Last night, I went to a bar called the Bungalow in Santa Montica, it’s a bar in what used to be a house, so it feels like being in a house party. This is one of those bars where people get wasted and the employees don’t give a fuck. I walked in with two wings and we were impressed by the volume of beautiful women.

I saw two attractive girls who looked like they were waiting for guys to approach them and said hello. Turned out they were Cambridge students, my girl instantly came off as pretentious (but in such an exaggerated way that is was kind of charming) and started talking about her studies as Cambridge (apparently Cambridge is like Harvard and you have to mention you go there every third sentence). I listened and asked interesting questions, we were both vibing, and it looked like my friend was doing well with his girl.

Unfortunately, her logistics were shit, these girls were staying with family and leaving early in the morning. Since I’m staying far from the bar, with my friend’s parents, I needed a girl with decent logistics. So, although this was a good first set, I wanted to see if I could find girls with a better logistical situation, I grabbed my girls number then my wing and I bounced out of the set.

We walked around the bar for a few minutes, and noted that there was a ping-pong table (awesome) before I saw two girls chatting with each other, one of which looked like a Victoria’s secret model- she was stunning.

I approached these girls and introduced myself, first words out of their mouths, “We’re lesbian, we are together.” I said, “Okay, that’s cool, I’m Pastafarian, we can talk about irrelevant personal facts if you’d like.”

I managed to get a real conversation going, and although I got them laughing, the model looking girl just kept talking about how guys constantly hit on her even though she was lesbian. I didn’t know whether to believe she was a lesbian, so I kept plowing, but eventually I started to overthink, and I basically fell into her frame, at that point I was just digging a hole deeper and deeper, so I bounced out.

My wings were both in set at this point, so I walked around the bar for a bit looking for girls to approach. I was hesitating to approach, and I knew it, so after a few minutes I just sucked it up and approached a girl I saw sitting down at a table by herself. To my surprise, she was actually quite attractive (a solid 8, if you’d like to know). From the get go, she was super-receptive. She was telling me about how difficult dating is in L.A. and how Tinder sucked. I mostly just listened to her talk about her life, her job, ambitions etc. I didn’t feel any need to make it about me because I could tell she was attracted to me (by her eye contact and body language) and letting her do most of the talking is a form of investment.

After about 15 minutes I started being challenging, I asked her what she was doing later, and she said nothing. Then I said we should find her a nice guy (implying that I wasn’t interested). I could tell this got to her ego, and she ended up asking me to come with her.

I said, “Not sure if I can trust you, yet. Beg me to come, and I’ll think about it.”

“Beg to come? What do you mean?” She said.

I said, “Just say, ‘Please come with me, master.’”

She hesitated, but I got her to do it, and then I walked her to my friend’s car.

(Btw, I’m not saying making a girl beg is the best game, I was just experimenting to see what would happen.) We drove to her place, I kept the same frame of her being ‘my slave’ going, and she was surprisingly into it. The night ended exactly as you might imagine it did.

Not every night, doing pickup will be as easy as last night, but when that happens, it’s awesome. Usually I have to do more approaches before I meet a girl who is both attractive and who I have chemistry with, but occasionally I’ll click with one of the first girls I talk to and she’ll have really good logistics.

Sometimes pickup is easy, and it’s smooth, and nights like that are fun to look back on. At the same time, the most rewarding nights are those when you meet a girl who you really like but she has terrible logistics, or she’s not interested in initially, etc. and you turn the situation around in your favor, but there’s nothing wrong with the occasional easy pull. 😊