This is ridiculously sad. A father tells his kids about their mother cheating on him and she threatens to kill him. In the eyes of two legal advice subreddits, he is an evil, manipulative jerk.

Drumcode-Equals-Life · 2018-03-13T21:29:09+00:00

It’s amazing how this woman can just get off the hook for saying batshit crazy stuff and have a whole reddit parade for her.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-03-13T20:52:26+00:00

Someone make a throwaway account, post the same thing with sexes reversed

sometimespredictable · 2018-03-13T21:00:12+00:00

Someone treats you terribly (betraying your trust, ruining your marriage). But you are the bad person by just telling people about it. These people being old enough to form their own opinions. What the fuck is this logic?

Maybe we shouldn't report crimes now. It may hurt the criminal's feelings. And ruin their relationship with their family if they found out. That is called "emotional manipulation" yo.

Kinbaku_enthusiast · 2018-03-13T21:13:03+00:00

Straight up idiots, all of them. His kids are 15 and 16, they have a right to know why their parents are getting a divorce. Pretty much my whole childhood involved my parents talking shit about each other and getting us in the middle of their divorce, so I completely agree that you shouldn't talk shit about your ex to your kids. But at 15 and 16 years old you're insulting them by not being open and honest with them. If they decide they don't want to see their mother because of what she did, that's her fault.

nerfation · 2018-03-14T00:28:14+00:00

Didn't think my post would cause this much uproar within reddit communities.

casemodz · 2018-03-13T23:09:33+00:00

This is 100% women trying to cover their own ass and trying to manipulate other while doing so.

If a man would have done something to warrant a divorce, you can bet the mother would be talking shit every day about it.

She cheated. The kids are old enough to know. There is nothing wrong here. Don't be a cheating whore if you don't want your kids to find out maybe

Thotwrecker · 2018-03-13T22:12:37+00:00

Crazy. The only reason this guy was able to do the smart thing despite the heaps and heaps of people telling him to feel ashamed is that he seems vaguely aspie himself from his comments.

On some level to deal properly with a sociopathic system (lawyers, family court, visitation agreements, no fault divorce, alimony, child support, women, etc) you have to be able to think sociopathically yourself. Scorched earth - burn it to the ground and rebuild.

Because if you don't play to win versus someone who is playing to win, you lose. What this guy did is smartly break his ex down mentally by forcing her to face consequences for her actions, and then hold out long enough until her will to screw him over broke down into general despondence and hopelessness.

Alienate, isolate, keep them hopeless, and then you come through and present them a way out. Like they are in the bottom of a well and you have the only rope and light.

This is how you have to deal with women who try to screw you over using weaponized sociopathic systems at their disposal. Often to do this you have to be somewhat aspie yourself, because you have to fully believe that you're important enough, that you are so in the right that it's OK to do whatever it takes. This is how women play the game - she was happy to kill him after she was cheating on him.

That jolted him into a stunted survival mode where he was willing to fight with fire. If she never did that, and instead had paid for great legal counsel on his dime, she'd likely have her payday, her kids, and would be banging her new dude in military husband's house.

The rest of the world is happy enough to have you be an indentured servant, just working away and sending money (through the court of course) to your wife and kids who enjoy their wife without you.

If you aren't willing to fight for your life and home one day and potentially lose despite doing everything right... don't fucking marry.

Gettingaware · 2018-03-13T22:08:36+00:00

This reminds me of that story in the 48 laws of power.

Hopefully someone knows which law im talking about.

Anyways in the story, all the jungle animals gather around to make amends because the water hole runs dry or some shit like that, so they assume the gods are mad at them.

The lion says hes sorry for tricking the small animals and eating them, and all the animals emphatically see from his POV and forgive him. This goes on and on with each animal asking for forgiveness and they all agree they all only did what was right to survive.

Then comes along the donkey. The donkey in the story admits to also slipping up, maybe eating more leaves than he should have, that one time. All the animals gather round and decide the donkey is at fault for his heinous crime, and sacrafice him.

The moral of the story for me is if people see you as a donkey you better never admit to any wrong doing.

Because the more and more i notice how true this story is.

From that scientist who wore that shirt of the scantly clad women, who asked forgiveness and was further chastised, to simpish begful men who are depised by fat walrus women.

Society hates betas and they will rip you apart for it if you ask for forgiveness. Most of you fake alphas do it here too. Like the good little sheep you were programmed to be.

But anyways my point is... maintaining frame is essential in life and a large part is not walking around asking for forgiveness, and the more you do that the more youll see how often theyll try and shame you and how little it will affect you.

mallardcove · 2018-03-13T20:49:00+00:00

Decades of a gynocentric society and feminizing brainwashing of our men was never intended for macro reasons, it was intended for small things like this.

Feminization and its tentacles getting into a million different nooks and crannies of everyday life and decisions has far more of a devastating effect on masculinity and men than feminization brushing up on 3 or 4 major things.

RedPillCoach · 2018-03-13T23:16:59+00:00

Somebody needs to post the converse story on this reddit. Philandering husband cheats and wife tells teenage kids. The chorus will have absolutely no problem with the wife and will castigate the cheating husband.

[deleted] · 2018-03-13T23:48:58+00:00

Cucks. All of them. Every cuck who posted in that thread deserves to get cheated on. Then they can bitch about it on reddit and wonder where they went wrong.

Edit: I just read the original post. I went down and people actually think OP should have lied to his kids. What the fuck.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T01:21:04+00:00

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hammerhearth · 2018-03-13T20:55:29+00:00

You will lose half your potential assets if you marry. You will lose your children if you have children.

The winning move for men who want to marry and have children is to not marry and not have children.

anonanonetc · 2018-03-13T21:22:43+00:00

Man, you called it. The whole time I’m just thinking “I don’t even have to think about this because those kids are basically fucking adults.”

RustScientist · 2018-03-14T03:02:34+00:00

Most women will never understand how easy they have it in life.

SgtSplacker · 2018-03-14T03:30:59+00:00

My bud is having issues with his marriage. The skinny is that his wife is abusive and physical with him and he has a minor drug problem. I'm talking to my girl about this and she tells me my friend is lucky to have her. I just sat there and asked her if she would feel the same with the tables being turned, with the woman having the drug problem and the man being the abusive one. Would she be "lucky" to have him then? She couldn't even answer me.

If you are a white hetro male, nobody is on your side man. No matter what.

Herdsengineers · 2018-03-14T00:37:04+00:00

my ex-wife cheated, among other things. i divorced over it when all the shit came out. son was 3. he's 13 now. he's asked why we divorced, i haven't told him. but when he's 18 i intend to tell him.

and fuck whether it damages his relationship with his mother. if truth does that, it shows how destructive cheating on a spouse really is. him learning the truth isn't what does the damage. the cheating does the damage. it hurts your kids. but my son deserves to know when he's old enough to take in stride. hopefully he learns by example not to cheat, and what to do if he gets cheated on.

quicklogaccount · 2018-03-13T22:45:21+00:00

There you are, fellows. Learn, don't whine.

Strength and doing the right thing gathers no sympathy. Exposing pain and weakness, on the other hand, does. A life is worth its capacity of EXPRESSING pain. When you need people's sympathy, EXPRESS pain;
Men aren't victims, and if they are they need to be hurt and with deep flesh wounds. "About a year ago my wife and I got divorced because of her infidelity. The divorce was just awful." doesn't come from a hurt man, so he won't ever be seen as a victim. If he's not a victim, no one will see things from his side. His pain is deserved;
Women are presumed victims, everyone looks at things by the victim's side. Their violence is justified because they "felt" threatened.

Think of a narrative like this:

About one year ago something happened to me, which led to my ex wife making death threats to me.
For the last months that we spent together, I knew that our marriage was on rocky grounds. My wife was constantly upset, we were fighting constantly, she was really frustrated. Every time we talked about it we agreed on finding a way out, for our family, and our children. In my mind, she was upset because our "children" were actually a 15yo girl and a 16yo boy, cutting their cords, full of their own ideas and desires and going away from their mother's wings.
I thought I understood her ailment, so I sucked it up and compromised. A lot of times. Many times she said things that brought me down to my knees, a lot of times I thought of her as an abuser that was undermining my self esteem. A lot of times I thought that things would be easier if I put some work on detaching and stop loving her. But I was doing all that to preserve our family, and a family in which a father doesn't love the mother isn't a family at all. So, I endured.
This all came to a bitter end for me when I found out about her infidelity about one year ago. At first I tried to lie to myself, but then every time she said something to put me down I'd go down sobbing. I trusted her to give me support if I ever became that vulnerable. Funny thing is, my impulse was talking to my wife about what was happening! But it wouldn't work.
On the days following me finding out I couldn't work. I tried, but I wouldn't focus. HR warned me about my loss of productivity, so I told them what was happening. It was only then that someone warned me I was in a dysfunctional relationship, which aided me in making a decision. I asked for some time off, and would file for a divorce, so I could recover and focus on my children.
The process was a horror show. The legal system has no empathy for cheated on people. Every time I commented on how my now ex wife acted towards me, someone would say "even if that is true, proving it is too hard, so we can't use it in court". In the end, thank god, when it came to our sons, it was all sorted out. They would still have two parents after all, none would be alienated by the law, which was the best I could expect from it all. When it came to her and myself, things were different. I was trying really hard to forgive and not to resent her, I had been going to therapy to try to sort myself out, I managed to convince her to get into couple's counseling to help us finding how to best handle things with our sons, despite her persistent protests of "we're divorced, why would we do couple's anything? Would you please let me live my life now?"
But as I said, our "children" weren't children, they're teenagers, intelligent, observant, and they couldn't help but notice whenever I sobbed, that I gained a lot of weight and was binge eating sometimes, so at some point the my asked me what happened. I thought of lying to her, but she's older and wiser than she had to be to be fooled with some excuse and lie I'd fail to sustain. And I told her, that her mother and I had divorced due to her infidelity.
Now, they're teenagers, with their own opinions, and own attitudes, and they're having a hard time forgiving her. It WILL end. But now she somehow turned this all on me and is threatening to kill me. I fear that she has the intent and the resources to do it, but I'm afraid to go to the police and be laugh at, because I'm a man,and they never spared any comment, "you're just feeling emasculated because she cheated, grow some balls".
How can I proceed?

Jonmad17 · 2018-03-13T23:30:51+00:00

This is the most disgusting thing i've read in a long time. It's the sort of nonsense that makes you wish you lived on a different continent with a different culture.

drkinferno72 · 2018-03-14T01:53:27+00:00

Next thing you know it's another reddit post where the mom kills the kids.

Seen it before, god help them

longjeep2005 · 2018-03-14T00:53:37+00:00

Commenter: "Just to point out that the vast majority of family annihilators are male. Approximately 95%."

LOL I wonder where they get this information? The hamster?

LukesLikeIt · 2018-03-13T23:41:53+00:00

If she wants to make the promise to be loyal in front of her friends and family at her wedding then they should dam well get to know when she isn’t

[deleted] · 2018-03-13T23:51:55+00:00

Who else vomited at the first comment?

DirtyBastard13 · 2018-03-14T00:06:11+00:00

At that age, kids are old enough to understand and want real answers. But this is a clear symptom of the fallen time we live in.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T01:08:04+00:00

Cancerous cucks, the lot of them.

twy3440 · 2018-03-14T01:16:20+00:00

15 and 16 year olds understand infidelity and they deserve the truth.

precisionclear · 2018-03-14T02:19:57+00:00

The "children" are teenagers about to leave home, become adults, and attend college. They should be warned that their mother is making death threats, so one day she doesn't pull up in a car, invite them to a remote location, and dump their bodies in the Woods somewhere.

I'm impressed this is mentioned in the og thread, it gets thumbed down, while a response, "Most killers are men" get thumbed up. As if that's an appropriate rebuttal.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T00:50:20+00:00

How is the truthful manipulation negative? Those people have issues.

AboomalavaU · 2018-03-14T07:19:05+00:00

I had something similar happen to me. "Mom" of our then 2 yr old boy took off and then came back into our lives when he was 4 by way of notification of an expedited hearing the following week.

The day of the hearing, i was pretty confident because she left for her own stupiid, selfish reasons. I was never abusive, i provided for her, and paid for things i should not have, and fucked her silly nearly every day. I also tolerated her nonsensical BS view of life all the while "leading by example" and tactfully conveying to her more or less "no" and "why" when she wanted me to participate with or support her through one of her many foolish notions which were 9 times out of 10 was engineered by her to get out of doing her part (aside from sex) around the house.

While i had plenty of evidence to support her abandoning and otherwise, poor parenting what little she WAS around, she had lie after lie to tell the judge. The thought of any judge siding with her was not only laughable, but ridiculous. To the point now...the results of the expedited hearing:

She was not even so much as required to have "supervised" visitation. She was granted immediate summer visitation the following day with our son, out of state, and he did not even know who she was. I was called a "child abuser" by the judge for telling our son "i dont know where your mommy is but i know she loves you"

She was even given all holidays for 2 yrs to "make up for lost time" since i, apparently, "kept her away." I only retained "temporary custody" because of "court tradition" which is "temporary custody to the parent who the child has been living with."

Theres plenty i'm leaving out which supports my side of things but you get it. Man, just typing all this pisses me off more. The system is not just "broken" it can be sick and twisted beyond belief.

_orion · 2018-03-14T04:45:01+00:00

the white knighting is so instilled in them that they are WK'n a girl they have no idea who she is where shes from or anything about her... but ya never know. its wrong for him to be honest with his kids, but mothers talk shit about their baby daddy's every day to make em out to be evil to kids.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T05:19:23+00:00

sweet I just woke up and now I'm fucking pissed off!

so if one parent is say, a pedophile, does that mean the other parent shouldn't tell the kids because that's "driving a wedge" between the parent and kid. get fucked

TheMassivePassive · 2018-03-14T06:41:54+00:00

You're a dumbass if you ask these male feminists on reddit for advice about anything.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T05:55:59+00:00

N E V E R

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get married.

This is the only "red pill" advice one needs to follow.

Dmva100 · 2018-03-13T23:12:53+00:00

This is why you don't be a 'Good Man.' Virtue and deceny is for faggots that can't offer anything else or have no value to begin with

They already brand you as the 'bad guy' because women must be seen as victims.

If you have kids and want to keep them, you have to sabotage and frame the mother for something that will allow you to take them away for good. Plant drugs in her car or something.

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Entropy-7 · 2018-03-14T08:17:44+00:00

I can't link to the archive posts (Great Firewall of China) so a lot of context is missing.

In general, you aren't supposed to try to alienate the children and the other parent and if it it is proved that you did there could be a change of custody (if you have it) or a reduction of visitation (if you are the non-custodial parent). However, it is really hard to prove.

The other point taken is that your relationship with your (ex)spouse is considered completely separate from the respective relationships with the children. This principle in practice tends to work in favour of the mother who is an X, Y and Z (and twice on Sundays) but the mantra still remains "she is a good mother!" Unfortunately, guys never seem to get the benefit of the doubt in these situations.

It gets me that the "children" are close to being young adults, and this is where the context comes in. If they come to the father with an honest but adult question about why the divorce (that he filed for?) then he can refuse to answer - and maybe risk alienating the kids himself - or lie (always the policy of choice if it benefits the woman I suppose) or tell them in the truth in an even handed way.

ekobeko · 2018-03-14T13:37:09+00:00

I'm just amazed by the responses saying he was out of order for telling his children THE TRUTH. If the wife wanted to smang other guys she could have sought a divorce first. She had a duty not just to her husband, but to her family (Since they decided to procreate).

sixtynineningbeavers · 2018-03-14T00:20:16+00:00

u/bug-hunter comment was hilariously deranged

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T05:18:35+00:00

I think it’s good for kids to know if the mom cheated on the Dad.

Anonymous_Caucasian · 2018-03-14T06:50:19+00:00

Fuck these people infuriate me. They're just so damn stupid.

DownvotesOnlyDamnIt · 2018-03-14T12:51:36+00:00

This is why i love 4chan more than reddit. At least on 4chan you can discuss about roasties without fear of ban. On reddit, you even come close to praising someone who was clearly in the right, then you get banned.

Faggots of that subreddit should never be mods

VanityKings · 2018-03-14T14:08:30+00:00

Ahh nice to be reminded just how worthless people on Reddit are.
Women dont even have to answer for their actions when a bunch of fat ugly neckbeard fucks will find an excuse to defend them and shift the blame.

SnickeringBear · 2018-03-14T00:13:16+00:00

There is one thing that nobody has focused on so far. The kids need to have appropriate protections in place when dealing with either parent if that parent is being abusive and manipulative. I spent the last 24 years showing my kids how to protect themselves from their mother's needy "take care of me" attitude. Couch this in terms of a divorce where my 9 year old daughter was manipulated into taking care of her siblings and her mother after her mother and I divorced. The ex rode the carousel high wide and with abandon for a year then settled down with hubby #2 followed a few years later with #3 and now with #4. The kids are adults now and have a better idea how to fend off the manipulation.

thomascoopers · 2018-03-14T05:54:17+00:00

I honestly couldn't read past your first exert - I know people are just fucking horrible to men, but that was just..... Mind boggling. That poor man.

Un-fucking-believable.

koncept61 · 2018-03-14T06:44:17+00:00

I don't see how telling the kids why they split is bad or alienation.

Infidelity is a legal cause for divorce. Simply telling the truth isn't alienation.

mrbluesdude · 2018-03-14T06:52:30+00:00

Holy shit that was painful to read.. poor guy, honestly wtf is the world coming to, things are so blatantly fucked up. Ugh maybe I'm just a little buzzed tonight but this one triggered me a bit.

lovecraftbro · 2018-03-14T08:30:26+00:00

par for the course for reddit

brankec98 · 2018-03-14T08:58:37+00:00

(don't mind me just a shit reply) I don't think I've ever experienced getting triggered before, so this was quite interesting, thank you OP now I'm more familiar with myself.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T10:57:05+00:00

As someone from a broken home, everyone in that thread bashing on the father deserves to be shot.

Shaman6624 · 2018-03-14T11:35:46+00:00

I know a woman who raised her children admirably well by herself after her husband cheated on her. She also told her children soon what really happened. Not because she wanted to let them hate her husband but because she thought they could handle the truth. They turned out fine. They do dislike their dad but for good reason.

Whoever is trying to protect 15 year olds from the cold reality of the world is a retard and should be forbidden to have children. Lucky for those kids they got an honest and direct dad. If they were raised by the people of those subreddits they probably couldn't even wipe their own butt at 18.

apollosapien · 2018-03-14T11:54:34+00:00

Just another thing that has me believe Reddit is retarded.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T12:30:24+00:00

You're right, OP in that thread is just getting savaged, with his actual reasonable questions and comments. And crazily downvoted. It's not some giant long story either, basically a short paragraph that he wrote.

Putting aside the commenters who are trolls, russians and neckbeards, you are left with women comments. And from a red pill perspective, this is a beta male standing up and fighting, and betas don't do that. She probably had a good reason to cheat, we just don't know it yet, but it most likely revolves around him not being man enough. Now this beta has ruined the family because he made the mother look bad, how dare him!

Stop and listen to the women around you when they think you aren't paying attention (which sadly is far easier than it should be). You will hear the same things being said right out in real life, just slightly toned down. There is great influence out there to be the good beta draft horse, the question is what kind of man do you want to be? And it can be done without even raising your voice or making threats.

Socialist_Russia · 2018-03-14T13:34:58+00:00

Sad how if genders were reversed, the man would be totally vilified.

crackcrack12 · 2018-03-14T16:07:34+00:00

Damn assholes giving unwanted armchair teachings on morality and ethics. Screw them

bookertwashingmachin · 2018-03-14T19:27:30+00:00

If she didn't want her kids to know she's a dirty whore then she shouldn't be a dirty whore. If she's making death threats he should call the police and prosecute to the fullest.

420KUSHBUSH · 2018-03-13T23:25:21+00:00

When people will ask me why I'm a misandrist I will pull up this thread, among many others

SquanchingThis · 2018-03-14T05:19:36+00:00

That thread is pure cancer and not great legal advice. They don't cite any statutes or cases. Literally bs

DCVail · 2018-03-14T06:29:18+00:00

She probably also probably said she would be faithful and honor her husband but fwiw she didn't follow through with that either.

KazarakOfKar · 2018-03-14T14:04:33+00:00

and duties as a parent to her children.

Part of a womans duties to her children should be not fucking up their home situation by banging a bunch of strange dudes and fracturing the family.

Salted_Pretzel · 2018-03-14T16:05:55+00:00

It's the internet. You get a wide variety of people.

Moneyley · 2018-03-14T16:45:22+00:00

I got a proxy block on computer... can anyone direct me as to what subreddit I can find this in? thanks!

blargo1 · 2018-03-14T16:59:53+00:00

What in the actual fuck. The woman commits an actual crime by threatening a man's life and he is the sociopath? I can't wrap my brain around this one. Man, I feel fucking bad for this guy. I know now where not to go if I need any legal advice because that sub is clearly biased.

earthmother92 · 2018-03-14T17:20:32+00:00

It is good for the boys to learn harsh reality so young. Good basic for TRP.

-TempestofChaos- · 2018-03-14T17:45:11+00:00

From the same subreddits that as soon as a woman isn't satisfied, they suggest infidelity.

Absolute shithole. I hope people PM'd the guy to tell him that he did the right thing.

burrrahhh · 2018-03-14T19:05:00+00:00

Somebody send him a link to trp

CaleebTalib · 2018-03-14T19:35:00+00:00

Yeah holy shit what a bunch of beta bitches. They don't get to tell someone in a situation they're not in anything because they are ignorant to the exact dynamics. The guy also responded several times and he got downvoted for sticking by his guns and not letting people who don't actually know him or her, tell him what he should have done. And then the retard getting gilded for his pseudo legal advice when in reality the guy didn't do anything but tell the truth about his whore wife. Good for that guy. Reddit is an echo chamber and people will delude themselves into thinking what is popular is right but a famous Bill Walsh quote is "if everyone is thinking the same then no one is thinking." And these people don't think sometimes. Yeah the only place in the world where a cheating whore wife who's now making death threats is the victim is on Reddit. I wonder how those death threats would look in court?... Mr. legal advice didn't say shut about that huh?

AllahHatesFags · 2018-03-14T20:17:42+00:00

I have to say the OP handled that shit very well despite the shit pile of bad advice and insults the cucks over there heaped upon him. His wife sounds like your typical air-headed narcissist was genuinely shocked that her kids would blame her for cheating and destroying their family. Fucking AWALT.

strikethrough123 · 2018-03-14T22:17:04+00:00

Party A cheats, then Party A threatens Party B. Party B then proceeds to tell children about Party A's actions.

If Party A was a man, that thread would've been completely different.

Fuck society.

newName543456 · 2018-03-15T00:05:02+00:00

Bad will shown towards asker in those comments is ridiculous. But no, it's totally TRP that is hateful and absolutely no other sub is.

/s

charlieshammer · 2018-03-15T00:29:20+00:00

I’m glad you posted this. I read this a few days ago and immediately thought of you guys. This woman cannot accept responsibility for her actions and somehow it’s her cucked husband’s fault? Yeah, right.

FwoGiZ · 2018-03-15T15:11:46+00:00

I think the guy was indeed wrong to tell his kids about that stuff. It's only bad for them, no pros. Now, life threats are a crime last I know... so she should be tossed in jail I guess and this guy is probably a chump.

long-lostfriend · 2018-03-15T16:58:07+00:00

Mom is not a victim, but Dad is a shit father if his sole reason for telling his kids that was to turn them against her. Leave the kids out of the middle of your shit with your ex as much as you possibly can.

AboomalavaU · 2018-03-15T17:28:26+00:00

mml76gs • TheRedPill • 1d Nothing will change as long as not enough people want this to change

What i wonder is whenever there is "enough people" HOW can the system be made to change?

[deleted] · 2018-03-15T18:52:55+00:00

Man chooses not to lie to his teenage children about their parents divorce. And appearantly that makes him a bad person.

Supposedly he was supposed to lie to his children to protect their erroneous belief that their (clearly dangerously unstable) mother was a good and trustworthy person.

I know it's tired as hell but Jesus tittyfucking Christ, if a man was threaten to murder his ex wife over telling their children the truth about his infidelity ending their marriage, he'd already (rightly) be in lockup.

[deleted] · 2018-03-17T02:53:52+00:00

Holy shit... that thread is unreal. I think I'm reminded of how insane our society has become on an almost daily basis, and how much of a minority people that think like we do really are. I know that as a fully initiated red piller I'm supposed to be past this, but sometimes it makes me so depressed. I don't want to live in this culture, but I have to try to accept that I exist in the time that I was born into and I have no more choice over it.

utnag · 2018-03-18T05:56:15+00:00

holy shit the amount of shit in that thread.

but then again this is reddit.

why even bother?

GunnarX · 2018-03-22T15:23:40+00:00

It always blows my mind to see such examples as to how deep the feminine imperative runs. No wonder men are growing up ashamed of their biology.

[deleted] · 2018-04-04T10:42:04+00:00

If you've ever been divorced with children involved, there is most likely a part of your divorce or separation agreement that deals with talking shit about each other. Mine goes like this:

All parties are restrained against the use of profanity or making any  derogatory comments about or toward the other party or allowing anyone  else to do so in front of the child in any manner whereby the child might  learn of the same.

So yeah, the situation is fucked up, but your lawyer would probably advise you to not tell your kids that your ex was a whore. And of course the whore should be prosecuted for the death threats.

There's nothing stopping the dad from letting the kids read the public records from the divorce. They're old enough to go get copies themselves, even.

eastside42 · 2018-04-09T19:32:35+00:00

The wife is a whore, the husband is a coward. Only respectable people in this story are the kids. He was sooo scared of his wife’s threats and internet nobodies talking shit that he forced himself to make things better. He had his own interests before the kids. Hopefully they learn from their parents mistakes.

neautika · 2018-04-11T23:08:08+00:00

He was probably just venting...except I said it to kids. So what. typical human shit. I rarely see men alienate children.

[deleted] · 2018-04-15T18:24:35+00:00

It's a red pill for the kids, but in the end it is better to have the ugly truth than a string of lies to cover it up. Their mother cheated on their father, and this is why they are divorcing. It isn't because he was not good at being a lover.

Not sure why she is sending death threats. She just killed joy in 3 people she was suppose to be devoted to.

Bangbangsmashsmash · 2018-04-16T01:35:39+00:00

Poor guy. Poor kids. Poor lady. There are no winners in a situation that you have to be close enough to a person who has gotten this angry. Though, getting a restraining order would help with that closeness thing.

pokeman528 · 2018-07-25T19:33:29+00:00

fucking I dont know whats right anymore

Theguygotgame777 · 2018-03-16T00:19:11+00:00

You need to separate her actions against you, with her rights and duties as a parent to her children.

Oh sure! Because her willingness to make death threats has absolutely no bearing on what kind of person she is, and how she will act towards her children.

These people all act like this woman is somehow entitled to her children’s love. I’m 16, and I would never forgive my mother if she threatened to kill my father. They really need to stop acting as if the kids have no say in this matter.

merchcon · 2018-03-13T23:43:16+00:00

good cunts without kids downvoting me. Maybe I should lift more?

Controversial advice (on this sub anyway) - you shouldn't be shit talking about the other parent to the kids.

Even when you are together, you should still see your relationship to your partner as a little separate to the relationship with your kids (this is actually great advice as it means the kids understand mummy and daddys relationship is important and you can focus on each others needs as well as your kids needs).

No matter what one person does, the other person is still the kids parent. This isn't about being pussy whipped or letting women walk all over you, it's about what's best for the kids and what's best for the kids is usually a strong parenting unit even if that unit is separated.

The guy is probably some bitch with a lot of bitterness that he doesn't know how to handle so he thought he'd use the kids as a weapon to get some revenge. My partners ex does this a lot, uses the daughter as a weapon, he's such a pussy of a man he just can't deal with the fact she left him.

Don't support this dick head - his ex wife might be a piece of shit but she still has duties as a mother and he's making that harder for her which ultimately fucks the kids.

acetylcysteine · 2018-03-14T03:44:32+00:00

with respect to the kids development, i think holding out until they are older to express the exact details of the divorce would be better for all parties involved. i grew up in a situation where we were told a falsified story, and then the truth later on. wasn't a big deal because when we were older we understood things better, and how being told the truth at that age might've resulted in further issues.

OnlinePosterPerson · 2018-03-14T16:55:49+00:00

The dad shouldn’t tell the kids the reason

Queen_of_Queef · 2018-03-14T08:42:57+00:00

I am the mother of sons. I am not a feminist. I read these posts. Sorry, but I think this guy is full of shit and a douchebag.

Splish-Splashallmyst · 2018-03-14T00:12:12+00:00

This is inappropriate to tell your children, not until they’re adults do they need to know this information.

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T00:11:21+00:00

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drty_pr · 2018-03-14T01:13:12+00:00

End of the day, he shouldn't have told his kids. He did so because he's a weak sauce little faggot. He lost all of his power when he turned that wench against him.

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer

The only reason he posted that shit on that shit sub is because he's a validation whore who hoped the BluePill Reddit hivemind would approve of his bullshit.

My empathy isn't for his situation, but his lack of frame and masculinity that allowed him to become a man dealing with a situation he never really had to deal with. If he entered this situation out of a position of power and not weakness, he wouldn't be in this pickle now would he?

You reap what you sow

Title	This is ridiculously sad. A father tells his kids about their mother cheating on him and she threatens to kill him. In the eyes of two legal advice subreddits, he is an evil, manipulative jerk.
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Upvotes	2074
Comments	400
Date	13 March 2018 08:45 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	TheRedPill
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/49182
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/847im9/this_is_ridiculously_sad_a_father_tells_his_kids/