90% of the time when they say my ex boyfriend was an "asshole" what they really mean is

canfidel · 2018-05-06T07:39:38+00:00

Or she only dates such assholes.

Ghustgan · 2018-05-06T08:44:59+00:00

It might even be an outright lie to get you to feel sorry for her.

NetoIncognito · 2018-05-06T18:35:37+00:00

I have never ever ever heard a woman admit her ex was a great guy and she fucked up. Never ever ever. The story is always the same: asshole, abusive, cheap, unfaithful, the works. "I like you because you're not like him." Every. Damn. Time. I think it's a biological recording loaded at birth.

NexusInd · 2018-05-06T14:51:52+00:00

He dumped her and wouldn't take her back after he found her in bed with another guy.

buff_minorcan · 2018-05-06T15:32:04+00:00

I know a few girls that to this day still think I'm a massive asshole

rationalthought314 · 2018-05-06T15:58:19+00:00

also if she complains he was an asshole it means she will fuck him on the side when dating another guy. One of the post-wall bloggers out there, Amy Whoreton, talked about how she was dating a nice guy but she was cheating on him with her ex who treated her like shit but she got the tingles from him.

2018-05-06T14:57:48+00:00

He was high value with abundance and acted the way that women act in a relationship (i.e. talking to members of the opposite sex regularly, going out to lunch with "female friends", outright cheating).

treble-n-bass · 2018-05-06T17:35:04+00:00

They'll call you an asshole at lunch then text you for dinner at 3:00 p.m., because they're pining for attention and a free dinner.

lister777 · 2018-05-06T15:53:33+00:00

Reminds me that girl who went to a jail with her mother in order to meet a guy. She met one, fuxked with him and made a child. He went out of jail and she went to.live with him. He hit her a couple of times, got crazy and threw her out. She left, and 2 weeks after she wants to be back with him - raising a child with 150euro a month is hard. He told her to fuck off. I don't know who's right because he is clearly mental, but anyway, whatever he does, good or bad, he is an asshole. In fact, just typing on reddit makes you an asshole for them. Looking by the window when she left the dishes of 3 days, makes you an asshole. Answering to your friend or your family makes you an asshole. In fact, even taking a shit for 5 min makes you an asshole.

2018-05-06T17:47:07+00:00

Precisely.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-05-06T21:28:18+00:00

I’ve heard this so many times from women I can’t take it seriously anymore. Then I see how these women act and I realize they only call a man an asshole if he doesn’t pay enough attention to her.

Chikubakidon · 2018-05-06T20:50:14+00:00

Its true that in a lot of these cases, their boyfriends probably didn't let her take control, but they were probably assholes anyway. Most women date jerks.

leadfarmer154 · 2018-05-07T03:10:23+00:00

It means he wouldn't submit to her pussy.

She wanted a slave and he refused. In her eyes he's an asshole. He's actually just a real man from another era/time.

Title	90% of the time when they say my ex boyfriend was an "asshole" what they really mean is
Author	magx01
Upvotes	117
Comments	18
Date	May 6, 2018 7:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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