Yet another example of how men revealing too much kills attraction
Link: http://archive.is/EOGfa - "Men of Tinder, your first date is not a free therapy session"
female clients complain that men are increasingly using dates to over-share about grievances in their lives — from divorce and family illness to financial strain and other problems. She said the issue has become a very common trend.
“The emotional labor of absorbing the traumas of a stranger is not my job and also not what I’m trying to do in my dating life.”
Women do not care about your problems. Period. Regardless of how legitimate they are. You're either a rock or a little bitch boy.
One single, Florida-based journalist who wanted to remain anonymous said her date recently revealed he was very sad to find out that his ex-wife was pregnant with a new husband.
His wife left him to get a real man's seed inside her. Good job little beta, flaunt that negative pre-selection.
Heterosexual men share relatively few close connections with one another compared to women: Studies show they have smaller social networks overall and rarely share intimate feelings.
If you're going through emotional stress, either cowboy the fuck up or share it only with your closest bros.
Too much oversharing kills the romance
When a man dumps his troubles on the dinner table during a first date, Bea says it kills the romance. “You sit there listening because you are trying to be nice on a first date,” Bea said, “but in the end you hear way more than you want to hear about their personal issues to the point where it is impossible to think about them romantically.”
Comfort kills tingles.
it’s possible men are not using the date as free therapy, but are simply sharing their feelings to show they’re capable of such openness. “It’s more likely that they’re over-sharing because they know it’s a surefire way to seduce a romantic interest,”
When you have an entire generation of men being told that they need to be sensitive, open, in touch with their feelings and "communicate" this is what happens. And by their own admission, women can't fucking stand it.
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