Intro
If you're using sex for validation then you should reevaluate why you find it validating. A man should find validation from within.
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A little observation today during my commute. Nothing revolutionary, complex, or deep. But I think it bears pointing out to try and keep the noob ego in check and to try and focus them on the right path.
I will start by saying yes, sex is validating. Many people consider it a lagging indicator of success. Furthermore, for the guy who has little female action in the beginning, experiencing that change is exciting and rewarding. It is a rush to game, get numbers, get your dick sucked, and fuck. These feelings are natural.
But now I'm here to rain on your beta progress parade. For those of you who feel strong, empowered, like a lion alpha ready to pounce on his prey just because you were able to smash some strange... I'm here to tell you that that is pathetic.
"Why?" You ask?
Because, the majority of females are basic bitches that have absolutely no standards. You can be short, fat, balding and still find strange to smash. Seriously, observe the world around you. You will see plenty of cute / fuckable girls with slovenly, beta men. So now I challenge you. Next time you fuck some chick, try to do some recon and see what her exes looked like. I'm willing to bet that not all of her fucks are alpha chads and actually a fair number of them are nasty beta slobs.
So now you have this woman you just fucked and you're feeling high on the validation from it. Validation from what??? This bitch has no standards. Her ex smoked and drank beer all day and had a potbelly. She gets picked up by a jobless skinny nu male PUA and pumped 'n dumped in a ONS. If you seek validation from her sex, you are implicitly saying your value is equivalent to those slobs who fucked her beforehand.
Women choose based on what they feel. If you are in the right place at the right time you can smash this strange. Even if she is cute, pretty, looks like a shy innocent nerd, she has most likely fucked plenty of losers. They are not picking fine wines. They pick whatever comes at them. Do not think because you're pulling chicks this necessarily reflects positively on your value.
Conclusion
Improve yourself for yourself. Let that be your validation. Fuck bitches. It's what you do when you want to. But do not derive your value from a woman. She has fucked much worse than you and thus she is in no position to validate.
I probably haven't done this topic justice I'm on mobile and rushed. But I hope I've made some points that you can consider in your journey.
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