I. Intro

This post is what I've learned from spending a lot of time with both affluent upper-middle class American women, lower socio-economic status girls from around the world, sex workers, and general thots. I see a missed opportunity sometimes in TRP discussions around gold-digging or AF/BB or hypergamy where the sheer vitriol and disdain that we have for these characterizations shuts down a full exfoliation of the theory behind the scenes. This leads to a false dichotomy where you have good girls / unicorns / LTR material girls and then you have the evil minority, the scheming gold diggers.

This is not the case. Gold-digging is just "female TRP." It's their sexual strategy. We want to minimize commitment and resources given to women, and maximize sex gotten from women. IE give the least, get the most. Not all women are "gold-diggers" but that which drives gold-digging - a desire to get resources and commitment and security (long term value) in exchange for something that has shorter term value (expiring beauty and pussy) - is a part of EVERY SINGLE female's sexual strategy, whether she knows it or not.

And it's not actually that different to the sexual strategy we propose here - in fact, it's so similar, that I'll proudly call myself a "sex-digger." We want to get the maximum pussy (both in terms of quality and quantity) and spend the minimum time / effort / money for it. Get the most, give the least = winning in today's fucked up society and SMP.

Women also want to get the most and give the least. The only difference is, while maybe 10% of guys are viewing dating through this trade-based lens, 90% of women are. All women are trying to trade up, to get more resources and commitment than they have earned. Most guys are just plodding along trying to get what they can get. TRP for women is everywhere - it's in books, popular media, pop music, advice columns, bff talk, and so on. If they are first-gen, you bet they get doses of it from their parents and grandparents telling them to marry a doctor, get into Yale to get a good Mrs. Degree, and seal the deal before they turn 25. Girls are trained to be keyed in to the reality that they must use their youth and beauty to get a winner, as that will give them the fantasy lifestyle that they want. Guys, especially young guys, comparatively do not know their ass from a hole in the ground. Which creates this "ugh fuck these gold-digging bitches" anger when the wool is pulled from their eyes, but the reality is that it's them, they were deficient in terms of their sexual knowledge and strategy.

So, the first step is to assume that all women are playing to win; assume that just like you have your RP ideas, she has her female RP ideas, which is telling her to find stability, lifestyle, excitement, sexual gratification, social status, emotional validation, etc. And part of her "female RP" is that all of these can come from different men, because men are abundant.

This is just their hustle. Some dudes sell drugs, some people do credit card scams, some people become lawyers who rip off old senile people, some people sell their bodies for cash. Women sell the promise of steady sex, affection, love, and caring for the lion's share of your time, resources, social status, and money.

They, like all hustlers, will generally under-deliver on what they promised to give, and try to get YOU to over-deliver on what you give to them. And just like hustlers, they are VERY skilled at doing a quick reading and using their powers of perception to figure out to what extent can they under-deliver and over-charge.

This is basically the TLDR. Turn back here if you're not ready for a wordy ass post.

II. The Drug Dealer

It's very similar to how a dope dealer works when an inexperienced, but clearly high value customer comes around. Say a khakis IT white guy who wants to score some soft white for this party. What will the dealer do?

He'll give the guy the guy his most stepped on coke he has, and he'll act like it's the shit, like it's pure. He knows that this guy has not had a lot of other experiences and points of reference, so this guy will accept what he's saying at face value. The dealer minimizes what he gives out (while inflating the PERCEIVED value of what he's given out). Now, if this guy signals that he knows what he's talking about, he'll give him either better stuff, or he'll be more honest. IE if your dealer knows your not an idiot, he'll know that you know that everyone cuts their coke at least 50%, and he at least will spare you the act of pretending you got this great value. You got the same coke for the same prices everyone's paying for it.

Hopefully the parallel is becoming clear - when women know you've had experience with women, they do not try to bullshit you as much. If they pick up on your inexperience, what do they do? Inflate the PERCEIVED value of what they are giving, while simultaneously minimizing what they actually give out. Perceived value is everything; actual value is irrelevant. If you have no frame of reference, the shittiest mexican brick weed feels like top shelf blue dream, the shittiest coke gets you going like scarface, and the shittiest pussy still feels like heaven on earth. So if you are low on experience, you MUST cultivate the image of a guy who's fucked 100+ women. You absolutely CANNOT come across as someone who hasn't been laid in the past few months, because she will automatically jack up the perceived value and jack up the price, because she knows you're a sucker.

III. Honest versus Dishonest Hustling

Now, there is an honest way women can hustle and a dishonest way. The honest hustle is to ensnare your beta bucks, but in return for him busting his ass to subsidize your ass, you suck his dick, raise his kids, stay faithful, and spend your life squishing your inner craving for the alpha cock you were so used to enjoying in your teens and early 20s.

And to be fair to women, yes, some do that.

Another honest way to do the female hustle is to prostitute yourself. 300 bucks an hr (rate based on your skills and SMV and location, can go way higher or lower depending on how you market yourself). Cater to niche groups, like financially successful guys in NY who like to be beaten up, etc, be smart about it, and give a great service to good customers to build up a roster of qualified repeat customers.

And some women definitely do that. Most whores, however, are flaky, theft-prone, sleazy, and drug addicted, and get into prostitution to make enough money to go on a binge until they are broke and need to sell themselves again. Not to bash on prostitutes, because they are most honest, wayyy more honest about their hustle than gold-diggers. They use old pictures, they bait and switch, they agree to a price then try to gouge you on extras, they rush the clock, they are unreliable, and so on.

The choice at play here is not the false dichotomy of "good normal girls" versus "bad gold digging whores". They are all hustlers. You have a choice between honest hustlers and dishonest hustlers. Honest hustlers are girls trying to provide a reasonably fair, but still less amount of value in return for value that is plausibly proportionate to the value that they put in. IE, the no-BS escort or the "RPW".

The dishonest hustlers? They deal in perceived value - they minimize the value they give while jacking up it's perceived value, while maximizing (and obscuring and downplaying) what you give them. If she's constantly overplaying how much she's worth or she contributes (aka being a SAHM is the hardest job in the world) while downplaying what you contribute (you GET to work 10-11 hours a day, you like work, you're good at it and you get to not be in the house), then you are being hustled dishonestly. If after a hard day of work there's dinner on the table and she at least uses the joint account to keep her pussy waxed for you, then you're being hustled honestly. Still being hustled, but it's honest in that this is the dynamic you signed up for.

III.V SMV and RMV Dishonesty

Dishonest Hustling can also include deals made on the basis of false or manipulated information, generally in the form of lies about one's past. This is an attempt to boost her RMV (relationship market value) and con you into thinking she's something she's not. To her, being a slut versus a good girl is all in the eye of the beholder, and you are the beholder. If she convinces you that she's not a slut, then she isn't one. If you think she's a slut, she's a slut when she's with you. So at any given time, her "am I a slut" compass is dependent upon how she markets herself to the man she is with (and perhaps to some close female friends who's opinions she cared about).

So she can lie about her number count, have you think that her RMV is high, and then by the transitive property of women, her RMV actually becomes this "perceived" RMV. Now you're a 8 who's committed to a 6 because your dumb ass didn't learn how to get a proper HoFax. And by the way, now that she's an 8, aka an equal, she starts to be a little contemptuous of you, a little combative, and she gets you in your head, you feel like a 7, and she takes the lead in the doling out of sex vs. resources/commitment.

Now, let's combine this kind of RMV-dishonesty with some SMV-dishonesty. SMV dishonesty is easy to tell when you know the signs, but to inexperienced guys, it tricks them hard. SMV dishonesty is when a 6 - a plain girl, a little chubby, skinny fat, no ass, plain face with some acne, ok hair, 5'4'', low muscle tone / athleticism looks like a 8 or 9 when you see her. Spanx to fix the figure, pushup bra (check out VS 2 size + bras. B to D, shit is crazy), 300-400 dollars of high end makeup A MONTH, sexy clothes, heels that make her 5'8'', keratin hair treatments, tanning, tubs of concealer for the wrinkles emerging on her 25 year old face due to heavy sun, drinking, smoking, and poor diet, and so on.

Now, girls don't do this malicious, but it's dishonest nonetheless. I don't hate them for it, they are insecure and afraid to take the slow road to a healthy, attractive appearance (diet and exercise). But any given 8-9 at the club can be a 5-7, and your dumb ass will catching feelings before you're objectively evaluated her SMV and RMV.

So this is why you need to WAIT and ASSESS. Think objectively - what is her real SMV, what is her real RMV. What do you perceive her as? What is causing the difference between real and perceived? Ultimately, how you view her SMV and RMV is more important than what it is "objectively" in the eyes of society, because you're fucking her, society's not fucking her. But it's absolutely critical to make sure that your perceived R/SMV is rooted in reality and at least within .5 points of the real MV. Otherwise you are hustling yourself through naivete / denial, or she's hustling you. Never, ever give out t/m/c (time / money / commitment) before you are confident in your assessment of her SMV and RMV, and confident in your assessment of her honesty in presenting it.

IV. The Prostitute Hustle Versus the Gold-Digger Hustle

What is the difference between a gold-diggers hustle and a prostitutes hustle?

Long term versus short term. That's it. Gold-diggers want to maximize a future reward; they trade in promises, in dreams, so to speak. They titillate you with the idea of owning them, of them being your future bride, mother of your kids, personal pornstar, and "cool girl" all rolled into one perfect disney package. They defer what they give to you (sex), and they defer the payment they will receive.

It's smart. They make investments, they don't want the couple hundred or thousand up front. Instead of trying to extract the value right off the bat, they actually put effort and value IN. Their investments grows and grows until they reach the optimal time to cash out. Gold diggers always talk about how much time they put in, the same way your dad might talk about how after X years at the company, he's going to finally get that bigass pension. This is their work; to you it's dating and fun and sex, to them, it's WORK. This is their Staples Center, and they are trying to be Kobe, and they have accepted that it's a long term hustle. Some of the smarter ones have become aware of the expiring clock they are working with and they have primed plan B guys to "develop feelings for" if it turns out that investments make into Alpha Bucks candidate A turn out to be a wash. They have diversified their stocks.

V. The Quadrant

Smarter, long term thinking oriented women before trophy wives & successful gold-diggers. Short term thinking women become prostitutes - now they may call themselves by all kinds of different names, but that's what they are. That's it. If you divide those two categories up into a quadrant, you have 4 archetypes of women. Short-term dishonest hustlers, short-term honest hustlers, long-term dishonest hustlers, long-term honest hustlers.

If you MUST marry (don't), then choose in the long-term honest hustler quadrant.

If you want zero time / commitment investment and you lack the SMV to pull, shop from the short-term honest hustler quadrant. If you can responsibly budget a few hundred bucks a month for it, you can bang a 9 every month in exactly the way you want, when you want, with no effort required.

If you want to plate / pump and dump, shop from the long-term dishonest hustlers quadrant. I'll explain later exactly how to flip the script on them and use their own fantasies to get sex before giving any commitment.

And in case you didn't realize, you leave the short-term dishonest hustler category alone. These are your girls who try to get money from you early, your scammy / druggy hookers, your false accusers, your condom-pokers, and basically any type of girl, rich or poor, who's trying to "finesse" you in some fashion, usually for some quick thing she needs.

VI. "Gold" Doesn't Always Mean Green

To Fuck Gold-Diggers without giving them "gold" or time, you have to understand what their "gold" is. In modern society, it's not necessarily money, but rather, a collection of fantasies and idealizations she has about a certain lifestyle.

So, remember, prostitutes deal in certainties, in concrete value for value trades that occur in the now. Whether it's 60 for a BJ plus 20 to come in her mouth in your car or $300 for an hour of tantric erotic massage and release by a "specialist"... it's a present, concrete trade. Gold-diggers biggest strength is that they are negotiating for future payoffs, for a nebulous fantasy of a lifestyle - this is why they get a house, car, and potentially millions, whereas the hooker gets mattress money. But this is also their weakness.

Because their social contract was one of vague futures, of fantasies, they risk getting nothing. They can put in years of manipulation only to have a dude wise up and dump them on their ass. The escort gets her 300 in an envelope, and she can spend it that night. The gold digger is very, very at risk of hamstering a certain fantasy and projecting it ONTO you, and then believing completely that the big ROI is going to come.

The fact it isn't JUST money that they're after is their strength and weakness. If they grew up middle class, they hustle because they dream of a man providing them with a certain life. Luxury, status, brand names, instagrammable nights, traveling, mimosas and brunch, photogenic kids and the option at 38 to say "fuck it, I want something new, I love you but I'm not in love, I'm going to travel the world on half of your time getting dicked down and writing a feminist blog about it." These hoes hustle for their slice of the American ThotDream, not for money.

Now, let's revisit the Drug Dealer.

VIII. The Fiend Becomes the Dealer

When you understand that she's shopping for a slice of your lifestyle (as well as her craving for alpha dick), all of a sudden, what do these women become? Who do they bear resemblance to? From this angle, they are the fiend, not the dealer. They want to buy a fantasy that they are addicted to; you have what they want. You sell them a fantasy of what could be, you signal the type of lifestyle you have, and show her a hint of what it could be like to be a part of it. You over-promise and under-deliver. How you dress, how you speak, the stories you tell, your material signals (brands and labels and success symbols mean way more to women than you would think), and of course, how desirable your life seems from the outside looking in allow you to inflate your asking price, and deflate what you give in return. All of a sudden you're pushing for more sex up front, and you're offering less commitment and less resources. But this only works if she's shit testing you and you're congruent, and she buys into the idea that you're really living this kickass life.

IX. Lifestyle Creation

Look, no one's life is glamorous enough to keep a hot 22 year old girl in a major city interested for long. Most successful people eat simple meals, hit up the same repetitive tasks every day, live within their means, and don't chase a new stimulation source everyday. So what do you do? You create a fantasy, you make your life look like it's gravy. Your social media makes it look like you spend the weekends chilling on the beach and in nightclubs and fancy restaurants and concerts, but you still have a high profile job and a six pack. You make only OK money, but you've curated 7 outfits that look casual, but high end. You get success symbols where you can - the BMW, the $200 sunglasses, etc etc. Look like you have money, but not to the point where it's gaudy (ie mr. look at my rolex). You have stories of traveling the world, meeting interesting people, doing crazy shit, fucking hot girls, etc, that implies that you're a worldly party animal. When in reality, you work 60 hrs a week and in your spare time, you're in the gym or kitchen making a healthy meal.

Create the fantasy and learn how to sell it. Inflate the perceived value, hype it up without looking like you're trying to. Hint at the potential, create a picture that seems like it's just missing the right woman, and maaayyybe it could be her.

Remember she's hustling this way because she's smarter than a flat rate hooker, and she's used to long term thinking. In the same way you accept paying 50k for 4 years to educate yourself before making a dime, SHE believes that the more she's being asked to pay now and the more elusive you are being, the BIGGER the payout will be at the end. Because it's harder to get, she assumes it will be all the better and she enhances the fantasy - this is a studied phenomena in game design, just ask a WoW player.

When you are clear you expect a high payout (frequent, nasty sex from the get-go) and you show her "the fantasy", she assumes that because your asking price is so damn high compared to all the BP men in her life, the reward must also be higher.

Which brings us full circle. You're now the dealer. You're the hustler, and you can decide who you want to hustle, and whether you want to be honest or dishonest. You can decide if you want to be short term focused or long term focused.

X. Dope & Hope

You sell two things. Your dope is the addictive, intoxicating energy that she feels when she's with an alpha. This is what turns women into alpha widows, this is the drug that makes women return to the CC if they've rode before. Alpha dick is a drug, and you deal it, and you will get girls addicted, and you can actually get girls to do things for you in return for you staying in their life and fucking them.

You also sell something equally powerful. Hope. This is the fantasy, this is "the good life" that you represent. Whether it's "I'll be popular at school if I date Chad, and finally I'll be in the cool girl clique" or it's "I hate working as a customer service rep from Yelp making 30k a year with my English degree in the Bay Area, I want to be a SAHM in a nice big house!" you hold that hope in your hands, and you can dangle in it front of her. IE if she has a travel tumblr and travel blog, and she's always wanted to backpack across Europe (collecting flagpoles in the process), talk about how last summer you did X and Y in New Zealand, and this summer you and some bros had been planning a trip from Nice to Athens, seeing all the major party cities along the way. Then move on and change the subject, like it's nothing to you, it's just what your life is. That is the power of selling hope; she's already thinking I'm going to snag this guy and he's going to whisk me across the globe on an adventure that I've wanted to take since high school, but he seems to do on a yearly basis.

As a general rule of thumb... if she's a young thot, sell DOPE. She doesn't care about your finances or stability or any kind of provisions or support. She's got a daddy and 2 male BFFs who will tend to her needs. She just needs excitement, arousal, and dick.

The exception is if she's involved with any kind of insular social scene like sororities, she's in HS / college, etc, where she will value the status gained by dating / fucking you above all else. If this is the case, you must become popular and high social status in that ecosystem, and sell her the hope that she will further raise her social status by dating you. 99% of thot-reeling in HS and college is social status dependent - she wants to fuck if she thinks it will raise her status, and it only does if you are cooler than her.

If she's 23+, juggle selling the two. She's experienced enough of the modern day workplace to know she wants out, it's not as intellectually stimulating or empowering to be a "career woman" as she thought it would be, turns out that work is just boring and tedious for 99% of people.

If she has another provider in her life (married woman, etc), focus on selling dope. Occupy the AF role, keep things sexual, polarizing, and stand out as much as possible from the beta bucks in her life. Highlight how different you are, kino-escalate, get physical, be forward.

If she doesn't have a provider, get a sense of the life she wants for herself and what she considers to be "the good life". This can be done in 2 minutes of conversation if you are good. Then use that to frame yourself.

XI. The Bottom Line

The male hustle, or "male TRP" if you will, is "sex-digging." Setting up your life to be as sexually successful as possible while minimizing the resources you trade in return for it. The female hustle, or "female TRP", is commitment/resource-digging. Or more commonly known as gold-digging. It's what they are programmed to do, just like we are programmed to compete to smash the most tail.

Don't take your advice on getting laid from people who use the moral argument against gold-diggers and hypergamous women. TRP is amoral. Their sentiment towards these women who exploit and manipulate, it might a true, emotional, and powerful sentiment, but it's also an irrelevant one. Ultimately, AWALT reigns supreme, and you will find that all women hustle, and this doesn't make them bad people. It makes them people. You can outhustle them, you can avoid them, but refusing to learn from them because of how odious they seem to you is not a valid option. There is only good strategy and bad strategy, and good results and bad results. Assume all women are digging for gold - not necessarily your money, but the things created by your money - and quickly assess whether they are looking for a short term or long term payoff, and how honest you believe they are being about the hustle taking place. Once you know that information, you can protect yourself if necessary while getting the quickest, most enthusiastic sex you can get out of her with the minimum time / money requirements possible.