You dont have to hate women, but you cant be a Pussy Polisher

Chaddeus_Rex · 2018-03-06T16:42:22+00:00

Just because she looks cute doesnt make her harmless.

That reminds me of a short story by Dostoevsky (forget its name), where a young man sees a beautiful blonde woman walking down the street. He thought her beauty was approaching the sublime. He decided to discreetly follow her home so maybe he could catch her leaving one day and talk to her (typical bloopie response). He followed her to a brothel and found out that she was the most popular whore in town. At this point he contemplated suicide, for how was it possible that one so beautiful would be so ugly in character?

Read more Dostoevsky boys, you won't regret it. "The Idiot" is a TRP must read.

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-03-06T16:20:43+00:00

When I was in my early 40's I got a call from a younger man who'd been my next door neighbour when he was growing up. I'd known him since he was a child (A baby, in fact) . He was worried because he thought his fiance was cheating on him. He had no solid evidence but he just couldn't shake this feeling....anyway I was talking to him about it but from what he said I didn't really have a feeling either way....until he said this:

"She goes out at night with her girlfriends and says I just have to trust her"

And something clicked for me.

I told him: "Mate, she's cheating on you."

"...What?"

"She's cheating on you and can't think of any good excuses so she's trying to guilt you. Nobody "just has to trust" somebody; not even your doctor."

Suddenly he laughed and changed his tune. A moment ago he'd been trying to convince me she was cheating on him; now he tried to convince me she wasn't. I talked to him for a while then let him go but he was now convinced she wasn't cheating on him and he'd been overly suspicious; whereas I was now convinced she was.

A month later he called me back. "You were right."

I agree with your post, and it should be obvious to everyone. Women are just people. And what do people do? Cheat and try to take advantage. Not everyone, and not all the time, but it does happen. Therefore expect it to happen with your woman - even if not straight away.

A thing about being put on a pedestal is, it's boring for the woman. She know she isn't a goddess; if you keep acting like she is it's tiresome and she will think less of you. In addition if you truly believe she's special and you're lucky to have her, after a while she'll believe it too - and then she'll start thinking you don't deserve her. After all you worship her; therefore you're beneath her.

One of the easiest ways to destroy a relationship with a woman is to put her on a pedestal. instead treat her like a real person. (Which she is.)

One other thing: Never trust anyone who says you "just have to trust them". It means you're about to be cheated.

TheWhiskeyTickler · 2018-03-06T14:46:06+00:00

Reminds me of an interaction I had with my kid brother and his then oneitis, about a year ago.

We were sitting at a table at my parent's home (kid still lived at home) and they were arguing about the night before. She apparently just up and left him at a bar with his friends, only to mysteriously reappear an hour later. To hear her tell it she was "just outside, with some friends..."

Without a second thought, like an impulse, I swear I don't know how or why, I just blurted out "You were probably in the bathroom sucking somebody else's dick."

You'd expect a vehement denial from her at that point. But she was so shocked by the fact that somebody actually called her out, all she could do was give the deer in the headlights look.

My kid brother was more vocal about my perceived transgression. Months later he actually caught her cheating and ended the relationship. When he told me about it I simply told him to never question me again, because big bro is always right.

MattyAnon · 2018-03-06T14:45:13+00:00

Fun story....not only you don't have to not hate them, you can actually love them, as long as you're loving the real creature in front of you, rather than the one on the pedestal.

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" is absolute freedom.

I take spinning plates as a fair response to hypergamy to be a fundamental truth to the current sexual marketplace.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2018-03-06T15:51:41+00:00

Apologizing for being white!! I’m dying. That’s hilarious. Just let the little fucker get redpilled the old fashioned way... and if he doesn’t - social Darwinism.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-03-06T14:52:29+00:00

Oh man I literally screamed with a laugh at the part about his dad. Great story dude.

I let my girl know all the time what a slut I know she is. They can't get enough of that shit. The reason you got those reactions from the women is that they actually WANT men to get them. They want someone that is in charge that won't take their shit.

eccentricrealist · 2018-03-06T15:26:31+00:00

You framed it pretty nicely. If you would've gone with Machiavellian or something worse everyone would've just been offended. I think a lot of people here get in trouble because they stay around the anger phase and want to call everyone out on their bullshit without the actual tact to pull it off.

JJ3314 · 2018-03-06T17:07:28+00:00

The male tendency, if he thinks exclusively with his lower head, is to bestow undeserved kindness on sexually attractive women, independent of character considerations. With women it's the opposite--hypergamy defaults to viewing you as unworthy until you prove yourself. The more off the chain the hypergamy the more unreasonable a test of fitness she will apply to you, with only high level men getting the pass.

A balanced person uses their intellect to keep these tendencies in check, but in our sexually promiscuous culture these innate tendencies of men and women run unchecked. Thus you get HB6s who overvalue themselves, and think they are princesses and men encouraging/excusing infidelity from their SO's, supposedly out of love. In fact lust is often the motivator (again, thinking with their lower head).

If you have any goal beyond a pump and dump the constant question you must ask yourself of a woman you are evaluating is "is she worthy of any one's love or committment, particularly mine?"

chinese-bible · 2018-03-06T19:15:19+00:00

go to r/relationships which sadly is 80% pussy-hat wearing ultra feminists who give advice based on the gender of the characters --- (if you're a man, you're wrong, if you're a woman, the man is wrong).

You'll see some laughable gems.

Oh, a girl is going on vacay with an ex-fuckbuddy who used to gorilla fuck her, still snapchats her lewd shit, but it's "totally platonic yo?"

You go girl! Your boyfriend is mad jealous and controlling. Men and women can easily be friends! Even if they used to fuck. And are now staying in the same hotel room. Alone for a weekend.

On the very same page:

Girl: I just cheated on my boyfriend and don't know what to do. My totally platonic friend who swears he's just a friend invited me to his apartment. He started talking about his dating and sex life, plied me with alcohol, and we started playing truth and dare. You know, like friends do. Next thing I know, I'm riding his cock!! Wtf??? He said "He's been waiting YEARS for this moment to fuck the shit outta me ..." Whoa!! Guys I had no idea!!

Of course you didn't, you're a moron. In most cases a straight man wants to gorilla fuck a good looking woman. Only his honor will prevent him, if he has any (by which I mean not fucking a friend's girl, a married girl, cheating on his girl). If he's staying in a hotel room alone with her, he knows full well what's up.

Yeah in your case? His girlfriend is definitely off again, on again. When it comes to Carribean Chad's huge cock. She'll be bouncing off again, on again, off again, on again.

GreenTeaOnMyDesk · 2018-03-06T23:54:00+00:00

So you felt all their panties?

NyxNay · 2018-03-07T03:21:55+00:00

And then whole table started clapping.

Fulp_Piction · 2018-03-06T20:53:27+00:00

Wasnt there a well received post on here lately about not talking about the game, just playing it?

So you got drunk and called out some chick's bad behaviour and the whole table bent over for you? I don't buy it. I can't see girls saying "you got us" even if everyone despised that kid. I don't even know what the takeaway is? Call people out?

Rule number one of the Red Pill/Matrix - don't talk about it. Even if this is true, all you got is validation. Post after the wedding when you've fucked them all.

bluedragon239 · 2018-03-06T20:25:55+00:00

Ay so I don't really get this part of the story where all the women were particularly impressed that you basically told the dude women are responsible for their own actions and know what they're getting into

Aren't women known for wanting not to be responsible and making everything not their fault? Why did they get impressed? I can't wrap my head around that lmao

Also I see a lot of stories about girls saying "I'm going out with friends." Which means she may or may not cheat. (More often cheating than not) Doesn't Rollo say to just let her go? Why does he say this if she looks like she's gonna cheat?

2comment · 2018-03-06T18:32:47+00:00

You dont have to hate women, but you cant be a Pussy Polisher

Yet treating women as equals is often the fastest way to get labelled as a mysogynistic asshole.

WorldNewPilla · 2018-03-06T12:25:20+00:00

Let him do his thing, why do you even care? giving advice to these people can't benefit him or yourself.

BSD5000 · 2018-03-06T21:10:08+00:00

I can’t wait until that white knight sees the video someday, and realizes that she actually went down to the Caribbean to be a bukkake stunt double.

[deleted] · 2018-03-06T22:37:37+00:00

women are quite savvy and not to be underestimated.

I think this is quite an important point to make to outsiders. We like to bash on women about how they are physically weak, unproductive and disruptive in the workplace, poor leaders, and ill suited for making political decision which ensure the long term health of the nation.

All of these things are true, but it begs the question of why evolution would make one sex so much superior to the other. The answer is that it wouldn't, and is is silly and illogical to believe so. Women are evolved to dominate their niche, and their niche is resource extraction and hypergamy. They are experts at reading and understanding others' emotional states, using their own emotions to manipulate and control situations, sizing up men and understanding their position in the dominance hierarchy, and adapting to different social situations with chameleon like proficiency.

dddude1 · 2018-03-06T20:59:01+00:00

They are pretty entertaining once you understand them. Internalising their true nature is the hard part; once you’re past that it’s pretty funny when you can see what they’re doing before they do.

Was speaking to a girl (who’s been open about being into me in the past but whom I’m just not into) about her boyfriend and it became apparent she was trying to branch swing before she cut her loses with her guy. Hypergamy is one hell of a thing. She didn’t directly say ‘sooo, how about me and you?’ Just the typical girl game, are you in a relationship, what are YOU looking for, immediately after moaning about boyfriend (girls have zero game to the point of cringeworthyness if you’re not into to them). I let her know it’s a no go, gave her the usual ‘make yourself your priority’ nuggets and 2days later she messages me ‘we broke up.’ Can’t say I didn’t see it coming.

Urishima · 2018-03-07T12:29:51+00:00

Mom, [...] all looked at me with big eyes and wet panties.

Way to make it weird, dude.

kaane · 2018-03-06T13:31:18+00:00

Good example of social and sexual dynamics. But here is where you went wrong. Never talk about tRP concepts. Put your money where your mounth is.

They will not understand so why worry

B_Campbell · 2018-03-07T05:51:06+00:00

I think it’s more respectful to women to believe a woman can be just as much of an asshole as a man. White Knighting gives them no agency.

chazthundergut · 2018-03-07T15:12:39+00:00

I love polishing pussy. With my tongue.

47rivers · 2018-03-07T21:36:15+00:00

People respond to the truth, even if their instant reaction is negative, the always know it when they hear it. They may not like you for saying it, but you'll have a level of respect.

2018-03-17T23:32:04+00:00

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AlfredKinsey · 2018-03-07T04:58:55+00:00

Great story. I wonder if its common for TRP vets/OG players to get a little tipsy and ruin the magic veneer of weddings.

LittiJari · 2018-03-07T12:33:57+00:00

Just ask this question when you start thinking NAWALT: what is the oldest profession? We are two million years old survival machines, there are no special princesses.

thunderbeyond · 2018-03-08T13:39:35+00:00

Your title alone says a lot.

[deleted] · 2018-03-09T10:39:33+00:00

This sounds like that article a out that girl who went boating with that European Chad and left her man at home...

And everyone skirted around the fact that she clearly banged dude, but hubby was "very supportive", and she was so liberated and powerful.

Did you get this from that? Forgive me for my skepticism if this is in fact a true story.

crespo_modesto · 2018-03-06T20:44:26+00:00

Ahh man, I suffer from this, was DENIED

With a fake number too that was pretty brutal

also crossed the "don't shit where you eat"

"Am I too much older than her" (both in our 20s)

"What did I do wrong"

Ahh man... gotta experience life more/focus life is not good at the moment haha

It was bad first couple of days, couldn't look at her. Now I'm not sure, is it mean if I don't acknowledge, her, should I pretend like nothing happen. I generally don't interact with any of other women there, unless they're really hot, even then my interactions are weak... just because generally don't see each other, I'm not part of the wait staff... I think overall just avoid it if it's your livelihood the job. But I also wonder is that weak "If I was alpha I could pull it off" but yeah I do have more pressing issues in life than women too. Abram's heirarchy of needs right. Step 1) Don't be homeless. Ahh shit sexual is at the bottom of the list too.

I don't even have a bed man, I sleep on the floor.

Haha: "Milk yourself before you wreck yourself"

My body/physique is fine, body builder (naturally built but working on definition, abs visible but wide front profile so the shoulder v not as accentuated less you do the side turn with lats) but mentally I'm f'd, the minute I open my mouth it's over

Need a sense of self security/focus in life

tokinbl · 2018-03-06T16:46:28+00:00

I canr understand how men can put women on pedestals or honestly how anyone can put anyone on a pedestal

Zitrone77 · 2018-03-06T13:22:53+00:00

Are you excited that your (or someone else’s) Mom looked at you with wet panties. That’s kind of messed up.

Who cares? You went to an engagement dinner, and you had an interaction. Blah, blah. Move on.

Women don’t have “bad” behavior. They are people. Sorry to tell you that, but it’s true. Get a clue.

Title	You dont have to hate women, but you cant be a Pussy Polisher
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Date	06 March 2018 11:39 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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