Summary:
Has anyone married as a result of a "if we're still single by (age)" pact? How did it work out?.
Top comments from this askreddit thread are from guys who are happy their oneitis chose to marry them after riding the carousal for years.

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Hello TRP. I present to you one of the top comments from the above mentioned thread. Enjoy.

Mr. Brad Beta Bux:

HAPPY ENDING!
She was the loud, popular, social butterfly, I was the awkward sheltered kid... I had a car and could drive her home, that sort of thing...

Sounds familiar?

I couldn't not crush on her something fierce, but I obviously wasn't going to make the move on someone so far out of my league and ruin our friendship.

Exactly. You don't want to ruin your ''friendship''. At least you should be happy you get the privilege to drive her and do her favours.

I forget exactly how the conversation came to be, but at one point she brings up how we should totally get married if we're both still single by the time we're 30... I sheepishly agree and forget about it.

You are my BB. Wait for me whiles I ride the carousal. When I'm old and used up, your money, house and stable job will provide me a soft landing in exchange of once-a-month duty sex.

Two years later I make a Facebook page, we get back in contact, and she starts unloading on me about her failing relationship with the guy I set her up with... but I'm happy to hear her voice again and being her shoulder to cry on again works just fine.

All the Chads won't commit, time to look for a stable emotional tampon again.

she tells me the relationship with the friend is effectively dead, and she's tired of waiting for him. And then she says she loves me, she's always had a thing for me, she just didn't want to say anything for fear of ruining our friendship.

Because If We Started Dating It Would Ruin Our Friendship Where I Ask You To Do Things And You Do Them
What a joy it was to hear that your long-term oneitis has always loved you!

We were together for three years long-distance, only ever seeing each other during holidays and long breaks, before I graduated college and moved across the country to be with her.

She was still riding the carousal for three more years during the ''long-distance relationship''.

We're getting married in October, five full years before the pact would've happened.

She realized she was hitting the wall faster than she hoped. Better to make the most of what remains of her beauty. What a smart girl!

There are many other top comments following this pattern, and other guys are wishing they had romantic stories like this one. Generation of cucks.

Lesson Learned

  1. The good 'ole AF/BB. It's etched into the DNA of women. It's just their nature. You can't change it.

  2. Never be her backup plan. If she didn't like you then, you can't like her now. Period.

  3. Without TRP, many of you would have been like this guy, myself included.

  4. Since a redpill post cannot be complete without saying AWALT, lesson confirmed: AWALT