Backstory
Met this girl on the train after coming back from a date (side note: best time to pick up women is on the way to/from other dates. You're in frame and you're dressed well. Use it to your advantage).
Invited her over for dinner a couple days later, ended up making out on my bed and had her top off, but couldn't go all the way. Got the "I'm on my period" excuse.
I had to go abroad for two weeks, during which time I demanded she send me some seductive photos. She complied. To be honest, I was running on easy mode here. I would have to royally fuck this up to not see her again.
Regardless, I'm back and talking logistics for setting up the bang:
Conversation:
http://imgur.com/a/72YwA
TRP Lessons
Be subtle
Notice how I didn't say "Sounds nice. We're fucking." Or talk about all the dirty stuff I'm going to do to her.
Women love subtlety. Asking her if she has the whole place to herself and implying we're cooking dinner is equivalent to sex. I imply without outright asking for sex. Thirsty guys get this wrong.
She maintains plausible deniability. "We were hanging out at the place I'm pet sitting and one thing led to another. It just... happened!" Everyone is happy.
Don't ask — tell
"I'll come your way Monday night." Notice that I didn't say "How do you feel about me coming your way Monday night?" or "Mind if I come your way Monday night"?
"I'll come your way Monday night." If she doesn't want to do it, she'll let me know. We'll reschedule. If she doesn't want to reschedule, she's lost. I'll next her.
Defuse shit tests
There are two shit tests in her responses. Can you spot them? The first:
"Did you just invite yourself over?"
A beta response: "Sorry, I should have asked, that was impolite of me!" or "I should have waited for you to invite me over, you're right" or "haha, sorry I was just joking."
My response: "Damn straight. And we're cooking dinner." I am in the right here. I set the logistics, I determine what happens. Again, if she has a problem with this, she is free to say no.
The second shit test:
"You. Are demanding."
I have to be honest here, the beta in me had a reply half-typed out shortly after she said this. But a-la Heartiste, the best shit test defuser is to say NOTHING. Luckily, I never sent my response because it was time for my next set of trap bar deadlifts.
True to form, less than a minute later, she replies:
"...I like it."
She defused her own shit test before I even got the chance to and revealed a Red Pill Truth in the process: women like strong, confident men.
We're all going to make it, boyos.
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