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Women fall in love with the idea of a man but not the man himself. The basis of that love is hypergamy. As such if you are to be weak, that idea is broken. A woman is not your mother, and as such she will never love you, unconditionally.

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This is the 4th instalment of the series and I believe the most useful for anyone who is newly unplugged. In this one we will talk about a woman’s love and see what that love really means for a man. Let’s note here that I covered the transition from lust to love to hate before in another video which is also a blog post on trp. So have a look on that one too if you got the time.

In the post about solipsism, I explained how women are always altering their world view to fit their own internal narrative. It is only natural therefore, that the men in a woman’s life would also fit that narrative that makes her appear to herself as a good person. As men we do something similar of course, but in terms of love, your ideas are more malleable and they change to fit the person of your affliction. If you are to understand a woman in love, then you must understand that when it comes to them the opposite happens. The narrative in their heads is unchangeable, it is fixed in the idea of the person you are, according to her; therefore, if you are to change, you no longer fit the narrative and you are as such discarded.

This would be how a woman describes a boyfriend to her girlfriends:

“Ma bae is great. He works as a lawyer, makes fuck-loads of money, we constantly go out to all these new cool restaurants and bars... His friends are like, so cool. Like, they have this band… and they all play out together in pubs. I know they are not really big but that’s because they are all busy with work. But my bae is the hottest of the lot. His dick feels amazing and when we bang, he just shoves my face down on that pillow and I lose myself for the next hour. Sometimes he does get angry with me, but that’s only when I am bad… and you know girls? Sometimes I just want to be bad, just to get him mad. I get so wet thinking of how he is going to punish me and how angry he is going to be when he fucks me.”

Now if we simply disregard the fact, that I intentionally have made that woman sounding thicker than average and a submissive in terms of BDSM… you must understand that variations of these conversations occur between women and also in a woman’s mind. The aspect that you must pay attention to here is that, every single aspect of a man’s appeal serves a specific purpose for that woman. What you must also understand is that, a man and that includes any man here, is much more than this simple description here. However, this is the narrative in her head. A man must maintain the woman’s narrative in her head if he is to continue to earn her affection. All the attributes listen in the example of the woman I gave, can be summarised to the attributes women find attractive – status, money, power; which is of course – hypergamy in action.

Unlike other red pillers, I do believe in the honesty of a woman’s love. I believe women do love, they simply love differently. Such as in everything, you as a man, should take the time and try to evaluate what that love is worth to you as a man and how much notice you should take of it. A woman in love will certainly serve her man and certainly stay faithful to her man. I am talking about love here, towards a man that she finds sexually attractive, a genuine combination of attraction, lust and admiration which is basically what female love boils down to.

Therefore, it goes without question that a woman loves the image of a man. That does not mean of course that they fall in love with an image, or the outside attributes, but rather with the idea of the man that they have in their heads. That is the truth of the matter. Hypergamy will dictate that woman’s genuine attraction towards that man and her biology will take over, solipsism will further rationalise her attraction to that man into a set of attributes that she can understand and continue to think of herself as a good person. It is worth noting here that women as they age, they are much more in tune with their hypergamy and they will tell you exactly what they like, things that I believe discover through trial and error. Now since we reached the point that many women discover things through trial and error at a young age, you see a similar thing occurring with much younger women.

But let’s stop side tracking and focus on the subject matter… How does love feel if you are to be inside a woman’s head?

It is an experience of respect, admiration, fear and intense sexual attraction – in the form that she will want to waste her man’s energy so that another woman cannot compete with her, when he is invariably away from her. This is how it will feel for a woman, however the object of her affection is not really the man that she is sleeping with… The object of her affection is actually the man who is strong, unmovable, shows no weakness, has determination, goes on in his life uninterrupted, doesn’t take any shit from her and in her mind she feels: he doesn’t need her and he can definitely live without her. This is the basis of the emotion. Therefore, a woman acts on her instinct – and her instinct is further translated into emotions and then rationalised into logical and sometimes highly illogical thoughts.

A woman can rationalise this emotion in a million different forms and see you as a charismatic, nice person that works hard and achieves things for the betterment of society. But show weakness, and though all those things may still stand true, things that she claimed she was initially attracted to… and her love will disappear. It is as if, that love never existed in the first place. You see, hypergamy and the sexuality of a woman, runs hot for a very short period of time and requires long term investment from the man. So a woman’s sense will be so finely tuned to weakness, any signs of it will make her detest you. When that occurs it’s as if that love never existed. It’s as if she made a giant mistake letting you even touch her. You become irrelevant and you will be treated much in the same way as every man she has no interest for. That is because, you have lost your power, you have shown that your glass is cracked. And cracked glass breaks all too easily as its structure is fundamentally compromised.

Can a woman love you? Yes… she fucking can. But she will never love you like your mother. She will never protect you like your mother. She will never be there for you like your mother was. She will never love you unconditionally. You are there to protect her, be her rock and the provider. I am not saying here that you should do any of that shit. I am simply stating that biology – has stated this. In today’s world, a man must of course look out for himself first, make sure that he never needs to look for shelter, support himself, stick strong to his morals and push on in this life. In this society, in order to keep a woman’s affection, with the power dynamic having changed as much as it has, you must really be ruthless. Whether the juice is worth the squeeze, I will leave up to you… this is not that type of post. I want to state here clearly what a woman’s love really is and the judgement I leave to yourselves.

If we are to assume that love for a man from the point of view of a woman, only continues to exist once he continues to be that pillar of strength, then you have a love that is directed only towards an idea. Because no man on this planet is strong all the time forever… the idea is as such, unrealistic much like the demands from any woman are. Furthermore, if you are to understand that no association between a man and a woman will ever take place unless a woman is to gain something – which of course is Briffault’s law and the basis of hypergamy; and then you add to that the love for an unchangeable forever strong ideal of a man, then you reach the conclusion that women fall in love with people they deem to be Supernatural or Unreal. Women have an unrealistic version of a man. And thus the unrealistic version of man must be acted out by that man in the eyes of that woman, because a man can never be all but just strength in all areas of his life. And in truth a woman demands strength in most of those areas – the personal, the professional and the family. Therefore, we must understand that the basis of that love is an instinct, one based on the past, where a man would mean the difference between life and death where he could fulfil all the roles of the protector, provider who if he failed would mean his family’s demise.

Conclusion

In the case that some of you do not think that women love, all you have to do, is take the time and talk to women that don’t want to bang you and ask them about the man that they can never forget. You might not find that in every woman, but some women are truly alpha widows, and the strength of the emotion such men created in the brain of these women, have changed them forever. But though, they have been changed, they are there for the next stronger, tougher, more successful man to change them again. A woman only falls in love with the best, if you are not the best, you will only be getting scraps. And I guess such is the nature of competition for men, one which is bred directly from hypergamy.

Is the juice really worth the squeeze? I don’t really care what your answer is. Just make an informed decision at least.

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The lust the love the hate vid