Couple of years back I was with my at that time girlfriend and she was telling me about her friend, lets call her Avril.

Avril had a Skater boyfriend who she met in High School. Avril loved Skater boy in high school. But now that she was graduating college it become apparent that skater boy lacked real career prospects so she began mentally distancing herself from him. Avril began going to clubs and flirting dudes.

My girlfriend was complaining to me about how controlling Skater boy was and how he insisted on reading her texts. She then nervously asked if I would ever do that. I said no I would never ask to read your messages. She was happy and the conversation ended with her telling me how she was so happy that our relationship is built on trust.

You see I would never ask to see those messages because given enough notice she would just delete whatever is incriminating. Anyway, a woman's friends are a reflection of herself; that's when I took the hint and began reading her shit.

I got a piece of paper wrote out her messages with times and dates. I later cross referenced those times and dates with when we were together, and when we hung out.

Here is the unsurprising thing I found out. You know how our generation, 20 year olds are constantly texting? While your fine dining your girlfriend she is flirting with dudes, getting attention from beta orbiters, and telling her friends how hot her boss is. You could be snuggling in bed, going on a hike, watching a movie, introducing her to your mom, it doesn't matter. Woman are constantly seeking sexual gratification in one way or another via texts. Don't believe me? Try this experiment for yourself, maybe you are right and Not All Women Are Like That, but realistically there is only one way to test your theory.

As a man you are very easy to lie to. You gaze longingly inteo her eyes and think about your future with a big house and kids in some weird quasi hypnotic state. You are not that difficult to deceive.