Didn't believe TRP before ? Well read here and take it straight from a real girl's blog. This article shows TRP principles so clearly that I honestly would have thought its fake if I didn't look into the rest of the author's blog and her twitter. For context she is 29, single, and desperately wants to settle down; she looks decently attractive for a 29 year old. There was a time where I would have read something like this and felt bad for her; but with the red pills lens on, I just laugh.
I have been single for the past nine months. Before that brief relationship nine months ago, I had been single for about two years. That is a long time to be alone right? I take complete responsibility for that extended period of “singledome.” I was finding a new job and really I was finding myself again. I was not feeling confident or content with my life and I was scrambling to figure that out before I brought anyone else into my life.
2 years alone at your late twenties is so scary as a woman. Sorry I chose to prioritize my career, money, and freedoms over men.
My beeeautiful friend whom I shall call Em, is single as well. She has a far different dating life from mine. No two year treks of singleness for Em. Em hasn’t been lucky in love yet either, but perhaps she is more lucky in love than I am. She does at least meet men she wants to see more than twice. One thing I should mention is that Em isn’t exactly “looking” to meet anyone at this very moment.
Ok Em, ok.
Em is hotter than men and she can still pull chads, I'm kind of jealous.
Being single in your (very) late twenties is hard. A couple of months ago we went to a minor league baseball game, after a lot of rambunctious cheering I received a ball from a player with his phone number. Never one to turn down a baseball player, *wink wink* I text him and we all met up with him and his friends at a nearby bar. The night was long, hilarious and made absolutely no improvement to my love life. This brings me to problem number one of dating in your late twenties.
Turns out the baseball guy just wanted some ass and not to put a ring on my finger. I still fucked him though.
You are no longer 24.Being 24 and being 29 are vastly different. At 24 I was young, naive, full of hope and open to all possibilities. Cute and funny guy with no real job, ehh he’ll get one! At 29 I am cynical, low on patience and know exactly what I want.
At 24 I loved getting pumped by bad boys with no jobs, they even had a ton of tattoos! I loved being obsessed with them and I expected nothing in return; I was getting the tingles hard. Unfortunately I'm 29 now, cynical from being used in my youth, and I know exactly what I want now: financial support and babies.
Problem number two…
You are over meeting men at bars.Remember when you wore tight skirts and four inch heels every night to impress a bunch of men at a bar that were really only trying to sleep with you? Long gone are those days. It’s a win if you fix your hair at 29. Meeting the same intoxicated, over confident bachelors has lost its appeal. Not to mention there is still a crowd of 22 year old girls with tight skirts and perfect contouring at these bars. Who has time to compete with that? You work FULL time at a job you probably hate no less.
Just LOL. Wow....
I remember 24, when I wore my slutty tight short dresses and my fuck-me-heels for a bunch of bad boys and chads so I can get railed hard by the hottest one I could impress. I cant do that anymore :( At 29, its kind of too much effort to even make my hair look good now. While I'd like to pretend that I don't like getting sexually used by hot bad boys anymore, my real issue is that I just cant compete for them anymore with some many hotter younger girls around.
All the education and career I prioritized in my youth ended up landing me a job that I hate anyway. I don't like working, I want a breadwinner.
Problem number three…
You don’t have the energy you did when you were younger.It used to be easy to hit four social events in one weekend. But between work, the gym, sleeping and running errands you are struggling to make it to one now. Being a grown up is no joke! There is so much to get done all the time. You don’t want to spend valuable hours sitting at a restaurant, hoping an attractive man will walk through those doors and sweep you off your feet. You want to know where these men are going to be dang it!
AND SO DO I!
I feel so tired, busy, and "grown up" now, I'm not that girl anymore. I'm so busy, lets be real I'm only keeping up with my gym routine until I snag a provider. Why can't I just sit on my ass and wait for a prince charming to sweep me off my feet ? Fine I know its not gona happen, at least I want to know where and how I can snag a clueless beta.
AND SO DOES EM!
She just doesn’t know it yet.
I believe other women are feeling the way Em and I feel. So, I have decided to help you all out. I am going to do a lot of research and work for you. I have already read too many articles to count today on the best places to meet single men. Good single men. In addition to the research articles I found on the web, I have collected data on places and events good men go to. Basically, I just asked good men. They know where they go better than anyone right?
You think this is just me? I know my peers are feeling this way too when they hit 30s. My hunt for the "good single men" ( read perfect beta chump) is just beginning. Here is a blog to help other women land theirs too.
EDIT: I had her twitter tab still open and decided to scroll all the way. Look at these two gems here and here . Good luck to your future beta chump !
EDIT2: Someone inboxed me this. This blog is gold, read the description for "the safe bet" she dated while keeping what you read here in mind.
The guys she has dated:
The Safe Bet
This guy isn’t horrible. He is nice, he adores you in fact. And you like him because well, he isn’t a threat. He could never do better than you! Finally, after the beating your ego took with the player and the narcissist you can be the adored one. And no more worrying every time a pretty girl walks in the room. Then over time you will realize this man may meet lots of nice bullet points on your list, but you aren’t that into him and he doesn’t realistically meet your “top tier” qualifications for a husband, you just let him slide on account of the fact that he liked you SO darn much. He’s history.
DONT BE THIS GUY ^. If TRP wasn't clear to you, it damn well should be now.
The Player
This guy just can’t keep it in his freaking pants. He is charming, too charming, but usually equally stupid. He is hitting on you and your best friend at the same bar, in the same night. Yes, I actually dated this dude(several times). Has little going for himself except that he is a fast talker.
The guy she wants:
Is it weird if I’ve dated these same types more than once? So let me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout, loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories. Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement, is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude…my mom, obviously! Fine…its really me with the mouth and the attitude.
EDIT3: Replaced the two blog links with their archive versions in case she deletes them. I want people to learn from this as long as reddit is up.
I never thought about it before, but "where have all the good men gone" translates to "why aren't men I desire interested in me anymore?"
i kept it very simple for my nieces when they said this. my reply: "your phone rings a lot at 22 - 25... giving you lots of attention. your phone won't ring like that at 30. trust me."
some did... some didn't trust me. now, they see.
i give zero fucks. they slutted it up good and wasted their 'fine' years... having babies for thugs and losers. now, they've gained weight and want a good man that will 'take me as i am... or leave me as i am."
well, they're leaving you... just as you are. alone.
LOL, that line is art in the form of words.
The problem is they do find desperate beta chumps.
It’s not a problem, it’s nature. Let it be.
It was more of a figure of speech but yeah, I agree.
I love finding WholeSomeMemes here, deep in TRP comments.
Carry on ya'll's cordiality.
It's a huge problem. Garbage flocks to garbage and any reason for self improvement evaporates.
Yes, they do. But they are not attracted to them, they resent them, they're unhappy, and will cheat on that chump with the first chad that offers them the slightest attention.
Then the beta has his assets taken and pays alimony for the kids he doesn't see. Ahhh, the circle of life
You don’t go against nature... #AlphaFucksBetaBucks
Good for the beta chumps. Meanwhile miss 23, super hot and has daddy issues is blowing my phone up.
No, the problem is that the ones who don’t find a chump vote.
Yup. I checked out my old school classmates on FB and found just one... shes always been a bit fat, great breasts though. Stumbled through life not really doing anything, turns 32, gets married, has a kid, all within one year... Checked out the husband...soft looking guy, looks like he practically eats estrogen...checked his career...owns his own accountancy.... made me both laugh and feel a bit sad for his likely impending nightmare of a life in the future.
What's his future have in store for him?
Likely a recipient of "I cheated on you with some 'chad' that paid me that primal attention".
Followed soon thereafter by repetitive cuckoldry, or a divorce pillaging of any assets not hidden in the Caymans
Alot of guys are interested in older women, why is it common to think men only want younger girls
Beyond their delusions of believing that they'll be as coveted into their 30s as they are/were in their 20s, I sincerely wonder how many womyn are aware of this..
WOW!!! 90% of a woman's eggs are gone by 30!!??
and at 40, only 3% remain? i've never heard of this, but if true, this puts things into an entirely different perspective.
Yeah, I was leveled by it too.
I brought it up to my sister, a fucking nurse practitioner, and she wasn't aware of it either (not that she necessarily should because she's in medical, but I figured the odds would be quite high on her end that it'd be common knowledge).
Now, all those stories of girls in their thirties (many of which I know personally) going the in vitro route makes so much more sense. Truly chilling stuff.
The worst thing is the older a woman gets the more the chance of severe disability / birth defects in the foetus.
But they care more about $$$ than their baby because you still see them latching onto guys, marrying them and having multiple kids aged 40+.
I think it might have more to do with mindset and financial situation than we would like to believe.As always life isn't black and white, as entertaining as it is to believe everything we read here as gospel (because it's empowering and provides some sort of explanation, both rational and emotional, for the world we feel alone against).
I know that I, at age 20, certainly don't want a fucking kid. Shit, I can't even fucking consider having a kid without shuddering. All that extra financial and literal responsibility. Fuck that. Most people my age can't afford kids, and realize this.
If you wanna go all the way to the red and say that women are incapable of thinking like this, fine, but the chads they are fucking certainly are and they sure as fuck don't want a child; shit, even the beta boys probably realize this. It doesn't take a genius to look at the cost of baby food and think wait a minute...
Because dooming your kids with a 50/50 chance of Autism is the rage now a days.
A single childless career woman once told me she wanted to have a kid after all. Just needed to find a man. She was 40 years old.
We weren't friends, I don't know how that story ended - it's a mystery!
OMG the absolute tragedy of it all.
Why can't women see this?
i love and respect females but idk many that know much about female anatomy or even care to know.
i have female relatives who don't gaf about pap smear exams or mammograms. i don't expect them to care at all about their eggs.
Ugh. Low standards when young. Lower standards when old.
Not really. In the single's market, women's standards tend to go up with age despite the women bringing less value to the market.
Part of this is beacuse women with reasonable standards end up shacking up with guys, while the women who are impossible to bond with (due to things like high standards) constantly cycle in and out of the market.
High value mates get pulled from the market and stay pulled. Low value mates constantly are in and out of the market.
they mistake thug attitude and tattoos for alpha characteristics... and it's simply peacocking.
See Karen Straughan on Men Not Marrying. She goes into that in depth
I don't know why she's not more popular
Because she speaks some very uncomfortable truths?
Feel free to read her AMA on here
But when her SMV tanks with depreciated looks and kids, it translates to "Where are all the Nice Guys I rejected who can respect and provide for me?".
It's a beta fantasy that girls think about nice guys. No, nice guys are always invisible, never remembered as more than an inconvenience. No, she's thinking about the men that fucked her and don't do it anymore.
This would suggest that Beta Bucks doesn't exist. Yes, women prefer Mr. Tall Handsome and Swag, but "respect" and "chivalry" often becomes important when she's past her prime and needs a bailout. Men who consider themselves Nice Guys need to recognize this and not end up becoming a wallet.
Check out r-WhereAreAllTheGoodMen for more examples of women complaining about wanting a "good man" and a "nice guy" when they're past their prime.
She wants a nice guy who will fuck her good. A nice guy who will open the door for her but is strong enough to destroy another man if needed. He tips the waitress but the valet is terrified if he scratched his car.
That's what they mean by nice guy. Assertive but flexible, strong but caring, etc. Not weak ass little bitch boy who is afraid of everyone.. Not a criminal or abusive.. Just a balance leaning towards civilized and class..
For millions of years, there was no such thing as a guy being fat to the point of repulsive, being truly broke meant starving to death, everyone knew how to hunt and could carry a 50 lb animal a few miles.. there was no reason to be afraid of women, since life expectancy was about 35 years old...
"Nice guys" get shit on because they are too far out of the zone in one way or another. Nice guys in the 40s and 50s would slay pussy if they were young today
Lmfao. That profile it’s like a dating version of a copy pasta.
You know kev more than anyone that they’re all still there, it’s just not what she wants really.
I don't think they're still there, by early 30s most of nice guys marry girls who decided that it's time to "settle down" and fill boring but stable provider role. Those who didn't fit provider role but have good SMV fuck younger girls and hence not available to post-wall women. So who's left is somebody who isn't good as a provider, and doesn't have SMV to fuck younger girls.
Then it translates into "I don't need no man!"
...... While complaining that there's no man still.
Meeting the same intoxicated, over confident bachelors has lost its appeal REALLY means ....Not getting attention from intoxicated, over confident bachelors SUCKS
This isn't the point. It's a bluepill woman back then being redpill now, for realizing that a man won't change according to her dreams. Instead she is rather due to her experiences cynical that her wish would be fulfilled. Hence "saving the best for last" so she is sure what she is getting into.
She saw the good in men who had no potential to be good at all. The bad guys were the ones with confidence to approach women, the good guys are the kind that just stick behind. At the same time, these low confidence good guys are not interesting to women because they put them on a pedastal, which is unattractive to any human being on earth.
It’s unfortunate, this woman was probably a great lay in her early 20s but reality is smacking her in the face and rightfully so, I’ve rarely seen someone so bold in confirming TRP beliefs while playing the woe is me card
Gems from her website:
This is what the wall looks like. She has "future ex-wife and alimony" written all over her. The schmuck that marries her has 4 or 5 years before she leaves with all his shit because she "deserves to be happy"
Wow.
I hope whoever among you cucks her husband makes sure to stick it in her ass. Lord knows she won't be letting him do it.
You forgot potential for multiple affairs, one night stands, or cuckolding should any younger stud gives her "the look" at the grocery store.
So what you're saying is pump and dump
no- avoid like the plague, not worth the risk. Seems to be a stage 4 clinger.
many more ladies with less red flags, less baggage and less sense of entitlement.
Dude check out the other blog post in OP's second edit. You are right, she's a divorce-rape waiting to happen.
She’s just waiting to stab some unknowingly stupid beta in the back. Won’t be me, I’m still recovering, building my career, finances and assets. Especially if they have multiple sextapes floating around, looks really bad. Don’t want that to be the mother of any thing I’ll father in the future.
The thing with women is that they believe their own internal narrative. They also have a complete inability to imagine that anybody else's life is different than their own.
For example, throughout this woman's story, she's not going without sex, just without relationships. She's still meeting men to sate her horniness, just not "men she wants to see more than twice" like her friend allegedly does.
She assumes that everybody - her friend Em, her other friends, her ugly friends, and men too - are all just like her. Having causal sex when they're horny but what they really want is a relationship with someone who has his/her shit together and wants more.
The idea that some girls out there aren't having sex with guys they don't like every weekend just because they can or that the kinds of guys who are able to have casual sex with women aren't secretly pining for a good woman who can give them more is beyond this author. She can't imagine that other people are different than she is. She only sees the world through the lens of her own experiences and believes everybody is just like her.
When she finds a loser guy who wants to marry her and he turns out to be an underconfident chump who's only been with 3 women, she's not going to understand that his count is low because he is literally unable to be a part of the casual sex culture. She'll think it's because he's a straight shooter who's in it for marriage. Then she'll get really, really frustrated with how unfuckable he is about 4 years into marriage and take his house and children.
Your last paragraph should be in the sidebar. That is applicable to so many situations and put quite elegantly I might add. Context be damned, it stands on its own.
yeah man this part got me the most
This post articulates something ive been feeling but been unable to put into words for a few years now.
Thanks for sharing.
You forgot to add the man's sanity at the end.
Oh man, this is deep. You do, but many don't see what's on the other side of the fence, or holes in it where encounters occur.
My mind immediately went to the newly spiritual yoga wife who wants to 'try out' an 'open relationship' only to have her suspicions confirmed: no other woman wants to fuck her husband either.
How utterly humiliating for her! How did this happen? No no no, this will not do....
That last paragraph makes me shudder.
You sir are the reason why I fucking love TRP. The woke is strong.
To be fair, she could know that there are different people and she just isn't writing her blog to those people. There's a difference between assuming everyone is like you and assuming everyone who follows you is like you. I don't know anything about whether this particular girl is stupid or not.
Read this again, it might be the most important thing you need to know about women (all women):
It's not a matter of intelligence. Jessica's a decent writer, and perceptive about the things she does think about, like personal finance. She doesn't seem to be stupid, but the idea that other people have different desires and experiences simply doesn't enter her head. Even if she knows it rationally, it doesn't register emotionally.
She literally writes that her friend Em has a better sex life and isn't looking for a relationship. But she still assumes that Em will also want to settle down. "She just doesn’t know it yet." And you know what? She's probably right. It makes sense that women don't believe what other women are saying, because they're probably hamstering.
There's two different things going on in her blog. One is her beliefs about women, men, and relationships, but the other is her advertising/job. Women can accept in the abstract that there are different people who desire different things, that's part of how they can believe that their experiences or desires are different from other people and that they are special in particular.
All I meant was that if she thought it was going to be read by a broader audience she would have written "most women" or some shit like that. Believing that your desires are the norm is different from admitting to publicly believing that no one could be different from you. Think about it like this, there are some theists who believe that everyone believes in god and that even atheists secretly believe in god, but they know that it sounds crazy so most of them won't admit to believing it publicly and still admit it privately.
I don't have the energy to point out why she's stupid, but she is and you either know it, or you're stupid too.
what do you mean she'll get frustrated in 4 years how ubfuckable he is? I'm not sure what that means?
He’ll never really get her wet and make her scream like all of the casual flings she had in her early twenties. Sex will no longer be fun and enjoyable and she’ll grow to resent him because he “took that away from her” by marrying her.
An unfuckable drone, or worse: lazy, complacent. Boring. No feel for her.
You're describing the basic idea of female solipsism. A personal example of this is how most of my plates pretty much worship my body and openly wonder why not every female is drooling all over me. Well, the simple reason is that my SMV isn't high enough for that (yet ;). They think every woman has the same SMV as her (or at least, no other woman is of higher SMV).
Shit that last paragraph nailed it.
A man in her comment section delivered a textbook RP response:
That guy is living the dream that he built. May it continue to bear fruit through his unyielding efforts. He's right about everything else. He might have to consider dating girls in their early twenties. Age difference doesn't matter, really. Maturity and value do, and he seems to have a good grasp on that.
By their fruits you shall know them!
Been saying this for years.
I know women in their fifties who behave like spoiled children. What about their age? When do they become adults?
They don't.
Wasted potential.
He is going to get absolutely roasted for his sincere comment.
That's the sad part. He'll be called privileged and he will be blamed for having a bad personality (it's why he's still single, in their minds). He's happy without women and it will bother others. I chose to celebrate the man instead.
Sweet jesus. Take this to the fucking bank. edit: I'm saving this bitch this shit needs to be on the sidebar GOD DAMN!
His entire comment is good, and one I've seen before, but her response to it is even more telling. She just doesn't get it.
This guys response is not redpill.
This guy is a total blooper. Building his wealth emprire to get sucked dry by some parasite. If he was RP he wouldn't waste his time humble bragging about his wealth to attract parasites and he would show more awareness to sexual dynamics... That's the beta cuck mating strategy trying to fill the provider role.
My favorite is her complaining about how she doesn't have the energy to waste time at a bunch of "social events" (ie drinking and partying), and now she has to balance, GASP, work! and the gym! and, omigosh, SLEEP!!!
Dude suck it up. Billions of men around the world do this every single fucking day and still manage to take care of kids, run small businesses, maintain friendships, and still grab a beer with the guys or catch the game every once in a while.
Smart men will stay far away from you, princess. Good luck.
EDIT: I HIGHLY recommend checking out the second blog post that the OP highlighted in his second edit. This woman is a complete fucking nutjob, hilariously immature, and dumb as a box of rocks. Enjoy!
...we both know she ain't going to the gym.
And if she is she's not actually working out.
:sits on exercise bike for 10 minutes:
:scrolls through Twitter:
:leaves:
:posts about workout on Twitter:
Lol truly amazing how many of them do this. It's sad actually
It's hilarious how most women can't live any sort of meaningful life while not attached at the hip to a man. She equates being single with being alone. Bitch don't you have any friends? I am single but definitely don't consider that being alone.
So true though, women feel like they are suffocating without male attention. And then say shit like: "I'm an strong independent woman ! I don't need no man."
Going off /u/Original_Dankster 's comment. "For a woman, having a man >IS< their job."
For her being single for 2 years is what it's like for a man to be unemployed for 2 years. Sure, maybe brief periods between jobs are alright, but to have the creeping realization that you're increasingly unemployable and will never find another job is terrifying for most men.
In line with the job metaphor, imagine being handed the CEO position of a successful company at age 20 with lots of competitors offering you the same, and then with each passing year being demoted lower and lower until by the time you're 40 you're working in the mailroom.
It's bad enough having to experience this scenario, but not knowing (or pretending not to know) why this is happening to you just makes the whole thing even worse.
She does have friends. And the one she mentions is whoring around because she still has her looks unlike the author
More proof women veiw men the way men view careers.
A man doesn't mind slaving away in his early 20's to get the skills, experience and connections he'll need to apply for the rest of his life. Once he has those, he can, ideally, use them anywhere and everywhere to command high positions and salaries. Can you image how frustrating it would be to start off in the mail room and work your way up to executive vice president just to find out that if you went anywhere else you'd have to start there in their mail room and minimum wage?
WOmen view the CC the same way. Sure, she'll put all her effort into looking the look and going to the right places and meeting the rights people and fucking every high value man she can snag. Why? Because surely it will give her the skills and experience and connections to be with any guy anywhere and get full status and benefits. Just because she jumps to a new man doesn't mean she doesn't get to keep all the benefits she's already earned, who caes if she put in all the hard work with another guy? She's got the experience, right she should always be allowed to make latteral moves and by 30 she's entitled to an executive position and privileges.
Excellent analogy. Allow me to extend it a bit.
When a woman gets hit on by a man, she reacts as a man would a job offer.
If the flirtation is from a man of higher SMV, it's like a "promotion" for her. It's earned in her mind. Just like a middle manager would see a job offer to be a senior director or something. It's pride, and he will be agreeable to the person bringing the offer, and will willingly turn away from his current job - no loyalty and no hard feelings, it's a step up after all.
If it's from a man of equal SMV, then it's situational-dependent whether it's welcome or not, just as a man would consider a lateral move if the circumstances are advantageous... But won't rock the boat for no reason. Though he may keep his eyes open for opportunities, and do a little "networking". Similarly she'll look to branch-swing.
If it's a man of lower SMV, she'll view it as an insult. Just as if our middle manager got a job offer to work as an junior clerk. He'd be dismissive, perhaps even mock the offer and resent the person who presented it to him. He may shit-talk the firm that made him the offer to his colleagues, to preserve his status. That offer is actually an insult to his accomplishments, experience and abilities... It would carry stigma! God forbid his peers and other potential employers find out that somebody wanted him to be a junior clerk again. Similarly, a woman would have the same reaction to a lower SMV male making a pass at her. The audacity of >THAT< disgusting man hitting on her, how insulting! Better shame him. Don't let the stigma that interaction even get known amongst her peers, and if they do find out, better belittle him and mock him publicly so that it's clear to all outside observers that she's not at his level and he was unrealistic in his expectations.
For a woman, having a man >IS< their job. If a woman gets a regular workforce job, it's against her nature, and possibly as a means to an end - so that she can enter a social circle of high-status men in her field to find a mate.
holy shit this comment and reply are like the intravenous redpill
Holy shit. Now we're mainlining the Red Pill.
IV? Neh, Intracranial, applied directly into the amygdala, hormonal seat of TERROR
Spot on, except for one thing.
No confident, self-actualized man would bother publicly shaming or belittling or getting offended by someone offering him a job and salary that is beneath his level of qualification and experience. He would just ignore it. At the very most, he would chuckle about it later with his friends and co-workers.
That man's value and achievements are measurable. They are evident to everyone around him who knows his job title and has an idea of how much money he makes. No amount of substandard job offers are going to lessen the name he has made for himself thus far.
Women's value, on the other hand, is not measurable. Men, and society as a whole, desire women for qualities that are entirely subjective. Women are not priced according to value; they are priced according to the market. Despite their constant whinging about "knowing what they deserve", a woman is only ever as valuable as the quality of man who approaches her. When a guy comes along and makes a sub-par bid, in her mind it actually drives her perceived market value down, because she knows she has no other overt indicators of what she's worth.
It truly is a life of quiet desperation. I do not envy it.
Spot on. Women's percieved market value is a bubble that bursts when a society's emasculation level crosses an extreme threshold. Their one and only working strategy is to artificially inflate their value. Hence makeup and entitlement disproportional to merit. The chumps are those who swallow their bait and get eaten in turn.
I agree completely - the dude I was imagining in my analogy was a typical dude in a middle management position, not necessarily a TRP aware or naturally alpha man. Point taken.
oh man, hook this concentrated red pill into my veins! bang on!
Kudos for post. This should be like a chapter in ever RP manual.
But, let's say, for the sake of the story, that she catcher top tier Chad. That man is coveted still by women of all ages. Is there any incentive for him to be faithful, besides divorce? If he's so super duper he can handle that with ease.
I honestly have to say I don't know if I can mentally accept this comment, I can't argue against any of this, and all of this makes great sense, but this almost makes me view women in a way that I might not be ready to. Feels like this kind of bursts my bubble of how I view women.
Embrace the truth. Nobody said it was going to be easy.
sometimes the redpill is a suppository
Welcome to the dark side- Red Pill. nice to meet you.
This is so freaking true and I agree with what you said. I have actually been sent job descriptions from recruiters that are below my pay grade and experience, thinking to myself "Why the hell do they think I would leave my job for this opportunity?"
Probably the same as a woman who is getting fucked by a high status man, gets hit on by a less attractive man. She thinks the guy is crazy for thinking that she would choose him over the higher status man
I am not sure where I read it, but King Henry once had a girl (are they called misstres?), but she wanted the gardner. How can a gardner compete with a king?
Edit: as far as I remember she was very young.
While this is probably true most of the time, I think I've found an exception: Ariana Grande x Pete Davidson. Ariana arguably has way higher SMV then Pete and yet she still dates him publicly.
Man this is pretty spot on!
“I approved this comment because it wasn’t half as crude or inappropriate as the other men from MGTOW left me.
I’m not looking for men that are interested in partying with 20 year olds and not settling down. So that issue is already solved. I have dated wealthy and it’s not a concern or even a desire for me really. We want to lead different lives. I want to lead an average life with a man looking to have a family. It’s crazy I know, but they are out there still. Thanks for trying to explain biology to me. Much appreciated 🙂”
So now that she’s ready to settle down, it has to be with a guy who isn’t interested in doing the things she done all along, and still continues to do whilst trying to strike gold.
that replay of her's made me lol...
hamstering like mad... "I'm not interested in guys that are not interested in me..."
and also... she mentions MGTOW comments...
so she must know exactly why she can't find what she's looking for...
I'm really curious in how is she hamstering red pill bombs...
> hamstering like mad... "I'm not interested in guys that are not interested in me..."
The idea of starting a family is so strong in her head, that it overrides all other criteria. As long as the guy wants kids, he's ok. Doesn't matter if he's not wealthy or ugly. After a few years she'll probably grow bored, "suddenly" realizes that the guy isn't that great because she was so blindsighted, and cheat/leave.
It's amazing how short-sighted women are a lot of the time.
Yeah right? Fucking hypocrit idiot women doing all the stuff and then asking with eyes wide open where are good guys etc. Ffs they still make me mad sometimes.
Funniest thing is, i saw UGLY and FAT women online in their 38, 40 and 46 write a bio "Guys don't start a conversation without a picture i wont answer it if its so." I texted some of them bitch ure old and in no position to choose and some accepted, some even refused to admit it rofl.
Like bitch look at urself ure a fat bag of shit why do you think you still can choose men who want to fuck you because thats what you desperately need- to be fucked. So why not just let a horny man do you? Prince charming wont come to you no way.
Yeah we are not, at all, on the same wavelength. Please go away.
Western Women are pampered and heavily catered to their entire childhood. They also spend all of their free time binging Hollywood uncritically. This creates sky high expectations that can never be fulfilled.
They can't settle and don't understand good enough. That's why they'll show up to everything late perfecting their makeup. It's also why they're horrible negotiators because everything has to be done their way 100%.
Western women are spoiled shits. There's an international interracial consensus on this point. Ask Jose or Pajeet they'll both say exactly the same thing.
This is moving towards Asia like wild fire, especially in the so called "developing" nations. Betas are treating their daughters and girlfriends like princesses. On top of that the media is fueling the fire with the subconsciously stirring feminist movement.
I'm Bangladeshi. Can confirm.
Bollywood has been infested as well. The goal is no safe haven.
totally, imo Bollywood is far from salvation. Their constant need to make more female oriented movies in order to woo the young crowd towards feminism and dumbness is working really well for them.
Personally, I blame Disney for that. In their cartoon movies, every girl is a princess and gets hooked by the prince. So children get indoctrinated like that early in life and it stays with them forever.
They want to be Cinderella so bad that they wait so long for a prince they end up becoming the stepsisters
You can't blame Disney anymore. How many women are growing up watching Disney cartoons?
They are all watching live TV shows on nick, Disney, cartoon network and mtv. Then the reality shows.
You can say Disney started it, but in the past decade Disney cartoons has not been as popular as these live action shows.
Throw in some music artist like Taylor Swift and other celebs and you have a recipe for disaster.
So I believe women are being far more influenced by actual people then cartoon princesses
Not just Disney cartoons friend. Disney is a huge media conglomerate that owns the Star Wars franchise and ESPN if I'm not mistaken. Thus, everyone, everywhere is getting poisoned by this bullshit. Even couch potato men that cheer at men in tights all day as they run around playing with their balls.
Ok yes if you look at it from that point of view then I agree
We have non-nude strip clubs here in Orlando because Disney has their hand in our local government. Needless to say they seem to influence the culture here as well.
Non-nude? Where is the attraction? Probably dry also.
It seems like guys here forget that girls're plugged in as well. We can leverage it for the short term until they hit the wall.
this is so spot on its unreal
She has a decently high SMV though still and WILL snag an average frustrated beta chump. He'll think he scored and she'll get his money and provisioning. Her issue is that she doesn't realize her how much SMV has fallen and is still thinking she can land a really high SMV guy.
Her own estimation of her SMV was pumped up from years of getting plowed by Chad Schlong and social media "likes." She chose poorly and thought she could convert this to provisioning when she was ready. Perhaps she could have... but not at age 30.
It'll take a while, but she'll get the picture that she not "all that" anymore and will "settle." Billy beta bucks will repulse her after he gives her the kids she wants and he'll turn into to a fat, overworked slob. She'll hamster a reason that he was abusive to play the victim card in 10 years after the tennis pro fills her ass with cock and the lawyer and her will chop the spoils of 'ole Billy's hard work. ...and on it goes.
Yes I'm also of the opinion that she will snag someone eventually. Too many weak men, excuse me, too many weak soyboys around for these girls to properly face the consequences of their actions.
The point is her days of over achieving in the smp are over but she won’t accept that and therefore won’t settle for someone equal or even slightly better.
Curious...what SMV will you rate her at?
I'd reckon she's a 5-6.
I knew a 37 year old who held up well and looked about 32 despite being a smoker. She had basically capitulated, claimed she didn't want kids, said something like her being "unlucky" when it comes to dating. 100% was a slut when younger, probably was still a slut when I knew her (a couple years ago). So no, not all of these women figure it out in time.
That’s called The Wall girl -!
Hopefully she marries a woman. All she'd do is make some man miserable.
Well, they say that misery loves company.
I'd really like to know what her n-count is. Not the one she tells you, but the real one. She probably lost count somewhere around age 22...
I might have to hop on her blog and give her a what-for as a "nice guy" that can only find money-hungry opportunistic whores.
Where were you, honey, when I was looking for a good woman? Oh, that's right, you were being a cum towel at Buffalo Wild Wings....now you're looking to upgrade to the Country Club in Scottsdale...
Fucking whores.
She probably has a higher body count than wolverine.
I'm willing to bet big money its very high.There is a lot of strange BBC allusions on her twitter too.
Yeah the big black 8 guy Messaging her on IG? Lol she must have be a snowbunny I can see her type in my head... still, she will fall off that wall harder than Humpty
Fall? She's running into that wall head on. Humpty is the beta she'll knock down.
What's a good woman to you
Lmfao!!! Buffalo wild wings though? It's usually a sausage fest at everyone I go to unless it's full of high school kids or on college football game day.
I agree with your comment. Just thought buffalo wild wings was funny.
No personal responsibility taken for her actions.
More like full of dick and opening your legs to all hot guys and baseball players.
Shocking she can’t find love when she was too busy fucking her way through her 20s or prioritizing her career, as if men want to settle down with a used up woman who’s been with a hundred dudes and is never home due to her busy career.
Girls get this cuntish condescending attitude after they realize how easy it is to enslave guys with pussy. I even had a girl laugh and say she's the baddest bitch that could have me anytime she wanted. She was a 6 on her BEST day and she was saying this big headed shit. It's insane.
Then, they drop the attitude real quick when their looks start to fade and the metabolism catches up with them and now they're fat and growing moustaches and breaking out in reddish pimples on their fat asses. They regain the attitude with the quickness once they're "safe" locked in with a beta loser and she will either slowly destroy him or cheat on him while pitting him down and keeping him sexless and isolated and controlled. It's pathetic.
It's insane how easy their coercion and manipulation manifests because girls are so good at PRETENDING to be sweet, nice and genuine/invested to get favours or to get what they want out of you unless you're a muscular douche or cool af personality and looks wise. That's just how it is.
I feel you man, there’s been a couple times where I was shooting the breeze with some women in my social circle, even the whales have thousands of matches on their dating apps, which means inflated egos about their value in the sexual marketplace. It’s absolutely absurd.
Unless? Imo girls act the sweetest when they think of you as that last category (muscular, cool, good-looking).
I had a damn good laugh on the part where she explains what she wants. "Is it weird if I’ve dated these same types more than once? So let me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout, loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories. Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement, is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude…my mom, obviously! Fine…its really me with the mouth and the attitude. " JUST FUCKING LOL. She has so high standards and what the fuck does she have in return ? A used up hole ,"mouth and attitude".These are the type of bitches that end up alone with 5 cats and wondering where the fuck all the good men went.This shits too funny.
This is what I was thinking...she offers an entitled personality and a full time job where she probably makes 30k a year...No thanks.
I laughed hard at this too brother, this bitch needs a reality check.
the biggest fallacy is that these women expect high value men while bringing nothing of value to the table themselves. the sense of entitlement is bloody insane
The shit that gets me every time...like...well why the fuck would Chad Chaddington want the bullshit you have to offer ???
Something I never understood.
What is "dark" in the "tall, dark and handsome"?
Is it dark personality or literally being black?
At least we know that she'll never be truly happy. It makes me feel good, lol.
Not to mention back then she thought she will be young forever, wearing those tight skirts and whore heels. It's easy to look back and see the pattern, but it's hard seeing yourself in it.
When a woman says she's finding herself, what she really means is she's sitting on her ass waiting for some guy to give her tingles.
A woman couldn't find her own ass with both hands and a flashlight.
Women always think that they suddenly become mature at 29. This is a rationalization.
What actually happens is, biology rears its ugly head. The Wall is fast approaching, and her priorities shift from sperm-seeking to provision lock-down. She'll still accept sperm donations from suitably tingle-inducing men mind you (that will happen at any age), but the window for securing good resources is closing fast as her age advances.
And thus the "closing window" and "tingle-inducing" theories are confirmed. When your youthfulness is running dry, each and every remaining hour is precious. Whatever happened to finding yourself, sweetie? Still need a man to help you with that, I guess.
If you want to get at the heart of a woman's physical mental state, watch what she does, and get good at reading in between the lines.
Someone give this kid at least 15 cats already
What did the cats do to deserve that kind of treatment?
watch them, they are the animal version of a woman, perfect match
They should write the TRP counterpost to this for men. When I was in my 20s those 20-25 year old girls in bars wanted nothing to do with me. Now I'm 36 and have a business and travel the world for pleasure the 20-25 year olds that once ignored me are now hounding me. Stay strong younger guys, it gets better.
So this gal is basically in the "Epiphany Phase".
What a woman means when she says "There are no good men left" is this: "There are no good men left who are willing to settle for me, based on my increasing demands and my decreasing attractiveness, now that I am approaching The WallSPLAT! or I'm already past it."
Women want what they want when they want it, if if they don't get exactly what they want, when they want it, then "It's All Men's Fault!!!"
The problem for the Carousel Rider who had finally hear the conductor say "WALL STATION! EVERYBODY OFF!!" is that, in the world of men what men want matters.
Let's review.
What men want: Debt free virgins without tattoos.
Of course, when a woman told the truth about What Men Want, the Nutz und Slutz went BERSERK. "God" may forgive you for being a tatted up ex-whore, but men will not.
When a woman decides that she's going to Waste The Pretty, because she's been sold a bill of goods about how they can waste the flower of their youth, when they should be locking down a good man, working in some meaningless cubicle job, buying a bunch of useless shit and fucking every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient they can find, because responsibility sucks, marriage is "hard" and babies poop and cry a lot.
They are fed this bullshit all the time in our culture. Oh, and how they can be "fit at any weight!" [HellNO! ] and "beautiful at any age" [HellSPLAT! ] and they "Don't need no man!" [Until things get the teensiest bit difficult.]
Recall career shrike Sheryl Sandberg: “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”
Riiiiiiight. You can almost hear: "these men exist, but whatever you do, don't start fucking them NOW!" Never never mind that the future husbands betabuxes were relegated jacking off and building their careers while the targets of Sandberg's advice were wasting the flower of their youth banging every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient they could find, until they become emotionally broken hosebags 'wif the Thousand Cock Stare, and then, and only then, are they to insist that said betabuxes wife them up, risking divorce rape, and pay up for what they gave away to losers for free at closing time.
Why would any "good man" make this shitty deal with a woman who wants to give him the least amount of her youth, the least amount of her beauty, the least amount of her fertility? Who, despite here wild youth, becomes a prude with her husband, or who just isnt' a sexual person...for her husband.
Now, in fairness, you cannot negotiate attraction. That said, what quality man wants to wind up the those guys, above?
Women like in the OP never seem to notice that the people giving them this advice are lonely, unhappy women with 7 cats living in a studio apartment. Then they wake up at 30 and go "FUCK! I DO want a MAN!", but guess what? 22-25 year old women are younger, hotter, tighter, and don't come with a bunch of demands.
You snooze, you lose.
The funny thing is I can’t tell the lady’s story from the narrators commentary because they are in my mind the same language. Some people see falling green text, I just see blonde, redhead ...
You forgot the brunette there, Cipher....
Her friend is the woman in the red dress
I wonder if the baseball player from this story ever comes on TRP to cry about feminism and how rotten women have become?
Just kidding. I already know that he doesn't.
Get to work, boys.
Fear not. When you are in your 30s and 40s this kind of woman will fuck your brains out then crawl back to her husband she hates after telling you how much better than him you are. If she’s a single mom you might not have to spend a dime on her because she will be obsessed with getting home to the kids.
AWALT Never forget
Guess I've become too misogynistic, for I can't find anything in this blog post that I respect. Six months ago I would've felt her suffering. Now I see it for what it is; "I have been a irresponsible kid for my whole life, and now I get shit for not having learned how to be a pleasant companion to be around". I feel sorry for women, but it gets easier to handle once I remind myself I'm just treating them as the adults they claim to be. Even if I know they are like 12 year olds.
read as gobbling cock left and right
I read her blog you posted here. As well as the conclusion she wrote up.
I think I got a good takeaway from this which you didn't quite highlight. Girl has a stable job and a good routine for her life, her problem is her hypergamous nature that is telling her that she needs a man more high value than she is. But because she is picky, she is quick to label the men shes meeting as lower value than her.
She also sucks at communication with men after the fact of meeting. In her conclusion she wrote up, she writes that she ghosts dudes all the time who are trying to see her for a second time. Thinking that maybe if she just doesn't reply that they will go away. And then wrote about a guy she was kind of interested in who tried to make a date on a day where she already has plans. BUT did not make any effort to reschedule, hoping he would just try again. Which is one of the most annoying things I have been encountering with girls. Maybe they are interested but when you try to make a date and they just say they are busy that day. Instead of saying, "I have plans that day, but I am free this day..."
How many men are going to jump through hoops for one girl even if they find her attractive and has her shit together, when she cannot even reciprocate any effort in a second meet?
So, she is lazy as shit in her relationship life, entitled, bad at communicating her needs (which she herself doesn't totally unerstand yet) and still doesn't have any clue why no one wants her?
Exactly. You just explained why women are so fucked in their psyche. They don't communicate what they actually want and then let it fester until they become bitter cunts that destroy everything around them
Getting older too, clearly states she is no match for 23yr olds in the look dept.
I realized that point but didn't want to add commentary that wasn't explicitly obvious from her writing.
See as men, we are brought up our whole life with hardship. We HAVE TO learn how to lead, how to approach, how to go outside our comfort zone because we are not valued and pampered the same way women are growing up. It's what makes us stronger in the end. Women like her were just brought up their whole life having everything handed to them and now they are suffering for it.
More proof that women are simply slaves to their biology. It doesn’t serve their natural-born purpose - to create the most fit offspring possible - when they settle for Beta Billy Bob while they’re in their sexual prime. The tingles she describes from being with Chad is simply her biology telling her to have his babies. Nonetheless, it doesn’t mean it’s any less disgusting to us late bloomer men who see the game for what it is after being brainwashed or years about how these primal creatures just want a “nice man.”
Lift. Be successful. Be confident. Use their game against them and spin plates. Don’t be a chump and get stuck with a post-CC riding disaster.
Cold, hard reality. Almost all non-RP men (and some RP men, too) will never see and understand the biological truths. Women are the selectors of good genes, simple as that. Men fuck almost anything, women select the best. When they are ovulating and feeling the tingles, all bets are off, doesn't matter if a ring is on that finger or not. Women ARE NOT biologically driven to be loyal, except during pregnancy and shortly after child-birth. Most AFCs and betas who marry these CC riders will never understand...until it is too late (i.e, divorce raped).
It’s all biology. Our modern civilization was built through thousands of years of men killing one another and creating enterprise, all for that sweet pussy. It all goes back to our desire to fuck them.
The part that trips me out the most is when I see a girl, or group of girls, they give off the external perception that they just want to have fun, or they just want to go to a country concert, or play with their dog, or make some crafts, or have wine night with the girls... meanwhile, they are getting absolutely dicked the fuck down by Chad at the end of a ‘girls night out’ while maintaining and misleading a plethora of beta orbiters to give her the provider energy she requires, but of course, no one knows about this part of her. She’s an angel, right?
If you believe in biology, and survival of the fittest, and have watched ANY animal documentaries on mating, you’ll be able to quickly draw the comparisons to humans easily — it just takes a red pill lense to truly understand it.
So if your a unattractive man and get married or are dating a girl, is that girl pretending to like you
Don’t worry about how unattractive you are. That’s a defeatist mentality. Build yourself up, control what you can, and continuously improve.
But to answer your question, a lot of the time, yeah. That’s why you need to build up your SMV and date a girl a few levels below you. That way, you have leverage and power and don’t get royally fucked by a female who is simply better at the entire game thanks to biology.
Humans. Literally every single behaviour exhibited by men, every behaviour promoted here on trp (lift) every action that is rationalized as circumventing or transcending biological imperatives is ALL a direct offshoot of biology. It's an illusion that ANY of us can escape our biology. I'm a 'mgtow' and we like to think we have transcended our biology by shunning women. Nope. Pot hoc rationalization and every action still resultant from base biology.
These women also cripple themselves. I don't see any Age-30-wall-hitters when I go out anywhere, unless they are friends of friends. It's either 18-25 party girls or nothing. I'm 32 with a great career(s) and would be happy to entertain these girls. Once you cross 30, it's hard to tolerate the dumb convos of a 22yr old.
Man be careful with the 28-34 crowd. There are a LOT of women there looking for meal tickets, babies, marriage to keep up with expectations or Beta Buck to rescue them from their bad decisions.
They are pump and dump only. Do not get oneitis for these. They are nothing but trouble.
Divorcees and single moms, obviously, should be avoided for LTR.
Oneitus has been impossible since I passed 30. I'm just saying these women sequester themselves away from the world on top of hitting their own natural obstacles.
I went way younger for my LTR and have never been happier. You might find a gem among that 28-34 age group but its rare. Over 40 and they're almost all insane somehow. Just speaking from experience
serious low standards here dude
Where will you be when good single women like this strike lol.
As for me I will be enjoying my life. Lifting playing sports etc
It all boils down to: men I want to fuck /= men I want to marry
I enjoy going round saying to Women under 25 "Hey Girls, don't worry about dating, when you hit 30 everything changes for Women, and then you realise you've got all the power, and you've had it all the time"... They really love it when I tell them this, it solidifies the whole father figure shit I've got rocking at the moment (I'm 45).
Incidentally, I got Women over 30 complaining to me I shouldn't be nailing all these 20 odd year olds as though I'm some massive pedophile.
Shrug, it's not like I was lying with what I said. It's damn true. But for obvious reasons I never "qualify" that statement; Women do have all the power, Men will literally fight in the streets for them if they're under 25 and willing to put out.
ha ha ha...
They dropped the pedo line because you're playing younger hotter girls than them and they can't stand it. That's it
[nods]
Can't complete? Create shame.
"I am done riding the cock carousel and now I can't find a beta that will support me."
She still wants Chad, but one who'll forsake younger women and marry her.
*thinks she wants
Because when that does miraculously happen, Chad is devolved into a Beta and she no longer gets the tingles.
Welcome to the paradox of our valuable women.
Hamstering right before our eyes. We are going to start seeing this so much more as greater numbers of these women are forced off the carousel into reality
This is fucking gold. Bookmarked, for the next time someone tells me "AWALT" is sexist.
Your analysis was briliant
LOL! She complains about being single for a few months. Bitch, try being single for 31 years, it's absolutely great!
The only cure is that fathers start caring that their daughters will get married young and virgins. Females are too stupid to think into future by themselves. Suddenly, pre-arranged marriages do not look that bad, ain't it.
How cathartic.
I don't even feel sad for her. It's like a never stopping hamster wheel. How do they never get tired of their own bullcrap? When all your life is about feelings you can't get shit accomplished unless you're guided by a man. That's the problem with these women. It baffles us men of logic and reasoning that they can do the same shit over and over again and fail countless times then say "You're gonna find a man, just keep at it!". Dafuq? Maybe it's not man it's you? Say that to a guy and he'll be like "Man dafuqs wrong with me??". Not like that for women. Nope nope must be the guys cause not her fault! facepalm.
Every women should just have a man chosen for her cause they are terrible at dating.
It's almost like they designed the family court system for these failures. I say failures because reading her about me page, it sounds like she had latched onto - and moved into - a rich guys life, inherited two family businesses, and somehow managed to make a failure out of all of it.
So her only option in life now is to attach herself to a beta, get pregnant, get married, so she can divorce rape him and get alimony so she can hunt a chad for herself without any financial constraints in doing so.
x millions of women in her situation.
I like the irony of "1. The narcissist" in her blog post because she sounds just like a narcissist to me.
The description of The Player is really ironic. The guy nailed her and her best friend apparently, but he is the stupid one for some reason.
and he figured out they are both not worth the investment , which is apparently correct
Haha. If I knew her adress, I would send her a copy of The Rational Male.
If I knew her address, I'd pay her a visit. With wine and condoms. She's cute. And underconfident low 30s (or almost 30s) who get all confused when a guy who wants to hook up is also a little nice to them are totally my type.
Hope you have a six digit income, or at least can fake it with an expensive car. This woman is the biggest public gold digger I've ever seen.
Only have to fake it for a few hours...
Once you know what they want, it makes getting what you want a lot easier.
Beggars can’t be choosers. Even after reflecting on her failure to find a meaningful relationship and being a washed up party whore, she still thinks she can have the high quality man.
Thank goodness I received a Y chromosome.
Is this serious? Fuck me. Life is not Make-A-Wish... I hardly doubt that any guy who matches that criteria would settle down with a girl like her.
This is going to sound strange and I will get hate for this - maybe - but I am a female. I have followed this sub for a little while and see a lot of truth in it. I cannot disagree with many things I see. I have never slept around and never felt the desire to, but have been victim to hearing the stories and sobs if girlfriends who have done and didn't get treated well. I am mid 20s, in a ltr. I was in one other ltr before this that didn't work out. I feel like trp gets a lot of hate from women, but I also feel it is because it hits a nerve for most. I almost feel like reading this sub makes me feel better sometimes for not buying into the partying/sleeping around/ solely living for 'chad'. It is so much more important to focus on being a better person for the man you're with, but also vice versa.
This blog reads like the conversation of a lot of girls my age. It is tired and boring.
Angry men will be angry men. I don't think most of the people on this sub would hate you for being a female, we're just frustrated with a very real problem when it comes to dating many in your gender.
Don't announce you have a vagina, unless you brought enough for everyone.
(try /r/RedPillWomen)
I didn't even know that existed, thank you!
Well, I didn't expect a poat like this tbh, I hope you have good luck though, for both of you.
you broke the "i am a woman, hear me roar" rule - maybe you should read it
Why can't she meet men at the fitness club? How about at work? Neighbors?
Lol have you seen her pictures?
I don't find it too difficult to judge why boys won't look at her.
Well, she has now deleted it.. https://www.twentynineandterrified.com/good-men-gone/
damn I was really enjoying reading them. It's so sad, the difficulty of finding a good man.
This chick is smart. She’s trying to tap into to the used up hoe demographic. An ever growing part of the population.
WITHOUT MEN IN CONTROL, WOMEN HAVE NO CONTROL OF THEMSELVES. THEIR LITTLE GIRLS THAT ALWAYS NEED A DADDY. OH AND FOR CHRIST SAKE THE WEAK MEN THAT THINK TATTOOS ON WOMEN ARE CUTE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT ITS ANOTHER DAMAGE WOMEN FINDING NEW WAYS FOR ATTENTION. I almost Marrived a chick with TATS, I DODGED THAT FUCKING BULLET. SHE WAS MENTALLY DAMAGED BY THE WAY. TAKE IT OR GET OFFENDED. JUST KNOW THAT WEAK MEN AND SIMPS ARE FUCKING DESPISED IN THIS WORLD
Are women with tats damaged? Is it some or all of them. I haven't thought about this
Can't compete at 29 because she works full time and has no energy?, Just wait til she hits 35. I remember 29. I worked a Full time Blue Collar Job 8-5 and went full time to school at night and got a AS degree in 18 months and still had time and energy to Party. What the hell is wrong the Millennials Is it a result of too much Soy in their diet?
No lie but what the fuck are we eating these days. Heaps of trash and calories and very little nutrients.
Do you think some test injections would help?
I noticed how steroid users (and I dont mean bodybuilder size) are always pumped up, filled with energy and focused on whatever they are doing at the moment
Oh yeah it would.
But at the same time, if you don't know what you're doing, you can severely damage your endocrine system. Would advise experienced users or medical professionals.
so starting a family for a female is less biological urge to make a baby ...and more like not being able to get some from 'badboys'
Lol she obviously fucked loads of guys and didn’t settle down with a good beta boi for money- bad strategy
This is what you get when culture and biology are at odds with one another.
I'm probably only 50 posts down or so, but this entire post is full of gold, I see wonderful comment after wonderful comment, the real payoff would be if this girl somehow finds this post about her and gives us even more gold to work with hahaha
I like this post after seeing the title, without even reading it in its entirety.
You see, the world has a way of confirming its own properties. Women, (and people, to that effect,) will always show their true nature, regardless of being aware of it.
And yes, of course I’m gonna read the whole post.
man who reads this shit? like. i think half of her revenue comes from guys doing posts like this
Should I really enjoy following this one all way down the SSRI hole into her unsatisfactory marriage and child ridden prison? Nope...
Her value is gone now. She just doesn’t know it yet.
Hoe in chains.
CAVEAT: Old, desperate hoe in chains who found a temp BB.
Most of them. It's a sign of BAD DECISION MAKING in their lives. My wife doesn't have tattoos and she's from Japan. I dated Japanese girl with TATS and she was damaged. I almost marry her and dodged the divorce Bullet. Check it out on YouTube COACH RED PILL and the guy talks a lot about it as much as single mothers too. A lot of men don't know this type of shit
I legitimately lost track of which parts were quotes and which parts were interjection at one point.
This is like when Joaquin Phoenix was 'pretending' to be crazy, but everybody just assumed he actually went crazy. This girl is a parody of her own unenlightened existence.
I still just get pissed...
I don't know which physical sensation was more unpleasant; the rage from reading this old, stretched out whore's delusions OR the cringe from seeing that "man" in the comment section contributing an essay detailing how and where to find good men because he thinks he might see a vagina as a reward for doing so, her short, obligatory, fake thank you response and his follow-up that was of essay-type length also.
At 39, she'll be blogging about how she doesn't need a man and how all women her age need to realize that it's the only right way to think (because it's her reality and the hamster doesn't like living without a consistent chain of reasoning that proves how the hamster's owner is perfect in every way).
You've gotta feel a little bad for these women who hit the wall in a way. She was most likely hypergamous in her early 20s, and never thought she would need a man. That's what society tells young women these days. And unfortunatly, most don't realise they've been duped until after they hit the wall full force. Its like the wall is made of clear glass the way these hoes dont even see it coming.
This is why I joined red Pill. Geesh... the post and the comments are (insert fire emoji)
I got emotionally drained after reading one paragraph. All female written articles are like this. I'm thinking the emotional side of me is actually dying now that I know the truth more than ever.
Thanks for posting, this is an amazing case study that she doesn't even realize she's creating.
Sadly I have to conclude that in modern society the ultimate alpha decision for a guy is to not get married. Seems to be the only choice that leads to long term happiness.
Reads like cancer. You strongly assume the AWALT (lol) and the fact that all women in their early twenties want to be pumped and dumped. No, they are just naive, have good faith that the guy they fell in love with will change. They want badboys because they are exciting and don't put them on a pedastal like a beta but treat them like any other human being. Replacable.
It's not the fault of women that you are that unattractive chump with no prospects in life that they chose the badboys over you, because dispite their lack of future and ambition (like having a stable job to sustain himself so the women don't have to babysit him like mommy), they were actually attractive in looks and personality which catches their eye first. Actual persona comes later.
It's the same with women. Most beta men judge a woman purely by looks (as the majority on this sub), only because they don't even consider dealing with them on a more personal level, yet all men wonder why all woman are such whores. First, you maybe pick the wrong women. Second, maybe you suck. Third, maybe it's both. But I've had women who are especially terrible in bed, or terribly personalities because of which I didn't even want to sleep with them.
This sub is just a basement for incels to cry out their jealousy how easy it is for women to get laid and how being nice isn't enough to get a beautifull 10/10 treating you like mommy did and staying forever by your side while you can be that boy in an adult deprived body.
Your post is garbage. There are sluts out there but I just read how this girl just rightfully complains about the poor quality of men out there, and you belong in that category.
Oh please. They aren't stupid. They just do stupid shit for the same reason young men do stupid shit--they think they are invincible. The feedback loop is just faster for what men do; in many cases, the wall is literal.
Oh you mean like men in general? Even considered why older men are more attractive to women? Because usually they made something out of their lives. They don't need to hope something good will come out of that party Chad, but he actually IS something. Also, he doesn't say the stupid shit that most men say.
None of you have an idea how to naturally talk to women, which is why this sub is formed. It's not that it's such a science, but it's just that retards like you don't understand society.
Uh no. It's because we have confidence, experience, masculinity and presence. Perhaps three decades ago you would be right, back when all women started out of the gate on lockdown mode. These days? Holy hell, there is an entire generation of young ladies with daddy issues and a callus disregard to their n-count. Keep yourself in shape, stay masculine and don't give them shit--you'll be awash in poon.
That's what I'm saying, it's because we made something out of our lives. We did something that takes more effort than necessary to stay alive, maintain and entertain yourself.
Back then a woman was a nobody by herself, was guilted by religion into first marrying in order to have sex and divorce was a taboo, which is basically a one-way gateway for any woman wanting to use her vagina. Also, any woman having sex outside of wedlock was likely socially shunned so keeping her legs closed was a way to prevent social suicide.
Still, many users on this sub long for that time where every male was entitled to a female without having to offer any value or without any competition. It's basically communism, but then with gender, as if women are a property evenly distributed among the population.
This goes against the laws of nature where the fittest have the highest probability to survive and the uglier weaker ones should be kept from reproducing, which is actually happening right now.
For the greater good of human-kind, TRP should be abolished to the weaker don't interfere with the laws of nature, because it's also these weaklings who raise their daughters with daddy issues and become the metoo sluts we have today. Reproductive rights don't exist, just a probability you might or might not reproduce.
Species fail. Parts of species fails. Expecting women to make rational mating choices to help the species isn't going to happen. Nor are we on a vector where inherent mating choices are could be a net positive to the maintenance of the species. There is no forcing the genie back into that lamp.
And this isn't even talking about maintaining civilization, but just the species.
Just accept that it's in the nature of women to maintain the quality of human kind by not procreating with low-quality men. Species fail due to environmental change to which they cannot adapt quickly enough or another species outperforms them, and the same goes for individuals. Mating choices aren't rational indeed, they are based on many traits of the individual as valued by the other and the choice happens subconciously.
God forbid that women actually have desires they want to have fulfilled and don't want to deal with the shit of low-quality men... Oh the horror. It's nothing but whining that the age of "a lid for every jar" is over.
Nice virtue signaling! Go show this post to your feminist friends and you may get a whiff of some overgrown pussy. Assuming you can even smell it through all the Patchouli oil caking their hairy legs and armpits, that is.
Point is that you are pointing fingers at women, while I don't see a reason why a mid-class woman would pick low-life like you with over-inflated ego's.
Just so you know, I'm Chad from TRP. And once you see through the bullshit of women, you also see through the bullshit of men, and you slowly start to realize that men live in a much deeper fantasy than women. Women have dreams of the prince on a white horse, traveling and all that shit, but they do see through the bullshit of every man they meet. So while women have an illusion of live, men have an illusion of women. And both are the most important for them. Women want to sacrifice men for their live experiences, men want to sacrifice live experiences for women.
You're all slaves to pussy and no woman can respect that. You guys will end up like the males in that alien episode of rick and morty where sexbots are used to extract semen and build that perfect female exclusive society.
You are making a whole bunch of claims and assumptions here. The hamster is strong in you. I dont want to argue whether they are naive or not, but doing the exciting thing is not always doing the right thing. I had ample opportunities to make fat money in exciting illegal dealings but I recognized that it can easily bite me in the ass eventually so I steered clear towards more boring proper pursuits. One needs to be fully conscious of their choices, emotions aside. Do you similarly excuse young guys who get busted for selling dough by saying "well they were young and naive, its not their fault regular jobs are boring" ?
My dude, everyone writing about women on the TRP is an unattractive chump and a basement incel? How do you even have one endorsement.
Who sais the majority of this sub judges a woman by looks ? If anything I would have though RP men are the ones who would put the most effort into digesting a girls character knowing what we know. The second part of this paragraph tells me you either disagree with AWALT or poorly understand it.
This girl is not complaining about poor quality of men out there, although I agree the majority of men suck. No, this girl is complaining about her pussy losing its power, that she can no longer go through life they way she has been, that the things she wants take effort and sacrifice now, and that the fantasy she was sold on was a lie.
That's from a year ago when I did spew TRP bullshit around and started applying it. Slowly you realize that you don't really need to take it so seriously and women will come flocking at you just for understanding. You see, I have my own principles (also from TRP), which are important to me. But translate them to how this satisfies women, they will get wet the very instant. Then I'm the guy who gets it, and 10 minutes later I'm making out with them and they simply love me because I'm not that beta chump they used to date, because we both share the same principle that the other gender isn't important by their gender and is replacable.
What she instead complains about is the fact that men who seemed high-value have proven themselves to be low value, and doesn't see the point in offering her pussy to these bastards. Then the amount of men who she would want to offer her pussy to shrinks, basically leaving her dry with the choice of bastards or those few rare men who are worthy of her time but simply suck.
Women don't get pickier because they are hitting the wall only, but also because they don't want to risk having a child with and be stuck until the end of life with losers like you.
So are you about her entire blog-post. You don't get women at all. I also have my fair share of women I considered high-value but turned out to be total trainwrecks. I regret fucking half the girls I fucked because it only caused drama after I dumped them.
Lol, mate you haven’t got the first clue about women. Read the sideboard before you get all high and mighty and try to judge people in a prejudice manner.
Clue about women? You mean human nature? The only thing that makes women different from men is their fertility window. Other than that, it's just basic socionomics. If you retards can't find that out then you do need a toxic community to learn this from. TRP is putting it on really thick while all you need is sprinkles. Women are much more fun to be around if you take what is written here lightly.
While I disagree with your post, I loved the delivery. Have an upvote.