A site I subscribe to: http://spotmebro.com/do-girls-like-muscles/

Hot chicks like a man with a great body, but what most guys fail to realize is that women don’t analyze men’s bodies with the same competitive eye that guys have when sizing each other up. It tends to be more of an overall judgment, as opposed to guys who can fall in love with a great ass or spectacular set of bouncing tits. Many men are disappointed to find that often women can’t tell the difference between an average body and an athletically trained body until you are in an intimate setting with your shirt off. Then it becomes a cherry on top, more of a closer than an opener one might say. One thing’s for certain, when she “accidentally” feels your abs through your shirt and gives you the look, you know you’re in a good spot.

That partially explains why I always hoped my wife would go nuts over my new found body and muscles...and I have never once, EVER, felt that way from her. No gawking. No drooling. No hands running over my body. Even though I lift for me, she was a by-product of thinking it would benefit the relationship/marriage....and never have I actually felt underappreciated / disappointed for all the hard work I have put in..which some people fail to realize...for someone who doesn't have great genetics or packs of muscle super quick..this shit takes time and lots of energy. Bench, squats, deadlifts, etc... heavy ass lifting transforms the body but its a slow fucking process. Maybe because she has been with me on my journey, the changes are too subtle to her.