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I got myself into this shitty situation by making a mistake I had made before. You guys know the mistake the same as I do... in a way I suppose I have known it all my life, and struggled to deny it.

So I basically panic-posted about my predicament recently, where I detailed how a frivolous order of protection was granted to my dishonest ex, and how the mere record of the domestic violence PO has prevented me from finding a new job after I was laid off last year.

What I didn't include was how that actually came about.

I hesitated to include this in my original post (now deleted apparently) because it just sounded over the top to me... and I lived it.

But after thinking it over I decided fuck it... why not?

That picture at the top of this post is me.

I had just flown in from working in Canada for a week, took my little family to dinner, and came home exhausted and ready for bed. She must have been planning this for some time, and out of what to me was a clear blue sky, fucked me up like a samurai warrior.

I was caught completely off guard and struggled to comprehend what the hell had happened and why. It wasn't until much later, after one of my lawyers explained it to me that I finally understood. She attacked me as a setup...

She planned to have me arrested for fighting back when she attacked me.

But I didn't respond... which fucked up her clever plan. That was the last night I saw my then 1 year old daughter for over a year... the ex scooped her up, and disappeared with my child only moments after the attack, and subsequently filed the protection order which has destroyed my life, and then dragged all of us through the family court for my raping.

You're going to ask... I did call the police and filed a report. At the time, we lived in a private gated community in an unincorporated part of the county, so no city police... I was dealing with county sheriffs. They absolutely would not press charges... even with clear evidence.

So here I am... potentially facing jail time, alienated from my young daughter, career in ruins... this post explains why.

Go your own way gentlemen.