Have you ever seen a millionare shopping at your local store? What about a nightclub? Have you ever seen a millionaire or billionaire dancing in your local night club? Most of you will say no to this but why is that?

"Rich people have access to more expensive locations."

This is true but surely it would be logical for a rich person or celebrity to commonly go to a local nightclub? Wouldn't that guarantee women and attention? Think about it. Where would a millionare have more success? An average nightclub/bar filled with your average clubbers or an expensive location where celebrities are so common that the staff doesn't even notice you.

The answer is the average nightclub and yet you hardly ever see silly rich men in there.

Let me explain why.

Recently I have started watching a show known as 'Pablo Escobar El Patron del mal', a brilliant show that beautifully captures all the topics I have ever written about. There was a powerful quote I picked up from it that covers my point exactly. For those who don't know, Pablo is a drug lord who transports drugs to the USA making him a billionaire. At one point, he finds out that his brother in law has started sniffing Cocaine. When discussing it Pablo says exactly this:

"We sell Cocaine to the Americans. They snort it. We don't. We are healthy people."

This is absolutely beautiful and reminded me of a discussion I had with a few individuals a while ago. I know two people in the adult industry. One man makes porn videos with his girlfriend, the other makes porn video games. Both earn 10k per month. When discussing things with them I found out that neither of them enjoy watching nor glorifying sex. The man making porn videos doesn't watch porn, the man making games doesn't play or watch porn games for pleasure. It's all "business" to them.

I found this concept extremely interesting and it brings me back to the nightclub topic. Nightclub owners are never in their own nightclubs drinking and dancing. They KNOW how bad all of it is but see it as a business. I made a conscious decision to quit nightclubs after I learned this fact and once you see it too, you will lose all interest for nightclubs and bars.

Inside a nightclub 90% of the people there are hopeless robots. I wish it wasn't so harsh but that's the reality. They have NO drive to continue. These people aren't living life, they are merely existing. They spend all week working long shifts just to come to a nightclub on the weekend, take drugs and blow money on alcohol. While they are doing that the nightclub owner is lying on a beach half way across the world at a private party.

Rich men or for lack of a better term, "successful" men don't appear in public because the environment holds zero positives. Once you start earning a certain amount of income or your reputation is high enough, you will start visiting places that the general public find to be rather pointless. Keep in mind that I am basing this post entirely on my study of the highest rich and successful individuals on the ladder. When it comes to comparison, don't compare yourself to the more attainable goal, compare yourself to the highest person that exists.

I want you to seriously sit down and think about this for a moment. Study the behaviour of those who own large or even small businesses but are successful. Do you see them engaging in their own scene or product?

Does the CEO of Mcdonalds eat at Mcdonalds?

Does Mark Zuckerberg spend as much time as the average person on Facebook?

My favourite example is the Dr Dre situation in which he stated that whilst people partied to his music in nightclubs, he was at home making the music.

Or if you want a closer to home situation, take a look at Pickup groups like RSD. I have studied the steps of the coaches and I find it absolutely interesting how they continue to sap money from their clients who seem to turn off their brain at every possible encounter. These coaches tell you to approach a number of women every day, they give you motivational speeches, they tell you to jump, shout, do crazy things and they give you the opportunity to pay them thousands of dollars/pounds for a "bootcamp" session. Yet how many times have you seen them do what they preach? Do you think for one second that any of these coaches in their daily lives approach women on the street? Jump and act crazy to strangers? What about boot camps? Do you think that the pickup artists paid thousands and thousands of dollars to learn how to pick up girls? This is genuinely so intriguing to me. The two most known and richest pickup artists in the world have said numerous times that in order to learn what they did, they had to go out and fail a stupid amount of times. They didn't pay anything to learn what they know or gain what they have yet people ignore that.

There is a common advice that states that you should watch what a person does, not what they say. I fully stand by this. If a man tells you to buy his course on making money, you should first find out if he did the same thing to get to where he is. More often than not, the answer is no. They play you.

One of my greatest annoyances about the RedPill is it's ridiculous focus on women. Let me say this once more; I have never met a successful or rich man (excluding those who are dating coaches) who focused/cared so much on women. Not even once. Have you ever noticed why these men seem to just have some of the most loyal women by their sides? You think these men care if they lose their wives?

There was an article recently about a gamer choosing to break up with his girlfriend who has been dubbed "The world's sexiest weather woman" so that he could focus on his career. Several men have hit back calling him a fool.

To me, that move was one of the most incredible things I've seen in a while.

  • The girl's confidence was shattered. Of course she won't display it and she can easily get another boyfriend but yet the fact that out there, someone who had her already, decided to choose gaming over her. That must sting.

The man on the other hand now has the highest possible value he could want. Other women will want him simply due to his status and the fact that he discarded an attractive woman. Other men, whilst jealous will want to be him.

Roll back a little and look at how he met his girlfriend. He worked his ass off making money via playing video games. This managed to put him in one of the top spots making him essentially a millionaire. With his acquired wealth, it allowed him access to visit high end events where along with meeting several other high status individuals, he managed to meet his ex girlfriend.

Does my point begin to make sense?

Had he decided to sit home and just continue playing video games for entertainment, he wouldn't have gotten anywhere nor would he have gotten into the circles that he reached.

Visit this article and scroll to the comments: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6087789/Pro-gamer-DOESNT-regret-dumping-worlds-sexiest-weather-girl-despite-losing-championship.html

Honestly I have nothing but respect for this man. He wants to dedicate his whole time to becoming a champion player. Keep in mind, he is already earning a heavy amount of money and has enough to sit and relax but yet he sees his relationship as a distraction and ends it to gain more focus.

"Never let a person who is more successful than you to work harder than you."

I said this in my old post and it still rings true. If you want to be successful in life, you need to work hard and put aside your distractions. Do you think for one second that the man above couldn't get another girlfriend if he wanted one? Women will be filling in lines.

The only thing that is and should be important to a man is developing themselves to be a better man and improve their standing in success.

That is all.

A few of the groups I mentor have recommended that I create some sort of blog where everyone can come and read what I have to say. I decided to also share it here.

https://absentmasculinity.com/

It's a basic WordPress blog with no bullshit popups, course nonsense or motivational speeches. I give methods not motivation. You won't find tips on how to text girls so if that is your interest, the blog won't be for you.

I should also add that this blog is partly catered to the groups I mentor in which I teach them ways to be successful and stand out from the crowd. You may find my terminology there to be a little harsher than it is here on Reddit. You are also free to contact me over there if you have any direct inquires.

Cheers