I visited a psychiatrist/psychologist a few weeks ago, and he said that I was coping with ocd and overthinking.. Which both basically lead to neediness but I've learnt to hide it from women and others.
Well, I basically had a long discussion with him and he suggested I take a break or even quit visiting TRP. " you're overthinking, along with ocd it will fry your brains. I think it's time for you to quit visiting TRP and maybe all together.. I want you to see this as something you gained great benefits from and as a closed chapter, time to start something new and apply the things you learnt. "
When I asked why, he said " it helped you go to the gym, improve work ethic, become more social but the problem is you're overthinking theory about women and tend to become extreme, what we refer to as borderline (some disorder I don't remember) in your actions" he basically said I go edgelord and tend to think I should next everyone and see them as enemies giving me shit, while most of the time we forget we're just humans and that we should be strong enough to face difficulties rather than escape them, a form of escapism. Told me to quit weed, I did and it's a whole lot better now.
I don't put down easily or next women with the smallest thing, unless they fuck with me and try to mess around with my head or play games. I just tend to think I should next them with the smallest shit, like a shit test (which would mean I can't take up challenges like a man) but I hold on and don't next that easy. Most of the time at least.
He also said I should write down 5 things I'm passionate about and evolve them. And also focus more on my work / mission rather on my relationship or relationships with the other women so that I don't become needy and overthink.
What do you think?
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