TLDR: Have a purpose in life. Be focused on your goals, not women. This is how you achieve abundance and happiness.
Note: First post here, I don't consider myself any superior to the guys who have been posting here for a while, on the contrary, I will accept critics and different thoughts from anyone.
I initially was recollecting my thoughts and I ended up writing an entire post and decided to post it here.
Hope this will help someone out there. I'm not a native english speaker so there could be some grammar mistake.
What is abundance?
Some say it is the state of mind you have when you have 5 plates ready to fuck you, but what I really believe is that abundance comes from an inner state.
Saying that abundance comes from fucking women is like saying that your happiness is dependent on an external source (aka women). I don't think that's a great approach in the long term.
Let's delete women from the equation for a second to define this theory in a different manner:
Let's say you can't meet women for some reason. Do you think you will still be happy? No, you won't, because your happiness was so far dependent on an external source. When this external source fades away, your mind doesn't know where to get dopamine & serotonine from.
So eventually, by not having women to fuck, the average guy would jerk off to receive those hormonal spikes. Can you see? He always relies on an external source.
Abundance comes from the depth of your mind. It comes from acceptance of what you don't have control over, and focus on what you instead can control.
You don't have women? Well, cut them off your mind. Try not to rely on external sources (e.g masturbation/porn) for a few days. You will notice the desire to fuck will grow exponentially.
Sexual desire is one of the strongest desires a man possess.
Desire can be transmuted into action and motivation to succeed in life. Can you see what I'm trying to say?
You can use this desire to focus on YOURSELF, on your GOALS, not on fucking women.
You want women? Stop whining and use that strong desire to put yourself into action to increase your sexual market value. But don't do that with the thought of getting laid one day, but with the thought of becoming a succesful person. In other words, do it for yourself, not for women.
Lift, study, start creating value. Value is created by action*, not by thinking* or reading 100 posts on TRP everyfuckingday.
Once you've read the sidebar and the main 20-30 posts you know everything you need to know about female nature.
If you have goals and ambitions and you are working towards them, I can guarantee you that you can feel abundance even if you are not fucking women.
If women are your priority, you are doing it wrong. Your thoughts and emotions must be fixated on your life purpose (e.g becoming a millionaire before 30-40-50, whatever the age you want).
For so long getting laid was my mission, and I was depressed every single day. I had no goals, no real purpose, apart that of getting laid. Reading TRP posts negatively contributed to this, because all they were doing was bringing women in my thoughts!
So I decided to frame my life in a different way. Instead of aiming for women, I started aiming at goals that would had brought me women as a side-effect. I used the desire of getting laid to put myself into action and start working towards those goals. All of a sudden, my goal wasn't getting women, instead it was becoming a wealthy succesful guy.
- Abundance is when you have your future planned and you are taking persistent action towards your goals.
- Abundance is when you know your value is higher than any of the bitches out there:
Most women are not succesfull, have no goals or ambitions. Why? Because their only life purpose is finding a sexual partner (a man who can protect and lead them). That's their purpose, not ours!!
Understand that women have very little to offer. You are the one who brings real value. You are the one who works his ass of to climb the social hierarchy. Women are born, men are made. Women need men more than men need women.
- Abundance is when you accept that you currently don't have women, but will have in the future by focusing on yourself and increasing your SMV.
We keep saying that women like succesful guys who have a purpose and who don't give a fuck about women. That's right, yet I keep seeing the majority of the posts about women and how to get laid. Everyday TRP has new posts about how to fuck women, and more and more new theories. Some posts really look like they are coming from PUA forums in my opinion. This is extremely detrimental. You can't internalise all this information anyway, on the contrary it can only make your mindset worse. Your brain becomes fucking flooded by these info. This won't bring abundance, but scarcity.
Read the sidebar and the top posts here and you know how to succeed. Then go out and become the person you always wanted to be.
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