In the Bluepill movies when some Chubby Hubby gets caught cheating with his secretary he ends up groveling and begging for forgiveness. Usually lipstick on the collar or a receipt from a hotel gives him away and its lock that his future involves Divorce Theft and never seeing his kids again. He moves to a cheap motel and enslaves himself for 15 to life.

It doesnt have to look like this.

I have a very good friend whose plate went psychostalker and told the wife, his friends and coworkers and other suspected romantic rivals, then she hospitalized herself in a fit of jealousy and sadness that she wouldn't be more than a jerkboys slampiece.

The guy held frame and took solace in his RP knowledge that women want what other women want. That women going bezerk over a man is the sign of an incredibly attractive man despite the fact that he is a first rate asshole. Maybe even because he is an asshole.

When the shit hits the fan, this type of man doesn't shirk the drama, he exploits it. Hysterical Bonding is something to enjoy, not explain away.

It comes down to Frame. If its strong enough, The reality others live in get dragged into yours. There can only be one reality.