How to date a 19 year old as a 32 year old and get away with it, in the public eye.

cheeky--kunt · 2016-04-17T12:41:42+00:00

There no trick when your rich, famous, and high status.

He could literally say he simply likes young tight pussy and still get away with it

forcevacum · 2016-04-17T13:23:42+00:00

When I get shit from women for dating girls over 10 years younger than me I just say something like "attraction is a mystery, isn't it?" because to women it actually is. That line stops them in their tracks, in their own lives they cant explain why they like the guys that they do.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-04-17T14:33:40+00:00

Cavill has some publicist "managing" this for him. If you're a "normal" guy you can pretty much get away with it by simply sticking to your guns.

I. Never, ever, ever admit that you are in any way 'wrong' for dating a much younger woman. Because you're not wrong. The biological imperative - and I'll come back to that - drives men to seek to partner with young, attractive, fertile women. I point this out and then day "Go argue with God." {Or Mother Nature, depending on the audience.}

II. The same crowd that wants to "shame" you for dating young women also thinks it's perfectly ok for two guys to get married, etc. As it happens, I don't care what other people do with their lives, but you can use this as a weapon. I'm just "born that way", like gay people are born the way they are. The point is to weaponize the language of your attacker back against them. So use "God" vs religious conservatives and "Born that way" against liberals. Note: non-religious conservatives tend to have an "everyone cuts their own deal" attitude and range from "couldn't care less" to "openly supportive".

III. Generally speaking, the folks who will come after you the most are post-Wall hags, and older married ladies who think that you will give their husband "ideas". Men will think it's cool, for the most part, except for white knights/manginas...like you should give a shit what they think anyway.

IV. It's also easier because I don't have an ex-wife who I threw over for a younger woman. For guys who are divorced, but whose wife left them, fall back to "Look, I was perfectly happy being married. Susan chose divorce to go {Eat, Pray, Slut or whatever}. She made her choice, and now I'm doing what's right for me."

Now go forth and SLAY!

CrackityDiggity · 2016-04-17T17:21:27+00:00

I don't feel the need to apologize or make excuses for preferring younger women. Who gives a fuck? If we're both adults, and we're both attracted to each other, it really isn't anyone else's businesss. Anyone who has a problem with it can go fuck themselves.

throwaway500123456 · 2016-04-17T14:12:11+00:00

I've got a 19 year old piece and I'm 31. When we are out in public, we just don't give a fuck. She's a skinny girl with big tits and red hair. She stands out. She likes to push limits and call me daddy in public and we've gotten some dirty looks from older women in public.

We went to the movies a few months back and she called me daddy in a sweet playful way and two women in their forties turned in their seats (not even at previews yet) and gave me a dirty look. I tilted my head and shrugged. They tried to hold the gaze and I looked back at them like I was bored (I don't like being stared at, it makes me angry and makes me think the person wants me to hurt them, hurt them badly).

We could then hear them talking about us. So the piece and I talked about angry older women who are worthless as human beings and partners. The two women got up and left the theater and we had a good laugh about it.

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wanderer1976 · 2016-04-17T19:01:32+00:00

My wife is a fifteen years younger than me and from a part of Asia where some internet brides come from, though she isn't one.

We have been openly sneered at in public by women. Women my age and feminists make it clear that they disapprove.

I've caught older men leering at her, as if I needed to worry. They are all thirsty idiots that have been trampled by their wives. They wouldn't know what to do if she did bother herself with them.

The best is when we go to an event. I have literally heard older women saying things like, "I wonder what he does to that poor girl in bed?" To which I look at the woman smile slyly and say, "Nothing you don't wish your husband would do, or did before you decided to stop having sex with him, anyway" Then I wink and walk away. Usually some serious butt hurt ensues. What I never tell to them is their own husbands looking at my wife and asking if there are more like her, I always tell them no, there aren't nations full of women like her anywhere on Earth, and there aren't, not for them anyway.

She has had women offer to get her safely away from "that horrible man". The only evidence that I am horrible? I am married to her and her English has an accent. She was offended at first, now she will toy with them.

As always frame. Shit is always going to talk shit. They want to know about your personal life, tell them very little and make it clear that inquiries aren't particularly welcome. Only trusted friends know anything about it, the rest can guess all they want.

Entropy-7 · 2016-04-17T16:37:27+00:00

When I was 32 I dated a 19 year old for a few months. When I was 34 I started dating an 18 year old and that ended up turning into a 2-1/2 year LTR. I spent Christmas with her family and they were cool with it. The women in my family - mother and two sisters - had nothing to say but my dad kept needling me even after we broke up. My half-brother - who is 16 years younger than me - was sort of wrapped around the axel because my gf was actually younger than his.

On the other hand, my present girlfriend (sort of - long story) is 27 and I am 49. I am actually a year older than her father. She thinks her family will disown her if she told them about me. Apparently all her friends know and don't have anything bad to say.

Worse (or maybe better) yet, when she dresses down she looks like a teenager. Fortunately, when properly groomed I pass for 10 to 15 years younger but that still puts me 10 to 20+ years older looking than her.

[deleted] · 2016-04-17T18:40:31+00:00

This one wierd trick will stop others from shaming you.

All you have to do is not give a fuck.

Old hags hate him and young bitches love him.

KartagoPill · 2016-04-17T18:41:10+00:00

'It is important that you met them spontaneously in your story. You never were on the lookout for a younger woman.'

Always.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-04-17T15:26:40+00:00

As a guy in early 20s, it's frustrating to watch all those guys in their 30s pick up girls of your age.

okkyle · 2016-04-17T19:16:29+00:00

Perhaps all this has helped soften Henry's image a tad, but at his level of super-alpha it doesn't matter. Leo is in his mid forties and exclusively dates early to mid-twenties models and aside from the occasional Daily Mail article trying to shame him, no one cares. Alphas at that level can openly date whoever they want and as many as they want and the public will still by and large love and admire them.

TheSlicemanCometh · 2016-04-17T23:01:29+00:00

As a 30yo who wont date women over 22yo, I have a better tip:

Look younger than you are.

michael6795 · 2016-04-17T17:55:58+00:00

I think its also pretty ingenious when he mentions in the article that he dated a 32 year old at 19. Just feeding the hamsters

Newbosterone · 2016-04-17T19:35:49+00:00

Aka, playing the "True Love" card. If it looks like you're in it for the sex, women close ranks and "pink knight". If she's your soulmate, women want a happy ending, and true love conquers all.

PheromoneVoid · 2016-04-17T13:03:32+00:00

The fact that he is quite possibly one of the most attractive men in the world, if not the most attractive man also plays a part...

[deleted] · 2016-04-17T18:11:57+00:00

It's because he's good looking and a movie star. High SMV. That simple.

johnchapel · 2016-04-17T23:38:23+00:00

Is this post serious? This is some tourist shit.

Ignore OP, gents. The real answer is "You shouldn't give a shit about the public eye"

slothsenpai · 2016-04-18T00:20:13+00:00

As long as you're both consenting adults, does it really fucking matter? If it's anything, there's plenty of older women who fuck younger guys with 10-15 years between them.

Darthstacker · 2016-04-18T01:40:53+00:00

.....or you could just go to Ukraine.

[deleted] · 2016-04-18T10:03:42+00:00

Why would you want to date a 19 year old anyway? I'm 24 and I find most 19 year olds terrible company. Fuck them. They're cheap and easy. Impress them with a date to a shitty cocktail bar (where they get to use their fake) and then take them back to your place, where they'll be thrilled that you live alone and have a queen sized bed. Then, once you've gotten your fill, leave. If you want an LTR or even someone to casually but publicly date, get the girl who proved herself. Get the one who survived college and the onslaught of guys with money and good jobs that happens after college with an n-count that fits on one hand. Get the one who isn't gonna drag you to her gross house parties with her shitty friends.

19 year olds are largely only good for sex, use them accordingly.

thechaosz · 2016-04-17T19:37:32+00:00

I'd just ask if they mad? Again though, I'm a total ass

TedTheAtheist · 2016-04-17T23:28:37+00:00

Hell I date them as a 42 year old and I have no problems. I look like I'm 30.

FruitierGnome · 2016-04-17T23:48:31+00:00

With that jawline he could probably date 3 women at the same time and get away with it.

criveros · 2016-04-18T15:36:56+00:00

Dating a hot 19 yo at 28, not a big deal

eyejuantyou · 2016-04-17T19:38:35+00:00

Idk. I'm 38 and dating a 17 year old. She has an air of maturity beyond her years, and I act like a child, so we're a good match. I don't feel a need to hide our relationship from my friend and family. I'm fortunate that they understand and are ok with it. I do, however, need to be careful when traveling - the age of consent in the next state is 18, instead of 16, as it is in my home state. Yes, it's awesome having a young girlfriend. But it helps that I truly believe that it's "just my turn", and that "awalt".

[deleted] · 2016-04-18T00:07:10+00:00

I can confirm that there is no trick, it is just fame and status. I am mid 40s. I regularly plate and date girls in their early 20s. It is AWKWARD. Even though I am tall and well dressed everyone stares at me and the girls I am with. These days I do not take them to anywhere busy or where I will be seen by peers (although it has happened before). If I was Johhny Depp, DiCaprio, Clooney or Cavill it would be fine, but I am just a businessman, not famous.

Everyone tries to shame me for dating/ banging younger girls. I have been called date rapist, pervert, creep, cradle snatcher etc. The only people who do not judge you are your friends, and they are all just jealous. Dating girls waaaay younger than me is great, I will never stop doing it but going out in public with women who are young enough to be my daughter is embarrassing to say the least. Best to keep what goes on between me and them in a nice hotel room and get room service.

casablanca_1942 · 2016-04-18T01:09:53+00:00

The delta age range from 32 to 19 is only 13 years. This is completely normal. Men get distinguished when they get older, and women just get old. Age 32 is well within dating range of 19.

I am 53 and I commonly date women in their twenties.

torodinson · 2016-04-17T17:15:02+00:00

As a 19 year old myself I'm baffled at why 30 year old men would want to get with 19 year olds. 19 year old girls honestly aren't peak, many of them could pass for 16 going by just looks.

I'd rather get with a woman aged 26-28 purely on looks.

Title	How to date a 19 year old as a 32 year old and get away with it, in the public eye.
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Date	April 17, 2016 12:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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