So many posts on here seem to be warning guys about the dangers of sluts and BPD women, and red flags and getting cucked and that sort of thing. And sure, all of these warnings are valid if you make the mistake of falling in love with girls that exhibit these traits and expect to marry them or make them your girlfriend. So don't do that.
It's a big world and full of lots of interesting creatures like poisonous snakes and snapping turtles and sharks, but that doesn't mean these creatures are bad or evil, you just have to be careful around them and handle them properly.
If you want to pick up a poisonous snake and hold it and play with it, you have to wear gloves, keep it far away from your face so that it can't bite you, etc. Right? Common sense. When you see a girl that you know is a slut because, for example, you met her on Tinder, or she lives down the hall from you in your dorm and you know she's a bad girl... Handle her properly! Right of the bat you know she's no virgin, and who knows how impossibly high her N-count is or what kind of fucked-up personality traits she has. None of that really matters. When its your turn with her, treat her like you won a free ticket to a whorehouse and she's yours to play with for as long as the free ticket is valid. You know it's not going to last forever. Your goal isn't to change her and make her something she's not. Your goal is to have fun and enjoy yourself the same way you would if you got some free VIP pass to a strip club or whatever. It's good fortune, and you should enjoy your good fortune.
Imagine that one day you walk out of your dorm room and there's a tray of muffins someone left in the common room, and there's one muffin left. Since nobody's around and it's going to waste, you eat it, and it's the best, freshest most delicious muffin you ever tasted. That's great, right! Maybe tomorrow you go out again and the tray of muffins isn't there. That's too bad, but you can't get all depressed about it. A week later the tray reappears. Maybe there's one muffin there, maybe two. How wonderful. Take advantage of it. Enjoy them. They won't last forever.
Bad girls are like free muffins. You can't expect them to be there for you. It's not going to last. You don't know where they came from or where they've been and if they're ever going to reappear. You can't get all upset if they never come back again. You have to use a little common sense and due diligence to make sure you're not getting poisoned, but other than that, your goal should be to enjoy the unexpected freebie that appeared before you. And you certainly shouldn't be all upset if you see some fat fuck like Harvey Weinstein with a big tray full of free muffins that you like but can't have today. Protect yourself, enjoy the freebie while it lasts, and don't be upset when it disappears.
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