What the hell? It's like placing a juicy steak in front of your loyal dog, just to test your dog to see if he/she will eat it. It's cruel and at best, very immature.

If the dude actually stayed with her, their will probably be many more tests. This is way beyond a simple 'shit test'

43 upvotesPM_Your_8008s2 years ago

Buddy of mine started dating this one girl. Not even 2 weeks later she created a fake Facebook page and used it to try to get him to cheat on her. He ends up going for it and she freaks out using it as proof of his disloyalty. It obviously doesn't say anything positive about him, but to create such a situation just to catch him in it says a lot worse about her.

21 upvotesempatheticapathetic2 years ago

He should have been happy she removed herself from his life.

23 upvotesPM_Your_8008s2 years ago

Actually they've been together for about 4 years now. Yep. That's the world we live in.

31 upvotesempatheticapathetic2 years ago

Well then let me change my perspective. He proved he isn't a blue pill loyalist and is high value from her perspective (willing to chuck her away to fuck another girl). She literally created her own dread and reacted to it.

0 upvotesSPREAD_THE_LOVE_77912 years ago

I think you're a little biased. I think cheating on your girl is worse.

29 upvotesawalt_cupcake2 years ago

hat the hell? It's like placing a juicy steak in front of your loyal dog, just to test your dog to see if he/she will eat it. It's cruel and at best

this is exactly what it is

42 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

You should see what wives do! First they starve the dog for months. Then they muzzle it. Then they dangle the juicy steak and laugh as the dog desperately tries to get to it. When he finally get's through all the hoops of fire, she may or may not pull it away at the last second and then make fun, emasculate, and belittle the poor canine's efforts.

21 upvotesRian_Stone2 years ago

Know how scam artists are effective? They rely on fear and greed. If you have neither, they can't scam you.

Cmon professor, you know this as well as anyone. Bogey has the easiest example we have. She gets first crack at it, not sole custody

3 upvotesyomo862 years ago

Imagine, the dog runs away. This is such an analogy - this can't be closer to the truth. Dog and steak. If a dog has a selection of various steaks in front of him he will not play stupid games with you to get your steak.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

And the biggest irony of it all is that those men that jump either ain’t getting any or are cheated on.

0 upvotescherryCanSuckMyDick2 years ago

LMAO

Oxygen, I need some oxygen

-4 upvotesJamzeNeu2 years ago

Checked out what the user is doing these days.

Dude is pretty Woke now. Has learnt Game.Good things.

9 upvotesBiggestBoop2 years ago

Lol? He literally has not posted from that account since.

1 upvotesJamzeNeu2 years ago

I think I typed the wrong username.

131 upvotesAuvergnat2 years ago

Why would any self respecting man want to start dating a woman under such deceptive conditions before even physically meeting? I stop myself there as I know I'm about to go full red pill.

Mate. Hate to break it to you like this but women are deceptive. Make-up is deception. Shit tests are deception. Crying is deception. The red pill is the realization of the dark side of women and how to deal with it.

It's ok for you to be proud of your good morals but if you're waiting to find a woman who does not do any form of scheming, deception, or manipulation, you're going to wait a very long time.

39 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Not a long time, just a lifetime.

3 upvotesMachoVerde2 years ago

Dear god I hope this isn’t true.

-4 upvoteslightsaberrave2 years ago

It's not. Source: Happily married to a woman who agrees with op

Edit: Apparently the downvotes are how you find the incels in this sub.

26 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I know a chick who'll tell you how feminism is stupid and how hard men have it. Also she has falsely accused ex-boyfriends of rape and domestic violence.

What they say != What they do.

6 upvotesuebermacht2 years ago

There are some decent women out there, but hard to find.

2 upvotesINTJokes2 years ago

Women will say whatever will please you if they like you.

1 upvotesDIARRHEA_EXORCISM2 years ago

Blue pill should almost be called white pill (white knighting) and red pill should almost be called black pill (acknowledging the dark side)

0 upvotesThizzlebot2 years ago

Crying is deception.

lol I love this one. I talk like an emotionless Terminator and tell them "you have been emotionally compromised, I'll wait for you to regain your composure". It throws them for a loop when you don't fall for it.

2 upvotesjackmack7862 years ago

That... that is the most autistic thing I have read this month. Holy shit.

104 upvotesMikeAlphaGolf2 years ago

“Ok. If you don’t look like your pictures then you’re buying the drinks until you do.”

11 upvotesuebermacht2 years ago

That's a good one hahah :D

1 upvotesSnowiceolated2 years ago

I'd have stayed and tried to bang her, but she's already made it clear she's not gf material. She sounds like a sociopath - perfect plate material.

17 upvoteswide_awoke2 years ago

You spin sociopathic plates? You're brave. Ordinary women are crazy enough for me-I don't fuck with sociopaths (in any sense) ...and they're out there.

1 upvotestk421awol2 years ago

Not everyone has been on the crazytown merry go round long enough to realize it’s a blender: go around enough times and you will get cut to pieces. It IS a fun ride until you realize the danger (or wake up in the ER).

4 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

It's the gambler's thrill. It's more fun when you're betting your rent. In the case of sociopaths the stakes are your sanity and life.

3 upvotesShiva-Lingam2 years ago

sociopaths are fun ...when you are a potentially dangerous psychopath

2 upvotesdumnem2 years ago

You spin sociopathic plates? You're brave.

Speaking from someone who has nearly gotten stabbed on several occasions by different women (and sometimes husbands. And boyfriends) never fucking A G A I N. Shit is not worth it.

Don't get me wrong, psycho pussy is pretty good pussy, but not worth getting holes stuck into you.

317 upvoteskidwithambition2 years ago

Translation: He doesn't care if im a 10/10 or a beached whale, he's my beta bucks in shining armour!

Tinder is for hooking up, nothing else. I feel sorry for these cucks thinking they got lucky and found "the one" on Tinder LOL.

I will bet money she is still on the app.

14 upvotesrichpianoooo2 years ago

my friend is like that he thinks he will meet his true love on there. he is a handsome guy but ffs he has no confidence

4 upvotesPoppenhoffer2 years ago

Met my gf off of tinder and she’s pretty awesome actually. I’m down with it.

42 upvotesDrumcode-Equals-Life2 years ago

You've probably fucked her with some other dudes cum in her pussy at some point man

81 upvotesPoppenhoffer2 years ago

Well damn aren’t you just a bundle of sunshine.

26 upvoteselectricspresident2 years ago

Tbh he's not wrong. Plating girls and then getting into LTRs with them down the line has its drawbacks one of em being putting your dick into your plate at night when she was raw dogged that very morning. This is the game now.

19 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

Truth. Happened to, uh, a friend.

14 upvotesMcDrMuffinMan2 years ago

Do you want the truth or delusion, because they likely aren't the same things.

4 upvotesPoppenhoffer2 years ago

I’d like to not base life decisions on advice from strangers on the internet that clearly have massive trust issues. So I won’t.

6 upvotesMcDrMuffinMan2 years ago

and that's fine, but those trust issues didn't spring out of nowehere, you may be wise to parse and pick out what sounds reasonable and what isnt

-2 upvotestbonemcmotherfuck2 years ago

Better than going down on her with another's jizz in her pussy.

-6 upvotescaloroin2 years ago

I found a cool gf off of tinder

37 upvotesass_boy2 years ago

She's fucking other dudes m8

25 upvotescaloroin2 years ago

thank you ass_boy, just broke up w/ her

26 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

There's an old story, where the names and exact details elude me now, but it was something along the lines of a privileged woman showing her friend how devoted a certain man was to her by tossing her glove into some sort of gladiator-like event (think seriously dangerous animals). True to form, he jumped in after it for her, but after getting it back he tossed it in her face and walked away.

She does not have power over you. If you choose to be a devoted husband like your great grandfather, that's because of who you are, not because of her. Just like your great grandfather. She doesn't get to test you in any way because testing you implies you have something to prove. This is why simply "passing" shit tests isn't really a good thing; you need to destroy shit tests.

1 upvotesCoptek912 years ago

Bingo. Have you ever had a women completely reject you or smash you down and then afterwards have her cry about you not "fighting hard enough for her." Or upset you didn't chase her persistently enough when it seemed like she was not into you at all.

This shit keeps happening to me. Should I just completely ignore the dismissive looks, insults, and keep chasing them?

Women are fucking insane. Why put up so much damn resistance if you like the guy.

13 upvotesyomo862 years ago

Why put up so much damn resistance if you like the guy.

Hypergamy young padawan. They have multiple guys who they - genuinely - like. So how is a nubile 21yo supposed to find out who has the best exploitation potential.

8 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

Because the more effort you put in for them the higher value they feel they have so they MAKE you put in that effort so they can validate the princess within. Or narcissism.

29 upvotesNiphilim832 years ago

Red pill test. "I lied, i dont have as much money as i said.... Hello? Helloooo?"

55 upvotesMattyAnon2 years ago

One of them starts to regale us with a story ... lied about my pictures/identity..., they're older photos and I've gained some weight....someone else's photos.... she actually is the attractive woman in the Tinder profile and was shit testing him for his reaction.

She's telling the truth: if he commits to her then she will indeed be older, fatter and turn into someone else.

92 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Lol try reversing this "I've gained wait" test and do it on women and see what happens. I actually want to do this and may write a FR about it in the coming weeks.

1 upvotesBear_x2 years ago

Don’t bother, you’ll just miss out on a fuck or two

28 upvotesempatheticapathetic2 years ago

He's a man, he's disposable to a woman.

She's checking how true the reverse in in OPs situation.

4 upvotesijustlovebreasts2 years ago

Yeah man. He's basically a scientist.

96 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Tell her ... My previous statements about my income are a lie. I was laid off from that job two years ago. I have less than $100 in the bank and she’ll have to pay for the dates. In fact, can she pick me up ? I really can’t afford the gas money.

Watch how fast she disappears ...

16 upvoteslasttimewedidthis2 years ago

Well can you blame her? In that situation, you'd have more important things to deal with than convincing some chick to buy you dinner. Nothing says miserable and petty than a person begging for food and then try to have sex.

66 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

You missed the point.

If she is going to lie to him about her appearance and weight, why would he be required to tell her the truth about his finances ?

-22 upvoteslasttimewedidthis2 years ago

Well he's not and he don't have to. But at least no need to look petty and miserable for no reason. If a chick said that to me, I'd buy her a burger and be on my way. Lmao

38 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

can you blame her

Yet we blame the man when the reverse happens. Interesting.

1 upvotesRilbon2 years ago

who, exactly, are these people that blame the man when the reverse happen? Other than the people that lie to them? No reasonable person is gonna condemn someone for that. Jesus christ. I know by browsing here a bit that you are too far gone, but ffs.. get a grip.

43 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

I was a divorce lawyer for ten years.

In a divorce who blames men?

The church.

Your friends.

All the girls you know.

All the couple's you know.

All mutual acquaintances.

All will divorce the man and abandon him.

All reasonable people take the woman's side, blame the man, and tell the woman you go girl.

Even on trp. Wife cheats?

to man: Not alpha enough bro.

To woman: you go girl.

If you have no experience with what you are saying how about you shut the duck and learn something. You clearly have no experience with divorce so why are you running your ignorant mouth?

15 upvotesredpillbanana2 years ago

If you wanted to reverse it, you'd tell them that you're actually only 5 feet tall.

-6 upvotesmightysultan2 years ago

i've actually done it. if anybody is interested, i will tell how it went

29 upvotesSelfTaughtPiano2 years ago

stop waiting for people to give you validation and emergency and tell already

14 upvotesAlex24d2 years ago

I'm bulking and I have a mirror selfie with abs in my Tinder profile from post cut. Will let you know how it goes :'D

32 upvotesIchewfivegum2 years ago

Try it on a 4-6, not somebody you'd actually be disappointed in yourself for not fucking. If you wanna go true mgtow then just do it to every girl and see what they say.

When I say true mgtow I mean the few members of that sub that actually had a lot of women and chose to pursue something they are passionate about rather than the 90% of mgtow that are just incels in denial. Think retirement vs forfeit.

21 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Yeah, I'd consider myself a true MGTOW at this point. I'm really burned out from dating, but got laid/got a lot of action from my early 20s til now. Had an LTR with my personal "10" but lost it cause I turned beta and she branch swung to a better option (I'm not just saying that, dude has a business, his own place, and generally just has his life together which is more ideal for her cause she's a tradcon type.)

Been living the lifestyle of a player and spinning plates but it eats up too much time. I'm a broke student too so I don't have all the money to just go to bars/dates 2-3 times a week.

I do believe there are still women worth settling down with though. They're just very rare and you have to be a truly confident guy who has his shit together and is making moves in this world to attract them. They're usually worth being with too.. (IE: They cook, clean, take care of themselves, live a positive lifestyle).. I mean you obviously have to deal with the regular female shit like nagging now and then or complaining about trivial bullshit, but that's just inevitable.

1 upvotesIchewfivegum2 years ago

If you do a field report on this, let me know how it goes. Up to you tho that could harm your rep you don't wanna be known as that guy

-3 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Such a life of Hedonism, commit to something ethical my boy.

5 upvotesDrumcode-Equals-Life2 years ago

I'll give you a hint: double standards

49 upvotesGayLubeOil2 years ago

The larger issue here is think about how detrimental it must be to have the belief instilled within you that you are a treasure that must be won by men.

Women put forth zero effort because in their mind they are the treasure.

Something goes wrong. Unfair I am the treasure.

The treasure is incapable of understanding the other side in a negotiation thus is a shitty negotiator.

Treasure has unrealistic expectations and is this perpetually disappointed.

Treasure complains about everything always.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

It's not about women socialised into such mindset. It is nature! It is demand and supply. Men are far thirstier than women so thus pussy is far more expensive than dick. That not just applies to humans but many many other species. The male is usually the sexual aggressor.

2 upvotesdumnem2 years ago

Women are just as thirsty as men. They're just told by society to keep it under wraps or they get labeled as a whore or a slut.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Oh well then tell me why in a majority of marriages and relationships, the guy is the one initiating sex? With the woman often turning the guy down? Face it men have a far higher sex drive. It is biology and it is testosterone.

154 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

I had similar story, i got a girl from an online dating site, and she offered me to bring a single friend so that her single friend can come..

Pics they sent were nice, i would say both of them were like 7-8/10..

they lived in a village so we got on a bus, and bus had last stop at that village, as we approached final bus stop we see two girls, that are really bad looking and surely not what we seen on the pictures, and they kinda got excited when they saw 2 guys coming on the bus..

I was like "shit dude, what should we do now?"

my friend was like "lets stay in the bus, do the turn and go back"

and driver probably heard our convo and said "it's final stop for me guys, so you'll have to get out.."

so we got out, the girls were the girls we were supposed to meet.. they seemed really excited..

i was like "you don't really look like you did on the pictures.." and they were like

"yeah because these were old pictures hahahah"

so we went for a walk because next bus was in like 2 hours.. like 10 min in to walking one girl is like

"should we go to my house? nobody's there.."

me and my friend looked at each other and we were like "it's good weather outside, lets stay outside.."

girls were like "nah lets go to our place, nobody's at home so lets use the opportunity..."

me and my friend agreed to go to their house because they were really persistent.. and then we started texting each other to make an escape plan...

we came up to the idea to go to the supermarket to get some alcohol and then either get lost there and escape or exit through back door...

so long story short, we went in, girls said that they will stay outside in the car (didn't want to pay obviously)... then we asked the security guard to let us out through back door.. he did..

btw we were 15yo and they were 16

124 upvotesXLNC-2 years ago

So the old pictures were them at like 13?

61 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

well we were 15, and I guess at least one of them was 17+ as one girl had a car..

but anyway pics were not related to them at all.. I also remember the way they laughed when they said "pics were just old" you could understand by their expression that they are lying

8 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

Bless that security guard's soul

32 upvotesPluglord2 years ago

You guys need to stop posting fake stories smh

13 upvotesLefort30002 years ago

I don't know why you would fake a story like this

3 upvotesPluglord2 years ago

Exactly. Theres no reason to, thats why its so annoying. 70% of stories told on this sub are made up. Its pretty easy to distinguish the real ones from the fake ones if you arent autistic.

9 upvotesmummersfarce_is_done2 years ago

I am autistic. Can you teach me how?

1 upvoteskemchik2 years ago

Ask your mom or your cucked dad whether the story is true or not

9 upvotesBolt_Ironstag2 years ago

How are you buying booze at 15?

17 upvoteslightsaberrave2 years ago

did the word 'village' not give you a clue. Dude wasn't in 'Murica

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

lol yeah I don't know why would I fake story like that either.

If I was to fake it I would add something like, "we went to their place, and they had young moms at home that took care of us..."

but yeah I am from east Europe, and back in the days ~10 and more years ago it wasn't hard to buy any alcohol if you were under aged. In the last 5 years or so East Europe has improved in this aspect with having CCTV's and stuff, before there wasn't anything, spare them few coins and they would sell you anything

35 upvotesYour_Coke_Dealer2 years ago

Personally, I'd take on the shit test with "I'd be at the bar either way; I'm usually down to get a drink". Doesn't indicate that I'd still be interested in a woman who misrepresents herself but also doesn't say anything to the coworkers that might set off the particularly crazy ones. You do have to work with them on a daily basis after all

39 upvoteswaldo8882 years ago

some people take women too seriously.

12 upvotesStarfuckingman2 years ago

agreed, idk why you are downvoted. I learned on trp not to take them this serious.

9 upvotespbgswd2 years ago

One of my first ever online dates was a total lie. Pretty in the pic, but when we met she had a huge overbight and was obviously low IQ. At that point, I was polite and pleasant, feeling that I had to be somewhat compassionate dealing with a person with a lower intellectual competency.

Sometimes I think that everybody lies, everybody rips everybody else off. It seems to be the only thing that makes sense some days.

30 upvotesScheme002 years ago

I've done this to a few women on tinder dates but for fun. About 30 seconds before my cab drops me off I tell them I have gained a lot of weight and I don't look like the photos but hope we can still have a good time. One chick even wrote "you're buying drinks until you look good then" . I always thought it was fun because when I walk through the door seeing them on their phone with a creeped out look is always a great ice breaker. Hasn't not worked out yet...

2 upvotesempatheticapathetic2 years ago

Perfect frame to open such interactions. Great idea.

14 upvotesOriginal_Dankster2 years ago

I would tell that group of women you work with that I'd wait to see what walked through the door... And if the date was fat or ugly I'd get up and leave right away. But if she was the attractive woman in the Tinder photos I'd get into a FWB or casual sex arrangement. But I would never commit to an untrustworthy, manipulative person.

And yes, I'd be this blunt with the water cooler broads.

1 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

It'd only earn you notoriety, which if you were not strategically leveraging into a bad boy image for coworker notchcount (bad idea) would only mean a reputation you don't need at the workplace.

2 upvotesOriginal_Dankster2 years ago

Fair point - One could argue that Greene's Rule 38 should apply.

But no one can adhere to all the Laws of Power at all times, one must consider them like a toolbox and use the right tool for the job.

My line of work is about 90% male. The few females got it really easy here. A 4 is treated like a 6, and a 6 is treated like an 8. There's no shortage of obsequious simps around this place for the few females there are. By standing out, and cultivating an IDGAF attitude towards women, other males view me as powerful, and females don't freak out about my ambivalence and dismissiveness, because there are so many other sources of attention and validation around for them.

Accordingly, in being a "bad boy" I adhere to the following Rules for Power:

  • 5: "So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life"

  • 6: "Court attention at all cost"

  • 34: "Be royal in your own fashion, act like a king to be treated like one"

  • 37: "Create compelling spectacles"

  • 39: "Stir up waters to catch fish"

  • And to a lesser extent, 44: "Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect"

2 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

You have clearly give this lots of thought and field practice. You know your limits.

6 upvotesmaplemaximus2 years ago

Don't take women seriously. If they try fucking around with you and shit, don't even respond and just move on to something new.

66 upvotesUrsusG2 years ago

They just look at me dumbfounded as if I had a dick growing out of my forehead.

Maybe they looked at you dumbfounded because your misplaced principles got in the way of a fuck with a hot tinder babe, i.e. you cockblocked yourself.

It's okay to be principled in things that matter, but "all is fair in love and war".

It would have been a just a date, and just some sex, why so serious?

46 upvotesred_matrix2 years ago

OP was talking to some hens at work, you can't do that 'All's fair in love and war' shit at work, especially around women.

2 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

As part of a secret society composed of all women and a select group of males, these women were just playing their role in keeping the uninitiated masses ignorant of the actual truth. The Blue Pill/Red Pill is the ultimate test of who "just gets it" or not. The #1 rule of the secret society is you never talk about the secret society or its doctrines. Cue the ill looks for not spouting safe blue pill hogwash in public.

7 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev2 years ago

Girls Are Retarded, Exhibit #458,392,473-J

13 upvoteslemming16072 years ago

Youre fucking dumb for revealing your hand to women in your workplace. This is the shit that will get you excommunicated from office politics and possibly fired.

Networking is the most important thing you can do in the workplace. You just shot yourself in the foot, and for what? They aint gonna change bro

3 upvotesbaube192 years ago

"The opportunity"haha that is the perfect wait to describe how they think about it. NOPE out of there good move!

3 upvotesGman7772 years ago

The best response would have been “yeah, maybe I passed her test, but she certainly didn’t pass mine”

3 upvotessuske1272 years ago

Hahaha, priceless. I thought I was good at spotting shit tests but that one slipped my mind for a second. Your response was likely perfect. Good post brother

3 upvoteslone_nordic_wolf2 years ago

Flawless Victory. Total Red Pill ninja. Nicely done!

5 upvotesU-942 years ago

If I'm already at the bar, I'm getting hammered with whoever walks in. I've had multiple tinder/bumble dates like that. Ended up sleeping with all of them, for better or worse. I'd be more incensed about a woman fucking up my schedule (I probably rushed through work and the gym to make this date happen at an appropriate time) than her being chubbier than her photos. God damnit this date is happening and now we're DRINKING.

9 upvotesjonib0ni2 years ago

Nah dude, if she was attractive you would have gone for the date and tried to smash, no matter what she texted you beforehand. Stop kidding yourself.

1 upvotesthe_breadcrumbs2 years ago

Yeah man I know, proper course of action is probably just sex and next. Although at this stage in my life I'd derive a similar amount of pleasure in just politely calling her out on her shit and walking away as I would dipping my wick.

Going thru the song and dance of seducing and fucking her just to spin it around as a "Haha jokes on you bitch!" feels hollow to me. That kind of behavior from a woman just turns me right the fuck off, and especially if it's that early and up front.

11 upvotesryantheman22 years ago

Same here, nothing turns me off like a good shit test. She wants to play those games, I'm not even interested.

16 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

Wait till you are married for 25 years. Sometimes I ignore my Wife for days. If She Wants To Be A Bitchy Bossy Shit Testing Harpy she can do it all by herself without my input. Enjoy. Life is too short for that bullshit and I for sure prefer to ban bossy and don't want to stick my dick in it.

For a while I viewed her constant shit testing as a challenge and even foreplay but I am done with that and she is slowly learning that if She wants to bitch and play games she will be home alone.

Of course when I am furiously ignoring her she becomes touchy feely and decides that she wants sex. What the fuck is wrong with these creatures?

You literally have to work yourself into a rage and be a total asshole and consciously work to treat her dismissively and yes, badly before they make ANY effort to treat you even halfway decent.

Thankfully it gets easier and easier to truly not care with each denial, each shit test taking a visible toll on the man.

7 upvotesArchterus2 years ago

u/BluepillProfessor. It sounds like you are dying on the inside. Must be a reason that keeps you there, certainly does not sound like it is her.

7 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

Not dying. The words are "becoming a bit more stoic every day."

1 upvotesArchterus2 years ago

Keep strong brother. 30yrs in myself this December. I try to think of it as character building, though I would not voluntarily sign up again.

2 upvotesbowhunter62 years ago

Next her, my friend. Starting fresh with a new one using your RP knowledge makes it ridiculously easier. Submissive, kinky, and compliant for as long as you maintain your dominant frame, or until it runs it's natural course. You can't put the genie back in the bottle, and you can't undo your previous beta ways; they never forget (nor do you), and the constant battle isn't worth it. You have so much righteous anger, and you likely can't let it all go with her. Inner peace can be achieved, just maybe not with her. I'm not telling you anything you don't already know. You have helped so many other men, including myself; I hope you find peace, brother.

4 upvotesBluepillProfessor2 years ago

Nah, I am practicing by posting on TRP.

This article by Roosh grabbed me a few days ago about the difference between a soft next and "detachment" and I was going to do a post on it but decided I didn't have much to add to the master. Going forward I think I have a better handle on how to answer questions from some guys, however.

I have been advocating the soft next basically to punish bad behavior in marriages but Roosh makes the distinction between fully withdrawing yourself for a few days (soft next) and "detachment."

In order to properly detach from a women with whom, say, you have oneituis for, what you must do is first make the decision to detach. Spend some time writing about your relationship with her, about the ways in which her behaviour unsettles or annoys you.

So there you go. A rare window into the mind of a Merp writer.

1 upvotesksande2 years ago

She's probably looking for passion, trying to spike your emotions. Give her more passion, my 2c...

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Why are you married to this person?

2 upvotesjonib0ni2 years ago

But they all do it, to some degree. There really is no way around it I'm afraid.

2 upvotesryantheman22 years ago

That is true… Let me rephrase.

Nothing turns me off like a gleeful shit test.

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

How long before OP is accused of creating a "hostile" or "Toxic" work environment.

Hope you got another job lined up OP.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Great post, thanks for sharing. I think this is less of an example of AWALT and more just an example of an immature mind game many women choose to play these days because they are bored. As someone said in the comments, this is a retarded shit test. I don't think any mentally/emotionally healthy woman would think this is a socially-normal or mature thing to do. I've gone on dates with hundreds of women over the last few years and have never had to deal with this. It's weird and immature, beyond the scope of this sub.

2 upvotesicutrauma112 years ago

This reeks of a hallmark movie. Girls do not shit test this way. They challenge the ability of the man to be a man and keep them in check like you would an 11 year old girl attempting to get her way. Not to check his level of being romantic. Don't buy it. Suggestion, stop conversing with women at the water cooler if you are. The more often you place yourself in in the company of women in this manner the greater percentages one of them will accuse you of being innappropriate.

2 upvotesMumMaroon2 years ago

Lol as a girl we say this shit all the time. Especially if on our periods lol

2 upvotesWestyWorld2 years ago

I dunno if she was hot I’d probably bone her that night then go dark immediately after.

2 upvotesTheDevilsAdvokaat2 years ago

Yup. She's already proved she's a manipulative liar.

2 upvotesuntonyto2 years ago

Good job stopping yourself before going full red pill.

2 upvotesPsychocist2 years ago

Modern dating is pathetic. So happy I've gone beyond waiting out for a "quality" woman and learning to be happy alone.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Lol wrong answer. Simply because, first of all it's Tinder. Who goes looking for a serious LTR on tinder? It's all a game dude. Tinder is all about the pump and dump. Why go all super serious about it?

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 2 years ago

Why not fuck the walking disposable pussy for a few weeks and get a new one?

2 upvotesmr-wr2 years ago

Like this story, My ex also wanted to test me with “I am going to get a job because I need money, a friend of mine offered me a job that I am going to measure the size of mens body part, biceps, waist etc. at the shopping center.” And I said “it is okey for me, if you need money. Of course you can, it is a ridiculous topic to talk about it.” She shocked and start grumbling. She was hoping the rejection by me, maybe financial support. Dude! Be careful with shitty tests.

2 upvotesThizzlebot2 years ago

What a retarded ego answer. You can still bang her but never upgrade her to GF because she's already playing games.

2 upvotesshipintbrief2 years ago

We need to get back to «didnt get laid — dont post» days. This is in no way a field report. And badly written.

3 upvoteshuge_gap2 years ago

Eh stop trying to red pill women especially in your work environment. Rule of Power: act like others but think as you wish.

2 upvotesIchewfivegum2 years ago

Ahahaahahaha id probably take it a step further and fuck her then never call even if she was the girl In the pictures. Just out of morbid I'm a fucking cunt don't pull that shit on me.

3 upvotesempatheticapathetic2 years ago

Then she accuses you of rape

2 upvotesStarfuckingman2 years ago

Well, although I don't mind what you said but in my opinion, it feels like you said so much lol. If you'd be more witty or try to make a joke out of it that gives off the same response, would've been shit ton better. But this, idk if anyone would agree, feels like you are a bit of a meninist. (similar to a hardcore feminist if she was asked something similar by a group of guys)

2 upvoteswide_awoke2 years ago

Bahahahaha!! OP you made my day!

2 upvotesRedPillDevil2 years ago

"So I'm at work shooting the shit with a few female coworkers."

This is your mistake. You have nothing to gain bringing your ideology to women at work in this manner.

1 upvotesthe_breadcrumbs2 years ago

So what are you suggesting actually? To refuse to engage in conversation with women in the workplace that does not explicitly deal with work? Huurrr yeah dude cuz #metoo..!!

And my ideology? I didn't pull out my phone and start reading the fucking sidebar to them.

Loosen up a little man, the world isn't so black and white, or red and blue in this case I guess.

6 upvotesRedPillDevil2 years ago

You're presenting a false dichotomy. Talk with women about my views of women vs talk only about work. Obviously you can talk to women about non work stuff. I personally would save my red pill justicing theories to myself. There's little to gain asside a smirk at the end of the day and FR on reddit. Congrats you've got karma points. Some people care about avoiding inciting bitterness haphazardly in their careers by throwing our egos around women and their relationship fantasies.

1 upvotesalclarkey2 years ago

Is that any different than hiding your wealth from your date as a male shit test?

1 upvotesLightBearCares2 years ago

From my standpoint, I still would've seen the chick that lied to me. Why? First off, I'm at the bar because I want to, not because I'm solely there to see her. I want a drink and she just so happens to meet up with me. Whether she shows up or not doesn't matter. I go with no expectations. Second of all, let's say she does show up. If she's ugly as fuck, it'd still be a hell of a story to tell. I'm witness and storyteller to my own fable. Would I bang her? Who knows, we might just enjoy our time together and that's that. No contact afterwards, perhaps. If she's the same person in the pictures, I'd still be unfazed by it. We enjoy our company and have a good time. I'd bang her, of course. To your coworkers, I would've said, "Sure", and add a laugh or some shit. On to the next moments in life.

1 upvotesarmykirk1012 years ago

I would have used her for paying for the food, fat bitch

0 upvotesgreatslyfer2 years ago

You would think the point of shit testing is so that if the guy passes, you'd be more attracted to him.

But she made it that the only way for him to win is to leave her, thus making it so that she doesn't meet him.

So why the fuck did she shit test him?





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