Men and women are DIFFERENT.
This seems like such a forehead slappingly obvious statement.
Here's the problem.... When we hold men to the female metric of femininity, we fail.
No shit, right?
But that's a BAD THING in the eye of women... Why can't my man cry with me about that sad movie? Why can't he express his feelings? Why are you so emotionally unavailable? Your masculinity is so toxic!
All trying to slot you into that platonic best girlfriend box. We're men. MEN.
Women don't understand that if we're weak enough to bend over and appease you by becoming that big forever absorbent expanding emotional tampon, then our value as a man has diminished because we've decided the the rules we'll live our lives by are a women's rules, which by definition makes us less of a man.
Other foot - when we try to hold women to the masculine rules of being a man, they fail.
Every guy reading this knows there is a line. If you talk shit or go out on a limb or over this line, you KNOW you're going to get the shit kicked out of you. It's different for every guy, but every guy has a line. It's the underlying basis for mutual respect and largely subtextual, but you know at some point if you continue to be an asshole you're going to get, and deserve, a punch in the mouth. Which is why big scary motherfuckers tend to garner more automatic respect and deference... you want a flailing 120lb goth boy angry, or a 240lb MMA motherfucker with cauliflower ears pissed at you?
You think the average bluehair fat feminist cunt even understands there's a line?
No, she hides behind her sex when shit gets real. You can't hit a girl!!!
You've been screaming about equal treatment for years, bitch.. here's to equality...
But you can't do that. You are in actuality hitting a girl. A deluded, hypocritical shell of a female, but when it comes down to it, she's just a girl, and you're a man. She's just LARPing equality to men, swinging her foam sword.
Women, primarily those who identify as feminists/strong independent womyn, love this illusion of control and mastery. It appeases their need to feel validated, strong and "right". Toxic femininity.
So, they don't give a shit about the opinions of a beta male who won't stand up for themselves and just rolls over - there's no fun nor "win" in that. No challenge.
An alpha will not even put up with her shit and refuse to engage or acknowledge her point of view or even that she has any bearing on the conversation whatsoever. There's no "win" there either. Won't even play the game.
She wants a weak target. Something that pushes back a little, she's going to try discredit you and shut you down, thereby "winning over a man" in her mind.
Don't be a weak target.
Stop arguing with women.
Stop giving a shit.
Men and women are NOT equal.
There is NO equality, the sexes operate under different sets of rules.
There is a male spectrum, and a female spectrum. We don't fit on the same graph.
They way it always was.
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