I like to post about game because game to me is one of the most engaging things you can do. It's like a workout for your mind, seeing a pro in action is one of the most mind mending things you'll see. It's amazing. Younger me would not believe the shit I get away with now. I need to get post something that's been on my mind the past few weeks because I think it can help someone who might be new to this whole shebang.

I have a few incel friends because I was one once myself. Average frustrated chumps if you will. I try to drag them to the bars every once in a while to no avail. I think I have an answer to their issue now. We talk a lot here about what it means to be "alpha" or a real man. We talk a lot about positive qualities, of course none of us have it all but it's good to know about at least. Occasionally the more interesting threads that discuss natural redpill to "learned" redpill. I'd like to weigh in on that.

I feel like when it comes to game and life, "learned" redpill tends to be stronger. Take my incel buddies for example. They are introverts, never kissed a woman in their lives. Never had their dicks touched by a woman. Never felt real female compassion.

Losers right? They don't possibly have any strong qualities that can attract women, if they did they would be slaying right!? Wrong.

In my experience, introverts are great at one on one or closed conversation. This is called active listening. This is the act of shutting off the noise in your head (School, taxes, work, life issues, your insecurities) and tuning in to the person you're talking to. Listening to them. Processing not only every word but every body movement, the cadence of their voice, listening not to the physical words but the language of this person.

Active listening involves the idea in game of "presence" or being present in the moment. It's the foundation for art exhibits like this one where two people stare at each other. People will literally break down into tears doing this.

I had an active listening class in high school once. We got partners, sat in chairs directly opposite of one another with our faces approximately 10 inches from eachother (way inside personal space) and we were given instructions to give our opinion on the meaning of certain words. We couldn't break eye contact and we had to listen in silence to each other, taking turns speaking.

It sounds weird to say but up until that moment in my life I can say that I never listened to someone as much as I did this person. It was mesmerizing and the weirdest thing that had happened to me up until that point. I had a real conversation with everything on the table. Fully disclosed and exposed and accepting. (I'm still friends with this person, I still feel like this class is a special moment we share)

Game is, at the end of the day, learning how to have a conversation. It can be overwhelming to take in all the concepts at once such as negging, state, voice tone, escalating etc. Start small. Learn how to have a real conversation.

Genuinely ask her how her day was. Not fake asking, but actually be curious about this person's day, as if the state of this person's day influenced government for the next 100 years. Strong eye contact, don't interrupt, and when it's your turn to speak, take a moment to stop and formulate a real answer. Speak at a normal pace, not too fast, and speak in a normal pitched tone (not too high), this will naturally draw her into what you are saying.

In short, I feel like incels and introverts are familiar with this line of speaking. Don't think you can't do game because it's "too much." All game is at the end of the day is having conversation with another person. You have a skill that put you head and shoulders above the rest (Go out one night and look at how many guys can't have a real conversation, everything devolves into sex within minutes.) Go out of your head and get into hers.

In our social media pseudo-interaction world in this day and age, I guarantee you will be the first person she has actually spoken to in weeks, and that is powerful.