I'm gonna keep this one short, but I think it's time to have a conversation about race. What I'm about to say is going to piss some people off, but fuck it. I'm saying it.
If you are actually complaining about your race holding you back at least as far as red pill sexual success or even career success is concerned. YOU ARE FUCKING LYING TO YOURSELF. The great philosopher Kanye West once said: "Self-victimization is a disease". I want to make this post an addendum to a great post I saw recently telling Asian guys to just go lift. I wholeheartedly endorse that and I want to take that one step further.
Crying racism in a sexual context is a REJECTION BUFFER. If you convince yourself that the game is stacked against you then you're not really rejected, it's just because they have some irrational hatred of your kind. Dude that's a bullshit excuse for a lack of sexual success and you know it. If you're lifting/exercising, if you're a leader, if you're confident and can perform, if you're free of Oneitis, you'll be fine. I'm not saying that the asian dudes here or black guys won't encounter some people that just don't want to sleep with them, yes, you will. But the fact of the matter is that for every woman who doesn't want to sleep with you there are millions of other options. Just move the fuck on.
And this gets back to Kanye's attitude. Don't let yourself be the victim. The racism that people encounter today is fucking nothing compared to the actual shit previous generations of people had to put up with. You used to not legally be allowed to marry white people or own property or vote for fucks sake. The way is now CLEAR. Do not fucking let yourself become a casualty to a history that is past. Any slight speed bumps you encounter? Overcome them. And fuck it, if some white woman wants to sleep with an Asian guy because she thinks you're a safe beta option even if you're not, fucking exploit that shit. If some white girl wants to sleep with a Black guy because she thinks he's forbidden and a bad boy even if he's patently the opposite, fucking exploit that shit.
I see people here talk disparagingly about their Asian upbringing, but I don't think it was so bad. My parents taught me a lesson that I will never forget, this is paraphrased translation: "If someone's an asshole to you, surpass them and find success. Then who cares what they think?"
Don't fucking be the victim. Be the victor.
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