Regarding the hue and cry made over consent in today's metoo era - my 4 cents
1) Consent isn't an issue if you can create it - with enough attraction and stealing hearts. That's what all love does. In a magic show, everyone knows they're being deceived, it's the spectacle that makes it enjoyable (and conversely that's why explaining or defending the trick kills the whole magic - it's all about the spectacle). The whole logic of consent as women (in the media) say and think it should work is in fact totally wrong. Doing what they say quickly leads to a mechanical process that kills any hope of escalation.
This isn't a bad thing - being alpha means you totally eliminate the low value, scary and abusive behaviours of the aggressive betas, incels and omegas (who can and do become rapists) and the passive behaviours of misled BP guys.
And that's once again another reason why women give such terrible advice (if you've read my post on why not to listen to your mom or female relatives).
The best that women and society can do to get their needs (aka commitment) met with a bunch of alphas is to go back to the old conservative ways - can't hate them, but can't catch them either. This will again favour men (if the boundaries are clear as they once were) and you can still stay alpha in an LTR / marriage. But society's not going that way, unless the masculine sets the boundaries for the feminine to play in.
Remember frame is about your set of beliefs that allow you to respond to any situation to your advantage.
2) Once intense emotions are aroused, a person can become a whole other animal. But do be careful about the part where they return to the baseline, cause the old personality (and the 'sanity') will be back. Your job then is to add a focused feeling in favour of you as the new baseline.
As for you yourself, do not let your head fall off your shoulders and forget the needful (protection, STDs, mental disorders). And if you feel suspicious, have that recorder ready. No one can do much if their lies fall apart under cross examination.
3) As much as you love to play with the world, it will also try to play you. So make sure you don't get trapped in other people's games. Remember that you're the gatekeeper of commitment, and society will use all the beta and omega tricks to force you into that. Oh yes, there's an alpha way to gain commitment - it involves trust, trust, more trust, respect, attraction, support, sex, devotion, kids, and good food - but fat chance of that in today's society, being the beta that it is. Yeah, beta behaviours in seeking commitment are just as repulsive to men.
On a side note : Just as men have to work hard to create SMV and the attractive qualities worthy of sex and status, women too need to cultivate their CMV (yes, I introduce that) and the qualities worthy of commitment, which was kind of obvious before the 20th century. Now if only someone would draw a CMV graph.
4) And then the omegas. Eliminate anyone and everyone, however attractive, if they're willing to stoop to any level to hurt you and your life to get you to do what they want. They weren't good company for the long run to begin with and deserve to be rejected (kind of like the 'nice guy' analogue isn't it?) As an example, women who bond with you over sex, and then go crazy in the morning when their ASD kicks in, or when they get caught and their hamsters go into overdrive and they throw you under the bus, or when alpha widowed and try to use the system to blackmail you into staying. Or gold diggers who know precisely what they're doing - the Lucifer's daughters. Or the ones that suddenly flirt at you out of nowhere at work and then try to implicate you with HR when rejected, because they can't take rejection. In that last case, discreetly activate your phone recorder or keep in range of a camera.
5) Some cases will simply not want you no matter what you do - could be marriage, religion, compatibility, whatever. Not even the biggest alpha can win all women - in some cases the emotion simply won't happen. In such cases it's a real consent issue. Don't waste any time or bat an eyelid over it. If women can sense this (and they're healthy), they'll be respectful about it. It's much better to have a few genuine relationships than several phony ones. Knowing that makes rejection a non-issue.
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