Do I live in a hellhole, or are girls like this everywhere?

RedHoodhandles · 2018-01-24T19:28:19+00:00

I'm trying to find a feminine, traditional woman who has a modest past and wants to have kids.

GL with that.

CutLiver · 2018-01-24T19:17:07+00:00

Let me guess... you're meeting them online?

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-01-24T19:18:49+00:00

I am guessing you’re mid to late twenties, possibly older.

You’re looking for a traditional girl who is still available and modest.

Here’s what you sound like:

“Yes I’d like to buy a used car made in the late 80s early 90s with one owner and hardly any miles!”

And you can’t believe that all of the cars you’re looking at have been in accidents / scrapes and bruises along the way?

Sounds like you can’t afford a new car. Level up or buy used. Hit the gym.

iknowthewhey · 2018-01-24T19:27:35+00:00

Decent girls? You won't find decent girls anywhere unless you are looking in a society based on strict religion. Religious girls are your best option but even then you will likely be surprised how much just like every other girl they are. Some career focused girls can be this way like the ones studying for Med school but you're shit out of look if you are looking in a bar or tinder to find a decent girl. AWALT.

brinkleybuzz · 2018-01-24T22:49:00+00:00

Welcome to the Kardashian generation, where thottery is the new normal.

[deleted] · 2018-01-24T19:17:03+00:00

Yup, this is pretty much the norm of today's society.

This is the result of generations of women raised without a masculine figure in their life, albeit, there are still "unicorns" who were raised by a masculine father to have self confidence.

There are a few daughters of masculine men at my gym (men who are still lifting into their 40's & 50's) who you can tell have self-esteem that is just head & shoulders above all other girls. You just have to look in the right place to find girls like this.

Aesthetik_1 · 2018-01-24T20:55:50+00:00

Step 1: move out of America

meaningintragedy · 2018-01-25T01:35:50+00:00

The last girl I went on a date with told me 15 minutes into the date that she hooked up with a famous musician on his tour bus, as if that would impress me. Another girl let it slip that she has a sex tape on the internet and lost count of how many guys she's been with.

Many girl I see on social dating apps have this kind of autism. They have no idea of what are good qualities and bad qualities in a girl and think that having sucked miles of dick is okay, or worse, attractive.

As someone else has said here, it's probably due tot the lack of a masculine figure.

Blueeyeddd · 2018-01-25T16:37:13+00:00

We are out there, go on RPW and you’ll see :). I am from Sweden so I was brainwashed into thinking that feminism is true, I saw the truth when I was 16 (I’m turning 21 this year).

As you’ve probably heard a thousand times, but my femininity and my deep desire to submit to a strong man comes from me having a dad who is incredibly strong and masculine. It has completely shaped what I thought a man should be like, I always felt safe around my dad and protected. He taught me what men look for, got mad if me or my sister tried to dress to sexually. I automatically became like my mum who is feminine and submissive. If you don’t already ask what the girls relationship with her parents ESPECIALLY her dad I think you should.

PreOrgasmGroanLness · 2018-01-25T01:05:28+00:00

You are searching in the wrong places.

Y'know, what you're doing is akin to going to an electronic music concert then complaining why aren't you hearing any rock. No shit dude, you're in a wrong spot.

You don't need to go to the church explicitly to find the girls you're looking for, but consider what kind of girls are going to be looking for men in the places you visit.

If you're dating Tinder, do you want a girl who would install Tinder? Think of the multitude of women who believe the sole idea of having Tinder is degrading to them. They won't be there.

You are already screening the women by the places you look for them in.

RedPillIsTruth2 · 2018-01-24T19:28:49+00:00

It is impossible to find girls with the values you desire in post modernistic shithole countries. My recommendation? Work hard earn money then move to Poland or similar country and live as a king. Those kinds of countries still have family values.

FuckThatWoman · 2018-01-24T23:21:21+00:00

I do know one thing though, bitches they come they go

2comment · 2018-01-25T02:53:39+00:00

It's called the decline. It's pretty universal in much of the west although there might be pockets here and there, with the internet getting less likely all the time.

Some say enjoy it... there's really nothing else positive you can do other than seek outside countries. They might be better but no utopia.

Soderbergh · 2018-01-24T20:03:13+00:00

Girls like you want do exist, but they are few and far between.

Also, the ones that are good are taken by the high smv alpha guys.

So, it's difficult. What in life that's worth it is not?

Keep improving yourself and look for girls in everyday life.

The good ones are usually 'hidden in plain sight' and not initially knock-outs.

gradchad · 2018-01-25T13:31:48+00:00

Gym
Bible belt states
Fellowship churches

blackedoutfast · 2018-01-25T02:59:40+00:00

focus on your social circle game. become that cool guy who knows everyone and is always doing fun stuff. plan events and get-togethers. tell your friends that they're welcome to invite any cool friends/co-workers/roommates/cousins/whatevers. keep doing this and constantly upgrading the quality of your social circles and you'll start meeting more and more single girls aren't looking to slut it up and ride the CC.

[deleted] · 2018-01-25T05:54:08+00:00

I had one of those unless your LTR game is tight, they will leave and cheat like any other.

beginner_ · 2018-01-25T07:06:28+00:00

First of you are doing fine if you get them to reveal their dirty secrets albeit I'm not sure we are already that far that they don't even get these are dirty secrets. Anyway, you are able to weed them out and aren't falling into the trap.

What can you do?

Whatever you are doing isn't working. So change how you get these dates. Online? Stop it and move to daygame. Barsluts? Stop it and move to day game and/or online.

The type of women you look for almost certainly isn't on tinder. If you must go the online route use a paid site. Yeah sucks but it's a numbers game. You can only hit up that many girls each day with day game. Importantly is to continue approaching in real-life.

RadioForMen · 2018-06-18T22:44:32+00:00

I honestly think were just fucked. Im 33. Which means Im a rare breed that dated 18-25 year olds pre-smart phones and now have dated after. These bitches are DIFFERENT now, in just a few short years.

No one can deny that social media on steroids (I was a junion in college when facebook came out but you had to be a sorta homebody sitting on your computer to use it) changed womens expectations.

Also, my last serious gf accidentally let out that the last guy she was 'seeing' was an NFL player. Same as OPs example, she said it as if she was bragging... these bitches are retarded.

Avskygod0 · 2018-01-24T21:08:44+00:00

Ah, you live in the Zone of Mandatory Social Purging, such behavior is pretty much mandatory there

life_is_dumb · 2018-01-24T21:12:58+00:00

Agree with those who have said religious girls, but that comes with its own can of worms and I'm not sure it's all that much better.

Bkblul · 2018-01-25T11:42:57+00:00

Not sure where you're based OP but try looking for country girls. They grow up on the farm helping their dad so you know they won't have daddy issues.

I really think the lack of a father figure is one of the biggest problems in today's society.

BestSC86 · 2018-01-25T17:26:13+00:00

I suspect it is the type of girl for which you are attracted and where you are meeting these women.

No all women are not drug addicted, musician fucking groupies....

downvotesanimals · 2018-01-25T00:36:27+00:00

Good women are few and far between. It's easier just to bang and bail.

GunnarX · 2018-01-25T05:33:04+00:00

Well this is hard to accept but maybe AWALT and you are better off putting effort into other faculties of your life?

Jack it, don't jack it, have casual hookups It's your choice really but nothing good comes of relationships.

maxrp · 2018-01-25T10:21:56+00:00

Where the fuck are the decent girls at?

you dont find decent girls, you only find girls who are good at lying.

Metalageddon · 2018-01-25T12:13:24+00:00

You need to practice vetting and nexting.

First, set some minimums for yourself. "Redhead, big titties, in shape, likes funny guys, no tattoos."

Run this checklist every time you associate. If they fail, move on. The harsher your checklist the less chicks will fit, but the more successful your interactions will be if you tailor it to your type, and your success history.

otikokoso · 2018-01-25T14:50:54+00:00

Try your church

DadOnDabs · 2018-01-25T16:16:56+00:00

Sounds like you need a hand. Literally

Crespius66 · 2018-01-25T20:05:33+00:00

You're fishing for catfish on a fucking tree. Online=casual sex, as in one night stands and regular fuckyfucky.

For wife material take the streets partner

RedwallAllratuRatbar · 2018-01-24T20:30:30+00:00

I know plenty of those. Sadly they're my family members and no, you can't find them on tinder. Besides - who the hell wants to have kids. Do YOU want kids? I guess if a woman offered you a marriage right away, but you must impregnate her today, you'd decline. GL with that traditional woman!

Also, personality of women that is most inclined towards family and kids is also the most boring personality to talk with. Details, details, details. Also they hassle you about better job/pay 24/7. I had this traditional woman. I'd take medium woman or SJW over that.

Ninokun · 2018-01-24T21:38:45+00:00

I got herpes on my first Sexual Encounter, that doesnt say shit, are u retarded? having herpes is like getting a few blisters for a week like 3 times year. Its not leprosy

Title	Do I live in a hellhole, or are girls like this everywhere?
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Date	January 24, 2018 7:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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