A lot of what I like to do is examine concepts from both sides.

And the biggest divide you'll find between TRP and other camps in the SMV comes with language. Once you start peeling away language, you learn a lot.

An example

"Men only care about sex."

If you are on TRP, you're fine with this statement. Even though you know it's not literally correct.

If you are a male feminist, you would argue this statement is false. (And would be technically correct, but as we would say "a fucking moron.") This is the origin of the late neo's observation of far left people being rigid.

No one, not the male feminists, the real feminists, regular women, regular men, fail to understand what this means. They can argue the intricacies, semantics and tautologies, but we're not incongruent.

Fundamentally, I've been saying, the problem TRP and men have with women, is they are often incongruent to their stated, or even implied messages. This is the fundamental divide.

You learn a lot when you start looking this deep, at what people say, how they say it, betrays a lot. Sometimes you stumble on a deeply personal question that will let you see right through someone.

This is my favorite little nugget I've discovered thus far.

"What does to be a good wife mean to most women?"

There's so much juicy goodness in this....

  1. You are making her qualify or reject commonly held, normative belief systems.
  2. You are allowing her to accept or reject the idea of their being a good or bad model of "a wife"
  3. Allowing her to either demonstrate her ability to abstractshow empathy or her solipsism.

Now to be clear, this is not a vetting post. Standard TRP applies. I'm only giving this as a disqualification tool, because even those that qualify themselves, you know the drill.

Tingles uber alles and SNYIJYT.

This wasn't the intended outcome of the post I made at PPD, merely the observation. I only made the post because in the last post I made, many women stated they "wanted to be a good wife" but I wondered what that meant.

I was actually surprised that many women wanted to be "good wives," despite being blue pill. Then I wondered what they imagined the concept most widely held as "a good wife" was.

So to let someone reframe the question, changes my intent. If they reframe it, then their answer "to be a good wife" is instead "to be what I consider or want to mean a good wife is."

So my observation form these two posts, is that a reluctance answer this question is most indicative of subconscious or even conscious incongruence between what a good wife is commonly held to be, and what that person imagines they will want to be, if they get married.

This also shows, the act of getting married and being a wife are very different concepts to many women now. Many women want to be married but do not want to be, what is widely understood to be, a good wife.

This to me is analogous to the idea that a woman should enthusiastically want to be around you and be sexually involved with.

A woman giving this pause, and not enthusiastically outlying how she can't wait to align with what we know are healthy innate behaviors, is all you should need to know.

To which you might posit, "that's like finding a needle in a haystack..."

And then you might say "that would be a unicorn..."

Well... we know there are no unicorns. Just great men.

So if you gotta roll the dice with a woman to have kids with, or a steak that you want to pretend is real for a little bit, forget the door test.

Just ask her this.

Of course, a far left moonbat will posit "any man that asks me this question..." If she says "I wouldn't know what other women think" she's just confirming she's deeply solipsistic.

But think about this.

What has it come to, when this question, as simple as it is, isn't enthusiastically answered in a way that is congruent to widely held understandings of what a good wife is?

If a woman asked you "what does it mean, to be a good husband, to most men?" Think of the answer you would give. Is it vague, or does it embody not only your values, or what you believe a woman wants from you?

They hate this question because they are incongruent to what they know are widely held expectations

I've been for a while been thinking about "how can you screen out and bin women quickly?" And I think I have a developing ethos for this, that roughly equates to asking questions that are on their face, somewhat blue, in which actual values widely diverge.

If this question goes poorly, you know how to slot her in, and to recover just AA or AM. Just remember when she unchecked that flag for you.

This is a congruence test, for women. Dare I say, the ultimate congruence test. If she fails it, she need not fail any other test and her only possible part of your life is plate.