Intro
I’ve begun reading Red Pill literature some time ago, and am currently going through The Rational Male Vol. 3: Positive Masculinity. Though the book is mainly aimed at Red Pill fathers, there is very good wisdom in it that applies to all, such as the 5 emotions that you shouldn’t show a woman.
Body
The emotions are: anger, rage, fear, despair, and despondency or depression. These were derived from a quote that Rollo used in Chapter 2. It states:
‘Women cannot bear to see a Man experiencing negative emotions such as extreme anger, rage, fear, despair, despondency or depression for extended periods of time.’
Of course, there is good reasoning for this. The reasoning is so simple that it essentially encompasses all of the emotions listed. We all know this by now, but it bears repeating: you are the rock, the captain of your ship. A strong leader very rarely will show these emotions. If these emotions are shown, it’s very, very brief, and very rarely seen again.
If the captain of the ship crumbles at the sight of one mishap, gets extremely angry, and demonstrates rage for a long period of time, his shipmates will begin to question his level-headedness and ability to focus on the task at hand (leading them).
If the captain cowers in fear, his shipmates will lose courage in their ability to weather the storm.
If the captain shows despair, despondency, or falls into depression, his shipmates will be left with no hope, and may end up abandoning ship.
If you ever end up feeling these emotions, ensure that they are VERY short-lived and that nobody actually sees you feel this way. It will hurt your image in their minds. They will begin to question the faith they put into you, and then you’ll be fighting an uphill battle to win their faith back.
Lessons Learned
- Be a rock in the storm. You must be the one that others can confidently lean on for support during times of struggle, knowing that you won’t budge and will provide support.
- Lead with conviction and confidence. You must have faith in what you’re doing and the choices you’re making, and follow through whole-heartedly.
- It’s better to feel these emotions in private than in public. We must maintain a rock-hard frame. People seeing us feel these negative emotions will put dents in the armor we so carefully constructed. This applies to not only women, but also the men in our social circles.
Thank you to Rollo Tomassi, whose books on The Red Pill have been absolutely invaluable and educational to not just me, but to all of those who look to unplug.
[–]DildoShwaggins247314 points315 points316 points (16 children) | Copy
[–]1yeahmaybe263 points64 points65 points (9 children) | Copy
[–]TRP Legal ExpertColdIceZero124 points125 points126 points (8 children) | Copy
[–]AshyLarry275 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]TRP Legal ExpertColdIceZero11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]AshyLarry271 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]wildmvn6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]_MysticFox0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]NormalAndy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]U-940 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]NormalAndy165 points166 points167 points (12 children) | Copy
[–]catchpull42 points43 points44 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]p3n1x8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Avertus31 points32 points33 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]p3n1x15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Skywave284 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Kbrownnd977 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]reneofficial0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Fyrjefe2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Demiurge_Decline2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]NormalAndy1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 160 points161 points162 points (31 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 109 points110 points111 points (30 children) | Copy
[–]p3n1x25 points26 points27 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]major_slackher2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]p3n1x16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]throwawy_1226201741 points42 points43 points (3 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]throwawy_122620177 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points (19 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]pridebrah3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]ozenmacher[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Wegwerfkonto_3 points4 points5 points (14 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points (13 children) | Copy
[–]Wegwerfkonto_-3 points-2 points-1 points (12 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (9 children) | Copy
[–]boxxybebe1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Wegwerfkonto_0 points1 point2 points (7 children) | Copy
[–]boxxybebe0 points1 point2 points (6 children) | Copy
[–]Wegwerfkonto_1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy
[–]magx011 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]Wegwerfkonto_-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy
[–]magx016 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]1swaglordobama64 points65 points66 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]Nashboy4511 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Radkin00712 points13 points14 points (7 children) | Copy
[–]CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]godofgainz6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]PullNeckInTheHeat0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]TheDemiurge19982 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]Radkin0075 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]FrankWashington10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Borsao6644 points45 points46 points (6 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 18 points19 points20 points (4 children) | Copy
[–]fuggetboutit7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]pridebrah1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]p3n1x0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]lookingforshantaram 1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy
[–]OfficerWade31 points32 points33 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]climaxingplatypus0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]DeepReindeer5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]WillisAurelius51 points52 points53 points (20 children) | Copy
[–]OfficerWade75 points76 points77 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]Nashboy456 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]OfficerWade9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Fyrjefe1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]cat_magnet13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]DyeKnowMight7 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]Gargantuar010 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Aestheticcunt19964 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]OfficerWade0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]Aestheticcunt19960 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]BastaHR3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]kurdishpower01 1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy
[–]anylegtypes 1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy
[–]showerdudes9 1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy
[–]anylegtypes 1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy
[–]smfc-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy
[–]dumbkidaccount14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]bnine_3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]tempolaca3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]DropDeadTyrant10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]illogicaldecision2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Demiurge_Decline0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]fuzzyjames123 1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy
[–]JensenMse2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]rosewoodguy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]thrice_great472 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]rossiFan2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]jkingauthor2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]GeneRD2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]womans_algorithm1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]womans_algorithm0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]InformalCriticism1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Robster251 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Neo2Trinity1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Quo2101 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Hjalmbere1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]bigreddraude1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Dawnguards1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]iknowthewhey1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]3LiveAFTSOV1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]spartan13373 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]ThePeruvianCrab4 points5 points6 points (5 children) | Copy
[–]TheDemiurge19987 points8 points9 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]ThePeruvianCrab1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]TheDemiurge19985 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]360_no_scope_upvote0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]simplisticallysimple0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]3LiveAFTSOV2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]strikethrough1232 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]Kaleb02134 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]FaberIce0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]FaberIce-2 points-1 points0 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]DancesWithPugs0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]Brutal130 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Jesusonacake0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]ddiogenesofsinope0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]friendlynaboureeno0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]PerplexingPegasus_0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]2914iwiK0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Lucky-Mustard0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]twofones0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]WoodWizzy870 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Lateralanouncer0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]3chazthundergut0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Heizenbrg0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]iLoveReddit320 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]DancesWithPugs3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]pridebrah1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Gargantuar011 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]randomcaqitaLization0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy
[–]IncomeByEtnicity1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]randomcaqitaLization0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy
[–]tempolaca0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]DancesWithPugs-1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy
[–]Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy
[–]Low_Cost_Chimp_Meat1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy
[+]IncomeByEtnicitycomment score below threshold-9 points-8 points-7 points (8 children) | Copy
[–]Coroshi12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy
[–]IncomeByEtnicity0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy
[–]kylerosa21[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]IncomeByEtnicity0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy
[–]linkschode3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy
[–]IncomeByEtnicity0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy