Anyone Else Seen a HUGE Spike In the Amount of Old Flames Texting You?

truemalefeminist · 2018-01-16T13:39:02+00:00

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NewLife_2017 · 2018-01-16T13:38:20+00:00

They need money. Single women keep a list of men around to call upon for emergencies. They aren't texting you for sex or dates, so you noticed something wrong. You are right to be suspicious.

mgtowthrow1996 · 2018-01-16T18:24:39+00:00

Take it from a guy who's successful; they will contact you out of the blue, because they feel like they deserve your work.

I've had some ladies from high school contact me out the blue because they found out I became really wealthy. Some of these ladies, I never uttered a word to, others openly teased me and made fun of me back when I had no self esteem and was pretty much a mangina.

But now that I made it, they feel entitled? Please.

My rule is, if you weren't there when I had ten dollars in my bank account, wondering if I could pay rent that month and eating nothing but rice and ramen noodles, you don't deserve to get even a penny now.

I either don't respond, or I respond with "If you weren't there with me at my worst, you don't deserve to be there at my best."

AboutNinthAccount · 2018-01-16T13:59:51+00:00

I have no presence on "social" media and my phone #/email was changed seven years ago which was the last time when I head a "steady" girlfriend who knew them. So it's kind of hard to contact me even if some of them wanted it.

DarwinianKEKistani · 2018-01-16T15:10:00+00:00

bet you're 30 some year old... They too... Its the biological clock dude

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-01-16T14:17:26+00:00

I block ex-flings that I'm done with. I have no time for their hamstering..

throwaway152038 · 2018-01-16T13:37:26+00:00

Not really, but I'm not in US.

TowerOfMG · 2018-01-16T13:50:05+00:00

No contact and I'm not expecting it either. They were cold women in the end so that's that, however if that times come when they do contact, I will gladly ignore them.

Jonlife · 2018-01-16T15:59:42+00:00

These cunts can feel the loneliness that's taking over the entire country. They know that men are scared shitless of these false allegations. It's like getting a text from a scorpion saying, "let's hang out, don't worry I won't sting you with my poisonous venom..."

EpicWinningFTW · 2018-01-16T15:58:53+00:00

Cold weather = boyfriend/orbiter hunting season. Just looking for attention, wasting your time and using you. Once the warm weather rolls around they become single again waiting for chads.

Fabianstrategy1 · 2018-01-16T16:39:48+00:00

not lately, but I'll tell you, the shear amount (20ish) of women contacting me, some ex's, almost all of them married, after it got out I was divorced was like a nuclear Red Pill bomb, after that any doubt I had just died a slow death due to radiation poisoning.

mrbigtanderson · 2018-01-16T14:23:02+00:00

Actually, ya happened a few times. I mean I normally just stay to my projects and most people know it but I didn't think much of it. They had a greeting, wanted to talk, I greeted them, and said maybe another time. I didn't think it was much of a thing.

RedBigMan · 2018-01-16T19:08:18+00:00

They're sniffing around for some beta bucks because they can't get drilled by the alpha fucks anymore. Good on you for ignoring them, they're all probably crashing head first into the wall anyways.

justiceavenger · 2018-01-16T14:47:06+00:00

Not me, but I only have had 2 girlfriends and 1 is married and last I saw the other has a kid and lives with her boyfriend. Plus I live in Japan now and like only 3 people in the US know my Japanese phone number and address lol.

2018-01-16T19:09:47+00:00

It happens to most guys starting around age 28 or so. Most betamaxes don't question it at all and are delighted to finally be getting some attention.

I experienced such a surge 3 years ago. One girl I used to orbit sent tons of text messages and went through my Facebook photos going back 6 years randomly like-ing them. I didn't respond. Sorry chica, you had your chance when we were still in our 20's and you didn't have crow's feet and a bunch of retarded tattoos.

As an experiment I started being honest about my life on Facebook. That I was helping care for my elderly dad and that I'd just changed careers and was a 29 year old intern. I openly posted history and tabletop game stuff. That scared all the roasties away in a jiffy.

SuspectedLumber · 2018-01-16T19:46:21+00:00

I guess it's holiday depression, they can't stand it. Men can just sit and read / play vidya, but they cannot tolerate it, so they spread out their tentacles to feel around.

solaceFromSolitude · 2018-01-16T20:38:56+00:00

I am not sure it is #MeToo, but something definitely seems the matter in the minds of many a woman. Shortly after the beginning of this month I heard back from three women I never expected to hear anything from again.

Even my last female friend of over a decade started actively hitting on me by dropping sexual innuendo at every possibility.

I just pretend I am dumb and assume they will go away as soon as they have found a guy who is interested.

mtb1443 · 2018-01-16T22:49:21+00:00

I got a few texts in the last week from a woman i was interested in 20 years ago. Back then I chased her to go out but she wanted nothing to do with me. I got tired of her crap about 15 years ago and just ignored her.

Now she says she is single with two kids. I wonder what she wants? /s

I haven't told her yet i retired up north out of the city to a quiet little outdoor town.

rationalthought314 · 2018-01-16T22:57:20+00:00

their pass on the Cock Carousel has been revoked

CommanderHeMan · 2018-01-17T02:37:54+00:00

Haha wow yes! I hadn’t correlated the two. The other day I actually had a girl ask me to my face if we could go out for dinner some time. Chicks getting desperate.

mthrowaway52 · 2018-01-16T17:41:09+00:00

Considering I change my phone number as often as the average thot showers, that's not happening to me.

I can see that happening to many men though

davisyoung · 2018-01-17T00:47:41+00:00

Interesting post. I am perhaps wondering if women are laying the groundwork for Valentines day, although it would have been more efficient to do a 2-for-1 with Christmas/NewYears. So maybe there is a man shortage and women are scrambling.

2018-01-17T02:42:41+00:00

Great post, OP.

Might I offer an alternative opinion why?

Its not MeToo, its that women notice acomplished men who aren't interested in them.

Seriously. Lonely, desparate women see less and less men paying attention to them. And it makes them want men more.

Last week, I had a girl I know contact me on FB. We've known each other for years, but she's never shown me any interest at all. In fact, she goes for the exact opposite type of guy then me.

She broke up with her bf last week, and after chatting for 30 mins, suddenly shes telling me how she always like me, shes glad I'm doing well, (and I AM doing well, and being a FB junkie I'm not afraid to show off my sucsess) and how she wishes she had a guy like me. Sends me nudes, whole 9 yards.

Then yesterday my ex fiance (long terrible story) contacts me. Makes small talk, then makes a point of telling me how her boobs are so much bigger now then when we dated. She was clearly fishing for compliments and wanting me to pay attention. (Spoiler alert, I didn't fall for it.)

MGTOW and succsessful men give off an air of confidence and drive. And less sucsessful and post-wall women are drawn to it like a moth to the flame.

2018-01-16T20:07:12+00:00

If that is the case, as you have theorized it, I find that hilarious. The blow back was inevitable. Glad they are feeling the effects.

thetruthhuntsme · 2018-01-16T23:48:40+00:00

I actually haven't but then again I block any woman who I feel any emotional connection with because once feels appear it's time to disappear

hardtostarboard2016 · 2018-01-17T02:10:36+00:00

Getting hard out there for male exploiters with # metoo and what not. Lean times are making them desperate.

Title	Anyone Else Seen a HUGE Spike In the Amount of Old Flames Texting You?
Author	jchang23
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Date	January 16, 2018 1:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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