When I see (I don’t even have to read it) a post about someone having oneitis. It usually mean one of two things, if not both.
ONE
The given is scarcity, lack of abundance; we talk about it all the time. You should be going out and meeting other women. You should be talking to as many women as you can till you end up with enough plates that it will be hard to even focus on one. Then you will finally understand what we mean when we say abundance.
TWO
This one is even more important and doesn’t get addressed as often over in the askTRP sub.
You’re not using your time wisely. Between your mission, lifting, hobbies, reading, and goals. You shouldn’t even have enough time in a day to be sitting around worrying about who is plowing your precious little tulip. And since it isn’t you, you should re-evaluate what you’re actually doing with the limited time you have in a day.
If you’re actually doing what is suggested here. You will barley have time to call your own mother to see how she’s doing. Let alone obsess over a women you aren’t fucking.
We talk about this more than enough to know that you’re never going to get her anyway if you don’t already have all this established ahead of time. So if you’re sitting over on the askTRP sub typing paragraphs about her. You are just pissing in the wind. And it’s No wonder she doesn’t want your boring/lazy ass.
You want to really get rid of your oneitis. Get off your lazy ass. Go find some new hobbies. Get your ass in the gym. Focus on your diet. Learn how to cook your meals. Plan for that business you been thinking about starting Up. Meditate. Enroll in classes. Read the fucking sidebar and the books in/top posts.
Or do whatever the fuck YOU want to do that doesn’t involve women. Then once you get all that established and in the works if you still have time to be worrying about what she’s doing. Spend it meeting other women or people.
I can’t fathom a logical reason for having oneitis for any women other than just being pure lazy. If you’re actually doing what is suggested here. I guarantee you will start to see you don’t have time to even think about her. Let alone post about her. So get off your lazy ass and get to work.
TL;DR
You’re not busy enough. Put in the work
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