In my personal experience it is always good to keep hot chicks around you that you aren’t fucking. It can lead to fucking even more hot chicks. An expansion of social circle. And it’s always good to be seen with other hot women.
“You mean I can hangout with women and NOT fuck them and not be considered a red pill cuck oribitor?”
You? Probably not... But with some work you might be able to change that. And you will see why I do it, and you should too.
I know a lot of you are going to disagree with me on this and that’s totally cool. But in my experience this has benefited me dramatically. Especially when you throw events and you have hot women who are already willing to show up. No drama attached. No effort. No games (risk of flaking. Jealousy. Etc). Not always the case with plates. And the BEST PART. they bring their hot friends which you can bang. Easily.
The problem comes when you WANT to fuck them. But you CANT. That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about women that you CAN fuck. But choose not to out of either pure strategy or disinterest. But if ever you decided “hmm I want to fuck her today” you can.
I have about 4 hot women in my social circle who I have never fucked (drunk blowjobs don’t count). Who continuously and effortlessly bring hot girls in my life. And given the fact I’m already friends with their friend. It gives me the easiest in ever. Controlling my cock by not banging them has paid itself over for me 10 fold.
But at any given moment I can call them and fuck them if i wanted. They’ve told me.
So how do you accomplish this?
Disclamer
Your SMV has to be pretty high to accomplish this. So if you’re just starting this journey. Don’t go thinking you can walk around friend zoning hot women. You have a lot of self work to do before that. And there is also a different between thinking you can fuck these women. And without a doubt knowing it.
always speak with a flirty, sexual underlying tone
As always. Frame
You should speak to them no different than you would any other girl you’re trying to fuck. I always keep it sexual. I always talk about fucking other women. I’m always cocky around them. Nothing changes from them to the chick I’m trying to fuck at the bar. I will even add sight kino in to keep sexual tension. I just don’t escalate.
NEVER be a shoulder to cry on. Or an emotional tampon
These are different from your guy friends. you don’t go beta on them. You don’t listen when they talk about other guys. You make fun of them and show them a good time.
You should also only be giving as much value to them (or less) as they give to you.
Inviting them to parties if they’re bringing other hot women and alcohol.
If they are not providing any type of value they should not be around.
Like I said above. It’s literally no different than a girl you’re trying to fuck. You just don’t, for your own benefit. And that benefit is almost always to bang hotter women, easier.
This might not resonate with everyone. But for me this has gotten me laid with the least amount of effort. It’s like a pyramid scheme. Think about it. You have women who bring other hot women to you. You have social proof. You’re safe in their eyes. And you literally don’t have to put in any work to meet them. It works on itself.
”if you’re high value enough you can still fuck them and get what you want”
Yes but at a price. There will be jealousy. There will be drama. There will be some kind of kick back at some point. I never ran into this with the women I haven’t fucked.
And if they would ever say anything I’d hit them with their own poison “I see you as a really good friend. And I don’t want to jeopardize that 😘”
Give it a try.
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